The Prickyard

[QUOTE=IndyAnon;2828960]Never denied it.[/QUOTE]Not only have you not denied it, you seem to have made it your life's mission to prove it, beyond a shadow of a doubt. Brava! You have succeeded, beyond your wildest dreams.

[QUOTE=Golfer72;2829120]Not only have you not denied it, you seem to have made it your life's mission to prove it, beyond a shadow of a doubt. Brava! You have succeeded, beyond your wildest dreams.[/QUOTE]Well glad to hear you do not deny it. Admitting is always the first step.

I think we all know what his deal is its otherwise called as " Little Man Syndrome ".

A man, small in stature, who attempts to overcome the way he believes other people perceive him (as a diminuative character) by 1) attaching himself to authority figures, 2) trying to manipulate himself into positions of control, 3) migrating toward positions of leadership, and 4) having a fairly volatile temper.

Oh BTW I just needed to clarify that using the word "sir" in my previous post obviously was a example of sarcasm.

"The use of words that mean the opposite of what you really want to say especially in order to insult someone, to show irritation. ".

I've made sure the definitions of these words were included so next time indyanon wants to use big boy words, he can use them properly so he doesn't sound like a dumbass and he can just be an ass.

[QUOTE=Mmgeg;2828795]Ok. I figured I would chime in here since this is probably the only communication you will have with a provider on this forum and will have to stick to your Massage Parlors and Backpage. Not sure what your problem is and as I recall you stated this wasn't someone 's " personal army " . Why are you making it yours? Do you even realize how ignorant you sound on here? Seriously. As a provider if I performed or acted in a negative way I would expect a negative review. "Altruism" doesn't exist? If you are going to use big boy words learn the meanings. " disinterested and selfless concern for the well being of others " . Now. Looking over your postings sir (because unlike you I do my research and want to make sure my facts are credible) and it seems like you have posted about a few cash and dashes? You posted about it so members would be aware. Same goes for this situation. If a provider puts a member in harms way regardless of what it is. Health, safety, etc. It is posted on the forum for others to be aware. So I'm sorry lets go back what doesn't exist? Also, this situation clearly there were issues. Clearly there were problems and clearly FF did not have to go over and beyond to possibly get this situation rectified. Just like when providers have issues with members and vice versa this is one person that try's to rectify the situation rather than unlike you where clearly there are some issues of your own. Like I stated in my posts in regards to this. Owning up to behavior and that's it. Since you know NOTHING about character, compassion, or respect. What FF did is the definition of character and if recieved a free ride what business of it is yours? Unless you are her personal advisor none of that is quite frankly any of your business. Obviously by now you do realize that NO reputable provider is going to want to touch your ass. So while your laying getting rubbed down at a massage parlor. Here's something to ponder on. Another defination: "social deviance".

Behavior that violates social standards, engendering anger, resentment, and a desire for punishment in a significant segment of the society or culture. You sir are the epitome of that defination also seems like possible jealousy going on but that's just my two cents.[/QUOTE]I hope he doesn't grace any provider with his presence.

Including myself.

I know it's a big word, but it's also a big deal. For the members here, it's a subject that regularly comes up.

When I first stumbled upon USASG, I thought FF was a pompous ass and a blowhard. He seemed like one of the know-it-all fakes, who frequently show up on discussion forums, and don't get me started on all those Freckle postscripts. Seriously, let it go.

But then I RTFF and I noticed something, people actually deferred to him, reasonable, knowledgeable and intelligent people, plus a few weirdos. I discovered there was something more than my first impression.

Accountability. Not only did FF expect it of others (just like everyone else), but he demanded it of himself. For an exhaustive proof go read the Ursula the sea witch blog. If you don't have the time, just look at the recent Sexy Red situation.

I remember when Sexy Red first appeared on the scene. I still have the pm introducing her. At the time I was baffled by the pm. I was still new and I thought unknown. My first thought was some sort of scam, but then reviews started coming in. For a while she was apparently one of the best in the area. Then apparently things changed.

When she recently returned I was unaware of the past issues, until FF posted about them. While I was surprised with the allegations, I was also impressed with the way they were presented. It was a factual, buyer beware post without an attempt to be vindictive.

What was more impressive was his arbitration efforts and retraction. He went out of the way to hold himself accountable and tried to heal the wounds. That's the opposite of a dick move.

I've never met FF. I'm a little worried my finely freckled shoulders would present roo great of a temptation. Clearly he doesn't need me to defend him. Hell, even the providers are stepping up for him. That alone should convince anyone capable of outwitting cheese, FF has been a true friend to many. I don't mean to be insulting, but there's a tendency for providers to be self-absorbed, which is understandable when you consider the occupation.

Perhaps now would be a good time to bite the bullet, Indyanon. Whatever your real issue with FF, this battle has already been lost.

I have not yet had the pleasure to meet Sara8032 or Mmgeg (hopeful that changes very soon). I just wanted to say that it is very refreshing to hear from providers on this forum. So often we hear from hobbiest and don't get any perspective from the other side.

I know that Many people are highly regarded here. Their opinions carry a lot of weight but I do not take their word as gospel. With the advice and information gathered here I make my own choices. I should say I make my own informed choices. For that I will be forever grateful. I am hopeful to provide some information and advice in return. That is the point of this forum is it not?

Dave Rue.

"Can't we all just get along? The young ones won't understand the reference.

[QUOTE=Mmgeg;2828795]Ok. I figured I would chime in here since this is probably the only communication you will have with a provider on this forum and will have to stick to your Massage Parlors and Backpage. Not sure what your problem is and as I recall you stated this wasn't someone 's " personal army " . Why are you making it yours? Do you even realize how ignorant you sound on here? Seriously. As a provider if I performed or acted in a negative way I would expect a negative review. "Altruism" doesn't exist? If you are going to use big boy words learn the meanings. " disinterested and selfless concern for the well being of others " . Now. Looking over your postings sir (because unlike you I do my research and want to make sure my facts are credible) and it seems like you have posted about a few cash and dashes? You posted about it so members would be aware. Same goes for this situation. If a provider puts a member in harms way regardless of what it is. Health, safety, etc. It is posted on the forum for others to be aware. So I'm sorry lets go back what doesn't exist? Also, this situation clearly there were issues. Clearly there were problems and clearly FF did not have to go over and beyond to possibly get this situation rectified. Just like when providers have issues with members and vice versa this is one person that try's to rectify the situation rather than unlike you where clearly there are some issues of your own. Like I stated in my posts in regards to this. Owning up to behavior and that's it. Since you know NOTHING about character, compassion, or respect. What FF did is the definition of character and if recieved a free ride what business of it is yours? Unless you are her personal advisor none of that is quite frankly any of your business. Obviously by now you do realize that NO reputable provider is going to want to touch your ass. So while your laying getting rubbed down at a massage parlor. Here's something to ponder on. Another defination: "social deviance".

Behavior that violates social standards, engendering anger, resentment, and a desire for punishment in a significant segment of the society or culture. You sir are the epitome of that defination also seems like possible jealousy going on but that's just my two cents.[/QUOTE]Really hot when you get kinda pissed.

[QUOTE=IndyAnon;2828960]Never denied it.[/QUOTE]I reference this movie because it just hit me last night like the dialogue in the movie.

Col. Jessep: We follow orders, son. We follow orders or people die. It's that simple. Are we clear?

Kaffee: Yes sir.

Col. Jessep: Are we clear?

Kaffee: Crystal.

It became so clear, crystal clear to me that what IndyAnon enjoys the most is stirring the pot. Damn he must have watched my hornets video and said, "How many times can I stick the Camera into the nest to keep them mad as hell at me!" Well IA you achieved what you wanted, congratulations.

As A2 has said many times before, when you encounter a jerk on the board they just need to be ignored. So everyone join with me and hit the ignore button so we can get back to business.

[QUOTE=Ilapp;2829394]Really hot when you get kinda pissed.[/QUOTE]You taught me well wise one. I personally love when my half evil side comes out.

[QUOTE=Ilapp;2829394]Really hot when you get kinda pissed.[/QUOTE]A woman with brains makes my gentleman's sausage all plump and hot.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2829353]When I first stumbled upon USASG, I thought FF was a pompous ass and a blowhard. He seemed like one of the know-it-all fakes, who frequently show up on discussion forums, and don't get me started on all those Freckle postscripts. Seriously, let it go.[/QUOTE]If it wasn't for Ilapp, TwoNutts, Powertool, Sculp, HandfulOfWheel, Hotforty, Lacy, SensorySurprise, Elle, Slutcake and many others who helped me to get my shit straight and join humanity, I would have faltered badly. Plus getting AutumnSky involved with NA and participating helped me realize everyone deserves a second chance. I also believe that 95% of people in this world actually want things to be good in their own way. It's the rhetoric behind finding common ground that obstructs an equitable resolution.

Now I am just trying to give back. And yes Ilapp those foreign places work for me. Just wish they worked for me more often than against me. But it's my choice.

[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;2829497]If it wasn't for Ilapp, TwoNutts, Powertool, Sculp, HandfulOfWheel, Hotforty, Lacy, SensorySurprise, Elle, Slutcake and many others who helped me to get my shit straight and join humanity, I would have faltered badly.[/QUOTE]The same can be said for me. It is to the credit of a few mongers on this board through their sharing of hobby knowledge, that I am were I am in the hobby. This most notably is Ilapp and yourself. Looks like a certain someone is covering multiple generations of monger education.

Indy Guy.

[QUOTE=Ilapp;2829394]Really hot when you get kinda pissed.[/QUOTE]I mispoke and stand properly corrected. I should have said are, not were. I also hear, and it is interesting timing with recent comments on this thread, that you are in truth altruistic. Perhaps charitable and giving might be better terms. You truly are only half evil. The good kind.

Mommy, what's an "oozing rectal fistula"?

No, seriously, I'm afraid to google it.

[QUOTE=Mwdude;2829551]Mommy, what's an "oozing rectal fistula"?

No, seriously, I'm afraid to google it.[/QUOTE]Must admit that I already did. Just don't look at the Images tab.

IG.

[QUOTE=Mmgeg;2829453]You taught me well wise one. I personally love when my half evil side comes out.[/QUOTE]Yeah, and not everyone appreciates my snarkiness. It would seems it may have worn out its welcome where it most wanted to be just recently. LOL. Just when you think, nevermind, it is that thinking thing that always gets me in trouble.