I'm prolly not the bast to answer
[QUOTE=MassageFreak;1927883]I get spammed a lot via text and phone by providers wanting to see me. Let me say first I don't think I am special but I'm sure it happens to all of us. I got a spam text today Where a provider was thinking about me and wanted to see me. So I asked if they were running a special. There was no special I was told. So here's my theory, if a provider texts or calls out of the blue that must mean their not busy and need money. It's not because they miss a certain client or yearn for alone time because if that was the case wouldn't it be free? My feeling is that if a provider out of the blue text or call a client wanting to see a client that should automatically have a reduced rate. Because there is a reason she texted or called in the first place, most likely they like you or had a good time with you and know you are legit. I would definitely welcome opinions from mongers as well as providers. I wanna know if I am the odd man out here. Some will agree some will disagree, but i would like to hear from alot on here. what do you all think?[/QUOTE]I kind of like it. There's a chick that lives pretty close to the house, (2 blocks) and when she's having a slow day she will sometimes shoot me a text saying "queres cojerme?" (do you want to fuck me?) I only do 1/2 hours with her, it costs me 30 bucks and it's always a good quick porno fuck. I've been a customer of her's since she went independent so even though she has had a couple price increases in the last 6 months I'm still paying her what I did when she started.
I kind of dig it but I have no SO to deal with, I have my own schedule, so if I feel like fucking her (and I always do) I just grab some condoms and go nail her. She usually drops me a message like that 3 x's per month and it's always a nice surprise.
On a side note, all you guys that weren't here today should just slit your wrists. The weather is fucking perfect. I had a nearly perfect day today. Worked this morning while I drank my coffee, showered, went and banged one of my favorites (I may end up making an honest woman out of this one) after I walked to a park and bought a sandwich on the way and had a nice quiet lunch in a beautiful park while watching and endless number of amazingly beautiful women walk by. Then I had a coffee at a corner cafe and watched some more. Tonight I'm going out to dinner with a couple buddies and may bang another one.
If you have any means what so ever and want a great vacation next year plan on being in BsAs in late November. It's really unbelievable.
A2.
Begging for appts thru unsolicited contact
Is not how a truly elite professional courtesan behaves.
What if your wife sees the texts or answers the call?
What drug 'fix' does the provider need your $$ for so badly at that time?
Isn't discretion the fundamental foundation of our secret hobby society?
Just my opinion guys. Sorry if it's not as pretty as my pretty little butthole...
This is now starting to piss me the fuck off
[BLUE]HelpMeRhonda is getting calls from guys complaining about the novalty ads from Rhonda in the classifieds.
First it's not the same person.
Second and most important, how we monetize the site is our fucking business and nobody elses. If you have a problem with this [b]FREE FUCKING FORUM[/b] then get the fuck off of it!
A2[/BLUE]
Guys With Zero Posts-Freeloaders
It seems that every time I post a photograph or a review, I used to get six or seven posts from guys with zero posts requesting contact information. There is no way to know if they are legit, LEO, a prospective pimp, an ex, or even an ax murderer. Despite my rants on the Memphis Board, I still get them. I have a stock reply that I now send out. It is not as polite as the ones I have seen here. Feel free to use is if you want. Here it is.
If you have zero posts, that means you have made zero contributions to the board, and yet you expect the active members to do your work for you. ZERO POSTS, what the hell are you afraid of? That means that you haven't even bothered to introduce yourself to the board. Are you afraid that your momma will find out and send you to the timeout corner for an hour? Lets face it, this great board exists because the active members post valuable reviews and information. If everyone had zero post like you guys, the board would die and you would have no one to mooch off of. Since you are asking for contact information, I assume that once and a while you see the lady. So post about your experience, good or bad. Get off you ass and post.
The road to hell is paved with good intentions
[QUOTE=Cosmo68;1929030]My go to provider texts me out of the blue a few times a month. I'm fairly new to the hobby so I was surprised at first. Sometimes its just to say hey and see how I'm doing. [b]If she's in need of money and I helped her out my next visit is free, so I'm always willing to help out.[/b] Get 2 dreams for half price, can't beat that.[/QUOTE]Cosmo,
Welcome to the board. Some unsolicited advice that you can take as worth every penny it cost you.
Don't get caught up in this pattern. Rarely does it lead to anything but hard feelings between a monger and their "go to provider". All of us have done it and in most situations it ends badly.
If you want to help this girl out, then do it with no expectation of future services. Help her out because she's been a good partner, help her out because of that time around 1:00am where you got stood up by someone else and she was the only one who would answer your call, help her out just because she did that thing with her tongue that you can't stop thinking about. But NEVER help her out because of what you expect she's going to do for you in the future.
There's nothing wrong with helping out a friend and this isn't advice to be a cold hearted prick about everything. Just know what you're doing it and don't hope for what might not be there.
Have a great day.
Dz.