We have more than money to give
[QUOTE=JDRedBull;6492627]I definitely agree with what you are saying. I work a lot 50 plus hours a week and have other investments that I have to keep an eye on. So I am very busy. Person. I work hard for what I have. I treat any girl that meet very fairly, more like friends with benefits. A lot are borderline escorts. I do try to weed them out. Scan other websites before meeting. Etc. I also say I don't have alot of time so I won't be using up your time. If they want to get alitle more personal and tell me about issues or what ever I listen and try to give them some good advice. One girl 22 said she is taking up cosmology and said she was thinking about being a dancer. I told her you really don't want to go there. Just do your school. Those place will chew you up and spit you out. The bottom line is I am not looking for want a be super models or escorts. More like the girl next door who likes sex and likes a little moolah. If its all about the money I tell them. You got the wrong guy. I have a decent amount of "friends" and it does help when you have another friend that helps find some gems too.[/QUOTE]You bring up some good points:
1) You know what you're looking for. I found more success when I realized what I was looking for and excluded women who didn't fit my criteria.
2) You realize that you can offer more than your money.
The way these merge for me is that I like to build a relationship even if its just a one and done. Part of this is building a relationship that's not just based on money. I remember and instance where I got a SB talking and she stopped and said "do you really want to hear about this?" This tells me that even though this was a pretty attractive woman, no one even listens to what she has to say. I do better with the college or college educated girls because I understand the graduate from college work in some large organization life plan. I can't relate to the I want to work in a strip club girl. The only advice I can give her is to go back to school which probably wouldn't be what she wants to hear. Find beautiful women or ones that you find beautiful that you can relate to is a good start. Give them some Phillies tickets when you can't go to the game. Give them some advice, most of us are 15-30 years their senior. We have experience. All that goes a long way. When you get them in the sack they will give it all back to you and more.
Reminds me of why I'm here
[QUOTE=HenryT458;6492389]Skip The Games.
A website for pros to find customers. Mostly filled with scammers and bullshit.[/QUOTE]Ugh, don't remind me of why I'm on the SB sites. All the escort sites suck in my opinion! If you're not not doing the AMP scene or the street scene, I think the best online option is the SB sites. I like Seeking and I've asked about Secret Benefits but is seems like a nickel and dime you to death site Is anyone finding success with what's your price?
Questions about girls pics and some advice
So I have been asked about some of these girls on private messages.
The girls are from either Secret benefits or Seeking. I don't see them regularly any more now. Because of scheduling differences, they faded or they got into a regular relationships with someone their own age or I dropped them Etc I may get a text saying hi. Or heyyy Because they want to meet up again. Those that I still see and or my friend sees. I am going to keep for myself for now. Plus some were pics that my friend had sent me and most are from 3 months or more ago. But they all were in the 150 to 300 range. 300 maybe for the first meeting with going private.
What do they want now? Is anyone's guess. Especially if you guys throw 400 or more at them. Granted my dates last an hour maybe 2. If you are seeing them for the whole day. Yeah 400 or 500 maybe worth it.
Just some advice. I know everyone is different but I don't ask them to do anything strange or ask for weird shit for them to do. Even though am a very busy person. I do have a lot of patience with new "friends" if they seem like they may like being tied up or being spank or doing something different or what ever that may seem strange to what is deemed normal. I take my time with all that stuff. I never start off with saying hey I want to do this or that to you. Some of these girls may say right for the get-go that they like to be kinky with differentthings. I usually don't meet chick's with all kinds of rules, because they come off too pro for me. I will make them feel like we can meet up again if they are in the range the seems reasonable to me and I do see them again. Sometimes, it's all how to present yourself.
I definitely wouldn't put all your eggs all in one basket. I would have meetings with multiple girls. Some may be every other week, some maybe once a month like clock work. Sometimes I may be meeting 3 girls in a week. I have been slowing down and not trying to do that. But that's what I am trying to say is. This works for me. I am constantly asked multiple times a week if I can hang out. My friends list is full.
I do have rules of my own. If they seem too pro they are out. If they flake on me they are out If they cancel on me. 2 to 3 times with in a month. Depending on if it's the last minute or if it's a day or so ago. They are out.
Almost all these girls say they want respect. I tell them. I will show you respect. But as soon as you disrespect me you are out. It's simple. Definitely don't get yourself too deep into one girl. You are just asking for trouble. These girls are all banging someone else don't let them fool you. Seriously and most will lie to keep their money pig. Meaning you in place. Have some common sense about yourself.
