General Reports

Holy Shit. Stop feeding the stray whor*s. They'll keep coming back.

You need to keep your pimp hand strong or these chicks will take advantage of you.

[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;2789354]I've beenplaying this game for years. And I know there is a difference between fantasy vs. Reality. But sometimes I forget.

The fantasy: that you will find a sweet girl that really likes you and want to be with you.

The reality: when there is money involved it's just about money. Don't believe the fantasy.

Now I enjoy the fantasy. And many girls have played me and made me think they like me. But I know it's only about the money.

If you get attached to a girl you will do anything to help her. Buy food, clothes, phone minutes, etc. I've done it all. Even be a friend to them when they're incarcerated. I put calling minutes on my phone to accept calls from jail and prison. Pussy is a powerful thing. We will do anything to get it.

But I've just taken it too far. Especially with the girls who end up in prison. They promise to do anything for you when they get out. They request money for canteen and bail and phone time. And you know what you get? Absolutely nothing. I've allowed myself to get burned by 3 different prison girls. I knew one of them before she got locked up. I met the other 2 through her and they were already locked up.

But it's a scam. They find some vulnerable lonely guy with money and try their best to get his money. The fantasy is that they will love you when they get out.

Don't fall for this. Try to remember the difference between fantasy and reality.

GB40.[/QUOTE]

Yes, but with a twist. Really got into a good one and didn't have any fantasy other than she had a good heart, the sex was great and she was worth it. She got arrested, called me for bail but I didn't take the call. She got the money elsewhere. We would go out but there was the mental aspect. She was bi-polar and we both knew it. I was dealing with it but it came out at strange times and totally ruined what we had. We broke it off (her idea) because she couldn't sustain a normal relationship and we both knew it. Bottom line is all women that sell time with their bodies are damaged (aren't we all) but it's the degree of damage that's relevant. She was great but very flawed beyond her ability to control it.

[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;2789354]I've been playing this game for years. And I know there is a difference between fantasy vs. Reality. But sometimes I forget.

The fantasy: that you will find a sweet girl that really likes you and wants to be with you.

The reality: when there is money involved it's just about money. Don't believe the fantasy.

Now I enjoy the fantasy. And many girls have played me and made me think they like me. But I know it's only about the money.

If you get attached to a girl you will do anything to help her. Buy food, clothes, phone minutes, etc. I've done it all. Even be a friend to them when they're incarcerated. I put calling minutes on my phone to accept calls from jail and prison. Pussy is a powerful thing. We will do anything to get it.

But I've just taken it too far. Especially with the girls who end up in prison. They promise to do anything for you when they get out. They request money for canteen and bail and phone time. And you know what you get? Absolutely nothing. I've allowed myself to get burned by 3 different prison girls. I knew one of them before she got locked up. I met the other 2 through her and they were already locked up.

But it's a scam. They find some vulnerable lonely guy with money and try their best to get his money. The fantasy is that they will love you when they get out.

Don't fall for this. Try to remember the difference between fantasy and reality.

GB40.[/QUOTE]

Got back in the hobby last spring, also joined this site, which is great. Have seen probably close to two dozen young ladies, from Charlotte, gastonia and upstate SC and Asheville. Still not found the one go to girl I can depend on every couple of weeks. At first it was a once a month treat for me, has now become every other week and occasionally every week. Very addictive and expensive. Don't know whether to try SW or AMP's or just try a few more. Would love any suggestions from mongers experiencing the same feelings.

[QUOTE=DanJay06;2834078]Got back in the hobby last spring, also joined this site, which is great. Have seen probably close to two dozen young ladies, from Charlotte, gastonia and upstate SC and Asheville. Still not found the one go to girl I can depend on every couple of weeks. At first it was a once a month treat for me, has now become every other week and occasionally every week. Very addictive and expensive. Don't know whether to try SW or AMP's or just try a few more. Would love any suggestions from mongers experiencing the same feelings.[/QUOTE]I've done the SW and AMP routes also over the years. I find the SW to be a dangerous game where you can do everything right and still have it come out wrong. That way is definitely rolling the dice and sooner or later you may lose. Not saying you will but the chances of being ripped off or busted are high.

I was picking a SW up in S. Florida when a cop rolled up. He put me in his car and talked to her. I had not given her money (never in advance) and whereas he said he could arrest me it wasn't going to be real as I had done nothing. Now he could have taken me in and embarrassed me but that was going to be problematic for him. I just played it straight saying she had asked for a ride when he rolled up. Never been caught in the act but that would be BAD.

As to AMPs you're relatively safe. But I was in an AMP during a raid and it's scary to be told you may be arrested but if you know your rights and keep your mouth shut you'll likely come out OK. Again, if you're in the act it's going to be scary but as far as the being in actual danger, very low. I like a good massage in an AMP and once in awhile you do get a good one and when you add the fact there's going to be a HE and / or extras, that's a plus. I'm going to stereotype here but in my experience you get a better massage with HE in an AMP than you'll get with other than an Asian woman. I've had good massages with other that AMPs but they tend to be strictly that, just a massage. If you find a good massage therapist that gives more and she's not Asian, you have a real find. I know they're out there but they are rare.

Good hunting.

[QUOTE=DanJay06;2834078]Got back in the hobby last spring, also joined this site, which is great. Have seen probably close to two dozen young ladies, from Charlotte, gastonia and upstate SC and Asheville. Still not found the one go to girl I can depend on every couple of weeks. At first it was a once a month treat for me, has now become every other week and occasionally every week. Very addictive and expensive. Don't know whether to try SW or AMP's or just try a few more. Would love any suggestions from mongers experiencing the same feelings.[/QUOTE]I understand the addictive and expensive part. It sure is.

SW is the most dangerous. And the quality tends to be very low. But it's cheapest too.

As for having one go-to girl, it's hard to keep them around long. They change phones, move, get arrested. All kinds of problems. These girls are just not the kind you can expect to settle down or be regular about anything.

Try visiting a few strip clubs. Print the coupon on [URL]http://www.malentertainment.com/[/URL] for free cover. Print several and visit 2 or 3 clubs per night.

You'll have to invest a little in some dances or drinks. But you can find some. Once I meet them I ask about their friends. And the networking continues.

GB40.

Probably the same asshole that has sent me messages wanting me to join another site. I report them too. He keeps changing his handle and keeps posting his crap.

[QUOTE=AssPro;2870403]This guy has posted this crap in damn near every city on this site. Dude, no one wants to join Monger Guide. And by the way, I reported you to A2. I'm sure you will be banned soon.24[/QUOTE]

This a my report on my recent experience with the SD / SB websites – specifically SA and WYP.

I paid for access to both for a month and here's my analysis:

Men are SD- Sugar Daddy – pay to use the site / Women are SB – Sugar Baby – they use the site for free.

WYP – too much trouble to make offers then pay women for an initial meet-and-greet without getting anything.

SA – easier to use – try for one month. Try signing for free, spend a week or two getting used to it and marking your favorites. Then pay for one month, try it, and you'll be tired of it in a couple of weeks. You might meet 2 or 3 actual women during that time.

At first glance you think "Oh here are hundreds of women online ready to meet me. " Not quite.

First of all, these sites are just another internet concept to help men do what they've been doing for years. Find pussy. But using the internet is no guarantee of success. It's a lot of trial and error. SD sites are not a magical solution for finding a willing SB.

Here's why:

There are fake ads on the sites. Some placed just to entice you to pay to subscribe. Many are fake just like BP and CL have fake ads – with fake pictures. I know this because the same pictures show up in different cities.

It's just amazing how I can change my location from Belmont to Gastonia. Then all of a sudden the site says here are 9 new women for you in Kings Mountain. Really? KM? Do you really think there are 9 hot young women in KM that want to meet? The sames ones were shown in Dallas NC last week. The sites randomly select small cities near you so you'll think its for real.

This is just another way to meet or get scammed out of money. Yes there are some legitimate ones on there.

I would estimate that out of 100 ads that I have responded to, 5 or 6 are real women. Of those I've only met 3 who were interested.

You will waste a lot of time messaging, texting, and trying to determine is she is real and if she wants to actually meet. If you enjoy the thrill of the chase like I do, you might enjoy this. But you're really wasting time chasing down ads that are not really anybody that you'll ever meet.

One test I use is to ask her to call. Real ones will call and talk. Fake ones will not.

After one month, and about $100 wasted on the sites I'm through with them. I have better luck meeting them in person in the strip club.

[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;2884533]This a my report on my recent experience with the SD / SB websites specifically SA and WYP.

I paid for access to both for a month and here's my analysis:

Men are SD- Sugar Daddy pay to use the site / Women are SB Sugar Baby they use the site for free.

WYP too much trouble to make offers then pay women for an initial meet-and-greet without getting anything.

SA easier to use try for one month. Try signing for free, spend a week or two getting used to it and marking your favorites. Then pay for one month, try it, and you'll be tired of it in a couple of weeks. You might meet 2 or 3 actual women during that time.

At first glance you think "Oh here are hundreds of women online ready to meet me. " Not quite.

First of all, these sites are just another internet concept to help men do what they've been doing for years. Find pussy. But using the internet is no guarantee of success. It's a lot of trial and error. SD sites are not a magical solution for finding a willing SB.

Here's why:

There are fake ads on the sites. Some placed just to entice you to pay to subscribe. Many are fake just like BP and CL have fake ads with fake pictures. I know this because the same pictures show up in different cities.

It's just amazing how I can change my location from Belmont to Gastonia. Then all of a sudden the site says here are 9 new women for you in Kings Mountain. Really? KM? Do you really think there are 9 hot young women in KM that want to meet? The sames ones were shown in Dallas NC last week. The sites randomly select small cities near you so you'll think its for real.

This is just another way to meet or get scammed out of money. Yes there are some legitimate ones on there.

I would estimate that out of 100 ads that I have responded to, 5 or 6 are real women. Of those I've only met 3 who were interested.

You will waste a lot of time messaging, texting, and trying to determine is she is real and if she wants to actually meet. If you enjoy the thrill of the chase like I do, you might enjoy this. But you're really wasting time chasing down ads that are not really anybody that you'll ever meet.

One test I use is to ask her to call. Real ones will call and talk. Fake ones will not.

After one month, and about $100 wasted on the sites I'm through with them. I have better luck meeting them in person in the strip club.[/QUOTE]I have to agree. Although I've never been to any of these sites, I used to go to Adult Friend Finder & pay $25/ month just to TRY to hook up with women. After 2 months of nothing (actually met 1 woman, just a date, nothing else) I finally gave up & opened a free account on there as a woman looking for "her soul mate". WOW you would not believe how many men are on that site. I figured it to be about 300:1 just in the 25 mile radius of Charlotte.

SO with that said, I have to agree with Gigabyte & say that the internet dating / hook-up sites are a waste of time & money.

I have been using google voice so far for all my hobbying but I am seriously considering ditching it and getting a burner phone. Since I have never purchased or used a burner phone I want to know how exactly does it work. I mean I go to a store (say Walmart) and I buy a prepaid phone with some service provider (like at&t). Now wouldn't I need to provide documents and maintain a legit account (with address and all that) with the service provider? How exactly does it keep anonymity?

P.S.: Forgive me if its a stupid question but since I haven't used them ever before nor have seem someone using so I thought to clarify my doubt and couldn't think of a better place to ask. Thanks in advance for clarifications!

No you go to a store like Walmart and purchase a prepay phone off the shelf without service then purchase a prepaid card from one of the providers that goes with the phone you picked. Turn the phone on and enter the code on the card into the phone gives you certain amount of minutes or time to use it when it expires go to store some gas stations carry the cards enter new card into phone.

[QUOTE=MajorBoy5;2885715]I have been using google voice so far for all my hobbying but I am seriously considering ditching it and getting a burner phone. Since I have never purchased or used a burner phone I want to know how exactly does it work. I mean I go to a store (say Walmart) and I buy a prepaid phone with some service provider (like at&t). Now wouldn't I need to provide documents and maintain a legit account (with address and all that) with the service provider? How exactly does it keep anonymity?

P.S.: Forgive me if its a stupid question but since I haven't used them ever before nor have seem someone using so I thought to clarify my doubt and couldn't think of a better place to ask. Thanks in advance for clarifications![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BtrCalsal;2885514]I have to agree. Although I've never been to any of these sites, I used to go to Adult Friend Finder & pay $25/ month just to TRY to hook up with women. After 2 months of nothing (actually met 1 woman, just a date, nothing else) I finally gave up & opened a free account on there as a woman looking for "her soul mate". WOW you would not believe how many men are on that site. I figured it to be about 300:1 just in the 25 mile radius of Charlotte.

SO with that said, I have to agree with Gigabyte & say that the internet dating / hook-up sites are a waste of time & money.[/QUOTE]I've tried SA and WYP, SA is a strictly per month charge, you're not going to get enough new girls on there to make it worth your while and all the guys will try to be hitting on the new girls, too much competition. However I have had limited success with WYP for a reasonable bit of money. You buy $50 in credits and it's good until you have used them there is no monthly fee. You can easily get in touch with 5 girls for the. $50 if you try to keep the bid price to less than $100. You don't have to actually go on a date with s girl and not necessarily for the bid amount. Rather I try to talk between the lines to see if the girl is open to more than just a date. If she doesn't bite I move on. I try to get a bid down to no more than $99 as it uses less credits that way. You have to get a feeling from the girls ad if there's at least the possibility of charming or bs'ing her into some fun.

Just about any dating or hookup site will be overly slanted against us. [URL]Match.com[/URL] was in trouble several years ago because they were caught faking ads and profiles to get guys to sign up. There are some women on there but they are very few and far between. I don't care what site you are looking at. A pussy between your legs gives you an advantage.

[QUOTE=BtrCalsal;2885514]I have to agree. Although I've never been to any of these sites, I used to go to Adult Friend Finder & pay $25/ month just to TRY to hook up with women. After 2 months of nothing (actually met 1 woman, just a date, nothing else) I finally gave up & opened a free account on there as a woman looking for "her soul mate". WOW you would not believe how many men are on that site. I figured it to be about 300:1 just in the 25 mile radius of Charlotte.

SO with that said, I have to agree with Gigabyte & say that the internet dating / hook-up sites are a waste of time & money.[/QUOTE]

I must say, I had a completely different experience than Gigabyte.

I only tried SA. I entered a profile (no picture) and tried it for a month or so before taking the plunge and paying for it. At that point, I got a lot of requests to talk, etc. Now, all of these women were looking for longer term deals, not per date / encounter offers. I met with four. Two I met for drinks and had a good enough experience that they wanted to continue. However, it would be a monthly allowance. One I met for coffee initially, then a couple of times for "dreams". Surprisingly, money never was exchanged, nor really asked for. The fourth was way hot and way expensive. She had a real job that required travel nearly every other week. She also had one child at home. It lasted 4-5 months. Towards the end, however, her schedule and mine made it not worth it. I emailed her, thinking that she might renegotiate. I think she took the opportunity to end it and move on.

Thus I am thinking of re-instating my membership on SA and trying again.

Just my two cents.

[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;2884533]This a my report on my recent experience with the SD / SB websites specifically SA and WYP.

I paid for access to both for a month and here's my analysis:

Men are SD- Sugar Daddy pay to use the site / Women are SB Sugar Baby they use the site for free.

WYP too much trouble to make offers then pay women for an initial meet-and-greet without getting anything.

SA easier to use try for one month. Try signing for free, spend a week or two getting used to it and marking your favorites. Then pay for one month, try it, and you'll be tired of it in a couple of weeks. You might meet 2 or 3 actual women during that time.

At first glance you think "Oh here are hundreds of women online ready to meet me. " Not quite.

First of all, these sites are just another internet concept to help men do what they've been doing for years. Find pussy. But using the internet is no guarantee of success. It's a lot of trial and error. SD sites are not a magical solution for finding a willing SB.

Here's why:

There are fake ads on the sites. Some placed just to entice you to pay to subscribe. Many are fake just like BP and CL have fake ads with fake pictures. I know this because the same pictures show up in different cities.

It's just amazing how I can change my location from Belmont to Gastonia. Then all of a sudden the site says here are 9 new women for you in Kings Mountain. Really? KM? Do you really think there are 9 hot young women in KM that want to meet? The sames ones were shown in Dallas NC last week. The sites randomly select small cities near you so you'll think its for real.

This is just another way to meet or get scammed out of money. Yes there are some legitimate ones on there.

I would estimate that out of 100 ads that I have responded to, 5 or 6 are real women. Of those I've only met 3 who were interested.

You will waste a lot of time messaging, texting, and trying to determine is she is real and if she wants to actually meet. If you enjoy the thrill of the chase like I do, you might enjoy this. But you're really wasting time chasing down ads that are not really anybody that you'll ever meet.

One test I use is to ask her to call. Real ones will call and talk. Fake ones will not.

After one month, and about $100 wasted on the sites I'm through with them. I have better luck meeting them in person in the strip club.[/QUOTE]