New SW sighting in Hampden
As I was driving by, I noticed a girl in jean and tight sweater (filled up nicely), about 5' 4", dirty blond, average built. It was dark (10 pm) and I could not see her face that well but she had a cute face, looked in her late 20s or early 30s. I have not seen her before but who knows, 10 pm is not my typical monger hours. Attempted to connect but there were 2 LEs, one in the 7/11 parking lot and the other constantly circling the area. I thought I made the initial eye contact but she moved on and walked back to the main street probably because of the LEs. Anyone seen her before?
Eggroll
I can't stand it. Not an addiction
Its a thrill to go out and hunt, its in your genes. Your body, genetic code is programed to have sex with as many woman is as possible, to carry your seed your genes forward. To form your tribe, your family unit, in order to survive.
Ok I know there are no wooly mamouths, or saber tooth tigers, although I have seen some women that could pass for them. But really you may love the thrill of the hunt. You may need, hormonally to have sex, but YOU ARE NOT ADDICTED. That is a term that feminists and psychologist and socioligists have come up with in order to label you. Now your are addicted, deseased. Well your not.
If you want to change your behavior, make adjustments in your life.
So much for me. And when I get caught and my GF or the judge catches me, or what ever, they are going to call me sexually addicted. I am going to have the desease, they will label me, and expect me to be ashamed. I wont be.
I have made love to some of the most magnificent women I could ever imagine. Numbers of them, like most of us, numbers that would stagger the imagination. OH, the guys down at the bar will say, yeah,,, he had to Pay to play. well maybe, some, some may pay me. but we will have scores that most men will look at and in there hearts, no,,, in there small brains, they will think we have attained feats that only college guys could attain, and only for a short time, until they got married, and then only a few of them. Most probably live a life with their best right or left hand friend.
No I am not addicted, nor are you. We dont fit in society, that is true. But we are not addicted.
My treatis for the day.
So speaketh Smiling Fox ;}
read Lizzy's thoughts on sex, if you can find them, married guys were her biggest clients. always.
And you may quote me, but remember, if you speak these words out in the regular world you will be ostrisized, and labeled, and suspected of being sexually addicted, anti feminine, anti social, a pig, a radical, and disgusting. It is the double standard that guys must live with.
Always LIE >>>> Always.... bold dead in the eye, LIE.
One lady I have seen asked me if I see alot of women. I looked her dead in the eye, Straight face, and said, "I have seen a few women in the past, I am only seeing you now". SF ;}
Oh DJ, if you want to quit, sure go ahead. But dont accept the addicted label, Quit if you choose to. did you get that ,,,,, choose too.... ;}
Unfortunately, there is no exit.
[QUOTE=Dj Hunter]Been here before. Looked at my bank account, got depressed, realized I put way too much money into this. But this week I've had to accept the fact that I'm addicted to sex. I'm not married, no kids, and I would suspect that I'm one of the youngest Baltimore members here. I've put a lot of money into this hobby, played the streets for a bit and moved up to escorts. In [/QUOTE]
I hate to break it to you, but. Once a monger, always a monger. Why?? It simply makes too much sense.
You will learn in time that a life without mongering is more expensive than a life with mongering.
You will also realize that it is more satisfying and exciting.
PM me if you want to hear more.
A quick comment, and lets be done.
I dont disagree with either comments. I think it is the guilt and label of "addiction", and the moralist hypocrocy of society. You bet getting laid is fun, I want to do it as often as I can. If I take risks, than I am prepared, But I will not feel guilty for my actions. I do not do things that would make me feel guilty. And you shouldnt either. Doc is right of course, if you need some help to move on you should seek it. If you screwed up you finances, or what ever, well, make it right.
I think Doc and I agree on alot, but view the world from different perspectives. I sure do enjoy sitting down and having a beer with him.
DJ, good luck in your road to what ever you... decide to do.
Smiling Fox ;}
na, no Phd. but thanks any way,
thought provoking subject ? for any anthoplogic/psychologist doctorate.
But dont come to my side as a conclusion. You will not get your degree.
Another great one withers away...
[QUOTE=Happy One]Sleeping Bag, You know you took one of the best little girls out of here with you. That girl is GFE all the way & I will surely miss her, she is one hell of a good date. I will always keep an eye out for in the years to come. Have a good journey, Happy One, now sad.[/QUOTE]
Happy, I saw her a few days ago since the last time. The hobby has definitely taken it's toll on her. Although it's only been 2 yrs ago since I picked her up, her face, voice and body have aged 30 yrs. Great attitude still. Huskier voice now. Great bj, and really gets into fs. But will be my last with her.
DJ Hunter Broke the Chains
this is an event worht posting about.
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We sailed the same boat for quiet sometime, seeking the same thrill, dipped into same holes, so I will give you my advice. We spent time and money, and drove miles chasing an urge, which was nothing different than the first snort of heroin. To some, it is the hunt, to others, it is the companionship, in truth .... it is an illusion.
Mongering is no different than the salmon fish migration upstream. It is a costly hobby filled with risks and humiliating moments -- satisfaction is short lived, with a report on USASG and an occasional photo. Personally, I discovered I was not after the adrenalin rush, or the release, I was after a satisfying companionship which I never found.
When a monger tells you how much he is nice to the girls, or how nice they are to him, how he trusts them and how they reciprocate, it is all an illusion. Cum buckets are not darlings; crack wh0res are not GF material. I do not find joy and satisfaction within their misery, nor would I contribute to it.
Not many can walk out of this habit without scars of all types. It is an expensive habit, consumes time and resources. One night I looped the 3 strolls, and ended up with a bone, to learn she was HIV+ the next day. I dont do anything for less than $30 she said. That is when I asked myself if I was just a monger, and it was just a hobby.
If we ever thought of attending Sexaholics Annonymous just to pick up horney women, then you know what I mean. Support groups and SSRI drugs are effective, but we are still searching for companionship with all the side benifits ... it is the cure.
If you are waiting to hit bottom before you change habits, then it remains your decision. Force yourself to take a week off the habit, and start doing what you neglected. Look around you, you will find value.