PSA The More You Know * haha
[QUOTE=Dancing69;4673913]Please explain what she did wrong.
The only thing wrong that I see here is you didn't bring the right amount of money.[/QUOTE]And yeah you're lucky she didn't keep the half you brought and call a thug up she's got a baby by a local crack dealer so If she wanted someone to say bust up your car or rob you it'd be pretty easy for her to find someone. As a long time enthusiast of this hobby I've very rarely not had the amount I said I have and if I don't its never as much as half less than what we agreed upon I think if she yelled for something outside that you were trying to scam her and you got roughed up you might be cursing her instead of feeling pity and sorrow LOL but you love and learn.
Forgive my misdeeds. I am still learning.
[QUOTE=Broome333;4676887]I debated commenting on this for awhile and decided I would chime in.
First, the "Irish Queen" has been around for sometime. I haven't seen her and there are good reasons why, although it is fair to point out up front I have never heard of her robbing or ripping customers off. In fact the only recommendation I heard about her was positive. When I first noticed her ads she was definitely not skinny. In fact, she was bordering on chunky, maybe a bit past that border in fact. She disappeared for a few months, perhaps a year, and then started posting again with pics that showed her considerably thinner. Personally, I consider rapid, extreme weight lose in a provider a pretty big red flag. In my experience, there are two likely reasons for it and neither say "hurry up and jump in bed with this girl" to me. In her case its most likely chemical demons of one type or another. I did some checking into her after she started posting again (when I got the positive recommendation on her} and that cemented my stay away decision. Like many STG girls she has a long police record, including some felonies, and the usual list of shady acquaintances with their own records. Her friends list on social media is like a who's who of current and former QC area providers liberally sprinkled with a selection of thuggish looking dudes that I wouldn't want to find hanging out when I showed up to see her. More concerning is the trend in her news feed of going from "on top of the world" to "I just want to die" and back like a like an unstable, poorly adjusted roller coaster. More or less she is a "new day, new drama" type person and I simply don't need to get caught up in that over a roll in the hay. So for me it was a hard no then and it seems like she has gone down hill from that point.[/QUOTE]It seems that I have broken a rule or two with my last visit and I certainly am not looking to alienate myself from this board as it has provided me with invaluable information and resources. So I must ask for understanding and patience. I am still learning how to navigate this hobby and am bound to make mistakes along the way. Hoping that when I post on here about my experiences and a more experienced monger spots an inconsistency, that information can be shared in a constructive way so that we all can enjoy this hobby. I truly do appreciate any guidance.
With that being said, to the poster asking me what the Irish Queen did wrong, she did nothing wrong. I don't think I ever said anything about her doing anything wrong. I advised staying away because of the many details that were there that added up to me wanting to ultimately leave. Between the shady motel where you couldn't lock the door to protect yourself from being interrupted by someone to her physical appearance. That may sound harsh but after reading post after post about what the vast majority of mongers look for in a provider, as well as having private conversations with mongers about their personal preferences, I was merely trying to confirm that this provider was indeed underweight and likely not worth going to see. Though if you read my entire review, I did end by saying that if you are into skinny girls that looked like they were living their best "breaking bad" life, then go for it. Me leaving had absolutely nothing to do with money. The fact that I needed to go get the rest of the money gave me the opportunity to leave a situation that I felt completely uncomfortable in. I don't regret it at all. Especially after reading some of the follow up posts that talked about her having some seriously shady connections.
In regards to the whole money situation. I can assure you, my plan was not to try and go in and short change her. I have read many posts where mongers negotiate the price of the visit, even mid visit. To be completely honest, I forgot to hit the ATM because I was incredibly nervous going to see this provider, especially given where I was at. I didn't realize it until she asked for the money and I gave her what I had. I then asked her if she would be willing to engage in a single activity and then after that I would get her the rest of the money. She agreed. She then spent all of 20 secs or so doing this and then stopped and said she needed the money. I had no issue with this. But it was at this point that I decided it was best that I leave. Could I have handled it better, I would say yes but she didn't leave the situation empty handed. For those who were concerned with her eating, she was given plenty of money to get something to eat but given her appearance and likely habit, I don't think said money was going to go for food. Has no one here ever gone somewhere for a service, been unhappy with any details of the situation, and wanted to leave without wasting their money? But again, the reason I left had nothing to do with the fact that she wanted the rest of the money. It had to do with the environment and her appearance. Nothing more, nothing less. Her prices are very reasonable and if a monger is into that then have at it. It just wasn't for me.
Bottom line, if some of you felt I was out of line for leaving and only paying half of what the asking price was, I understand. You have every right to voice your opinions and I certainly appreciate you trying to help me out with that. I will certainly take what I have seen into consideration for future experiences. I want to continue to enjoy this hobby as much as I can and I know that the only way that will happen is if I am able to take advantage of this board and it's members. I appreciate any and all advice that is given. Stay safe and monger on.
CG.