What is the answer???
JJ
[QUOTE=Zoomster] I've also been asked why American men take their wallet out of their pants pocket when they get undressed.[/QUOTE]
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What is the answer???
JJ
[QUOTE=Zoomster] I've also been asked why American men take their wallet out of their pants pocket when they get undressed.[/QUOTE]
Good topic ... I've had 3-4 AMP girls over the years make what felt like kinda rude comments about my gut. They did it in sort of a teasing way, but still rubbed me wrong way. I can see how there would be cultural differences, though. I'd thought about making comments about a girl's appearance at an AMP, but held my tongue. Maybe I shoudn't.
I take the opinion that NOTHING they say is meant to be insulting or any form of a put down. I take everything in the spirit of fun and playing and give them just as much as they give me! We have talked about my big gut, big dick, loud mouth, bad breath and all the rest and I have told them about their small tits, shallow puss, stringy hair - the whole thing even if it is not true.
On the other hand, during the acts themselves I am only saying how soft, nice, sweet, pretty, sensual and wonderful she is and all parts of her are.
There is a time for everything and everything needs to be said or done in its time.
JJ
[QUOTE=TwistedBrother]Good topic ... I've had 3-4 AMP girls over the years make what felt like kinda rude comments about my gut. They did it in sort of a teasing way, but still rubbed me wrong way. I can see how there would be cultural differences, though. I'd thought about making comments about a girl's appearance at an AMP, but held my tongue. Maybe I shoudn't.[/QUOTE]
It is definately a cultural thing so do not take it personally. More people should act this way.
I have dated several Asians and they usually speak there mind. They in no way mean for it to be offensive so I would not recommend insulting them in return. I actually think it is great that they speak their mind and don't play games or be fake like caucasion women do.
If it bothers you that you are fat then lose weight. Or, use Scope if you have bad breath. Take care of yourself and age gracefully man.
Follw PA's advice and always be nice to the ladies. It will pay in dividends.
I know they're not real big on deodorant or aftershave. I was told I where too much aftershave/colone. Not too sure about the Lysol thing.
P.S.
sorry about the double post not sure what happened I lost Internet connection in the middle. It didn't seem to take so I redid it and boom there was a double post.
I've had AMP girls tell me how good I smell and how nicely I'm dressed. At one of my favorite AMPs, the momma says she can smell my scent soon as I walk in the door. Then of course she allows me to feel her up. Alot of the times the girls that provide my massage compliment me on my legs and abdomen on how fit the yohimbebrother is. Just recently, several times my provider or the momma will tell her fellow coworkers about me and on the way out I get introduced too them. At this point there is a lot of hugging, touching and smooching going on.
I think that the AMP girls like guys that take care of themselves physically, smell and dressed nicely. Heck most of them do that for us, why not return the favor.
Yohimbebrother
[QUOTE=TwistedBrother]Good topic ... I've had 3-4 AMP girls over the years make what felt like kinda rude comments about my gut. They did it in sort of a teasing way, but still rubbed me wrong way. I can see how there would be cultural differences, though. I'd thought about making comments about a girl's appearance at an AMP, but held my tongue. Maybe I shoudn't.[/QUOTE]
Yep, I agree.I've had compliments too on my clenliness.They occasionally ask when I'm going to lose my belly.I'm about 20lbs overweight.I usually take a shower before going to an amp.I've never had any other complaints.
Tried to see a suggested girl at one of the places that claim to be the best but she was on "bacation" so I moved out to the Far East. I found a sign that indicted they would be closed until the new year. I had seen a sign out in Fairfax off of 29 that advertised Massages so I went to TOFTT and give it a whirl. They were busy. Damn. So while turning around in a parking lot across the street I spotted a Star Accupressure sign on a door and an cheap neon "open" sign in the second story window. It looked like the kind of place we all enjoy.
I went up and it looked like the typical set up. Girl was way too big and not that pretty but after striking out three times I was ready for anything so I closed my eyes and made the best of it. Uneventful TS, decent massage but definitly untrained. This girl was just big enough to put some force into it. No roaming offered or attempted. Pop was followed by more massage to complete the whole hour though (unusual in NOVA anymore).
Will not repeat or recomend.
Back to DC for me.
BDD
At one point, Rainbow was advertising on CL on a daily basis, now not a peep. Did they shut down or just start flying under the radar?
[QUOTE=TwistedBrother]Good topic ... I've had 3-4 AMP girls over the years make what felt like kinda rude comments about my gut. They did it in sort of a teasing way, but still rubbed me wrong way. I can see how there would be cultural differences, though. I'd thought about making comments about a girl's appearance at an AMP, but held my tongue. Maybe I shoudn't.[/QUOTE]
Don't take it personally. Asian Needs is right it's a cultural thing. The fact is I'm quite fat and have heard the comment often from the spa ladies. Some have even rubbed my belly like a Budda for luck. I just laugh. Anyway the comment is not meant to be cruel it's just a different sense of humor. You are correct that you shouldn't make negative comments about a girls looks. It would come across as mean spirited and their comments were never meant to be that way. So, just lighten up a little bit and join in the fun. That too will pay off in a better session.
[QUOTE=Superman06]Don't take it personally. Asian Needs is right it's a cultural thing. The fact is I'm quite fat and have heard the comment often from the spa ladies. Some have even rubbed my belly like a Budda for luck. I just laugh. Anyway the comment is not meant to be cruel it's just a different sense of humor. You are correct that you shouldn't make negative comments about a girls looks. It would come across as mean spirited and their comments were never meant to be that way. So, just lighten up a little bit and join in the fun. That too will pay off in a better session.[/QUOTE]I noticed from the Asians I have encountered (non-American born), their customs and culture does not lend them to be well integrated into American way of life. They stick to their own, don't mingle with non-Asians at all, hence why a lot of providers don't get "sensitized" to the fact that, making jokes or comments in jest is not a way to do business.
Wow! It has been some time since I posted, but being the sy one, it is only understood!
Anyway, I now have a new sock drawer! For those who know, you know what I am talking about! My ATF is giving. For that, I have given! I dropped by and gave a sack of apples and a box of chocolates. Talk about being the "THE MAN" Any way, Angie was much obliged as she is always. Oops. No names!
Many trips and good times, the NOVA way is the ONLY way. Be good to the ladies and keep on posting!
Stay Sober
PS. I now have 1 Year and 4 Months of sobriety! WHOOT!
Gonna take a trip to my ATF.
I will let you know.
Stay Sober
Hi peeps.
I been lurking on this board since the pre-. Info days. I'm finally posting. Got a large backlog to clear, so to speak, though most are more relevant to the san diego area. Probably won't post those, since they are a year out of date.
I am young, successful, attractive and hence can pull tail consistently in a bar. Yet sometimes you want a nice massage from a cute girl. Nonetheless, my standards are high and my ratings will reflect that.
Hots Scale is 10 = Sung Hi Lee. 5= Cute though middle aged with nice tits and no stink. 1 = Wart covered grandma.
For massages 10 = blind male korean, 5 = average thumb hand strokes and back walking, 1 = squeeze the shoulders a few times.
First report for Nova is Universal/Angel.
Have to fill out a bullsheet form at the front on medical history. Hilarious. I suggest using a different phone number, they do keep it on record, as I went back and they pulled my file.
Mamasan is 60. Decent rack, didn't get to play.
Massagi is done by 50 year old. Ugly but not fugly. 3 on looks.
First time she had callouses on fingers. Scratched my back with every stroke. Not cool. BUT, very good technique. 8 points for massage minus 1 the first time for callouses. Problem fixed the second time.
Good attitude. 7 points. Friendly, talkative, not too obtrusive. But not sexy. Lots of the asian "cackle".
Finished well. 1. 1$ total. But still not stoked about the experience, both times. Why can't they be hot like in SD?
More reviews to come.
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Hi peeps.
I been lurking on this board since the pre-. Info days. I'm finally posting. Got a large backlog to clear, so to speak, though most are more relevant to the san diego area. Probably won't post those, since they are a year out of date.
I am young, successful, attractive and hence can pull tail consistently in a bar. Yet sometimes you want a nice massage from a cute girl. Nonetheless, my standards are high and my ratings will reflect that.
Hots Scale is 10 = Sung Hi Lee. 5= Cute though middle aged with nice tits and no stink. 1 = Wart covered grandma.
For massages 10 = blind male korean, 5 = average thumb hand strokes and back walking, 1 = squeeze the shoulders a few times.
First report for Nova is Universal/Angel.
Have to fill out a bullsheet form at the front on medical history. Hilarious. I suggest using a different phone number, they do keep it on record, as I went back and they pulled my file.
Mamasan is 60. Decent rack, didn't get to play.
Massagi is done by 50 year old. Ugly but not fugly. 3 on looks.
First time she had callouses on fingers. Scratched my back with every stroke. Not cool. BUT, very good technique. 8 points for massage minus 1 the first time for callouses. Problem fixed the second time.
Good attitude. 7 points. Friendly, talkative, not too obtrusive. But not sexy. Lots of the asian "cackle".
Finished well. 1. 1$ total. But still not stoked about the experience, both times. Why can't they be hot like in SD?
More reviews to come.
Powdr out