"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Most of my SBs are in Maryland and NOVA. I have none in DC, and a few in PA. I just started looking into Richmond, and haven't had much luck there yet. My cheerleader wasn't a Redskins cheerleader. She cheer for a different state 2 years ago. She never told me about her cheerleading career. I only found out about it by googling her real name. Plus she was a beauty pageant winner for the city her sports team was at. I'm not married so I have less to lose. I do have a fiance, but she on the west coast. With corona we aren't meetup as much. The biggest commit I get from all my SBs is that I'm a nice and normal guy. My success rates increase when I don't talk about sexual fetishes (bbfscip) till after we meetup. I only let the girls know before hand that I'm seeking adult relationship. After that I treat everything else like a normal date.

[QUOTE=Zerry;5043981]You say you aren't picky, but at 3-400 the choices are all pretty rough (or ruff also works). Richmond is a much better market, so that's probably were most of your activity is. I just don't have the energy to make that drive and deal with hotels, so I am very picky. The other week I drove an hour to meet a new girl, got about 10 feet from her in the parking lot and said, "sorry I'm not here to meet you and left. " She was possibly cute, but she was wearing sweat pants and had fingernails that were over an inch long.

I have a solid regular that keeps my brain clear when I'm having a dry spell on Bumble / Hinge / SA.

Also, is it that former Redskins cheerleader? I talked to her and suspected she was fake, or at the very least a take the money and ghost scam. We talked a lot, but she would never meet up. I insist on meeting in public first, so maybe that was her hang up.

My golden rule of doing this is to never fuck around with anyone who has nothing to loose. I need to feel confident that a girl has things going for her, and that she doesn't want to be exposed for being on SA as much as I don't.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;5042551]So I viewed her profile and I saw that she viewed mine. I tried to go back to her profile and it wasn't available. Either she deleted her profile or she blocked me for some unknown reason.[/QUOTE]She blocked you. She doesn't have a pic on her profile. Did she when you saw it?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ea12e935-29ac-4178-8e77-56afd5fbb2c5[/URL]

I may be traveling and wanted some intel on this young lady. Texted her and she's DTF.

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;5044490][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ea12e935-29ac-4178-8e77-56afd5fbb2c5[/URL]

I may be traveling and wanted some intel on this young lady. Texted her and she's DTF.[/QUOTE]Sent me a pic that matched her profile. Claims to be a UVA first year, but from Cville and living at home taking all classes online.

Texted extensively for a day, been silent for 3.

Meant to say the choices in D. C. Are a bit rough. Surrounding areas look a bit better. Blackmail is one thing, but there is also getting threatened, robbed, stabbed or otherwise harassed. I also consider that if a SB has a run in with LE of any sort, even unrelated, to SA it could lead back to me. Extreme I know.

[QUOTE=Lobsid;5044206]Most of my SBs are in Maryland and NOVA. I have none in DC, and a few in PA. I just started looking into Richmond, and haven't had much luck there yet. My cheerleader wasn't a Redskins cheerleader. She cheer for a different state 2 years ago. She never told me about her cheerleading career. I only found out about it by googling her real name. Plus she was a beauty pageant winner for the city her sports team was at. I'm not married so I have less to lose. I do have a fiance, but she on the west coast. With corona we aren't meetup as much. The biggest commit I get from all my SBs is that I'm a nice and normal guy. My success rates increase when I don't talk about sexual fetishes (bbfscip) till after we meetup. I only let the girls know before hand that I'm seeking adult relationship. After that I treat everything else like a normal date.[/QUOTE]

You, could say the same thing about meeting any girl on any dating site. Sorry, I'm not that paranoid. With all things in life you should be careful, and be aware of your surroundings.

[QUOTE=Zerry;5044540]Meant to say the choices in D. C. Are a bit rough. Surrounding areas look a bit better. Blackmail is one thing, but there is also getting threatened, robbed, stabbed or otherwise harassed. I also consider that if a SB has a run in with LE of any sort, even unrelated, to SA it could lead back to me. Extreme I know.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Lobsid;5045078]You, could say the same thing about meeting any girl on any dating site. Sorry, I'm not that paranoid. With all things in life you should be careful, and be aware of your surroundings.[/QUOTE]I also only meet them in public too.

So my premium membership expired at 830 this morning. By 9 am I got a discount offer of 33% to renew. First time ever had one that quick. It's usually months before they off it, if ever.

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;5044517]Sent me a pic that matched her profile. Claims to be a UVA first year, but from Cville and living at home taking all classes online.

Texted extensively for a day, been silent for 3.[/QUOTE]I sent 2 text messages since yesterday. Gone silent on me too.

So I just wanted to see if anyone has actually met up with her or chatted with her. Pics look too good to be true.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3445aa59-3fab-4fad-916f-85e708f67b1f[/URL]

Sent initial email but haven't heard back.

So I'm messaging another late 30's POT who was listed in RVA, then changed to woodbridge and Cville.

FunSapiosexual I think was her handle.

She finally replies "I'm not interested. YOur name is Ernest and one of the girls warned us about you".

Gee. Wonder who that was.

[QUOTE=TheHobbyLobby;5045956]So I just wanted to see if anyone has actually met up with her or chatted with her. Pics look too good to be true.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3445aa59-3fab-4fad-916f-85e708f67b1f[/URL]

Sent initial email but haven't heard back.[/QUOTE]I sent a message and she replied back immediately. Also found a 19 year old who just joined. She's so unfamiliar. I take it she's never done this before.

LOL, I told me girl she lucky to have me. Look at all these girls selling pus for a little $250-400!

Anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/4bd92598-ce4c-4b61-8bc6-85a92a488354

She says she won’t share her body for $$$ but I told her let’s go out and see what happens and she agreed. Is this a lost cause?

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;5046361]So I'm messaging another late 30's POT who was listed in RVA, then changed to woodbridge and Cville.

FunSapiosexual I think was her handle.

She finally replies "I'm not interested. YOur name is Ernest and one of the girls warned us about you".

Gee. Wonder who that was.[/QUOTE]Do you all know where the SBs are sharing information about SDs? Similar to this forum for us?

[QUOTE=Lodzvisiter;5047377]Do you all know where the SBs are sharing information about SDs? Similar to this forum for us?[/QUOTE]I thought I heard SA had forums for SBs, but I could be mistaken.

Reddit has all kinds of message boards, so that is one likely option.

Plus there is a fair amount of word of mouth, mainly among the more UTR / semi pros like Classy. They have friends they told about it or talked into joining.

Had one gal in Lburg tell me to FO because her friend / roommate told her I stiffer her on a video she sent me unsoliicited.

If you believe in the "textbook SB" theory that they all aren't ******, then they probably don't compare notes with other SBs -- " hey, if we are getting passed round guy to guy, here are the fat cocks and fat wallets to message and these are the ones to avoid" not seeing that much as a widespread trend. I think they more trade notes on how to be an SB and tell anonymous -- and embellished on the $$ - war stories about the men who they have met.

As this forum clearly proves, when guys talk sex specifics about the women they are with, every other guy wants a shot at that. If they don't consider themselves ******, most women arent going to want what some other woman has. Which is why your wives are telling their friends whether or not you are good in bed and the friends arent coming on the swinging dicks and expert pussy eaters.

In your circle.

[QUOTE=Lodzvisiter;5047377]Do you all know where the SBs are sharing information about SDs? Similar to this forum for us?[/QUOTE]I have been curious about this as well, because I have had the same profile and user name on SA for a long time and sometimes I wonder if I should delete and create a new one. I went down the reddit rabbit hole and the main sugar forum is titled sugar life style. In its rules it specifically prohibits posting others identifying information and says that any "blacklist" type of post will be removed.