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First off, you're getting in your feels man, this is not your concern. Secondly, you're in simp mode by feeling compelled to express this. We all know this happens on both sides. Guys ghost girls, girls ghost guys. The biggest reason is people get freaked out, something makes them shut down and change their mind. Some are truly playing games. Guys and girls and then there's some that perhaps are just tired of waiting, maybe the wife called or they hit the atm machine and the funds weren't there. We can never be precise what the reason is. Hell, maybe the guy jacked in his car and got post nut clarity and bailed out. Because there is very little professionalism in this industry, people seldom send a cancel, sorry or IOU note. They just bail because they can. I have ghosted quite a few over the years and many have ghosted me, nobody is immune to it. That said, keep on movin' and find the next girl to have fun with. Don't spend any time worrying about what other guys do that aggravates girls. Just hit it and roll out my guy.
[QUOTE=JerseyDude;7190368]First let me be clear that I don't think that any of our members here would do what I'm about to explain. But if the shoe fits, feel free to wear it and chime in or DM me.
I've been told, by two different providers the same issues with some of the guys that contact them.
The provider and potential client will have good comms back and forth. Everything is set to meet. Time, duration, services, donation and location. The provider will shower, get dolled up a bit and have a sexy outfit on in time for the client's arrival. The provider will sometimes get a call or text saying they were just minutes away or pulling into the parking lot. Then they get ghosted. When they try texting or calling the client, they realize they've been blocked. This can happen two or three times a day. Not every day, but often enough to be a problem.
Let's face it, I'm sure that most, if not all, of us have been ghosted by some of the unstable providers at some time or another. If that's the motive, then do this to the one that ghosted you. Why mess with a provider that's done you no wrong? It makes no sense to me. Besides, I'm old school, what's right is right and what's wrong is wrong.
Of course there are legitimate reasons that a client can't make it, but a text or call to let the provider know would be in order. At least if you'd care to ever get another appointment. My experience with these providers has been, if something unexpected came up on their part, I'd get a call or text, as soon as they were aware. They would apologize and offer to reschedule. And when the shit hits my fan, I would give them the same courtesy. After all, It's a service business and should be treated like any other.[/QUOTE]
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I remember her pictures
[QUOTE=Wftosser;7191386]That is not Angela. I think her name is Brenda and she has been using the same pictures for at least 10 or 15 years. I think I recall negative reviews or else I would've tried to see her.Do a search.[/QUOTE]I remember her pictures, not the name. I remember reviews which were mixed at best, but mostly bad.
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[QUOTE=RaleighR;7190374]Coming in from Raleigh area soon. And can't find any info about this provider.
[URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/raleigh/female-escorts/caucasian_w/car-dates--very-negotiable--ne/412228175983[/URL]
Searched forums but since there's no name. Can't find anything. My gut tells me there is nothing favorable.
Any help appreciated.[/QUOTE]I have fucked her a few times in the past. BBBJ, BBFS 60 bux is the going rate. It's been a minute looks like she gained weight. Be prepared for negative replies but I never had any issues with her. Her name is Brenda.
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Ghosting
[QUOTE=MrSmithwick;7191409]First off, you're getting in your feels man, this is not your concern. Secondly, you're in simp mode by feeling compelled to express this. We all know this happens on both sides. Guys ghost girls, girls ghost guys. The biggest reason is people get freaked out, something makes them shut down and change their mind. Some are truly playing games. Guys and girls and then there's some that perhaps are just tired of waiting, maybe the wife called or they hit the atm machine and the funds weren't there. We can never be precise what the reason is. Hell, maybe the guy jacked in his car and got post nut clarity and bailed out. Because there is very little professionalism in this industry, people seldom send a cancel, sorry or IOU note. They just bail because they can. I have ghosted quite a few over the years and many have ghosted me, nobody is immune to it. That said, keep on movin' and find the next girl to have fun with. Don't spend any time worrying about what other guys do that aggravates girls. Just hit it and roll out my guy.[/QUOTE]I respect your views and appreciate your response, as well as the other members.
I'm not in simp mode, this was more of my way of venting about ghosting from both sides and to see how others felt about it.
I 100% agree that both the girls and guys are doing it, but just because everyone is doing it, doesn't make it right Like I stated, I'm old school (very) and I believe in showing respect and common courtesy regardless of who they are or what they do.
I also 100% agree that there can be a million reasons to bail, real or not. I too have stepped away from a few meet-ups. A couple because the motel looked like it could be a murder scene or some other uncomfortable feeling. But I'd always text and say, " No f**king way I'm coming in there, I'm out". That's just me and how I feel things Should be handled.
I've been in and out of this game for quite a while, but this ghosting thing has gotten worst in the last several years. Since the internet, anyone who's willing to spread their legs can post. The days of the true quality PROS with handlers (not pimps) are history. Of course there are some providers that still provide reliable service, but they are far and few in between. Technically the term escort is over used. Most of the girls on STG and other similar sites are just street-walkers with a room. They give the true escorts a bad rap. But I treat them all with "MY" mode of conduct.
Like I started, I really do respect everyone's views and opinions here and I don't judge people since I haven't lived their lives or walked in their shoes. I'm not here trying to bash anyone, this is just an old-timers views and opinions who's frustrated with this bullshit.
Thanks again for reading.
Ya'll stay safe.
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Anyone talk to Naomi lately? Reached out with no response.
Also, thanks for the clarification on Brenda / Angela.
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Naomi
[QUOTE=CoopDawg;7191957]Anyone talk to Naomi lately? Reached out with no response.
Also, thanks for the clarification on Brenda / Angela.[/QUOTE]I talked to her last week.
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Interesting
Any intel on this one?
[URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/greensboro/female-escorts/caucasian_w/thick-ass-snowbunny--mobile--a/163061455907[/URL]
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Anyone seen this one?
[URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/highpoint/female-escorts/exotic/kourtney-/239108881927[/URL]
I'll be in the area later this week and was wondering if anyone had seen this one.
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[QUOTE=JRSmith274;7192331]I talked to her last week.[/QUOTE]She got back to me. Was having trouble with her text app. Thanks!
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Naomi
[QUOTE=CoopDawg;7193111]She got back to me. Was having trouble with her text app. Thanks![/QUOTE]Anyone have a picture of Naomi?
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[QUOTE=FlipSide1016;7193132]Anyone have a picture of Naomi?[/QUOTE]I do not, but if someone is going to share a picture, that's probably best done through DM and not posted publicly.
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Pictures are very old
[QUOTE=RaleighR;7190374]Coming in from Raleigh area soon. And can't find any info about this provider.
[URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/raleigh/female-escorts/caucasian_w/car-dates--very-negotiable--ne/412228175983[/URL]
Searched forums but since there's no name. Can't find anything. My gut tells me there is nothing favorable.
Any help appreciated.[/QUOTE]I went to see her a while back. Well over a year ago. She was advertising Greensboro a few days and Gibsonville a few. I caught her just as she was coming back to Gibsonville (her residence). We agreed on details, and I was to stop by a store on the way and get her a drink (well actually 2 high octane flavored alcoholic beverages in cans) and she wanted a specific flavor. After the second store I contacted her and told her that flavor I didn't see. She agreed on one because the others caused acid reflux. When I arrived the took one and chugged it like she was thirsting to death the whole time shaking almost uncontrollably and then opened the other. She looked to be well above 60 years of age. She took me to the bedroom and told me to get comfortable that she needed to go to the bathroom. As I lie there I looked to my right and noticed a gun rack with quite a few ARs and shotguns, none locked. I almost walked out then. She then came in and started with a covered BJ that wasn't working. I eventually left my donation and left unsatisfied. I will not repeat.
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This skank has been around for a very long time. She has never gotten good reviews let alone anyone that said they would repeat. She is old, raggedy and couldn't suck a dick if her life depended on it. DO NOT SEE HER! She is awful and you Will Waste Your Time with her.
[QUOTE=RaleighR;7190374]Coming in from Raleigh area soon. And can't find any info about this provider.
[URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/raleigh/female-escorts/caucasian_w/car-dates--very-negotiable--ne/412228175983[/URL]
Searched forums but since there's no name. Can't find anything. My gut tells me there is nothing favorable.
Any help appreciated.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=MrSmithwick;7193861]This skank has been around for a very long time. She has never gotten good reviews let alone anyone that said they would repeat. She is old, raggedy and couldn't suck a dick if her life depended on it. DO NOT SEE HER! She is awful and you Will Waste Your Time with her.[/QUOTE]I beg to differ, I stand by my previous post.
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Bianca in Graham.
Any intel on this newbie?
[URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/burlington-nc/female-escorts/exotic/bianca-/601016148621[/URL]