[QUOTE=BigBoiTerry;3528769]The using the board to seek vengeance is very common. The pettiness of some guys is mind boggling to me. . . . [b]What makes it bad is that a provider can never tell her side of the events, we just take it at face value that the guy is being honest. [/b][/QUOTE]You nailed it BBT. Ladies can't defend themselves. I shocked a bunch of guys a couple of years ago by pointing this out. They were taking a provider's silence that what a monger said was true. I know that Jackson and A2 don't want this board to turn into a "he said, she said" pissing contest, but sometimes guys just make shit up. I have been a long advocate of bringing the old Escort Advertiser Forum back where the girls could post daily. It now sits silent at the bottom of the forum. Sometimes the ladies should be able to tell their side of the story on a forum like that for us to see. A2 could monitor it and not let it get out of hand. For example, I wouldn't be interesting in hearing that some guy's dick smells like three day old pig shit. But coming from Mississippi, a lot of my neighbors think that three day old pig shit smells pretty good! But I draw the line at two days.