[QUOTE=DrtyHarry;4492833]So this lady and I corresponded for a while on SA (a year ago) moved to text and then things fizzled out before we could arrange to meet. She just seemed new and hesitant. Well out of the blue she has started corresponding with me again and I am wondering if that is a red flag. But she suddenly has a change of heart. A year later, seems too long. I cannot find her on SA. Wanted to know if any of you have any experience with her. Any intel would be greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]No personal experience with this particular lady, but had a similar experience with a different lady. Chatted on the site, moved to text and seemed to stall and fizzle out. About 6 months later she reached out via text and we started chatting again. When I asked her why she reached out she said that she had gotten cold feet, wasn't sure she wanted to continue, but that she was ready to give it a try now. I asked her why she didn't have her profile on SA and she said she wanted to reach out to me first since we had already messaged and it seemed we were compatible and had already got some of the awkward parts of the discussion out of the way. We had talked previously about allowance and boundaries and reconfirmed that we were both comfortable with what we had previously discussed. Ended up meeting for a drink, chemistry was good and decided to go to her place. Ended up spending a couple of hours at her place and had a great time, we saw each other a couple times a month for 3 or 4 months before her work schedule changed and made it hard to connect. That was over a year ago and to be honest if she reached out again today I would definitely be willing to hit it again.