[QUOTE=Oager; 1816743]MY wife friend is coming to spend the night Saturday, here is the catch. I said ohh goodie we can have a threeway joking around. To my surprise my wife blerts out maybe if we get drunk enough. Then we went back to normal talk. My question is. Can this happen is my wife busting my balls and should I get um drunk and see what happens. I would hate to screw anything up here. Her friend is a bit older than us single and is a flirt. I'm thinking tequila shots as from past experience it makes my wifes clothes fall off. I don't want to seem to eager how would you all go about this. I have about a million different secerios in my brain from leave it alone to a all out fuck fest to me watching a lezz show. Has anyone ever been in this position. Also my brain is like hummm what is the wife up to why I'm working as I work long hours. We hardley even see each other as I work in medical and she works in fashion. Our sex life has become boring and routine.
Opinions advice please- I trust most of you guys on here with this type of thing[/QUOTE]Don't do it.
That's my advice; having been down that road years ago, not with a wife, but with a SO.
Circumstances were a bit different than yours however, in that her best friend (also a flirt,) during one of our Saturday night poker get-togethers, out of the blue, said that she's horny, and what about a 3-way. Being a pervert, I of course said it was a great idea, but the SO gave me that look only a woman can that instantly freezes water, and said no way. As expected, her friend and I worked on her for a few hours, and finally she relented.
None of us drink, so that isn't a factor in what happened.
Now, I knew what turned my SO on, and what did not, but nothing about her friend, so of course, I want to know; plus it's fresh pussy brought to the table. The wanting to know about this strange will make you spend more time with her than with your wife. This is a mortal error. You are now giving more attention to her than your wife, and because of it, you have broken the ground to the hole your wife is going to dig for you. And no matter what you think, it's not possible to give each of them equal time. Worse, if the newbie is BETTER than your wife, you are going to spend more time with her. At this point, you have a pretty deep hole waiting. If the newbie is WORSE, it's hard to make a graceful exit and go back to the wife with a sheepish grin.
And, most important: if you aren't what the other woman was hoping for, she'll feel strange about the whole thing. Plus, neither woman will ever be that friendly with one another again. And, you will be shown the deep hole that is just waiting for your wife to bring up every time you do anything wrong.
Best thing to do IMHO, if you and this other woman click, and are hot for one another: get together away from your wife.
If your sex life is dull and boring, try coming home dressed in a gorilla suit some night. Change tactics: if you are gentle, be rough. Dress up as a woman, bring a dildo home, and pretend to be lesbians. There are a zillion ways to spice things up. If she is orgasmic, bring her right to the edge, then quickly get up and go have a sandwich; leaving her there sobbing. I guess I am a bit of a pervert in that regard, as I used to do that from time-to-time. I used to love to have her come out to the kitchen screaming at me to not leave her that way, that I was an uncaring, thoughtless bastard, etc, and then do her right there on the floor. She whimpered like a baby, and had screaming orgasms. Don't let a lack of imagination ruin your sex life. BTW: try telling her that YOU have a headache. Or that you are tired. Lots of ways to tease her.
And, alcohol won't make any of you forget what happened; just delay it.
So, my experience, and my opinion, Whatever you do, good luck. Just be aware there are always consequences for all actions.
