Then you my friend need to take some lessons
Hit me up if you want to learn. If you knew some of the amazing times I have had, you wouldn't be thinking the way you think. How about seeing a girl and actually getting paid to see her? How about all nighters for free to 200 with attractive woman? BBFS, Greek, all of that. You don't believe me. I have proof. Or just ask around.
How about this. You tell me who you want to hit up. I will contact them and work out a great deal for you. Give me a 50% commission on the money I save you. (I. E. She quotes you 500. I get you 300 deal. You owe me 100 commission). Hahahahaha I think that's an amazing deal all around. I love to game, you get the girl, I make money off of you, and you save money. Win-win!
[QUOTE=Jinurso;4598192]I'm firmly in the "don't negotiate for sport" territory and only bother haggling with there is a lot of money at stake (like real estate deals or expensive cars). The best money I've ever spent was $700 for an hour with one of the hottest women I've ever seen. However, $500 for just an hour of sex with a girl who looks somewhat plain and doughy is pretty high. $500 for a whole night is really good, $500 for dinner and sex with no clock is also reasonable for that girl.[/QUOTE]
Paying whatever without care
[QUOTE=Jinurso;4598192]I'm firmly in the "don't negotiate for sport" territory and only bother haggling with there is a lot of money at stake (like real estate deals or expensive cars). The best money I've ever spent was $700 for an hour with one of the hottest women I've ever seen. However, $500 for just an hour of sex with a girl who looks somewhat plain and doughy is pretty high. $500 for a whole night is really good, $500 for dinner and sex with no clock is also reasonable for that girl.[/QUOTE]And this is why Chicago land is ridiculous lately. Other forums cover which parts of the world are best for sugar babies, and I believe gold coast is right up there for tops. You can do what you want, but for $700 bucks they better be in the porn industry and I better get an 8 x 10 autograph afterwards.
This reminds me of the guy who paid this super hot Polish girl I was talking to, 250 bucks to talk on the phone. Dunno guys, I think we should do our best to not create silliness like that. I for one can talk on the phone to someone for free.
I do it for various reasons
I do have my reasons. It's quite simple really:
First, I probably don't have your financial resources. I could probably see a different girl every day of the week if I had some people's resources and I would be spending close to 50 K-100 K or more mongering a year. If you have those resources, then more power to you.
Second, I do enjoy the game. Have you ever been to a foreign country where they don't put price tags on items to purchase?
You go up and ask how much and they give you a price. You go back 2 days later and ask and they give you a different price.
I enjoy the pursuit of finding what their bottom line is. So what? Take this and apply it to any other hobby you might have.
It's a challenge for me. It makes mongering much more fun. Call it the chase and catch. I don't mind rejection. I have been rejected many times by girls who say I am offering way too little. Then I tuck their numbers away and hit them up in 4-6 months. And sometimes they remain high expectations, so I tuck their numbers away and try again if I feel in the mood. Or I toss their number away if I think it will never work. But I have had several instances where they do go down in expectations. And I have had a few who said they gave up on sugar dating. They have told me that they are back to real dating and we ended up seeing each other a few times before I got bored. Some people turn to gambling for fun. Some people turn to recreational or other pharma for their fun. Some people drink for their fun. This is my fun!
Finally, what you don't understand is that most of these women use men. So why not use them back? If you believe they truly care about you, they don't. If you believe they truly like you, they don't. If you truly think it's more than just the money, it isn't. They just want your money. So why gve then the extra? Go give it to someone who truly needs it. Donate to the poor. Go give to the Salvation Army or Red Cross. There are much needier women. Some of these women make more money in a year than many of the mongers on this site. And you want to keep helping them? If I met a girl that I felt truly had a good heart and was doing this because she absolutely needed help and deserved it, I would give her more. But with as many women as I have encountered, that is very few and far between. Those of you who know me or have talked to me before know that women tend to open up to me and you would be amazed at what some of them have told me about you mongers. These are the same girls who would do you for 500 and do the next guy for free just because they felt like it. I know, they have told me. I know, I have been that other guy that they did for free after they saw you earlier in the week (and I say "you" in the general sense for whoever is reading this and it's not directed specifically to Jinurso).
So go play with your girls and give them 500-1000 for a date. Enjoy yourself, it's your money and if you earned it, then you deserve it. I just have other motivations and goals. To each his own!
[QUOTE=Jinurso;4598461]LOL free GFE is as simple as going to the club or having a good day on Tinder.
Saving (or making);$100 or $200 or even $300 on a girl makes no difference to me whatsoever. Over the course of 10 or 20 girls, it still makes no difference to me. I give them what they ask for (sometimes more) and go about my business with them.
Maybe you like negotiating for sport or to "win" something or to get over on someone, or to not be seen as a "sucker" in your mind. Or maybe it's just a financial thing for you and saving $100 is a big deal. None of those apply to me.[/QUOTE]
I cleared some space in inbox
You should be able to send me messages again.
[QUOTE=Eternalchaoz;4598771]I tried to reply to you, but your inbox is full![/QUOTE]
Somekthing change with seeking?
I have been away from the boards for the past week or so, but notice as of this morning all of the links posted in this thread now redirect to the Seeking login page, where I used to be able to view profiles without being a member.
TP.