To: KNOXMONGER69; re: advanced deposit.
I'm curious if you gave her any reference-contacts of other gals whom you've seen but who might have told her you were a frequent last-moment cancellation or that you were a "no call & no show" recently or that you were a "time-waster" with alot of dubious questions or requests? If so: she might have decided that she wanted some assurance that her time would be partially compensated for if she scheduled an app't for you & then you canceled with little or no notice! _ [u]If somethin[/u]g [u]like that is not the case then[/u] I'd think that you may just not be communicating in any way that allows her to feel comfortable scheduling an app't for you, & this may be her delicate & tactful way of trying to see if you are going [u]to decide not t[/u]o persist in requesting an app't with her. _ I don't know any other reason why she'd request such.
[QUOTE=Knoxmonger69;1854664]I have been talking with Lilly Whyte by text for a few weeks. Unfortunately, our paths have not been able to cross yet. I've been hoping to have a dream of her after reading all of the great reviews. To be honest, I didn't even have an account until this issues came up. I've just read the reviews and made my selections accordingly. The issue that came up is that I've been trying to see her for a few weeks. The times I have been able to talk to her we've seemed to miss each other. The other times, she has been nearly impossible to contact. This appears to be a consistent issue that I've heard on the boards. I understand she has some personal issues, but it's still been unprofessional for a lack of a better word. Then I got a text today asking for a deposit for her time. She says that this is a common practice. I remember a while back on the boards there was a similar issue with Silly Lilly. There was actually a big production about Lilly Whyte not being Silly Lilly and not utilizing this practice. I wanted to get a feel from others in the hobby about this practice. Is this common? Does anyone else follow this practice? I've seen my fare share of professional women and I have not ran into this issue. [b]I've seen girls in Knoxville, Nashville, Atlanta, Indianapolis, Baltimore, and a few other cities.[/b] I make it a point to try to stick to recommended girls on USASG and occasionally Backpage girls. Any insight that fellow hobbyists may have would be greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]
Wouldn't overly concern me, but:
[QUOTE=KnoxMonger69;1855937]It's definitely not a question of recommendations. She has great references. I've just been concerned with the deposit. I'm just not familiar with this practice. I know I avoided Silly Lilly because of what I read on this board. Then There was a point made that Lilly Whyte was not Silly Lilly and does not require a deposit. Can you understand my confusion.[/QUOTE]A deposit for Lilly Whyte wouldn't concern me, but I have a decent rapport and excellent history with her. I have confidence she wouldn't be a ripoff. Having said that, it's not my money we're talking about, is it?
-Jeepster1
Sounds like one KnoxMonger had a case of cold feet.
[QUOTE=KnoxMonger69; 1854664]I have been talking with Lilly Whyte by text for a few weeks. Unfortunately, our paths have not been able to cross yet. I've been hoping to have a dream of her after reading all of the great reviews. To be honest, I didn't even have an account until this issues came up. I've just read the reviews and made my selections accordingly.
The issue that came up is that I've been trying to see her for a few weeks. The times I have been able to talk to her we've seemed to miss each other. The other times, she has been nearly impossible to contact. This appears to be a consistent issue that I've heard on the boards. I understand she has some personal issues, but it's still been unprofessional for a lack of a better word. Then I got a text today asking for a deposit for her time. She says that this is a common practice.
I remember a while back on the boards there was a similar issue with Silly Lilly. There was actually a big production about Lilly Whyte not being Silly Lilly and not utilizing this practice.
I wanted to get a feel from others in the hobby about this practice. Is this common? Does anyone else follow this practice? I've seen my fare share of professional women and I have not ran into this issue. I've seen girls in Knoxville, Nashville, Atlanta, Indianapolis, Baltimore, and a few other cities. I make it a point to try to stick to recommended girls on USASG and occasionally Backpage girls. Any insight that fellow hobbyists may have would be greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]Here's my advice for what it is worth. I've always considered this a common practice, when I go out of the way to ask for delivery. You know delivery, even of pizza, often has additional fees. You were lucky to just be asked for a deposit. I will say having been a regular customer of hers in the past that, well, you missed out. Think about it. You're asking for an additional service (or topping to keep with the pizza metaphor) of course there is going to be the possibility of an additional fee and / or charge. In this case, a deposit was necessary considering the amount of distance for such a delivery. (Try calling up Papa Johns in Memphis and have them deliver it to you in Knoxville.) I, myself, have put down deposits. It is just courtesy when asking such a favor. There are the travelling fees as well as their valuable time to be taken into consideration. In my opinion, I would have been concerned as a customer if she had not asked for a deposit. This would mean that she is either desperate for business and willing to risk wasting the travelling fees and whatnot or that she could be plotting some type of robbery. So had she not asked for a deposit from a non-regular, you might want to worry that she could be a sub-par pie or planning some type of crime. That's why it has never bothered me. Each person has their own take on things from federal taxes to delivery charges. Hope this helps. If all else fails go carry-out.
The Characters in our Bedroom Theatres
[QUOTE=Mike1701; 1857835]I do agree with ya about Jessica. She is a small spinner, with big tits. She has always came thru for me, and I have seen her several times over the years. The best thing I can say is Jessica is one sensual provider.
Maybe Katie can get her shit together, hate to see a person wasted.[/QUOTE]Furthermore, it is probably much more likely that she was using to enhance her performance, What I mean by this is simple, come on guys. While we all like to believe they do this because they find us attractive, text a provider and ask if she'll see you for free. Certain substances enhance the acting performance involved. It of course always could end up being something that harms performance (if addiction develops, though this is not a given), but it is mostly done for our benefit. So we can feel like we had some connection. I'm just honest with myself. I honestly don't mind if they use, as stated, if not yet addicted, it will probably enhance performance. A person is never wasted simply because the character they play in our bedroom theaters leaves the building.