Glad you paid attention to the lighthouse
[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1523419]Because I wanted the pussy SO BAD! I just went through an exercise where I tried to get an SB with GPS to come down to reasonable levels. Even going as far as trying to rationalize, both to myself and my fellow brothers, paying the inflated price she was asking.[/QUOTE]As long as you saw the light and heard the horn before you hit those rocks, it's a learning experience, and no shame to you.
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Looking Forward to Your Posts
It will be good to have you back in full swing Mandy. The board is just not the same without you. Hope the Fall Semester is a good one for you and that it gives you the time to entertain your SDs and your faithful blog and USASG followers.
I know better than to try to keep your helpful guidance to myself through PMs instead of posts. You have much too much sage advice to even try to keep it to myself. Plus the rest of the board would excommunicate me from the tribe and vote me off the island. Plus, this brotherhood desperately needs your guidance at times! You can see from catching up on your posts how out-of-hand we can get and someone needs to reel us all into reality sometimes.
But wait. In reading back through some of your posts and blogs, I realize that you may be the one that needs to be reeled in.
Anyway, greetings and welcome back to the tribe.
Alias.
[QUOTE=SbabyBlog; 1526629]I know I've been quiet a lot this summer. But hey, between two SD's, a husband and an internship I've been a little busy. I just wanted to chime in and say your posts always make me smile and laugh. I'm anxiously awaiting the Fall quarter and the return of a "normal" schedule so I can carve out a little time to write on my blog and here.
And Alias. I'll make sure to PM you my thoughts from now on.
All the best!
Mandy[/QUOTE]
Variety, or the lack thereof
[QUOTE=F Scott;1527420]Sub, I try to be like you, but part of me longs for the comfort of the same dock, the same port, time after time.[/QUOTE]I read some of the stories on here about maintaining multiple SBs, and I am frankly astounded. I am going on three years with my single SB, with a very occasional foray into a massage parlor or strip club for the little variety I need. Finding, courting and maintaining multiples sounds like it might be a little more stressful than I want this to be. LOL. We get together for a few hours about every other week, sometimes a little longer, sometimes less, sometimes a little more often, sometimes a little less.
I'll freely admit that there's a *little* more than sugar and pussy between us after all this time, and sometimes our relationship seems a little surreal. I've met her parents, her kids and her boyfriend. I'm absolutely certain her mother knows what's going on, and her boyfriend has to suspect, but doesn't seem to object as long as nobody rubs his face in it. Knowing her (and I've known her longer than *he* has) , she's told him not to worry about it in reasonably forthright terms. She hasn't come right out and said so, but she's mentioned to me that he'd better not tell her what to do with *her* pussy. LOL.
She's half my age, and very participatory in the sack. She has her limits, but within those, she's enthusiastic and shameless. She's not afraid to ask for what she wants, and not afraid to try something she hasn't before just to try it. She's bi, and we've brought a couple of her friends into our bed on a few occasions, something her boyfriend has adamantly refused to do with her. I don't get that, but she doesn't seem to mind, as long as, like with me, he doesn't worry about it.
She also says that he and I are just about exact opposites. He's a powerhouse, and a multiple repeat performer, but not very imaginative, whereas I am slower and all about a variety of activities and sensations, but mostly a one and done kind of guy. She says I fuck more like a girl than a guy, which I find highly amusing, since in my opinion, she approaches sex more like a guy than a girl.
Anyway, I've enjoyed reading others' stories here, and I hope mine has provided some of the same entertainment I've gotten, even if it is somewhat mundane in comparison to those others.
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Everyone Has Their Own "Ideal" Arrangement
Zomby,
Not mundane at all. Many of us, I for one, would like to have that kind of connection with a single SB. Just haven't found the right one yet. And the offer of bringing in a bi lover? WTF? Mundane indeed!
I am currently working with one LT arrangement, and two newbees, but would love to have the same type of connection that you describe.
For purposes of keeping the board informed on recent activities:
I currently have what I would consider 5 current SB acquantaces, and 4 of the 5 have been to the FC at least once. My longest term SB is a young nurse around 26. Never been married, just looking for fun and extra income of course. She is fun to be around but not as hot as I would like in bed. Our meeting frequencies have fallen off to probably only around once a month, mostly my fault due to personal, business, and other SB activities vying for my time.
SB #2 is a local college student in her senior year. She is very pretty, always eager to meet, and pleasant to be with. When I pick her up though, there is not even a thought of going out for drinks or dinner. It is strictly physical and straight to the FC. She started out a little slow in the sex dept. But has improved her enthusiasm recently and her ratings have gone up in my opinion considerably. I'll keep her around, but we will never have a close personal connection.
SB #3 is an older SB (early 40s) , down on her luck and in need of a steady SB. We have met only twice. Gave me oral in the car on our first M&G, and we got a room in the second date for everything. She is another one that I don't see resulting in anything LT. Just some temporary variety on occasion. She does have better techniques than the younger ones, but personality is lacking for a LT arrangement.
SB# 4 is a new mother, unmarried, and looking for financial help as well as a good sex partner. We have connected well over numerous emails, and met in person for the first time last week. I have fallen a bit for her and the 1st time in the FC was really good. She has LT potential and I can tell that she is in the game for more than just the cash. Our schedules are tough to match up right now, but I plan to keep her around for as long as the excitement continues. She is smart, sexy, and a nice diversion throughout my day as we txt back and forth pretty regularly.
SB #5 is still an SB pot in that we have yet to make it to the FC. I have been emailing her for a long time trying to establish a comfort level for her. She is young, only 20, a local college student, and has already agreed to a future date in the FC, but so far we have only been through a M&G and it was a little awkward. I broke my sugar rule with her and spent some money on a gift on our first M&G. We have a FC date set for next week and I am excited about that. I have also advanced her enough funds to cover her cell phone bill to keep it from being shut down this week. I know. I know, not the best way to start an arrangement, but all of that recent discussion about playing in the futures market went to my head. Well see if I have just poured almost $$ down the drain, or if the futures market risk will eventually pay dividends.
I really enjoy reading this forum, and have learned a lot from all of you guys (and Mandy of course). Keep up the good posts. Some weeks it's my primary source of entertainment.
Alias.
[QUOTE=Zomby; 1527544]I read some of the stories on here about maintaining multiple SBs, and I am frankly astounded. I am going on three years with my single SB, with a very occasional foray into a massage parlor or strip club for the little variety I need. Finding, courting and maintaining multiples sounds like it might be a little more stressful than I want this to be. LOL. We get together for a few hours about every other week, sometimes a little longer, sometimes less, sometimes a little more often, sometimes a little less.
I'll freely admit that there's a *little* more than sugar and pussy between us after all this time, and sometimes our relationship seems a little surreal. I've met her parents, her kids and her boyfriend. I'm absolutely certain her mother knows what's going on, and her boyfriend has to suspect, but doesn't seem to object as long as nobody rubs his face in it. Knowing her (and I've known her longer than *he* has) , she's told him not to worry about it in reasonably forthright terms. She hasn't come right out and said so, but she's mentioned to me that he'd better not tell her what to do with *her* pussy. LOL.
She's half my age, and very participatory in the sack. She has her limits, but within those, she's enthusiastic and shameless. She's not afraid to ask for what she wants, and not afraid to try something she hasn't before just to try it. She's bi, and we've brought a couple of her friends into our bed on a few occasions, something her boyfriend has adamantly refused to do with her. I don't get that, but she doesn't seem to mind, as long as, like with me, he doesn't worry about it.
She also says that he and I are just about exact opposites. He's a powerhouse, and a multiple repeat performer, but not very imaginative, whereas I am slower and all about a variety of activities and sensations, but mostly a one and done kind of guy. She says I fuck more like a girl than a guy, which I find highly amusing, since in my opinion, she approaches sex more like a guy than a girl.
Anyway, I've enjoyed reading others' stories here, and I hope mine has provided some of the same entertainment I've gotten, even if it is somewhat mundane in comparison to those others.
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Does she have a twin sister for me?
Now I have to admit that I'm jealous of your relationship. That is exactly what I have been looking for over the last 8 months or so. Seems like everyone I have tried (and there have been a few) either have a severe case of GPS, want more time than I can give, or don't perform any better than my wife in bed. I know they are out there, and you are proof of that. I don't want a deep emotional attachment. I just want to connect at just the right level to feel some affection and get great sex. Is that too much to ask?
[QUOTE=Zomby; 1528495]I have to admit that a comfort factor has developed that I hadn't counted on when we started. I just wanted some regular pussy, and she just wanted a moderately steady income to supplement her job without working herself to death. It's developed, as in hindsight we both should have seen as inevitable, into something more than that. Don't get me wrong, it's not love, but it's definitely affection, and there's still no question with either of us that sugar must flow both ways.
We both seem to getting just what we need, without wanting more. I believe that's possible because the other sides of our lives are as stable and, well, good, as they are. She has a boyfriend who adores her and her kids (and to be fair, she seems to feel the same about him) , and I have a loving wife who, for a variety of reasons, not all of which, I confess, I understand, chooses to be happy with me. We both get love *and* sexual variety, even if they aren't always at the same time from the same people.
OK, I'll admit that sounded a bit more jaded than I intended when I wrote it. *She* treats her lesbian side as completely normal, which, of course, it is for her, and so I've come to accept it that way myself, rather than as extraordinary.
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