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[QUOTE=Revvo;1939456]...Anyone have any ideas? Is there a compatibility issue with iPhones and googlevoice?
Thanks,
Revvo.[/QUOTE]I would give her the benefit of the doubt. And it sounds like you already have. Most love and appreciate these great communication technologies, nothing beats a face to face look her in the eyes.
Gentlemen,
Please forgive me if this has been covered here. I don't have very good luck with searches here in the forum. I've had no firm results with google either.
How do the google voice number show up on your bill? Do they show up as the number you're dialing or as the google access number? Do incoming and outgoing show up the same?
[QUOTE=Makethescoop;1940241]Gentlemen,
Please forgive me if this has been covered here. I don't have very good luck with searches here in the forum. I've had no firm results with google either.
How do the google voice number show up on your bill? Do they show up as the number you're dialing or as the google access number? Do incoming and outgoing show up the same?[/QUOTE]It doesn't show up at all. It's data and doesn't count against your voice minutes.
Tomcatt, Copper, Martinez and Scoop!
Gentlemen, welcome to the finest, most civil, intelligent and useful thread in this entire forum, but my question is why have you all not posted up before? This is a camaraderie of brothers with but one purpose. To land that most elusive of quarries: the true amateur. If you have tales / intel / wisdom / successes / failures to relate, please do so. Don't be shy; none of us will harsh on you, I am certain.
As for me, I am on parole at the moment, but still not brave enough to jump back into the Bowl in any significant way. I did have a lovely back-seat reunion with my ATF while my SO was out of town, but typically since then my little fish has gone to her secret holding spot, and I have not been able to tempt her out. I did also spend some quality time with my Skittish Baby on the aforementioned shore leave, but so far have not been able to get out from under the spotlight for a repeat visit. I envy you single brothers, I truly do. Being on a short leash is no fun whatsoever.
Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends here, and of course, don't forget to write!
Peace,
Scott.
[QUOTE=BigTigger;1937926]Well said and welcome Ltnric!
Showtime..what area are you bowling in....yours sounds like some of mine in the DC/MD/VA area?
BigTigg[/QUOTE]BigTigg sorry for the late reply, but I'm in the DC / NOVA / MD area and after this week I think I will stay in a 20 mile radius of DC. Baltimore is just too far away and there are more than enough babes in this are for me to stay busy for a long time.
[QUOTE=FScott;1940394]Tomcatt, Copper, Martinez and Scoop!
As for me, I am on parole at the moment, but still not brave enough to jump back into the Bowl in any significant way.
Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends here, and of course, don't forget to write!
Peace,
Scott.[/QUOTE]I too am on parole and trying to squeeze in some playtime with my ATF. The risk is high but the rewards are amazing. I hope that things will settle down enough to get some kind of rhythm back. For you married brothers just realize that the discovery is inevitable and be prepared for it. Best case scenario is that your SO will actually want / need to stay married to you and that you will have to end or seriously curtail your activities. This is where brother Scott and I are at the present moment. Life in the sugar bowl will never be the same again unless our marital status changes. We can only hope for a scrap thrown our way when we aren't being monitored.
I don't need to explain the worst case, so be careful out there. My advice is don't be greedy when things are going well and seem easy. Go for the long haul instead of the max. Now you single guys I know have your issues but you are lucky not to have to watch your back too much.
[QUOTE=FredMoore;1941386]I too am on parole and trying to squeeze in some playtime with my ATF. The risk is high but the rewards are amazing.[/QUOTE]Women are born with a 6th sense and a better sense of smell. We have no idea the extent we are being watched. When one whiff of reaffirmation comes along everything goes on steroids. We are never forgiven. The longer things go the more things add up.
[QUOTE=Golfcart;1941492]Women are born with a 6th sense and a better sense of smell. We have no idea the extent we are being watched. When one whiff of reaffirmation comes along everything goes on steroids. We are never forgiven. The longer things go the more things add up.[/QUOTE]You've for that right. Since my almost fatal slip-up with the unexplained condom in the wash, everything is above the radar. I can still get out on the rare occasion, but she questions every minute that I am late, even legitimate work commitments.
Last weekend, I was up late using my smart phone to check out the latest posts on this forum and she accused me of being on line with my girlfriend. It was just a passing comment, but you could tell she was serious. She is definitely watching every move. I'm just lucky that she is not tech-savy enough to know how to track my cell phone location. I would definitely be toast.
By the way, for those of you that need to know your SO's location, the Find IPhone app is priceless. As long as she has her phone on, it will tell you exactly where she is while you are trying to discreetly entertain your SB. It is an added level of protection to avoid having the SO accidentally show up at the same location, especially if you occasionally take your SB out on the town for dining or drinks.
[QUOTE=FScott;1940394]Tomcatt, Copper, Martinez and Scoop!
Gentlemen, welcome to the finest, most civil, intelligent and useful thread in this entire forum, but my question is why have you all not posted up before? This is a camaraderie of brothers with but one purpose. To land that most elusive of quarries: the true amateur. If you have tales / intel / wisdom / successes / failures to relate, please do so. Don't be shy; none of us will harsh on you, I am certain.
As for me, I am on parole at the moment, but still not brave enough to jump back into the Bowl in any significant way. I did have a lovely back-seat reunion with my ATF while my SO was out of town, but typically since then my little fish has gone to her secret holding spot, and I have not been able to tempt her out. I did also spend some quality time with my Skittish Baby on the aforementioned shore leave, but so far have not been able to get out from under the spotlight for a repeat visit. I envy you single brothers, I truly do. Being on a short leash is no fun whatsoever.
Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends here, and of course, don't forget to write!
Peace,
Scott.[/QUOTE]Scott,
Found you guys about a year ago. Problem for me is lack of disposable income at this point. Until that changes, I will have to read in awe all of the great things you guys are doing.
[QUOTE=Golfcart;1941492]Women are born with a 6th sense and a better sense of smell. We have no idea the extent we are being watched. When one whiff of reaffirmation comes along everything goes on steroids. We are never forgiven. The longer things go the more things add up.[/QUOTE]There is truth here. Seems like they get more acute. So Golfcart it sounds like you speak from experience. Maybe you could share a little of your brush with death? Or actually getting caught?
Also I have often thought just to tell my SO to just back the fuck off. She has nothing on me and there are no loose ends. So short of hiring a private eye. What is she going to do? And even if she did catch me what is she going to do? She has it too good. She is not going to leave me.
Still be careful out there.
Revvo.
[QUOTE=FScott;1940394]Tomcatt, Copper, Martinez and Scoop!
Gentlemen, welcome to the finest, most civil, intelligent and useful thread in this entire forum, but my question is why have you all not posted up before? This is a camaraderie of brothers with but one purpose. To land that most elusive of quarries: the true amateur. If you have tales / intel / wisdom / successes / failures to relate, please do so. Don't be shy; none of us will harsh on you, I am certain.
As for me, I am on parole at the moment, but still not brave enough to jump back into the Bowl in any significant way. I did have a lovely back-seat reunion with my ATF while my SO was out of town, but typically since then my little fish has gone to her secret holding spot, and I have not been able to tempt her out. I did also spend some quality time with my Skittish Baby on the aforementioned shore leave, but so far have not been able to get out from under the spotlight for a repeat visit. I envy you single brothers, I truly do. Being on a short leash is no fun whatsoever.
Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends here, and of course, don't forget to write!
Peace,
Scott.[/QUOTE]Funny. I don't really see a lot of contributions from anyone anymore. I could PM a couple of SD's on here and never miss a beat. No real need to go on this blog.
Where are all the other reports? It can't be this bad. There are an awful lot of women out there in need of a stiff dick and some money.
Is there no one out there to service them?
Lets see some reports.
Revvo.
[QUOTE=AliasSM;1941873]You've for that right. Since my almost fatal slip-up with the unexplained condom in the wash, everything is above the radar. I can still get out on the rare occasion, but she questions every minute that I am late, even legitimate work commitments.
Last weekend, I was up late using my smart phone to check out the latest posts on this forum and she accused me of being on line with my girlfriend. It was just a passing comment, but you could tell she was serious. She is definitely watching every move. I'm just lucky that she is not tech-savy enough to know how to track my cell phone location. I would definitely be toast.
By the way, for those of you that need to know your SO's location, the Find IPhone app is priceless. As long as she has her phone on, it will tell you exactly where she is while you are trying to discreetly entertain your SB. It is an added level of protection to avoid having the SO accidentally show up at the same location, especially if you occasionally take your SB out on the town for dining or drinks.[/QUOTE]Hi Alias. That app only works if she doesn't know how to turn off the gps tracking on her phone. If she is non the wiser, you will know where she is, otherwise, you won't be able to pinpoint her.
Saw my "Princess" (pictured in her thanksgiving day dress) 8 times and spent 1.3 k.. It's been a steady 8 months of twice a week visits so I rewarded her with an early Christmas at the mall.
My roommate has been a little distracted so it was a quiet month. Only 4 hookups. I am having withdrawal symptoms. LOL. 8 benjis
ATF MILF. Saw her zero times but sent her $$.25 as a retainer.
Did 7 M&G's for $.8 which resulted in only one hookup.
Did one booty call for $.
Plus $$$ in sugar alimony.
So another 3 k for the month. Only 14 hookups. Sometimes you got to go along to get along. Hoping for a better December.
First and foremost, I need to thank all you guys in here for the wonderful posts you have all added. I am not in Virginia, although I do visit frequently on business, but I am in New York. I guess now it is sort of my turn. I am a long time monger and a lurker for quite a while in this forum. I have been active in this hobby for around 30 years. Approximately 10 years ago I moved from dealing with Indy's and Agencies to utr's. Around 5 years ago I found SA and have been dabbling with that thru now. Here comes my dilemma. I have met a 26 why / o young lady from SA (I am 58). She is new to this SB thing. I am not the first guy she has met from the site. The other guys turned her off so much that I am now the "last attempt" at something worthwhile for her. She is stunningly beautiful and really a dream to talk to. We are really hitting it off. I met her Wednesday for a few hours at a local tavern for a cocktail, and again this afternoon. She is taking this slow and wants to build a "relationship" before we get intimate. She is not in this for the money do much. We have discussed that aspect and she knows I am not willing to do a monthly allowance. Seems she is ok with me just helping her out when she needs a few bucks for something. At this point I have $50 invested in bar tabs and I gave her $20 for some gas. I think this has tremendous potential, but I just don't want to be sitting here a month later wondering when I am going to fuck her. And yes, I am married for those that are wondering.
My question here is, how long should I let this play out like this before I tell her she has to get to the next level? We have discussed that she wants to take it slow. She doesn't want to end up feeling like a working girl and wants to have a connection before she does that. But really, how much time should I invest in this? If it works out it could be off the wall good. I don't want to blow this as she is not the typical SA girl. But, I don't want to waste my time either.
Any advice will be greatly appreciated.
[QUOTE=Revvo;1942158]Funny. I don't really see a lot of contributions from anyone anymore. I could PM a couple of SD's on here and never miss a beat. No real need to go on this blog.
Where are all the other reports? It can't be this bad. There are an awful lot of women out there in need of a stiff dick and some money.
Is there no one out there to service them?
Lets see some reports.
Revvo.[/QUOTE]I can finally report something, as I've found a SB for the first time since July / August of this year.
I had a barely legal college girl from a city about an hour away reply to a CL ad. She is truly submissive, which brings out my dom qualities. She says she has never done this before (which I totally believe) but wants the sexual satisfaction as well as the cash assistance. We've seen each other twice: Once for a M&G, once for a play date. She's very attractive, very affectionate, very eager to please. So far she is very nearly the ideal SB.
Only been in the sport since July, and had a response back from a baby that has me conflicted so thought I would check with the masters on their thoughts. Contacted new profile about her info got standard answer, mutual beneficial relationship with help getting back on her feet. Then she asked if I had done this before and if so what was that deal as she was new to this and had no idea as to what to ask. I explained new to me too and gave her specifics of what I was looking for. She then stated quote You know some arrangements are illegal, just making sure your not a cop or anything".
This is the first time I have ever had a baby ask that so immediate thought was she is a pro, I asked her about response, claims she is not or ever been an escort and was just being paranoid, watches to much news. I dropped the subject and since she only has one pic of herself in jeans posted I asked for one of her in a dress, said she didn't send out pics. Anyway told her I would get back to her and set up a meeting and if after the meeting would she be available to play if things worked out or needed time to think about it. She said she could play right then and there, then she sent me her email address and said to email her when ready to meet that several people used the phone and she would get the message sooner this way. This was Thursday and haven't heard from her since.
Thoughts.
[QUOTE=Revvo;1942158]Funny. I don't really see a lot of contributions from anyone anymore. I could PM a couple of SD's on here and never miss a beat. No real need to go on this blog.
Where are all the other reports? It can't be this bad. There are an awful lot of women out there in need of a stiff dick and some money.
Is there no one out there to service them?
Lets see some reports.
Revvo.[/QUOTE]I'm chime in, although there's not much new to report. I still have the one SB, who continues to be exclusive to me, and has settled into more of a GF or FWB relationship. She lets me vent about my home life. I provide support and friendship to compensate for her messed-up upbringing, as well as mentoring for her budding college career. The sex is just out of the park, although frankly I think she probably gets the better deal on that. She loses count, and I'm down to one per session, but at the moment I'm attributing that to my own stress / fatique, and the fact that we start our FC sessions early in the day. I'm going to start getting more assertive, but a 3-4 hour session in the bedroom with this nymph is still so mind-blowing that I don't mind not busting nut every 15 minutes.
It's still pay-for-play, but I'm giving her a Green Dot and am going to propose an allowance next time we meet, hoping that it won't jinx what is now a good thing. I think getting rid of any lingering anxiety from pay-for-play off the table will be a win. Unless our schedules open up more, she'll be coming out ahead, which I don't mind. If we manage to meet more frequently, I don't think that will be a problem either since she really seems to value the relationship and sex over the money.
And she's still sweet, kind, attentive, and treats me like I'm a godsend in her life. Which in many ways I am, finances aside.
[QUOTE=FyrGuy33;1942217]First and foremost, I need to thank all you guys in here for the wonderful posts you have all added. I am not in Virginia, although I do visit frequently on business, but I am in New York. I guess now it is sort of my turn. I am a long time monger and a lurker for quite a while in this forum. I have been active in this hobby for around 30 years. Approximately 10 years ago I moved from dealing with Indy's and Agencies to utr's. Around 5 years ago I found SA and have been dabbling with that thru now. Here comes my dilemma. I have met a 26 why / o young lady from SA (I am 58). She is new to this SB thing. I am not the first guy she has met from the site. The other guys turned her off so much that I am now the "last attempt" at something worthwhile for her. She is stunningly beautiful and really a dream to talk to. We are really hitting it off. I met her Wednesday for a few hours at a local tavern for a cocktail, and again this afternoon. She is taking this slow and wants to build a "relationship" before we get intimate. She is not in this for the money do much. We have discussed that aspect and she knows I am not willing to do a monthly allowance. Seems she is ok with me just helping her out when she needs a few bucks for something. At this point I have $50 invested in bar tabs and I gave her $20 for some gas. I think this has tremendous potential, but I just don't want to be sitting here a month later wondering when I am going to fuck her. And yes, I am married for those that are wondering.
My question here is, how long should I let this play out like this before I tell her she has to get to the next level? We have discussed that she wants to take it slow. She doesn't want to end up feeling like a working girl and wants to have a connection before she does that. But really, how much time should I invest in this? If it works out it could be off the wall good. I don't want to blow this as she is not the typical SA girl. But, I don't want to waste my time either.
Any advice will be greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]I am a newbie to SD / SB but not new to the escort hobby. I have gotten great advice from the board and I know that as a SD you can't go into this with a mind set like you would an escort. However, the issue still stands, when should you bring this up. I just joined SA and I am talking on line with a lot of YOUNG SB and if you read their profile they sound like they just want to date, no funny business and get paid. Well I can do that by going on [URL]Match.com[/URL]. I have heard from some members that, you have to read their profile and they may hint to being open to doing more than just going on dates. That is true. I have read some profiles from some older SB that do hint to that. I guess, if you meet someone who has hinted at getting into something more intimate then I would at least wait a few dates before bringing this up. On these dates you should focus on the body language, her interest and try to determine if she is even into you physically. So my question is, until you agree with the SB on what you expect from her, is it ok to pay for the dates obviously (drinks, food, movies, tickets. But only offer them "gas" money until you both have agreed to what you want and the dates become more of what you are expecting? Again, as a newbie to being a SD I am just trying not to get played by a SB who will tease you, get as much money from you as she can and when you want to her "pay" up she dissappers or moves on to another SD.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;1942336]Only been in the sport since July, and had a response back from a baby that has me conflicted so thought I would check with the masters on their thoughts. Contacted new profile about her info got standard answer, mutual beneficial relationship with help getting back on her feet. Then she asked if I had done this before and if so what was that deal as she was new to this and had no idea as to what to ask. I explained new to me too and gave her specifics of what I was looking for. She then stated quote You know some arrangements are illegal, just making sure your not a cop or anything".
This is the first time I have ever had a baby ask that so immediate thought was she is a pro, I asked her about response, claims she is not or ever been an escort and was just being paranoid, watches to much news. I dropped the subject and since she only has one pic of herself in jeans posted I asked for one of her in a dress, said she didn't send out pics. Anyway told her I would get back to her and set up a meeting and if after the meeting would she be available to play if things worked out or needed time to think about it. She said she could play right then and there, then she sent me her email address and said to email her when ready to meet that several people used the phone and she would get the message sooner this way. This was Thursday and haven't heard from her since.
Thoughts.[/QUOTE]A pro that's a little off her game.
[QUOTE=Ltnric;1942384]I am a newbie to SD / SB but not new to the escort hobby. I have gotten great advice from the board and I know that as a SD you can't go into this with a mind set like you would an escort. However, the issue still stands, when should you bring this up. I just joined SA and I am talking on line with a lot of YOUNG SB and if you read their profile they sound like they just want to date, no funny business and get paid. Well I can do that by going on [URL]Match.com[/URL]. I have heard from some members that, you have to read their profile and they may hint to being open to doing more than just going on dates. That is true. I have read some profiles from some older SB that do hint to that. I guess, if you meet someone who has hinted at getting into something more intimate then I would at least wait a few dates before bringing this up. On these dates you should focus on the body language, her interest and try to determine if she is even into you physically. So my question is, until you agree with the SB on what you expect from her, is it ok to pay for the dates obviously (drinks, food, movies, tickets. But only offer them "gas" money until you both have agreed to what you want and the dates become more of what you are expecting? Again, as a newbie to being a SD I am just trying not to get played by a SB who will tease you, get as much money from you as she can and when you want to her "pay" up she dissappers or moves on to another SD.[/QUOTE]You say "Every girl is on this site for a reason, I get that".
This should elicit a positive response immediately.
You say "I can afford to pay this much per visit once we decide to have an arrangement".
This will open the door to getting all or most of your questions answered.
If you don't get the exact response you are looking for. Then say. "Well I don't pay just to meet girls or hang-out. But I do pay to play. I may offer less than some, but I am more about steadiness and establishing a real connection. I don't need bad sex and I don't think that's what you"re looking for either".
Sorry to say I've absolutely nothing to report, but I've only been at it for a couple of weeks. So far I'm focusing on SD4 ME. I've gotten a few nibbles, but can't even get to M&G. I've even lowered my standards a bit. I don't know if it's a bad time with the holidays or what. I will continue to vary my approaches to see if I can improve my success beyond zero.
[QUOTE=Revvo;1942158]Funny. I don't really see a lot of contributions from anyone anymore. I could PM a couple of SD's on here and never miss a beat. No real need to go on this blog.
Where are all the other reports? It can't be this bad. There are an awful lot of women out there in need of a stiff dick and some money.
Is there no one out there to service them?
Lets see some reports.
Revvo.[/QUOTE]You could, but that would be no fun. Haha.
Ok, so you want info? I'm an older gentleman, 62. At this age, the 'love' or 'attraction' option rarely applies (only in SE Asia and then it's fake), so it's sugar that gets their attention (and I don't offer much more than $ ) . I've been with the best and don't put up with much shit. So, I'm alone a lot and it doesn't bother me in the least!
I frequently get contacted by 18/19/20 yo spinners. All I can say is-they're flaky. One day here the next day gone, or cancel a M&G 30 minutes before, or stop replying in the middle of a conversation. I really don't want the drama, don't need the sex, not interested in teaching an inexperienced partner, so they are quickly dropped. I had M&Gs with at least three in the past 4 months, did a little foundling with one but her less-than-enthuastic attitude and nipple piercings turned me off.
I settled on a 110#, cute 35 yo MILF that totally understands. Don't bother me. You're there for my enjoyment. When I'm interested I will send a text. When I come over, she offers coffee, conversation, a bath, and a most amazing BBJCIM. Sometimes I drive her to an appointment or wherever, but mostly it's .8 for a couple hours of fun and relaxation.
If something happens to this one I'll go back to my long-time off-and-on $.5 escort 'friend' while I pursue a new SB.
I envy you younger guys. Sounds a lot like me 20/30 years ago. Wish I had this thread back then as a reference. But I'm not sad, I've had my share of the best. And today I couldn't keep up with anyone even if I tried (hahaha.
Mes (J Martinez).
[QUOTE=JMartinez;1942575]You could, but that would be no fun. Haha.
Ok, so you want info? I'm an older gentleman, 62. At this age, the 'love' or 'attraction' option rarely applies (only in SE Asia and then it's fake), so it's sugar that gets their attention (and I don't offer much more than $ ) . I've been with the best and don't put up with much shit. So, I'm alone a lot and it doesn't bother me in the least!
I frequently get contacted by 18/19/20 yo spinners. All I can say is-they're flaky. One day here the next day gone, or cancel a M&G 30 minutes before, or stop replying in the middle of a conversation. I really don't want the drama, don't need the sex, not interested in teaching an inexperienced partner, so they are quickly dropped. I had M&Gs with at least three in the past 4 months, did a little foundling with one but her less-than-enthuastic attitude and nipple piercings turned me off.
I settled on a 110#, cute 35 yo MILF that totally understands. Don't bother me. You're there for my enjoyment. When I'm interested I will send a text. When I come over, she offers coffee, conversation, a bath, and a most amazing BBJCIM. Sometimes I drive her to an appointment or wherever, but mostly it's .8 for a couple hours of fun and relaxation.
If something happens to this one I'll go back to my long-time off-and-on $.5 escort 'friend' while I pursue a new SB.
I envy you younger guys. Sounds a lot like me 20/30 years ago. Wish I had this thread back then as a reference. But I'm not sad, I've had my share of the best. And today I couldn't keep up with anyone even if I tried (hahaha.
Mes (J Martinez).[/QUOTE]Sounds like you need to hit the DR my brother... Try a combo of HgH, testosterone and vitamin C or V. (If its good enough for A-Rod there must be something to it). Combined with a little diet and exercise. I"ll be 60 in 2 months. Teaching can have its rewards (and frustrations).. But I'd rather have a girl trained to my specific needs than have them be ungrateful because I didn't appreciate how awesome they supposedly were. And one of my ATF's is an experienced MILF (and I had to train her). So I hear ya. But there is something about fresh teenage pussy. Legal teenage pussy that is.
[QUOTE=AliasSM;1941873]You've for that right. Since my almost fatal slip-up with the unexplained condom in the wash, everything is above the radar. I can still get out on the rare occasion, but she questions every minute that I am late, even legitimate work commitments.
Last weekend, I was up late using my smart phone to check out the latest posts on this forum and she accused me of being on line with my girlfriend. It was just a passing comment, but you could tell she was serious. She is definitely watching every move. I'm just lucky that she is not tech-savy enough to know how to track my cell phone location. I would definitely be toast.
By the way, for those of you that need to know your SO's location, the Find IPhone app is priceless. As long as she has her phone on, it will tell you exactly where she is while you are trying to discreetly entertain your SB. It is an added level of protection to avoid having the SO accidentally show up at the same location, especially if you occasionally take your SB out on the town for dining or drinks.[/QUOTE]One thing that I had forgotten about are the red light, and speed cameras (don't forget EZ-pass too). I returned home this past week to see an envelop from a jurisdiction that I often play in and seldom work on the counter. My heart raced as I opened it trying to figure out a cover story that would hold water. I opened the envelop to see a nice clear picture of the warden's car! She had taken one of her kids to a concert that evening!
I'm now very cognizant of my speed when heading to / from a rendezvous.
[QUOTE=BikeRider;1942673]One thing that I had forgotten about are the red light, and speed cameras (don't forget EZ-pass too). I returned home this past week to see an envelop from a jurisdiction that I often play in and seldom work on the counter. My heart raced as I opened it trying to figure out a cover story that would hold water. I opened the envelop to see a nice clear picture of the warden's car! She had taken one of her kids to a concert that evening!
I'm now very cognizant of my speed when heading to / from a rendezvous.[/QUOTE]Playing outside your normal area can be very dangerous. You can be doing everything correctly and safely, and still have a problem. You can get into an accident that is totally not your fault. As Bikerider has pointed out, a simple ticket can be difficult to explain. Why were you where you were at that particular time? This can all go very bad for all of us. You just need to think about what the worst that could happen is and have a plan to deal with it. When or if it happens, we are not going to be able to think fast on our feet. Always have a plan. Failing to plan is planning to fail.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1942597]Sounds like you need to hit the DR my brother... Try a combo of HgH, testosterone and vitamin C or V. (If its good enough for A-Rod there must be something to it). Combined with a little diet and exercise. I"ll be 60 in 2 months. Teaching can have its rewards (and frustrations).. But I'd rather have a girl trained to my specific needs than have them be ungrateful because I didn't appreciate how awesome they supposedly were. And one of my ATF's is an experienced MILF (and I had to train her). So I hear ya. But there is something about fresh teenage pussy. Legal teenage pussy that is.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the encouragement. I used to be very active, but when I turned 62 the desire went awol. Looking back, it's almost like a light went from bright to dim in a week or two. I've tried a few things myself, testosterone and B12 injections with little results. I'm in fair shape and exercise a little. Guess its time to call on a real doctor. That'll happen next month. In the meantime I have enough to keep me satisfied. Cheers.
Mes.
Well, it didn't take long. While I was with my buddies watching football this afternoon, she texted me to ask how much I would give her if we started an arrangement right away. So I told her 150 per visit. Minimum 2 hours per visit. She jumped right on it. You have to love this time of year. She's a waitress hurting for money and need to buy Christmas presents for family. Seeing her at noon tomorrow. Found a 41 y / o MILF in the same situation that I am meeting on Tuesday. Same donation. You have to love the holidays, LOL.
Well I guess flakes can be found every where including in the SD / SB world. I was supposed to meet a young SB today. We had a time and day set and she confirmed but never heard back from her. This was a super young SB so I am going to attribute this to age but I doubt she is the first or will be my last.
Sorry I haven't posted many updates but I've been making steady progress. Currently have 2 local SB's and haven't had a visitor yet.
#1. 1st SB that is a 22 HYB. 9-10 in the looks dept. Been seeing her weekly. Very fit, but kinda pricey at $400/ meet including hotel. She's one that I've been trying get less business-like. Don't think she's been a pro or UTR, just doesn't want any emotional attachment. Will definitely be losing her next spring as she's planning to move back to Cali. Will be trying to push the envelope more in the FC with this one until then or if I can find a replacement sooner.
#2. 22 HYB, Hungarian girl, more curvy than the first like a softball player, she's apparently trying to go pro as a kickboxer. Go figure. She's more accommodating, eager to please and friendlier than the first, and can host. I just wish she looked leaner like the first girl. She also is cheaper at 200/ meet. If only I could combine her with the first.
The local SB pool seems to have grown a bit and I've gotten a little more courage to fish in this bowl.
I have 1 long distance prospect that I want to bring over next month and we'll see how that goes.
My brothers,
I trust you all had an enjoyable Thanksgiving. In reading over the recent posts, especially from the first-years, I want to congratulate you all for getting out there and trying to make things happen.
Reading our little journal is certainly your best first step, but there is no substitute for experience in the field. Our collected wisdom will certainly help minimize your mistakes, but nothing can guarantee 100% success. Don't be afraid of failure; you will learn from that as much as from your successes.
Green. Good for you. It took you some months, I believe, but it seems like you have two steady babies at the moment, and unless you are BT, Revvo or Hollywood, that's probably all you should expect to handle!
Ltnric. I never pay for more than coffee / drinks / etc on an m&g. No sugar until I have seen the pussy is the way I approach things, but in the end you need to go with your gut. Each situation is different, and the successful SD is a fluid one. That said, be aware of the scammers at all times. In your present situation, I would point-blank ask if the next time you get together, would she be comfortable with you getting a room. If the answer is other than positive, move on.
Fyrguy. Same for you, in my opinion. I totally believe in letting things evolve at their own pace, but the goal should never be too far out of sight, namely the FC. There are ways to keep the sexual tension on without being gross about it. Again, trust your gut; there are no hard and fast rules, just pitfalls to watch out for. Otherwise, fluidity is the word of the day.
Good luck to all, and keep up the good work.
Scott.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1942213]Saw my "Princess" (pictured in her thanksgiving day dress) 8 times and spent 1.3 k.. It's been a steady 8 months of twice a week visits so I rewarded her with an early Christmas at the mall.
My roommate has been a little distracted so it was a quiet month. Only 4 hookups. I am having withdrawal symptoms. LOL. 8 benjis
ATF MILF. Saw her zero times but sent her $$.25 as a retainer.
Did 7 M&G's for $.8 which resulted in only one hookup.
Did one booty call for $.
Plus $$$ in sugar alimony.
So another 3 k for the month. Only 14 hookups. Sometimes you got to go along to get along. Hoping for a better December.[/QUOTE]Good job Hollywood. I calculate $214 / pop which is still less than I have negotiated with my ATF.
I am down to 4/ mo but with my ATF out of town I have a backup booty call at $100 with her own FC. There is no relationship and is truly a hump and run. The only difference between her and an escort is low volume (I think) She is very skitzy and is constantly worried about a sting. She is paranoid. I read this as either she has been busted before and is fearful of being set up or she is a true amateur and is worried about the unknown. I think she might be an UTR. However, she is young, cute, and tight. I think she is trainable if I get her to relax. What do you expect for $ ? And I need a quickie since my time is monitored.
I'm ashamed to even report such dismal stats but any lay is better than none.
[QUOTE=FyrGuy33;1942217]
My question here is, how long should I let this play out like this before I tell her she has to get to the next level? We have discussed that she wants to take it slow. She doesn't want to end up feeling like a working girl and wants to have a connection before she does that. But really, how much time should I invest in this? If it works out it could be off the wall good. I don't want to blow this as she is not the typical SA girl. But, I don't want to waste my time either.
Any advice will be greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]Look at the risk / rewards:
Risk: socializing in public increases exposure, spend more $$ , possibly never getting to the FC.
Reward: A true connection not predicated only on sex / money, less allowance if she likes you.
I have read the SA "rules" and been on their blog about this very topic. The girls are advised to "date" for x times before giving up the Quan so she might be holding onto some preconceived number. Tell her you are very attracted to her and that while you respect her desire to go slow you need some kind of indication from her what the plan is. If she is evasive and too open ended then give her a deadline. Normal adults don't "date" for months before burying the one eyed snake. Just saying.
Thanks Brother Scott.
Sorry about your parole. Hang in there!
I definitely don't think I can handle another local SB since it's hard enough finding the time for these 2 SB's. In fact, I'm trying to think of a way to cut #2 away gently so that I can possibly circle back to her when #1 moves away. Then again, there should be some fresh SB's when that time comes along.
Happy Holidays all!
[QUOTE=FScott;1943792]My brothers,
I trust you all had an enjoyable Thanksgiving. In reading over the recent posts, especially from the first-years, I want to congratulate you all for getting out there and trying to make things happen.
Reading our little journal is certainly your best first step, but there is no substitute for experience in the field. Our collected wisdom will certainly help minimize your mistakes, but nothing can guarantee 100% success. Don't be afraid of failure; you will learn from that as much as from your successes.
Green. Good for you. It took you some months, I believe, but it seems like you have two steady babies at the moment, and unless you are BT, Revvo or Hollywood, that's probably all you should expect to handle!
Good luck to all, and keep up the good work.
Scott.[/QUOTE]
Sorry for silence...been layin low. You guys brought me out...
At the end of 2012 I had a few dates with "big girls" which were somewhat lacking. Decided to focus on young and thin. Wound up with two M&G. At this time.
I would always do a M&G with no plans to go to FC until next date. With two young hard bodies who fit the bill.
SB9 was a 22 yo college gal who had dates an older guy before .32 yo (I am 55) but as usual, I discovered, had daddy issues which led her to older men. She was artsy, into dance and music, and drifting her way through college. Had a meet and greet and follow-up dinner where she liked the idea of an arrangement but wanted an "advance" of sorts. I was firm on sugar for sugar which led to first visit at FC. After round 2 in FC we discussed business and she was not into P2 P or cash, wanted presents. She is a outside event performer and really wants an expensive hula hoop (for dance performances. OK, it's custom order so should be able to get a few more dates before it arrives. Pull the trigger but as time goes by I think she hasn't paid up and she thinks she needs more. Ultimately a few more dates over 2 months ending with dinner and drinks and declaring after these she has her period on the way to FC. Didn't work for me. My take away was she really didn't need the money so stick with a true need to keep sugar cost proportional to sugar provided.
SB 10 listed herself as 23 on SD4 M, but I later found out was 19. Lot's of family drama as a later found out but met for M&G right before Christmas, the day after SB9, and could not believe my luck. Lived 60 miles away but on time, nice car, nice clothes, great bod and minimum wage job so in need. Took her to FC and tried to close the deal but she kept saying she had to go. Texted me later that night to drive to her town, get a room and entertain her but I smelled a rat and declined. Total silence for 2 months then meets for dinner and wow, I've got a porn star on my hands. Hours in the FC at a time. Initially she is driving to see me (I fill her tank..hehe) but she winds up getting a job locally on a night shift. So she gets off work at 3 am in the morning and let's herself in for a late night go, multiple nites at a time. CPO goes very low. Along the way of course I learn more about her life and all the deadbeats and mistakes along the way. Huge temptation to help as nothing a little cash infusion would not help in the short term but it's a slippery slope. Start thinking about moving on and my guess is her sixth sense picked it up. Finally in July she gives me a "I love you, you have led me on and why can't we be together". Refusing to fuck that evening (she is staying over) and provides a stellar performance in the am. Which she notes "that was one and half hours". Too late dear. Told her I couldn't do it any more and after initial drama had some minor text and email activity but she has moved on (I hope! Had me sweating as I have an apartment in the away town (the FC) which the warden only visits every other month but was there several times in the summer...didn't need any drama. I have had one close encounter and did not need more. I have a sixth sense she had an alternative life and others on the string but little proof...and it really doesn't matter.
This brings me up to mid 2013 with a few other side events. SB11 was a 35 yo hard body, very skinny, who had separated from her husband who was 20 years older so familiar with older guys. Kind of ditsy and several hangups but good for an overnite pounding so saw her a few times. $ per date plus gas.
SB12 was a 23 yo college gal, looked great from the waist up in pics but a little big below. At M&G too nervous to eat, said she had a daddy before who decided he was in love with her so got rid of him. Came to the apartment and after beating around the Bush "Want to fuck" You bet. A squirter too. But no personality and just didn't do it for me. $.25 per date. Only one date.
More to cum. Ha ha!
Unfortunately I am going to have to cash out and take an early retirement. Nothing has happened at home, but for a number of reasons, now is the time for me to transition back to family man and hubby.
I will still monitor the board and may even give advice. But I am burning my bowling shoes brethern.
BigTigg. Out!
[QUOTE=BigTigger;1944141]Unfortunately I am going to have to cash out and take an early retirement. Nothing has happened at home, but for a number of reasons, now is the time for me to transition back to family man and hubby.
I will still monitor the board and may even give advice. But I am burning my bowling shoes brethern.
BigTigg. Out![/QUOTE]Last thing I remember I was running for the door – I had to find the passage back to the place I was before. "Relax," said the night man, "We are programmed to receive." "You can checkout any time you like, but you can never leave." Hotel California.
I've noticed that SA is much better than SD4 Me in my area. Last week I had three M&G and one trip to the FC.
I didn't see my normal Staxx because I wanted to see what else was our there.
New SB. Bashful. Early last week I reached out to a 22 year old AA and we began texting, she sent lots of naked pics and got me excited to see her. We negotiated $1.3 per visit with gas and lunch covered. I texted her this morning to set up a M&G and she said that she was horny and wanted to get this started. She needed the cash and figured why not get this started. I went on Hotwire and got a great 3.5 star for $75. This is where things got iffy. She said that she had tire problems and needed to have AAA come and change it. We were supposed to meet at 2:30 and this happened at 2. She said that she would make it and I believed her. Around 3:45 I was texting to see where she was and she didn't respond so I texted this 21 yr old African spinner she to see if she could come through and she said she could but I still wanted Bashful, so she responded and said that she was on her way so I pushed the African to Thursday.
At 4:30 I went to the hotel and she arrived at 5. She was in yoga pants my favorite and sweater showing her mid section. We had a bit of small talk and I undressed her and we got to business. She opened with a great BJ and let me have my way with her. I hit every position I can think of and she was silent the entire time. I mean she said absolutely noting the whole time. It was cool but after a while I needed verbal confirmation that she at least enjoyed herself. It just didn't happen. After about 90 min we got in the shower and washed off. I walked her to her car bc I had to pay for her parking and it reeked of weed. I thought I was going to smell like it too. She agreed to another meet but I'm renegotiating next visit.
Damage:
Sugar $130.
Room $77.
Parking $11.
I spent too much, I need to bring these costs down.
[QUOTE=BigTigger;1944141]Unfortunately I am going to have to cash out and take an early retirement. Nothing has happened at home, but for a number of reasons, now is the time for me to transition back to family man and hubby.
I will still monitor the board and may even give advice. But I am burning my bowling shoes brethern.
BigTigg. Out![/QUOTE]BigTigg, thanks for your posts and insight. Reading your escapades convinced me to step in the bowl. Were in the same area so PM me if you like to grab a beer sometime.
Take care of yourself.
Showtime.
Thanks for your many contributions. I've had to live vicariously through you guys experiences as I haven't had much luck yet in the bowl.
[QUOTE=FredMoore;1943842]G
I'm ashamed to even report such dismal stats but any lay is better than none.[/QUOTE]I have to agree.. As long as they're not butt fugly.