"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=August23;5109233]I agree SA has really gone down as a result of the number of SB's who

I currently am a non paying member of both Seeking Arrangements and Secret Benefits. I know that there are many scammers on both, but my experience with Secret Benefits is that as soon as I get an email from SB of new member ladies, I will get a message from quite a few ladies. I have listed a high income on SB with no net worth listed, have no picture shown, and my age is listed in the late 60's as well as being married. But no matter how much I look at profiles on Seeking, I get very very few messages. Can all of these young ladies on SB be fakes? Why do the fakes on SA not contact me, not that I would want them to? I have not been a paying member of SB for a couple years when I did connect with a nice sugar baby who I still see occasionally when either of us get the itch and it can work on both of our schedules.

YK there are these things called copulins, they are found in vaginal secretions, they increase testosterone and libido. So, when you go down on your SB, you're cranking yourself up. LOL.

You'd think there would be a market for a synthetic version, but I understand they're just assorted small acidic compounds. If a girl's pussy is more bitter tasting, perhaps she has more. Any experiences?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5110331]YK there are these things called copulins, they are found in vaginal secretions, they increase testosterone and libido. So, when you go down on your SB, you're cranking yourself up. LOL.

You'd think there would be a market for a synthetic version, but I understand they're just assorted small acidic compounds. If a girl's pussy is more bitter tasting, perhaps she has more. Any experiences?[/QUOTE]Dunno about SBs, but I had a GF that had a pussy that was like catnip to me. Seriously, I could just get between her lets and breath in her pussy all day long while I nibbled and licked.

Miss that one.

[QUOTE=Passport4;5110195]I currently am a non paying member of both Seeking Arrangements and Secret Benefits. I know that there are many scammers on both, but my experience with Secret Benefits is that as soon as I get an email from SB of new member ladies, I will get a message from quite a few ladies. I have listed a high income on SB with no net worth listed, have no picture shown, and my age is listed in the late 60's as well as being married. But no matter how much I look at profiles on Seeking, I get very very few messages. Can all of these young ladies on SB be fakes? Why do the fakes on SA not contact me, not that I would want them to? I have not been a paying member of SB for a couple years when I did connect with a nice sugar baby who I still see occasionally when either of us get the itch and it can work on both of our schedules.[/QUOTE]On SA are you viewing profiles and then sitting back and waiting for them to message you? Not a good strategy. Message them. Only a smallish percentage will reply, for various reasons. Many women put up profiles, have fun browsing and seeing who writes to them, with rather little intention of actually meeting someone. It's a numbers game, that's all.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5111853]On SA are you viewing profiles and then sitting back and waiting for them to message you? Not a good strategy. Message them. Only a smallish percentage will reply, for various reasons. Many women put up profiles, have fun browsing and seeing who writes to them, with rather little intention of actually meeting someone. It's a numbers game, that's all.[/QUOTE]You need to be a paying member to contact women on SA and to read their messages. If you don't pay, all you can be is a voyeur.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5111853]On SA are you viewing profiles and then sitting back and waiting for them to message you? Not a good strategy. Message them. Only a smallish percentage will reply, for various reasons. Many women put up profiles, have fun browsing and seeing who writes to them, with rather little intention of actually meeting someone. It's a numbers game, that's all.[/QUOTE]I get that. I haven't been paid on SB for a long time, but usually pay SA every 4-6 months for a month and play the numbers game. I was just commenting and asking about SB since the ladies appear more aggressive when new and this doesn't happen on SA leading me to believe SB has more fakes. With Covid and being in the vulnerable age group, I'm on hiatus at the moment and don't need to be paying when I'm not willing to meet.

[QUOTE=RavensFan2012;5100635]The one time I tried to make a date with a Siren girl I was told I has to call back after 9 pm to see who was available. Then when I called after 9 she said no one is available LOL. They only have like 6 girls listed on their site and I can't wait until 9 pm to hope I can meet someone and who knows who will even be available.[/QUOTE]That's why I always make an appointment instead of trying to get someone last minute. The girls work when they want to. They don't work Monday through Friday 9 to 5. There are only a few girls that are listed on the website. They get new girls all of the time esp.

After Covid. The majority of the girls are normal college chicks looking for part time money. They don't want to advertise to their families and co-workers that they work for a company like that. They've always been there when I get fed up with SA. I guess I thought I would find a reliable GFE on SA, but they are always short lived and the girls are usually psychologically damaged. I can only stomach a month or 2 on SA.

I thought I saw a post a few months back that someone had been seeing sunflowerhoneyb from SA - 19 yo Asian VCU student.

I was messaging her around the 1st of the year but never could schedule an M&G and I got the impression that she hadn't yet met anyone and was probably just checking things so I backed off. I haven't kept my SA profile up for a few months.

Last week she popped up as "someone you might know" on FB so I sent a friend request and she accepted. I told her I remembered her from SA and asked if she was still interested and she said yes. Hoping to set something up soon.

If anyone can give me some info I'd really appreciate it!

Thanks and be safe!

[QUOTE=SDDude1;5112185]That's why I always make an appointment instead of trying to get someone last minute. The girls work when they want to. They don't work Monday through Friday 9 to 5. There are only a few girls that are listed on the website. They get new girls all of the time esp.

After Covid. The majority of the girls are normal college chicks looking for part time money. They don't want to advertise to their families and co-workers that they work for a company like that. They've always been there when I get fed up with SA. I guess I thought I would find a reliable GFE on SA, but they are always short lived and the girls are usually psychologically damaged. I can only stomach a month or 2 on SA.[/QUOTE]How can you make an appt if you don't even know until 9 pm who's working?

So based on the reivews I have been reading is it safe to say that it isn't worth going on SA? I read on here that a lot just want to chat. Plus I have seen a huge increase in SB advertising on civi dating sites. Should I wait until after the holidays? Just curious what people think.

I would wait, most or the girls are giving the same excuses that they can't meetup because of the increase cases of coronavirus. My account expires early Jan, and I'm not planning to renew. That's depending if you already have a few SBs on your rotation. There are a few girls that are down for meeting up, but the prices are high, because of demand.

[QUOTE=TheHobbyLobby;5116177]So based on the reivews I have been reading is it safe to say that it isn't worth going on SA? I read on here that a lot just want to chat. Plus I have seen a huge increase in SB advertising on civi dating sites. Should I wait until after the holidays? Just curious what people think.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FanRat;5115557]I thought I saw a post a few months back that someone had been seeing sunflowerhoneyb from SA - 19 yo Asian VCU student.

I was messaging her around the 1st of the year but never could schedule an M&G and I got the impression that she hadn't yet met anyone and was probably just checking things so I backed off. I haven't kept my SA profile up for a few months.

Last week she popped up as "someone you might know" on FB so I sent a friend request and she accepted. I told her I remembered her from SA and asked if she was still interested and she said yes. Hoping to set something up soon.

If anyone can give me some info I'd really appreciate it!

Thanks and be safe![/QUOTE]Shannon has met at least someone LOL. And told me she has had other SD's nail her. I was talking to her again on SA this month and she mentioned she has a boyfriend and wasn't looking for sex. Just as an FYI she does have a few friends who are active on SA so if you are a frequent flyer she will probably ask around.

[QUOTE=TheHobbyLobby;5116177]So based on the reivews I have been reading is it safe to say that it isn't worth going on SA? I read on here that a lot just want to chat. Plus I have seen a huge increase in SB advertising on civi dating sites. Should I wait until after the holidays? Just curious what people think.[/QUOTE]I just wrapped up a months subscription. As always YMMV but for me it was great, tried a lot of college girls and have a few that I continue to see.

[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;5116342]I just wrapped up a months subscription. As always YMMV but for me it was great, tried a lot of college girls and have a few that I continue to see.[/QUOTE]This. I've been out of the country for the last couple of weeks and had a lot of down time so I tried a new approach. Instead of finding a girl or two and focusing on trying to get them to the FC I cast a wide net and started talking to 15-20 of my ideal sb type (18-21 yo white slim low volume). I focused on each one like they were my only sb and not that I am back on the states I have 6 that are genuinely ready to meet me.