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[QUOTE=DirkyDiggy;5493749]But you too must be missing the point of my post, and possibly have not actually watched the vids. I'm not one for anonymous glory holes at all, in fact have never been to any. I'm specifically referring to the setup and girls similar to what's in those videos. To each his own though. Not only with this post, but as for others I've taken the time to offer up, always seems like guys just want to respond with points of their own.
I'm well aware that rolling around in a bed, skin on skin, is a much better option.

But you tell me you wouldn't enjoy either of these.

http://www.xvideos.com/video22912361/porta_gloryhole_chubby_dennys_waitress_need_extra_tips

http://www.xvideos.com/video29828049/first_time_blonde_con_camera_sucks_dick_in_public[/QUOTE]I play the video didn't realize I had the sound turned up. My wife was in another room and asked what are you watching. I told her a DirkyDiggy movie. LOL.

I couldn't get into that even watching it doesn't do anything. You can't see their eyes, watch their boobs bounce. So much to lose plus the port a johns stink like hell.

Stay safe,

PA.

[QUOTE=DirkyDiggy;5493749]But you too must be missing the point of my post, and possibly have not actually watched the vids. I'm not one for anonymous glory holes at all, in fact have never been to any. I'm specifically referring to the setup and girls similar to what's in those videos. To each his own though. Not only with this post, but as for others I've taken the time to offer up, always seems like guys just want to respond with points of their own.
I'm well aware that rolling around in a bed, skin on skin, is a much better option.

But you tell me you wouldn't enjoy either of these.

http://www.xvideos.com/video22912361/porta_gloryhole_chubby_dennys_waitress_need_extra_tips

http://www.xvideos.com/video29828049/first_time_blonde_con_camera_sucks_dick_in_public[/QUOTE]I understood your original post, but I'm not that young any more to nut quickly just from a BJ. I'd rather take my time and be able to hang onto a girl and hopefully unload in one of the holes she offers. .

[QUOTE=Ernstheiter;5485040]Hi, I don't know where else to post this and I'm sorry if this is the wrong place.

I'm an 18 year old guy and I am horribly lonely. About a month ago I had sex with an extremely hot girl (for free), and it was one of the best nights of my life so far. But I guess I scared her by talking about anatomy or something.

I've been seeing escorts for the last year now. But I need to stop- it's too much money. And it's hell because I can't connect with women. I worry I'll never fall in love. I scare them all away. I don't think I look bad, I have a good job, and a bright future, I just scare them every time. I wish I could meet a girl like me. Seems like the only time women take interest in me is when I give them money.

I start college soon, and I pray I will meet a girl there. But so many of them I'm even disgusted by- they sleep around a drink and smoke and major in humanities etc.

Wish I could meet a girl. Losing my mind here.[/QUOTE]The advice that these other men gave you is not entirely true. I had a hard time getting girls in Connecticut at 18 and I still do. If my friends wouldn't have put me on with the first girl that I had sex with I would have been a virgin for a long time. You can thank these escorts and men overpaying escorts for the fact that young men like you can't even afford to see attractive escorts. Back in 2015 when Backpage was around, beautiful women sold their time for 200 an hour at the most. My first escort experience was with Kelly K and in my opinion she was the best looking girl that I ever shared intimacy with at the time and she only charged me 140 an hour. A lot of the older generation no is out of touch with young like yourself who have trouble getting women, that's why they give bad advice when it comes to this matter. It sounds to me like you somewhat live the life of an incel.

[QUOTE=Ayce8;5485537]You are complaining about not meeting woman? But you said you just meet one that's hot and scored with them? Am I missing something here?

Looks like you just need some dating 101 lessons.[/QUOTE]So what, he luckily got laid a month ago. I know exactly how he feels. I remember those times when I got laid by a particular female once and knowing that it will be awhile before I get laid again. A lot of men are out of touch with what mostly Generation Z and some millennials are going through when it comes to getting women. I went seven years without being able to get a female before I decided to start seeing escorts. When I started seeing escorts the prices were more affordable. I shared intimacy with a lot of attractive females at the price of 100 to 120 a half hour. You guys that are supporting this rise in escort prices are making it so that this young man who is constantly seeing hot girls in his life every time he goes to school can't even release his sexual tension when you capitulate and pay the unsustainable prices that these women charge. This young man should be able to see hot escorts at Backpage Classic prices.

[QUOTE=Newbie58;5486358]If I recall correctly, you're the guy who started posting this story 6 months or so ago. One of our senior story tellers who's since been put out to pasture took you under his wing, right? Now you're telling us all you scored with a hottie and didn't pay for it. Based only on what you've written, I suggest you shut the fuck up and keep fucking hot girls. Don't bore them with what you have to say, especially if you're uneasy around them to begin with. Next time you're with a hottie, ask her how she would like to be pleasured, then shut the fuck up and do it. Try that a time or two and your confidence will build.

Women, nope, people sense weakness. This is something you'll need to figure out. In your late teens and looking at AMPs and STG? I expect you're good for several pops all without chemical assistance. If being you isn't working, change you. It's really that simple. It's hard to do, but it's that simple. I've been around for awhile now, and it's been a difficult road finding a better me. Good luck.[/QUOTE]This is the worst piece of advice that you can give this young man. Just because he got lucky and scored at 18 doesn't mean he will get lucky and score again anytime soon. Why are you telling him to shut the fuck up when he asks for advice on women? At the end you say Good luck, that lets me know that you know that it's going to take luck to get one of these women out here. Let's keep real, if getting laid was easy escorts would not be able to make money escorting. What needs to happen is that these escort prices need to come down because like I said in prior posts, this escort inflation is making it so that a young man in college who constantly has to see attractive college women who aren't really into him like that can't even treat himself an escort to release his sexual tension. These young men end up having to walk around horny to the point that it might make them turn aggressive and lash out somehow.

[QUOTE=EggPoacher88;5495296]Let's keep real, if getting laid was easy escorts would not be able to make money escorting.[/QUOTE]At 18, it's pretty easy to get laid with any shred of personality, a little game, and no third arm growing out of one's forehead. Ever hear of Tinder?

Most escorts that I've met aren't seeing teens and twenty somethings, they're mostly seeing attached guys looking for discreet strange that won't blow up a comfortable life. Many of my favorites won't see guys that young at all. Escorts aren't paid for sex, there're paid to go away after the sex and leave us alone until next time.

A high school guy going onto college really needs to work on himself and make himself interesting to civilians, not seek out pros. Maybe he needs to lose weight, work on interpersonal skills, take up some interesting skills, hobbies, or sports. Confidence attracts young women, it always has. Being clean, in decent shape, and having some interesting experiences and things to share will draw college age women to a college age guy every time.

[QUOTE=Woody50;5496043]At 18, it's pretty easy to get laid with any shred of personality, a little game, and no third arm growing out of one's forehead. Ever hear of Tinder?

Most escorts that I've met aren't seeing teens and twenty somethings, they're mostly seeing attached guys looking for discreet strange that won't blow up a comfortable life. Many of my favorites won't see guys that young at all. Escorts aren't paid for sex, there're paid to go away after the sex and leave us alone until next time.

A high school guy going onto college really needs to work on himself and make himself interesting to civilians, not seek out pros. Maybe he needs to lose weight, work on interpersonal skills, take up some interesting skills, hobbies, or sports. Confidence attracts young women, it always has. Being clean, in decent shape, and having some interesting experiences and things to share will draw college age women to a college age guy every time.[/QUOTE]Have you used Tinder lately? I have been using Tinder a lot lately because of the rising escort prices. I match with girls very often but here is the problem. Most of the girls I match with on Tinder are just on there to promote there Snapchat for * followers or they simply do not reply to messages.

Even though there are escorts that won't see men his age I would not be so quick to say that most won't. If you have the money most of these escorts will see you. It is an exaggeration to say that most won't and even if that is the case he could always let his facial hair grow out and say that he is 21. If Backpage was still around he would have a greater amount of escorts to choose from which would have offset this obstacle.

It's not that easy for 18 year old men to get women their own age. I was 18 years old and in good physical but could not get the girls I wanted on a consistent basis. When I was 19 I had nice pecks and a six pack and approached women everyday but did not get laid once. It's not easy for young men to get pussy now days. If it was easy he would not have seen an escort in the first place. Have you ever heard of an incel? Seeing an escort here and there in his spare time would be good to help him cope with not getting laid in college because it's a hundred percent possible in today's day and age for this young man to go to college and not get laid. The females in his generation are extremely picky. This is not the seventies eighties, or nineties. It is entirely possible for you to get laid at 18 and then never get laid again.

Yes, I used those words, but you misunderstand. What I thought I wrote, or intended to write, is stop talking when he's with the women. He mentioned gals don't seem to dig him yet he scored with a hottie. All was good until he opened his mouth. Maybe he talks politics or some other controversial topic. I don't know. Something in his personality is turning people away (a paraphrase of his words). The STFU advice was to act and stop talking.

So back to the young man who is about to experience college: You'd do better to seek advice from guys you'll undoubtedly meet at school who are doing well with women. Go to the parties and enjoy yourself. Ask the gals you meet about themselves instead of telling them about you or what you think about various things. . . Until they ask you. Maybe you already know someone, friend, family member, co-worker, someone who you trust enough to ask if they will tell you why you're turning people (or maybe just girls) away. Seeking advice from a group of relatively old guys who are paying for pussy for one reason or another is probably not your best source of sage advice. Yes, I wish you well so I say good luck. Sorry if I wasn't clear in my first message. I'm guessing you have some things to work through and if true, it will take work, not some magic pill of advice from one of us.

[QUOTE=EggPoacher88;5495296]This is the worst piece of advice that you can give this young man. Just because he got lucky and scored at 18 doesn't mean he will get lucky and score again anytime soon. Why are you telling him to shut the fuck up when he asks for advice on women? At the end you say Good luck, that lets me know that you know that it's going to take luck to get one of these women out here. Let's keep real, if getting laid was easy escorts would not be able to make money escorting. What needs to happen is that these escort prices need to come down because like I said in prior posts, this escort inflation is making it so that a young man in college who constantly has to see attractive college women who aren't really into him like that can't even treat himself an escort to release his sexual tension. These young men end up having to walk around horny to the point that it might make them turn aggressive and lash out somehow.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Newbie58;5496291]Yes, I used those words, but you misunderstand. What I thought I wrote, or intended to write, is stop talking when he's with the women. He mentioned gals don't seem to dig him yet he scored with a hottie. All was good until he opened his mouth. Maybe he talks politics or some other controversial topic. I don't know. Something in his personality is turning people away (a paraphrase of his words). The STFU advice was to act and stop talking.

So back to the young man who is about to experience college: You'd do better to seek advice from guys you'll undoubtedly meet at school who are doing well with women. Go to the parties and enjoy yourself. Ask the gals you meet about themselves instead of telling them about you or what you think about various things. . . Until they ask you. Maybe you already know someone, friend, family member, co-worker, someone who you trust enough to ask if they will tell you why you're turning people (or maybe just girls) away. Seeking advice from a group of relatively old guys who are paying for pussy for one reason or another is probably not your best source of sage advice. Yes, I wish you well so I say good luck. Sorry if I wasn't clear in my first message. I'm guessing you have some things to work through and if true, it will take work, not some magic pill of advice from one of us.[/QUOTE]Your explanation is correct to my reasoning as I wrote in post 1937 below.

BMD.

Don't let the chicks think you are a needy simp.

Like scoring a touchdown, act like you've been there before.

[QUOTE=EggPoacher88;5495296]This is the worst piece of advice that you can give this young man. Just because he got lucky and scored at 18 doesn't mean he will get lucky and score again anytime soon. Why are you telling him to shut the fuck up when he asks for advice on women? At the end you say Good luck, that lets me know that you know that it's going to take luck to get one of these women out here. Let's keep real, if getting laid was easy escorts would not be able to make money escorting. What needs to happen is that these escort prices need to come down because like I said in prior posts, this escort inflation is making it so that a young man in college who constantly has to see attractive college women who aren't really into him like that can't even treat himself an escort to release his sexual tension. These young men end up having to walk around horny to the point that it might make them turn aggressive and lash out somehow.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Ernstheiter;5485040]Hi, I don't know where else to post this and I'm sorry if this is the wrong place.

I'm an 18 year old guy and I am horribly lonely. About a month ago I had sex with an extremely hot girl (for free), and it was one of the best nights of my life so far. But I guess I scared her by talking about anatomy or something.

I've been seeing escorts for the last year now. But I need to stop- it's too much money. And it's hell because I can't connect with women. I worry I'll never fall in love. I scare them all away. I don't think I look bad, I have a good job, and a bright future, I just scare them every time. I wish I could meet a girl like me. Seems like the only time women take interest in me is when I give them money.

I start college soon, and I pray I will meet a girl there. But so many of them I'm even disgusted by- they sleep around a drink and smoke and major in humanities etc.

Wish I could meet a girl. Losing my mind here.[/QUOTE]Both of you should rethink your expectations more than anything. It's fine to want to tap a hot girl, but realistically if that's what you expect as your only outlet, you may be disappointed and frustrated for a long long time. If you need to release your sexual tension, there are many girls who are available seeking the same thing. A fact of life is that for the very most part, the hotties can be picky. Deal with it. It's fine to be on the search for a hottie to marry. But to expect them to be your only option for release is unrealistic. To the point of insanity, tbh.

If however, you want to keep paying for the hotties to get off, better pony up instead of complaining. Hotties get what they can get. Deal with that too.

[QUOTE=EggPoacher88;5496074]It's not that easy for 18 year old men to get women their own age. I was 18 years old and in good physical but could not get the girls I wanted on a consistent basis. When I was 19 I had nice pecks and a six pack and approached women everyday but did not get laid once. It's not easy for young men to get pussy now days.[/QUOTE]I actually know many guys that age. Some are even nerdy, very average looking guys. They get laid. They have something to share and talk about. They have girlfriends, they aren't doing spot pickups with a different girl every night.

Personality, confidence, humor, and being generally interesting go a long way with women, as does not coming across as a tightwad. It's also worth mentioning that nerdy, non-supermodel women can be extremely fun in in the sack, if you can keep up with them intellectually.

Desperation is a terrible thing to exude when seeking women or trying to make a sale in the professional world.

[QUOTE=Drewonhere;5496431]Both of you should rethink your expectations more than anything. It's fine to want to tap a hot girl, but realistically if that's what you expect as your only outlet, you may be disappointed and frustrated for a long long time. If you need to release your sexual tension, there are many girls who are available seeking the same thing. A fact of life is that for the very most part, the hotties can be picky. Deal with it. It's fine to be on the search for a hottie to marry. But to expect them to be your only option for release is unrealistic. To the point of insanity, tbh.

If however, you want to keep paying for the hotties to get off, better pony up instead of complaining. Hotties get what they can get. Deal with that too.[/QUOTE]Don't try to make this into us feeling some kind of way because we can't get 10 out of 10 girls. I don't let myself get fat and honestly I have kept myself in pretty good looking shape throughout most of my adult life so far and when I was in my late teens early twenties I had the pecks, obliques, and a washboard six-pack that men go to the gym to obtain. I could have posed for a fitness magazine. When I was in my late twenties I used to wear escorts out for that whole hour and half hour I spent with them. I already have low enough standards to where I do not care what a females face looks like, don't tell me that I have to lower my standards lower than that. Men lowering their standards all the time is part of the problem that's why average men can't get average women anymore. Nobody tells women to lower their standards when they complain about their lack of success with men. I expect to tap girls that have good enough physiques to get off to. Even though I lean towards slim thick women I always make exceptions like today when I approached a female that looked good enough to get off to but still needs to work out more. I should not have to make love to a woman that looks like Humpty Dumpty or Jigglypuff unless I look like Humpty Dumpty or Jigglypuff and you say that I can't tap hot chicks all the time because it's unrealistic, but when Backpage was up in 2015 through 2016 before the adult section was taken down all you had to do was wait no longer than a week or two at most and the girl of your dreams would be in town selling her time. We could have that again if men stopped overpaying escorts. Also you say that the hot chicks can be picky. Everybody has their definition of what a hot chick is. Please give me your definition of a hot chick and show me a picture or two if you can. I can almost bet that a lot of females that are hot to me aren't hot or as hot to you. The fact that you would have the audacity to tell men that we can't deal with females that we find attractive is telling of how humble men are expected to be. You really expect a man to share intimacy with a woman that he is unattracted to. There is so much to unpack in the reply you sent me. I might think of another point to make later. Do you know I approached two females today that were not in the least bit out of my league physically or facially and got turned down by them. The flawless hotties are not the only women who are picky so let's not go with that convenient answer or narrative as to why this guy and I have trouble with women.

You say that if I want to keep paying hotties to get off I need to pony up instead of complaining as if when hot girls raise their prices less attractive girls aren't raising their prices too. It's not just hot girls raising their prices, all girls are raising their prices and the better looking girls are leading the way so even if I went to see absolutely non attractive women I would still have a reason to complain about hot girls raising their price rates because less attractive females follow their lead. It is an extremely convenient answer to just say that because these females are hot that it makes sense that men go broke seeing them but that's ridiculous and I might be repeating something I said earlier but you are basically telling men to deal with escorts that they don't find attractive at all. This young man should be able to see escorts in their prime and as good looking as the girls on his college campus.

[QUOTE=Woody50;5497083]I actually know many guys that age. Some are even nerdy, very average looking guys. They get laid. They have something to share and talk about.

Personality, confidence, humor, and being generally interesting go a long way with women, as does not coming across as a tightwad. It's also worth mentioning that nerdy, non-supermodel women can be extremely fun in in the sack, if you can keep up with them intellectually.

Desperation is a terrible thing to exude when seeking women or trying to make a sale in the professional world.[/QUOTE]You are right, there are a lot of men that age that do get laid but that doesn't dispute the fact that there is an ever increasing amount of men that age who can't get laid. Also keep in mind that those young men that you know likely are not going to complain about their love life due to the fact that men usually suffer in silence when they go through extended droughts with women. Millennials and Generation Z have the highest amount of virgins over 20 than any other group. I dare you to look into the Incel topic. Theses generations of men have a lot of sexually unsuccessful men due to mostly the pickiness of women and the gender ratio imbalance.

[QUOTE=EggPoacher88;5497091]Don't try to make this into us feeling some kind of way because we can't get 10 out of 10 girls. I don't let myself get fat and honestly I have kept myself in pretty good looking shape throughout most of my adult life so far and when I was in my late teens early twenties I had the pecks, obliques, and a washboard six-pack that men go to the gym to obtain. I could have posed for a fitness magazine. When I was in my late twenties I used to wear escorts out for that whole hour and half hour I spent with them. I already have low enough standards to where I do not care what a females face looks like, don't tell me that I have to lower my standards lower than that. Men lowering their standards all the time is part of the problem that's why average men can't get average women anymore. Nobody tells women to lower their standards when they complain about their lack of success with men. I expect to tap girls that have good enough physiques to get off to. Even though I lean towards slim thick women I always make exceptions like today when I approached a female that looked good enough to get off to but still needs to work out more. I should not have to make love to a woman that looks like Humpty Dumpty or Jigglypuff unless I look like Humpty Dumpty or Jigglypuff and you say that I can't tap hot chicks all the time because it's unrealistic, but when Backpage was up in 2015 through 2016 before the adult section was taken down all you had to do was wait no longer than a week or two at most and the girl of your dreams would be in town selling her time. We could have that again if men stopped overpaying escorts. Also you say that the hot chicks can be picky. Everybody has their definition of what a hot chick is. Please give me your definition of a hot chick and show me a picture or two if you can. I can almost bet that a lot of females that are hot to me aren't hot or as hot to you. The fact that you would have the audacity to tell men that we can't deal with females that we find attractive is telling of how humble men are expected to be. You really expect a man to share intimacy with a woman that he is unattracted to. There is so much to unpack in the reply you sent me. I might think of another point to make later. Do you know I approached two females today that were not in the least bit out of my league physically or facially and got turned down by them. The flawless hotties are not the only women who are picky so let's not go with that convenient answer or narrative as to why this guy and I have trouble with women.[/QUOTE]Every post of yours references hot women that you can't get so you see escorts to get relief, even this last response!. My point is there are many women in the same spot as you, that just want to f_uck, but you obviously can't make yourself go after them because they aren't hot. So yes, to get relief, lower your standard! Lmao. You, young man have more problems than a forum can fix. You keep bending the narrative to fit your arguments.

I stand by my advice to both of you. Re-read it with a clear mind and you'll find it helpful!!