[QUOTE=LuvThis;6200997]First, let me say. This is my thing and it's how I get my thrills and how I spend my money. I certainly understand why some Mongers want the girl to focus on them the entire hour. But I have found my way works for me. My thrill of the adventure we all strive for when we go to a parlor. About 10 minutes into my getting massage, I tell the girl I would like to massage her. 20 min for me. The 20 min for her. Then finish with me. I tell her to let me know when my 20 min are up. They always do! Then I get up, turn the facecloth over for her. Usually on first time girl, they lay down with clothes on. I pull up blouse and give a few good strong (they like strong) strikes on back. Then I unclasp bra and move straps aside, stroke more and go to neck, going under straps. If she hadn't already removed the bra altogether, she does then. And I remove blouse. I do a sexual massage, so I don't just touch, but tease. I do arms and hands as well. Then go to lower back, and go under pants, and after some good bootie massage she pulls them down past her bootie. This allows for sexual strokes touching pussy and bootie hole.
I tell her to turn over but I hold a towel or sheet over her to screen her so she feels more comfortable with not exposing her body to my eyes. I lay it over her and start massage of her boobs underneath the towel. Grazing nipples and not going all in. If she hasn't already removed the towel, then I do. THERE IS MORE. BUT YOU GET THE PICTURE. Some girls go for more, some stop with boobs. Lots of variables make the difference. And yea, some say "good tip". I say yes. But I don't negotiate.
Then, depending on the real time, I say OK my turn. And the finish is much more explosive for me!! Partly cause she is more relaxed and in to paying me back for treating her good.
Maybe we Mongers get the same results no matter how we approach it, but this works for me and I have a Hell of a Good Time![/QUOTE]I do something similar, on flip I ask them if they are tired, most of the times the answer is Yes. I ask them to take rest and lay down next to me, I start little massage and touching, they love to take the break (not sure the touching part), but I definitely get more mileage and closer to GFE this way!