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I've spent a fair amount of $$ +on a stripper this past year, saw her twice the last week. Wednesday and Sunday. I'm a guy that likes a little fur, she shaved it off. Might make the break a bit easier. On a side note wife asked me about a credit card purchase. Told her the truth it was a porn site. See if she asks to see it. I'll probably never be a senior member but this site is a resource for both sides of the spectrum and I appreciate that. I love pussy!
Hey Midwt2006 What you said seems pretty regular and normal to me. I do occasional street hunting, Porn everyday, Masterbate everyday, I have atleast two minimum BP Apointments in a week 60-120 Each visit I will desperately go to to my next BP appointment in the same day if I wasn't satisfied most of the girls I see on BP have a ton of rules, and I'm a guy that hates them all, I love the street walkers the most AND less like for the strippers, and Escorts on BP tons and tons of rules. Some UTR's I visit I will make them Eat my A-hole and I will do Incredibly nasty fun things to them! I'm an old creeper that will hunt from 1-140 miles around my radius surroundings because I just simply can't Stop and the addiction I have since I was 29 and that was quite a lot of years ago. I love woman of all types of shapes, colors, race, and style. I love young and old I just can't quit this bad habit.
Wow Pison00 you're right, I do seem normal compared to you. Don't think I'll ever get to where you are. I have way to much to lose. But I am glad I've started to realize the potential risks and how easy it is to get swept up in this stuff. Be safe.
Made it only 6 days this cycle. Was driving when I saw a sign for a spa. Never been to this one so I pulled in. Out comes a 30 ish hottie with a smoking body wearing a tight L*B*D and some heels. How much? 45 or 65. Asked her if she was fun and right there in the lobby she leaned over and flashed me her top along with a smile.
Into the room where I was waiting naked when she came back. She brushed against me so I smacked her ass and she giggled. Told her to turn out the light and come back over here. Off came her dress, bra, and panties, just like that. No negotiating, no talking, no nothing. Within a minute she was on the table, on her back, with her legs spread wide open.
She didn't disappoint and neither did I.
I'm sitting here trying to figure out what happened that made me go off the wagon. When I saw the spa sign it was automatic. Instantaneously I pulled in and got out of my car. I've had that happen before and was able to turn around and leave. But not this time. The spa sign was like a huge electro magnet and once I got in it's range I didn't stand a chance.
I left happy. And sad. And mad. And disappointed. In myself. But I'll get over it.
I love this hobby. I hate this hobby.
Today is day 1 for me, and it comes after seeing a regular. Some background: I'm married, one step-daughter, and have been doing this for 8 years. I've probably fucked somewhere in the neighborhood of 300-400 women in that time. I just want to stop feeling guilty. Today, I was insanely horny. Yeah, I could've jerked off in the bathroom here at work, but my dick was screaming to nut inside some pussy. Driving to my regular, I was already feeling the guilt, but I pressed on. I'm glad, however, that this section of the forum exists. I need a supportive community of people who can relate and are generally non-judgmental. This is the start of my journey. I have a pretty good marriage to preserve, but I have to take Dr. Jekyll to the wood shed. Wish me luck, guys. I want the mythical "one month" chip.
DJ. Although I am certain luck has nothing to with it I wish you all us mongers can grant. I have a very similar life status but more like 12 years and the afforded increase of comenserate number of women! I personally have had no luck in dealing with Mr. Hyde at the woodshed Please keep us posted on your journey. !
[QUOTE=DjHunter;3083269]Today is day 1 for me, and it comes after seeing a regular. Some background: I'm married, one step-daughter, and have been doing this for 8 years. I've probably fucked somewhere in the neighborhood of 300-400 women in that time. I just want to stop feeling guilty. Today, I was insanely horny. Yeah, I could've jerked off in the bathroom here at work, but my dick was screaming to nut inside some pussy. Driving to my regular, I was already feeling the guilt, but I pressed on. I'm glad, however, that this section of the forum exists. I need a supportive community of people who can relate and are generally non-judgmental. This is the start of my journey. I have a pretty good marriage to preserve, but I have to take Dr. Jekyll to the wood shed. Wish me luck, guys. I want the mythical "one month" chip.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3109206]JL. Your posts are thoughtful and thorough, and you tend to take a worldview similar to mine about the bowl. It is far preferable to me than escorts because of its hints of reality along with the fantasy, and far higher quality. I don't have to read escort reviews of BP girls on this site for long to know that 's not for me. As a married SD, I am also very wary of STDs, etc. So, I have benefited from your thinking and adopted a lot of it simply because it resonates. I also try to minimize the falsehoods I have to foist on the SO, b / c there are strong aspects of our relationship and I'm not looking to make any changes. There would also be serious $ penalties if we parted, with or w / o knowledge of my sugaring, so that's extra incentive. I'd think there are a few of us in the bowl who are in similar situations. So continuing to lay out your perspective is valuable.[/QUOTE]I think you're right that there is commonality among the reasons each of us partake in the bowl. Usually, it seems, there are two broad categories of guys here: those that are single and using the bowl as an extension of dating, or those that have an SO but are missing something at home. I'm content with my SO and not missing anything. All relationships have disagreements and such, but overall I can't complain about her. My weakness is when either I travel or she travels -- the idea of burying my nose in a book to occupy the time always seems to lose out to the idea of burying my cock in some hot young girl. Problem is, in order to do so requires some amount of preparation work (especially if you weed out the girls that insist on talking money up front, because it narrows your list of choices somewhat). Then I find myself bothered by the amount of time and effort it takes to catalog POTS, keep notes on who is who, and do the mental sorting and juggling dance of who is who in each city.
The dating and sex of course is fun, and even reminiscing about it brings back fond memories, but I have not convinced myself it's worth it overall. Honestly if someone said I could take a pill right now that would subdue my craving for strange pussy and stick to my SO I'd go for it in a heartbeat. Until then I just kind of hang on until hopefully one day neither she nor I travels, or maybe even with all my planning I end up getting some sort of wake up call that inspires me to stop doing this.
It might sound like BS but I really do want to stop.
When I first learned of these boards I was beginning my final pshych. Paper for college. The reason I chose this topic. I never thought to much about the hobbie itself. Often though maybe it could be legalized. Until MY best girlfriend of 20 years. Her family was destroyed. A great family that had it all with very good looking middle aged parents who had some extra $ and really took care of themselves. They got along great. The Mom (my second mom) is Beautiful and often is asked by strangers if she is the mom or the daughter. Well all it took was one broken condom to reveal what had been going on. He brought something home and she got sick.
The father is responsible for all the pain he has caused and he is more depressed with the mess he caused than the wife is about the divorse. I worry about him taking his life. Imagine daddys little girl who grows up into a georgous young women and now she hates you?
This began as a bachelor party OOOps, when he had something to drink and some buddies encouraging it. Then became an addiction that he hatred. He could not get out. I said each time he was never going to do this again and in 2-3 days he was on shopping again. He knew he was in addiction and he knew he was going to mess everything up, but could not stop. Its the addiction to chemicals released from the excitment and mostly from the risk! This is why guys get more risky over time. Please guys, be careful, wean down and reduce your habbit slowly if you want to get out.
Thats how many days I made it this cycle from the last time. Thats the longest I've gone without a visit to a whorehouse, or an AMP, or an EMP, or a strip club, or anywhere there are females willing to accept money for sex. And that also includes only one visit to a porn site which BTW didn't result in a happy ending. I've been doing this since the late 80's so I'm pretty proud of myself.
I got to thinking this was achievable. That I could give this behavior up.
And then my birthday came. And I thought since nobody was baking me a cake or throwing me a party, and I didn't even hear from my daughter, that I should reward myself / have my own party.
So I splurged and went to my new goto. By the time I got there I was so excited that even the Great Wall of China couldn't have stopped me from going in. And in I went. My new atf greeted me and soon we were both naked and doing things that gave me great pleasure.
An hour later I'm on the way home and feeling guilty for going. But also proud. For staying away for 23 days!!
It's giving me hope that I may be able to do this. Just not this time.
[QUOTE=JZLizard;3109284]I think you're right that there is commonality among the reasons each of us partake in the bowl. Usually, it seems, there are two broad categories of guys here: those that are single and using the bowl as an extension of dating, or those that have an SO but are missing something at home. I'm content with my SO and not missing anything. All relationships have disagreements and such, but overall I can't complain about her. My weakness is when either I travel or she travels -- the idea of burying my nose in a book to occupy the time always seems to lose out to the idea of burying my cock in some hot young girl. Problem is, in order to do so requires some amount of preparation work (especially if you weed out the girls that insist on talking money up front, because it narrows your list of choices somewhat). Then I find myself bothered by the amount of time and effort it takes to catalog POTS, keep notes on who is who, and do the mental sorting and juggling dance of who is who in each city.
The dating and sex of course is fun, and even reminiscing about it brings back fond memories, but I have not convinced myself it's worth it overall. Honestly if someone said I could take a pill right now that would subdue my craving for strange pussy and stick to my SO I'd go for it in a heartbeat. Until then I just kind of hang on until hopefully one day neither she nor I travels, or maybe even with all my planning I end up getting some sort of wake up call that inspires me to stop doing this.
It might sound like BS but I really do want to stop.[/QUOTE]I think deep down I want to stop also, and often question if it's worth it? With a SO, I also consider just going back to seeing the occasional pro. Which for me is a lot easier and less risky. But I guess that's just not the way we are wired as men. At least the type of men here, which I like for the most part. And I think most on this site are good decent guys who deep down really like woman and the sexual joy they can provide. My home life is sexless now but I am not sure that matters, because when I was younger (60 now) - my wife and I had a great time, she was super hot and all was good. But every time I was out of town, which was often, all I could think about was strange pussy and how to get it. And it has just carried on my entire life, I have never changed and probably never will, but yes I would probably take that pill also!
My guess is JZ that you are a very successful person and it's just the way you roll. But given your make up and as you say when you travel or your SO is away. Your not reading a book your on the prowl. I am convinced that driven successful men are that way and they don't want to sit on the pouch and pet the dog, and I love my dogs. My SO is leaving in a couple weeks and I am working hard in the SB to set up meets. I guess the real difference today is the access we have to woman. Both pros and the SA type sites. And lets face it, previous civilizations did not have the ability to find young hot woman who want to fuck them. This is truly remarkable when you think about it. I guess my point is, how many men given this candy, could seriously say they would never think about doing it or actually doing it. Have been on SA for a little over a month. I can tell you what you already know, it's extremely ADDICTIVE. Especially for a man with my weaknesses. .
[QUOTE=Reman3289;3129359]I think deep down I want to stop also, and often question if it's worth it? With a SO, I also consider just going back to seeing the occasional pro. Which for me is a lot easier and less risky. But I guess that's just not the way we are wired as men. At least the type of men here, which I like for the most part. And I think most on this site are good decent guys who deep down really like woman and the sexual joy they can provide. My home life is sexless now but I am not sure that matters, because when I was younger (60 now) - my wife and I had a great time, she was super hot and all was good. But every time I was out of town, which was often, all I could think about was strange pussy and how to get it. And it has just carried on my entire life, I have never changed and probably never will, but yes I would probably take that pill also!
My guess is JZ that you are a very successful person and it's just the way you roll. But given your make up and as you say when you travel or your SO is away. Your not reading a book your on the prowl. I am convinced that driven successful men are that way and they don't want to sit on the pouch and pet the dog, and I love my dogs. My SO is leaving in a couple weeks and I am working hard in the SB to set up meets. I guess the real difference today is the access we have to woman. Both pros and the SA type sites. And lets face it, previous civilizations did not have the ability to find young hot woman who want to fuck them. This is truly remarkable when you think about it. I guess my point is, how many men given this candy, could seriously say they would never think about doing it or actually doing it. Have been on SA for a little over a month. I can tell you what you already know, it's extremely ADDICTIVE. Especially for a man with my weaknesses. .[/QUOTE]It is certainly addictive. Although, it's a stop and go addiction for me. If I travel or the SO travels, I find myself bored and with a tendency toward mischief. The rest of the time, to be absolutely honest, I don't look forward to my next travel excursion, my SO's next trip, or my next SB meeting. In fact, every time I start my website accounts back up, I have to motivate myself to do so, because the process of searching for girls and filtering it down to the ones I want is a lot of work and a task I don't really look forward to.
This is one reason I have been seriously considering giving up SBs altogether, and maybe just sticking to the occasional hunt for strippers. I love the spontaneity of randomly going in a strip club and trying to line up some fun -- if it happens it happens but if not, then I just tell myself well I really shouldn't have been trying to do that anyway. The processing of hunting for, sorting, and arranging dates with SBs wears on my conscience a bit more and for that reason I am increasingly telling myself I should just try to stop. I sometimes wish the bar scene was like it was before the Internet, where easy women hung out in bars and clubs regularly instead of meeting people on computers and smartphones. Then, if you wanted to roll the dice you could just wander into one of these places and try to hook up a one night stand, the thrill of the hunt was the fun part. The bar scene has changed a lot now, online dating has reshaped how and why people go to these places as well as reshaping the places themselves. They aren't as good for spontaneous hookups as they used to be, while strip clubs still are what they are.
I actually seem to be getting closer to my SO the longer I'm with her. A good relationship takes a lot of time to build, only minutes to destroy, and a lot of people go through their entire lives without even having the chance at one. So why am I undermining one of the things in my life that's most important to me? I'm very happy with her so increasingly this hobby makes less sense for me.
I don't know. I have an increasing level of thoughts along these lines, I just hadn't really thought about airing them here at any level of detail, because I think it's not where most SDs are with this. A guy who is unsatisfied with his wife, for sexual reasons or any other, is in a very different place with all this than I am.
I've always thought one of the keys to effectively managing addictions (controlling them instead of them controlling you) is to not try to impose difficult rules upon yourself. For example, if someone wants to stay physically fit, then stay disciplined most of the time, but don't make hard rules like "I can never, ever eat sweets of any kind". By giving yourself an occasional well-managed reward, you relieve a certain amount of pressure and thus make it easier to maintain your discipline on the larger goal.
So I'm not 100% sure that formerly making a commitment to myself to stop is necessarily the right thing to do. If I thought it was, I probably would have already done it. It's something I'm still thinking about (a lot lately actually).
[QUOTE=Reman3289;3129359]I think deep down I want to stop also, and often question if it's worth it? With a SO, I also consider just going back to seeing the occasional pro. Which for me is a lot easier and less risky. But I guess that's just not the way we are wired as men. At least the type of men here, which I like for the most part. And I think most on this site are good decent guys who deep down really like woman and the sexual joy they can provide. My home life is sexless now but I am not sure that matters, because when I was younger (60 now) - my wife and I had a great time, she was super hot and all was good. But every time I was out of town, which was often, all I could think about was strange pussy and how to get it. And it has just carried on my entire life, I have never changed and probably never will, but yes I would probably take that pill also!
My guess is JZ that you are a very successful person and it's just the way you roll. But given your make up and as you say when you travel or your SO is away. Your not reading a book your on the prowl. I am convinced that driven successful men are that way and they don't want to sit on the pouch and pet the dog, and I love my dogs. My SO is leaving in a couple weeks and I am working hard in the SB to set up meets. I guess the real difference today is the access we have to woman. Both pros and the SA type sites. And lets face it, previous civilizations did not have the ability to find young hot woman who want to fuck them. This is truly remarkable when you think about it. I guess my point is, how many men given this candy, could seriously say they would never think about doing it or actually doing it. Have been on SA for a little over a month. I can tell you what you already know, it's extremely ADDICTIVE. Especially for a man with my weaknesses. .[/QUOTE]Yeah, there are two ideas afoot here. Is SA addictive, or is the bowl? I've only done the latter for a few months, so I can't say. I do think SA is addictive. It just offers so much potential, I suppose b / c I am not seeing myself the way the SBs are. There are any number of ways they can shoot me down, actually. The only good thing is there are 5 of them for 1 of me, supposedly. I can see sugaring becoming addictive. I've posted earlier that if you have the $ and can get the wood, why wouldn't you be doing this? Truly, it's hard for me to believe that I've had the babies I have. I would *never* have gotten access to women like that if it weren't for SA. Reading old-timers posts, I guess the day will come that something else takes the place of SA, but that will presumably be b / c it's better. Guys used to score a lot of non-pro pussy on CL, but that is way old news.
[QUOTE=Reman3289;3129359]I think deep down I want to stop also, and often question if it's worth it? With a SO, I also consider just going back to seeing the occasional pro. Which for me is a lot easier and less risky. But I guess that's just not the way we are wired as men. At least the type of men here, which I like for the most part. And I think most on this site are good decent guys who deep down really like woman and the sexual joy they can provide. My home life is sexless now but I am not sure that matters, because when I was younger (60 now) - my wife and I had a great time, she was super hot and all was good. But every time I was out of town, which was often, all I could think about was strange pussy and how to get it. And it has just carried on my entire life, I have never changed and probably never will, but yes I would probably take that pill also!
My guess is JZ that you are a very successful person and it's just the way you roll. But given your make up and as you say when you travel or your SO is away. Your not reading a book your on the prowl. I am convinced that driven successful men are that way and they don't want to sit on the pouch and pet the dog, and I love my dogs. My SO is leaving in a couple weeks and I am working hard in the SB to set up meets. I guess the real difference today is the access we have to woman. Both pros and the SA type sites. And lets face it, previous civilizations did not have the ability to find young hot woman who want to fuck them. This is truly remarkable when you think about it. I guess my point is, how many men given this candy, could seriously say they would never think about doing it or actually doing it. Have been on SA for a little over a month. I can tell you what you already know, it's extremely ADDICTIVE. Especially for a man with my weaknesses. .[/QUOTE]There are two questions afoot. Is the bowl addictive, or SA? I haven't been in long enough to know about the former, but I've said that as long as you have $ and the wood, why wouldn't you be doing it? I can't believe the pussy I've had in the short time I've been on, and I would *never* have had access to it otherwise. I am certain SA is addictive. Posted recently on that also. There is just so much potential, even though I can't envision all the ways a SB could shoot me down. There are 5 of them for every 1 of us, supposedly. It is a lot of effort not to get busted, and it takes away from employment, but luckily I have the time right now. If I got busy professionally, I'd really be grateful for one steady baby. I think I've found that girl and my bowl buddies are recommending I stick w / her. I agree, but I still can't stay off SA, and just tried to go back to a paid membership, b / c I see so many attractive SBs. Just a few days ago I had a bunch I was emailing with and I thought I was rolling in pussy. But different ones fall by the wayside for different reasons, and now I want more in my pipeline, and they're already identified on SA. I just need to msg them.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3130141]Yeah, there are two ideas afoot here. Is SA addictive, or is the bowl? I've only done the latter for a few months, so I can't say. I do think SA is addictive. It just offers so much potential, I suppose b / c I am not seeing myself the way the SBs are. There are any number of ways they can shoot me down, actually. The only good thing is there are 5 of them for 1 of me, supposedly. I can see sugaring becoming addictive..[/QUOTE]I can only speak for myself here, but for me it is the variety of pussy that's addictive, not actually using any particular website. Using SA for me is much like I used to use Match for dating, it's just a repetitive task that helps me get what I really want. I can see the use of the website actually becoming addictive for some, people do develop addictions around particular services (Facebook for example), where using that service and spending time on the Internet becomes either the habit itself or a big part of their habit.
To paint an analogy, if you watch some documentaries about the life of a drug addict, they often mention stealing to support their habit. But breaking into homes or shoplifting chills them to the bone, they dread the act of actually doing it, and fear that they will be either be shot or caught and placed in prison where they won't have access to their drug of choice. That's very different than a mental disorder or addiction to stealing itself (kleptomania or whatever), where the act of getting away with the theft is in itself the end game. I'm more like the drug addict case when it comes to SD sites.... I dread actually using the site searching for girls. Maybe I'm just burned out on that from years of online dating or whatever, but it is something I have to do if I want to line up girls in a destination town, not something I want to do.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3130141]
I've posted earlier that if you have the $ and can get the wood, why wouldn't you be doing this? [/QUOTE]In my case two reasons, my SO and my frugal sensibilities:
I enjoy life more when my conscience is as clear as possible, and building a solid LTR with my SO is one of the biggest challenges I've ever had (way more difficult than getting random pussy) and I have a lot invested in that relationship, so it gives me strong incentive to keep sugar dating to a minimum or potentially stop one day.
Also, I'm a believer that availability of disposable income today does not necessary mean it should be disposed of carelessly. For me, that means that occasional dates where regular rules of spending are thrown to the wind for the sake of fleeting fun, but I would never want to do that every day. It's not untypical for me to spend much more on the date itself than the amount I gift the girl, this is because I see it as paying for a good time we will be sharing together. But, those dates can get pretty expensive, so doing it 3-4 nights a week is not in the realm of possibilities for me, living like that would bankrupt me. For those guys that are staying in cheaper hotels and limiting their expenditure to just paying the girl directly a couple of franklins or whatever, then I'd say that's a much easier budget to sustain, but even then at some point I would be thinking about how much that money could be earning me if it were invested, so full-time sugaring would disrupt my practical side too severely I'm afraid.
[QUOTE=Reman3289;3129359]I think deep down I want to stop also, and often question if it's worth it? With a SO, I also consider just going back to seeing the occasional pro. Which for me is a lot easier and less risky. But I guess that's just not the way we are wired as men. At least the type of men here, which I like for the most part. And I think most on this site are good decent guys who deep down really like woman and the sexual joy they can provide. My home life is sexless now but I am not sure that matters, because when I was younger (60 now) - my wife and I had a great time, she was super hot and all was good. But every time I was out of town, which was often, all I could think about was strange pussy and how to get it. And it has just carried on my entire life, I have never changed and probably never will, but yes I would probably take that pill also!
My guess is JZ that you are a very successful person and it's just the way you roll. But given your make up and as you say when you travel or your SO is away. Your not reading a book your on the prowl. I am convinced that driven successful men are that way and they don't want to sit on the pouch and pet the dog, and I love my dogs. My SO is leaving in a couple weeks and I am working hard in the SB to set up meets. I guess the real difference today is the access we have to woman. Both pros and the SA type sites. And lets face it, previous civilizations did not have the ability to find young hot woman who want to fuck them. This is truly remarkable when you think about it. I guess my point is, how many men given this candy, could seriously say they would never think about doing it or actually doing it. Have been on SA for a little over a month. I can tell you what you already know, it's extremely ADDICTIVE. Especially for a man with my weaknesses. .[/QUOTE]For the most part all thanks to SA! It makes it all too easy!
[QUOTE=PecanSandy;3112740]When I first learned of these boards I was beginning my final pshych. Paper for college. The reason I chose this topic. I never thought to much about the hobbie itself. Often though maybe it could be legalized. Until MY best girlfriend of 20 years. Her family was destroyed. A great family that had it all with very good looking middle aged parents who had some extra $ and really took care of themselves. They got along great. The Mom (my second mom) is Beautiful and often is asked by strangers if she is the mom or the daughter. Well all it took was one broken condom to reveal what had been going on. He brought something home and she got sick.
The father is responsible for all the pain he has caused and he is more depressed with the mess he caused than the wife is about the divorse. I worry about him taking his life. Imagine daddys little girl who grows up into a georgous young women and now she hates you?
This began as a bachelor party OOOps, when he had something to drink and some buddies encouraging it. Then became an addiction that he hatred. He could not get out. I said each time he was never going to do this again and in 2-3 days he was on shopping again. He knew he was in addiction and he knew he was going to mess everything up, but could not stop. Its the addiction to chemicals released from the excitment and mostly from the risk! This is why guys get more risky over time. Please guys, be careful, wean down and reduce your habbit slowly if you want to get out.[/QUOTE]Wow. This is a fear that constantly nags me. That this hobby will take me down. I will ruin someone else's life and potentially take my own. Sometimes this random thought comes to me out of nowhere and I get extremely anxious.
Anyway, the good news for me is that I am slowly cutting back. Today is difficult. I have some cash on me, and some time on my hands, and I'm fairly backed up. All said, a lethal combination. I just continue to remind myself that the feeling does go away if I ignore it. Overall, I can say that I'm getting better at controlling my urges. With the exceptio and of going all out on my birthday (saw 2 different providers), I'm on day 15. The fantasies still haunt me, but so do the ideas of the consequences. There is hope that we can see the other side of this. Staying vigilant!
Liked your post a lot and you really hit on it with me when you mentioned the good old days and picking up women in bars. I was very addicted to that game once as well and loved the hunt / chase as you say. I am a tall guy - 6'5" - which never hurts with women and I had some game in my day. Loved going on the road back in those days, I guy could get laid almost any night. I can't believe what's in bars most nights today, looks more like a men's room. I think the AIDS thing early 80's is what really spoiled that party. Anyway, this SD / SB thing seems a bit of a carry over from that habit to this one.
Funny. Before I got into the sugar dating, I often tried to use the old game a bit on the road, going into higher end bars / restaurants for happy hour, that seems to be the only time you see many woman out anymore, at least the MILF's I was targeting. I was out a few week and looking around at an environment like just mentioned, think Bonefish Grill if you have one in your market, and the women I used to look at and think about hitting on just were not so appealing anymore. I mean all I could think of is why would I spend time and money chasing this when I can go dip in the sugar bowl and find a nice looking 20/30 something that I can screen in the looks dept and has none of the baggage of life that most of the 40+ ladies have and will fuck me senseless? Kind of nuts that we can do this but it's a very efficient online marketplace.
I also like your comment about "managing your addiction" and giving your self an occasional reward. I think that is where I am at these days. Let's face it, an obsession with anything, sex, food (which these days seems epidemic to me), alcohol, drugs, sports (same as food if you ask me), politics, religion. You name it, any of these can be a problem. Balance in your life is a good thing! And I know some on here want to get as much as possible out of the sugar bowl and more power to them. If single I would most likely do the same. But for me, given the time investment required. And my libido, I have decided that one or twice a month is going to be my goal and yes I have a SO, so view my comments from that perspective. Problem is my current SB wants to play two times a week at least and I know she's in it for the money just as I am it it for the sex, but she does have big O's with me which I love of course, and so not all bad on her end either. I like her but I guess the connection is mostly sexual. A little hard for me to always connect with a lady half my age, and the 30 year old mindset today is not the same as a 30 year old woman in my time. In this society, none of these millennials every have to grow up and that is not a good thing. So I am going to look for a SB that wants to meet maybe once or twice a month - 3 X at the most and of course is not BSC. I just don't have the time and energy for anything else. At least that's the plan today. Stay tuned.
[QUOTE=JZLizard;3129817]It is certainly addictive. Although, it's a stop and go addiction for me. If I travel or the SO travels, I find myself bored and with a tendency toward mischief. The rest of the time, to be absolutely honest, I don't look forward to my next travel excursion, my SO's next trip, or my next SB meeting. In fact, every time I start my website accounts back up, I have to motivate myself to do so, because the process of searching for girls and filtering it down to the ones I want is a lot of work and a task I don't really look forward to.
This is one reason I have been seriously considering giving up SBs altogether, and maybe just sticking to the occasional hunt for strippers. I love the spontaneity of randomly going in a strip club and trying to line up some fun -- if it happens it happens but if not, then I just tell myself well I really shouldn't have been trying to do that anyway. The processing of hunting for, sorting, and arranging dates with SBs wears on my conscience a bit more and for that reason I am increasingly telling myself I should just try to stop. I sometimes wish the bar scene was like it was before the Internet, where easy women hung out in bars and clubs regularly instead of meeting people on computers and smartphones. Then, if you wanted to roll the dice you could just wander into one of these places and try to hook up a one night stand, the thrill of the hunt was the fun part. The bar scene has changed a lot now, online dating has reshaped how and why people go to these places as well as reshaping the places themselves. They aren't as good for spontaneous hookups as they used to be, while strip clubs still are what they are.
I actually seem to be getting closer to my SO the longer I'm with her. A good relationship takes a lot of time to build, only minutes to destroy, and a lot of people go through their entire lives without even having the chance at one. So why am I undermining one of the things in my life that's most important to me? I'm very happy with her so increasingly this hobby makes less sense for me.
I don't know. I have an increasing level of thoughts along these lines, I just hadn't really thought about airing them here at any level of detail, because I think it's not where most SDs are with this. A guy who is unsatisfied with his wife, for sexual reasons or any other, is in a very different place with all this than I am.
I've always thought one of the keys to effectively managing addictions (controlling them instead of them controlling you) is to not try to impose difficult rules upon yourself. For example, if someone wants to stay physically fit, then stay disciplined most of the time, but don't make hard rules like "I can never, ever eat sweets of any kind". By giving yourself an occasional well-managed reward, you relieve a certain amount of pressure and thus make it easier to maintain your discipline on the larger goal.
So I'm not 100% sure that formerly making a commitment to myself to stop is necessarily the right thing to do. If I thought it was, I probably would have already done it. It's something I'm still thinking about (a lot lately actually).[/QUOTE]
If you want to quit, here is some advice. And if you don't want to quit, that's ok, you may ignore this. Now, in practice I've never really quit, but I have managed to slow down or quit for long periods.
1. Be good at budgeting. It includes not only monthly expenses but yearly expenses for which you have to save. Understanding my budget was why I recently quit being a sugardaddy; the SB took too much. (I'll admit that being an SD is great if you can afford it.).
2. Keep a record of what you spend.
3. Throw away the burner phone! This simple idea has worked extremely well for me. I distinguish between "spontaneous" acts and "deliberate" acts. If it's super easy to contact a girl (SB), I'll do it when the mood strikes me. But if there's a barrier (the deliberate act) I can usually stop. Now, someone here will point out there are apps or websites that make it trivial to work around the need for a burner phone. I don't want to hear it, LOL. (Ignorance is bliss here.) Well, if you implement such a workaround it would require a deliberate act. By the way, jumping in the car to see a BP girl whose pic is most likely fake requires a deliberate act, which explains the complaints such girls have about guys getting cold feet.
4. Other misc ideas: have a curfew, avoid street prostitutes (easy since there are hardly any nowadays), don't mix alcohol or drugs with the pursuit of sex, and adhere to safe sex.
5. Best advice: get married or find a girlfriend.
6. Embrace getting old. I'm in my mid-50's and actually like slowing down.
I know that I do this for the rush. That much is clear from the sense of guilt I typically have afterwards. And from the feeling of relief I often have when I take care of business myself before I have a chance to meet the POT SB and then cancel. I've stopped for weeks / months at a time but end up coming back.
Has anyone tried counseling? I'm so afraid of that mostly because of having to verbally confirm that I've cheated. Alternatively, is there a legitimate and reliable alternative to AA for sex addiction?
I quit smoking. This shouldn't be so damn hard.
[QUOTE=GuyInTheCorner;3157443]
I quit smoking. This shouldn't be so damn hard.[/QUOTE]I used to bite my nails. Thank God I was able to quit. My life is better now.
I used to be addicted to nose spray. Thank God I was able to quit. My life is better now.
I used to be addicted to alcohol. Thank God I was able to quit. My life is better now.
I used to be addicted to drugs. Thank God I was able to quit. My life is better now.
I used to be addicted to cigarettes. Thank God I was able quit. My life is better now.
I used to be addicted to caffeine. Thank God I was able to quit. My life is better now.
This. This IS hard. But I'm not giving up. Just need more patience and wisdom.
There are plenty of folks out there that have quit this one and even tougher vices. One day I hope to say I was able to quit this one too.
[QUOTE=Snake27;3154881]If you want to quit, here is some advice. And if you don't want to quit, that's ok, you may ignore this. Now, in practice I've never really quit, but I have managed to slow down or quit for long periods.
1. Be good at budgeting. It includes not only monthly expenses but yearly expenses for which you have to save. Understanding my budget was why I recently quit being a sugardaddy; the SB took too much. (I'll admit that being an SD is great if you can afford it.).
2. Keep a record of what you spend.
3. Throw away the burner phone! This simple idea has worked extremely well for me. I distinguish between "spontaneous" acts and "deliberate" acts. If it's super easy to contact a girl (SB), I'll do it when the mood strikes me. But if there's a barrier (the deliberate act) I can usually stop. Now, someone here will point out there are apps or websites that make it trivial to work around the need for a burner phone. I don't want to hear it, LOL. (Ignorance is bliss here.) Well, if you implement such a workaround it would require a deliberate act. By the way, jumping in the car to see a BP girl whose pic is most likely fake requires a deliberate act, which explains the complaints such girls have about guys getting cold feet.
4. Other misc ideas: have a curfew, avoid street prostitutes (easy since there are hardly any nowadays), don't mix alcohol or drugs with the pursuit of sex, and adhere to safe sex.
5. Best advice: get married or find a girlfriend.
6. Embrace getting old. I'm in my mid-50's and actually like slowing down.[/QUOTE]Especially tracking expenditures. I we t over my books with my accountant today and he basically quit. He is baffled that I am broke when I should be doing better now than ever. I couldn't tell him that every city especially DC and Orlando I see a BP girl or go to an AMP every single day. He knows Vegas is rife with trouble, but he cannot understand how I have to take money from my savings to pay for life.
This may be my wake up call, yet again. I have quit before but the urge comes back.
[QUOTE=Miketastic69;3185321]Especially tracking expenditures. I we t over my books with my accountant today and he basically quit. He is baffled that I am broke when I should be doing better now than ever. I couldn't tell him that every city especially DC and Orlando I see a BP girl or go to an AMP every single day. He knows Vegas is rife with trouble, but he cannot understand how I have to take money from my savings to pay for life.
This may be my wake up call, yet again. I have quit before but the urge comes back.[/QUOTE]How much do you spend a month?
[QUOTE=BigBlue4523;3186168]How much do you spend a month?[/QUOTE]In the past 25+ yrs I've always spent more, never less, each month than I wanted to. That's a big clue that this is a problem / addiction.
I know its kinda old to report on this but what to do when things happen without making any effort. This happens with me a lot. I'm good with my spending. Always two weeks or more when I visit someone. But during that time I keep meditating on how to do the girl. The excitement gets real high and the money stays in the pocket but I would be rather happy to spend it like what happened in your case. LOL.
But thanks for great support of working on this addiction. It will need to slow down / stop one day.
[QUOTE=HeadFirst;3079270]Made it only 6 days this cycle. Was driving when I saw a sign for a spa. Never been to this one so I pulled in. Out comes a 30 ish hottie with a smoking body wearing a tight L*B*D and some heels. How much? 45 or 65. Asked her if she was fun and right there in the lobby she leaned over and flashed me her top along with a smile.
Into the room where I was waiting naked when she came back. She brushed against me so I smacked her ass and she giggled. Told her to turn out the light and come back over here. Off came her dress, bra, and panties, just like that. No negotiating, no talking, no nothing. Within a minute she was on the table, on her back, with her legs spread wide open.
She didn't disappoint and neither did I.
I'm sitting here trying to figure out what happened that made me go off the wagon. When I saw the spa sign it was automatic. Instantaneously I pulled in and got out of my car. I've had that happen before and was able to turn around and leave. But not this time. The spa sign was like a huge electro magnet and once I got in it's range I didn't stand a chance.
I left happy. And sad. And mad. And disappointed. In myself. But I'll get over it.
I love this hobby. I hate this hobby.[/QUOTE]
I've never made it over a week without mongering my highest was almost a week but I made it for four days. I constantly seek BP, CL, or WSW & BBW on the streets around state or out of state. I'm a cheap man and been mongering over 30 years back in those early years I was roaming the area of Atlanta Georgia, but I didn't live there I lived a little further on Sandy springs. I met many Street walkers some would become potential dates and I even married a street walker who struggled to become clean named Juliet. I met Juliet In 1993 very pretty beautiful girl who suffered abuse all her life and no one really wanted to help her in that time we were close to the same age. My best funnest mongering years were between the late 80's going into the early 2 k's. Nothing has been great ever since. I have met a few good ones here and there but not anything near as great as those years were. Now I'm way older and still in the hobby seeking Potential dreams. I'm a sex addict for sure, but I have also paid woman for their companionships without any sexual activity.
I was recently thinking about guys like Wilt Chamberlain, who claimed to have boned 20,000 ladies in his career. Gene Simmons made a similar claim of doing 10,000 or 15,000 groupies. I think both claims are bunk, though.
How many does the average dude get in his lifetime? 5? 10? Now it's a known fact that a small number of alpha males have sex with most of the females. I believe this was confirmed by a study of the Tinder dating app, where they saw that 90% of messages from women are sent to just 10% of the men using the app. It's the same distribution you see with money (1% vs 99%, etc). So an alpha stud will pull in far more than an average guy, over 100. If he is single for a long time or is a rock star or athlete or whatever, I could see him joining the 1000 club.
Another possibility is that a guy is part of a couple and active in the swinging community for a sustained time. I guess if they were really active for a decade or two he could reach 1000+.
Obviously, the easiest route is through mongering. It would take years of heavy activity, but I'm sure there are a lot of guys in the 1000 club on this forum.
Flipping it around, I'd wager that every working girl passes 100 partners in her first month of service, and 1000 after her first year. It's tricky though, because they don't really work the same schedule as an office job or whatever. A lot of them will work hard for 6 weeks, then not at all for a few months. Still, the ladies who stick with it for years and decades probably do reach those Wilt and Gene levels. I know in my hometown, there is a woman who's owned (and been the only worker of) a massage parlor for 22 years. I'm sure she has a lot of longtime, repeat customers, but that's still a ton of dick over the years.
[QUOTE=TheBoobHound;3208447]I was recently thinking about guys like Wilt Chamberlain, who claimed to have boned 20,000 ladies in his career. Gene Simmons made a similar claim of doing 10,000 or 15,000 groupies. I think both claims are bunk, though.
How many does the average dude get in his lifetime? 5? 10? Now it's a known fact that a small number of alpha males have sex with most of the females. I believe this was confirmed by a study of the Tinder dating app, where they saw that 90% of messages from women are sent to just 10% of the men using the app. It's the same distribution you see with money (1% vs 99%, etc). So an alpha stud will pull in far more than an average guy, over 100. If he is single for a long time or is a rock star or athlete or whatever, I could see him joining the 1000 club.
Another possibility is that a guy is part of a couple and active in the swinging community for a sustained time. I guess if they were really active for a decade or two he could reach 1000+.
Obviously, the easiest route is through mongering. It would take years of heavy activity, but I'm sure there are a lot of guys in the 1000 club on this forum.
Flipping it around, I'd wager that every working girl passes 100 partners in her first month of service, and 1000 after her first year. It's tricky though, because they don't really work the same schedule as an office job or whatever. A lot of them will work hard for 6 weeks, then not at all for a few months. Still, the ladies who stick with it for years and decades probably do reach those Wilt and Gene levels. I know in my hometown, there is a woman who's owned (and been the only worker of) a massage parlor for 22 years. I'm sure she has a lot of longtime, repeat customers, but that's still a ton of dick over the years.[/QUOTE]Eh, I'm guessing very few people, men or women, sleep with 1,000 partners in a life time. I know guys that are real sluts and bang anything that moves for the last 10 yrs or so and have only racked up just over 200 partners. Problem is that when one finds a girl they like or click with, then they tend to repeat with her. 10,000 sexual encounters in a life time is plausible however, assuming 65 years of activity that's only 152/ year or 3 per week.
As far as swingers go? Doubt that is a solution as couples tend to find "relationships" for sex and stick with them. SM's that are out getting notches on a bedpost get discovered pretty quickly and avoided by many. What dude wants his girl to bang some guy who has slept with the entire zip code?
Just my thoughts. Fwiw!
[QUOTE=Pison00;3205244]My best funnest mongering years were between the late 80's going into the early 2 k's. Nothing has been great ever since. I have met a few good ones here and there but not anything near as great as those years were. Now I'm way older and still in the hobby seeking Potential dreams. I'm a sex addict for sure, but I have also paid woman for their companionships without any sexual activity.[/QUOTE]I got active in the mid to late '90's and the street scene was great. Now, it's a wasteland. I miss the crack's heyday.
I am in my 70's and have struggled with the sex addition concept. I have been mongering for the last 5 years (since my wife gave up cooking and sex) and have at least 300 encounters so far. I simply have a compulsion to release into beautiful young girls. It is just natural. Mother nature gave us this wonderful equipment and it is our god given duty to use it. This goes for both men and women. I feel wonderful after each release. How is that wrong? The only problem I have is that I don't have enough money to do all the girls I would like to do and that age is slowing me down (thank god for viagra. Truly a miracle drug!) Later this month I have a trip to Buenos Aires where I have a 19 year old guide and novia lined up for 10 days! Talk about an intensive Spanish class. I plan to keep releasing as long as I can. Keeps the prostate healthy, good exericse, and you meet a lot of wonderful girls! I hope some of you agree with me. LG Huntsville Alabama.
[QUOTE=LustyGuy;3210546]I am in my 70's and have struggled with the sex addition concept. I have been mongering for the last 5 years (since my wife gave up cooking and sex) and have at least 300 encounters so far. I simply have a compulsion to release into beautiful young girls. It is just natural. Mother nature gave us this wonderful equipment and it is our god given duty to use it. This goes for both men and women. I feel wonderful after each release. How is that wrong? The only problem I have is that I don't have enough money to do all the girls I would like to do and that age is slowing me down (thank god for viagra. Truly a miracle drug!) Later this month I have a trip to Buenos Aires where I have a 19 year old guide and novia lined up for 10 days! Talk about an intensive Spanish class. I plan to keep releasing as long as I can. Keeps the prostate healthy, good exericse, and you meet a lot of wonderful girls! I hope some of you agree with me. LG Huntsville Alabama.[/QUOTE]I am 59 and I have a S / O at home who doesn't show interest in our sex life I have to initiate everything she is still attractive but the menopause thing has been a problem for her and our relationship. But I wasn't and haven't been a faithful guy in our entire relationship I've cheated from day 1 and I really love her if I wasn't with her I'm sure I would never commit to anyone else. But I can't stop seeing women I don't want a relationship or an affair, I just want to see and feel different pussies tits ass faces. I can't go a week it's been 5 days and I'm raring to go, Thursday is the day I've been searching backpage escort Babylon and USASG to find the one I want even thinking about old favorites and I won't be satisfied till the deed is done. I guess I am addicted to sex. HL29.
[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;3213404]I am 59 and I have a S / O at home who doesn't show interest in our sex life I have to initiate everything she is still attractive but the menopause thing has been a problem for her and our relationship. But I wasn't and haven't been a faithful guy in our entire relationship I've cheated from day 1 and I really love her if I wasn't with her I'm sure I would never commit to anyone else. But I can't stop seeing women I don't want a relationship or an affair, I just want to see and feel different pussies tits ass faces. I can't go a week it's been 5 days and I'm raring to go, Thursday is the day I've been searching backpage escort Babylon and USASG to find the one I want even thinking about old favorites and I won't be satisfied till the deed is done. I guess I am addicted to sex. HL29.[/QUOTE]Sex addiction is probably far more rare than is diagnosed. Think Tiger Woods was really a sex addict? Dude slept with like 120 chicks over 6 years. Most mongerS would hit that mark on 3 months!
Some people can't control their behavior (I. E. Look at porn 20 hours a day) but most of us just love pussies. And yeah it's entirely possible to love your SO and supplement with other women.
I don't classify myself a sex addict. I love pussy, and I like change. I picked a profession where I could travel and see new places and meet new people (USMC) and I have kept that going into retirement and in my new business. I have had the good fortune of traveling every week and had a lot of fun.
Now the sobering reality. I'm fucking broke. In a year where I've made the most money I ever have in life, I can barely pay for anything extra. I'm bleeding flowers, or Mario coins, or hearts, or chocolates and all the other things we call donations. I am trying to put my hobbying on pause but I am finding it hard. Maybe I do need to seek someone with a license on the wall to talk to.
[QUOTE=Miketastic69;3230911]I don't classify myself a sex addict. I love pussy, and I like change. I picked a profession where I could travel and see new places and meet new people (USMC) and I have kept that going into retirement and in my new business. I have had the good fortune of traveling every week and had a lot of fun.
Now the sobering reality. I'm fucking broke. In a year where I've made the most money I ever have in life, I can barely pay for anything extra. I'm bleeding flowers, or Mario coins, or hearts, or chocolates and all the other things we call donations. I am trying to put my hobbying on pause but I am finding it hard. Maybe I do need to seek someone with a license on the wall to talk to.[/QUOTE]I know providers in every state, but don't have any friends to speak of anywhere.
[QUOTE=LustyGuy;3210546]I am in my 70's and have struggled with the sex addition concept. I have been mongering for the last 5 years (since my wife gave up cooking and sex) and have at least 300 encounters so far. I simply have a compulsion to release into beautiful young girls. It is just natural. Mother nature gave us this wonderful equipment and it is our god given duty to use it. This goes for both men and women. I feel wonderful after each release. How is that wrong? The only problem I have is that I don't have enough money to do all the girls I would like to do and that age is slowing me down (thank god for viagra. Truly a miracle drug!) Later this month I have a trip to Buenos Aires where I have a 19 year old guide and novia lined up for 10 days! Talk about an intensive Spanish class. I plan to keep releasing as long as I can. Keeps the prostate healthy, good exericse, and you meet a lot of wonderful girls! I hope some of you agree with me. LG Huntsville Alabama.[/QUOTE]I am wondering if this is the way I will continue to be into my 70's? I did the novia thing in Dominica last year and it was great. We actually told each other we loved each other after the 2 weeks. Me and the other 10 guys she sees a year.
I am at a point where I have to take viagra and chase it with cialis, and I use an otc like stiff nights or black panther. Sucks getting old, but my prostate still works like a champ!
[QUOTE=TooBe101;3193706]I know its kinda old to report on this but what to do when things happen without making any effort. This happens with me a lot. I'm good with my spending. Always two weeks or more when I visit someone. But during that time I keep meditating on how to do the girl. The excitement gets real high and the money stays in the pocket but I would be rather happy to spend it like what happened in your case. LOL.
But thanks for great support of working on this addiction. It will need to slow down / stop one day.[/QUOTE]I can't stop, slow down, step away from this"game"! When I'm on a Buss. Trip I can run 3,4 AMPs in a row, something about the "rush" that I'm feeling, the high, to see a girl walk into the room, and the touch. (Asian) Hard to figure out. I'm" OLD, (not 70) LOL but have more of a sex appt. ,now, then when I was 16. The more I get, the more I want, money is not a problem for me, so AMPs, BP, strip clubs girls, have no limits for me. I have a great wife at home, not interested in sex anymore, so I feel what I do on my" Buss. Trips" is ok! I'm not hurting anyone, am I? So am I a bad person, Am I a sex addt. ? You tell me! Drk.
[QUOTE=DarkSideOfMe;3231116]I can't stop, slow down, step away from this"game"! When I'm on a Buss. Trip I can run 3,4 AMPs in a row, something about the "rush" that I'm feeling, the high, to see a girl walk into the room, and the touch. (Asian) Hard to figure out. I'm" OLD, (not 70) LOL but have more of a sex appt. ,now, then when I was 16. The more I get, the more I want, money is not a problem for me, so AMPs, BP, strip clubs girls, have no limits for me. I have a great wife at home, not interested in sex anymore, so I feel what I do on my" Buss. Trips" is ok! I'm not hurting anyone, am I? So am I a bad person, Am I a sex addt. ? You tell me! Drk.[/QUOTE]I don't know if you're a bad person because I don't know you. But just because you / we may have an issue with sex addiction wouldn't make you (or any of us) a bad person. I'm sure 99% of us in here are good to excellent people. We just have justified this lifestyle we choose to lead (usually on the down low) over choosing to be in a more acceptable (and out in the open) relationship.
Or maybe we're just bored with our partner and want to add some spice to our life / sex life. Who really knows. I'm sure there's many explanations why we do this.
Are you / we sex addicts? Probably. But that has to answered individually and the easiest / quickest / cheapest way to answer that question is to try and leave. That'll tell real you fast.
As for me, the longest I've made it in the past 25+ yrs is 23 days. I was really proud of myself but in the real world that's pathetic. As I type this post I'm at 18 days since my last encounter (not counting self service).
It sounds like you've had some success in other areas of your life. If this is a concern of yours and you're looking for answers to some of your questions, as we all here are, see if you can stay away. That'll be a good starting point.
If not, have fun doing what you're doing. I'm sure it's hell being in a sexless marriage.
[QUOTE=Miketastic69;3230913]I know providers in every state, but don't have any friends to speak of anywhere.[/QUOTE]A HUGE helping of self realization right there.
Not too far behind you on that, my friend.
[QUOTE=DarkSideOfMe;3231116]I can't stop, slow down, step away from this"game"! When I'm on a Buss. Trip I can run 3,4 AMPs in a row, something about the "rush" that I'm feeling, the high, to see a girl walk into the room, and the touch. (Asian) Hard to figure out. I'm" OLD, (not 70) LOL but have more of a sex appt. ,now, then when I was 16. The more I get, the more I want, money is not a problem for me, so AMPs, BP, strip clubs girls, have no limits for me. I have a great wife at home, not interested in sex anymore, so I feel what I do on my" Buss. Trips" is ok! I'm not hurting anyone, am I? So am I a bad person, Am I a sex addt. ? You tell me! Drk.[/QUOTE]In life these are just adjectives. Good and bad are moving targets. Is it bad to see a provider who uses her skills in bed because she may have tried the job market and failed, but still can make money to feed herself and her family?
What is the definition of a Sl*t? An addict?
How many days one had sex in a month qualifies?
How many different partners fits those definitions?
Is binge fucking a symptom? Numerous girls in one day?
Is it possible I am one?
[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;3255054]What is the definition of a Sl*t? An addict?
How many days one had sex in a month qualifies?
How many different partners fits those definitions?
Is binge fucking a symptom? Numerous girls in one day?
Is it possible I am one?[/QUOTE]In the road of sex life.