"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=Bran001;4945620]I made an acct on SB for the first time about 2 weeks ago. Totally useless. The profiles are like "worst of" SA.[b] I get these messages 'so-and-so invited you to message them' or such.[/b] So I spend 10 credits ($6. 00) to message them. Never a response; not one. And I have great success on SA; these are not off-putting messages. I getting the idea that much of SB is not legit. I wasted $59 on 10 credits.[/QUOTE]Yep! One needs to learn to ignore those emails on SB. After all, all SB has to sell are credits, so they try to get you to spend those credits by creating false interest. If a girl is interested she will message you. Otherwise, ignore the site generated messages that 'so-and-so invited you to message them. ' The site wants you to fall for that as it gets you to spend your credits, then hopefully buy more.

But low reply rates and ghosting by girls is de rigeuer for these sites. No penalty for bad behavior so it abounds. Dudes need to make sure their approach isn't a factor in no replies.

A couple of years back I made a profile on a site called Established Men. I connected w / a girl, great 30's single mom, sweet and not too smart, really stunning. I have also seen her on SA since we stopped hanging out. It is a similar pool of SBs, I recall it not being as broad or as convenient. No reason to switch.

[QUOTE=BamBam;4944824]I am going to respectfully disagree with the view given below. It has been a few years since I did any real research on SB or SD4 Me but I once tracked profiles on the various sites. I still have the SD4 Me data squirreled away somewhere. Of the new profiles on SD4 Me, a huge percent were duplicates of profiles on SA. Of those profiles, something like 85% signed on once and never signed on again. I only tracked it across an eight week period but it certainly appeared to me that someone was identifying new profiles on SA and copying them over to SD4 Me and other sites. I recall also reading that one of the sites had some boilerplate saying that some profiles were created "for entertainment purposes only. ".

I would not be surprised to learn that sites competing with SA were hiring contractors to create "entertainment profiles. " It would then make sense to me that it would be easier for those contractors to copy new SA profiles than to continually invent new ones from whole cloth. Including finding unsearchable photos to use with them. I could also be completely delusional. All I know is my results on SA are vastly superior to what I found elsewhere.

BAM.[/QUOTE]Sd4 me has been total trash for a very long time, no new interesting meets or even chats since last October.

Hey guys,

I've been in the SD / SB world for almost a decade, if not more, and back in the early days this was the single, premier thread, across the country, for sharing info, support and tactics. I pretty much dropped out from posting several years ago because I felt I had nothing more to say, but if you look WAY back in the thread you'll see my posts, for what that is worth.

All that said, I'd love to reconnect with some of my old pals from back in the day, so if any of you read this, PM me and let's chat. I'm still keeping busy, but on a more subdued level.

Looking forward to hearing from you. You know who you are!

Cheers,

Scott.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/33d57ca5-da62-4447-8d82-ac44d6ad4d3d[/URL]

Had plans to meet this one for some car fun today for an hour during her lunch break. Initial texting got sexual quick and she's into being treated like a dirty girl with all holes open. While I was waiting for a text about what time her lunch break would start, she sends me a text saying "I can be free tonight and would love to see you" followed quickly by "oops wrong person LOL". I know what SA is for but if I wanted a girl banging multiple guys in the same day I'd be on STG. I texted back that I'd pass and let her focus on her evening plans and she replied that the text was meant for her boyfriend, obvious BS since when we first started talking about what we wanted from the site she said something casual at first with the potential to go out and do things in public together if a connection was made. Plus who has to text that they can be free tonight to a boyfriend.

She was reviewed here a couple weeks ago by someone who said she gave great BJs but got weird and clingy after he didn't text for a couple days. If you're up for a wild but high volume girl give her a try.

[QUOTE=CrimsonMan;4950602][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/33d57ca5-da62-4447-8d82-ac44d6ad4d3d[/URL]

Had plans to meet this one for some car fun today for an hour during her lunch break. Initial texting got sexual quick and she's into being treated like a dirty girl with all holes open. While I was waiting for a text about what time her lunch break would start, she sends me a text saying "I can be free tonight and would love to see you" followed quickly by "oops wrong person LOL". I know what SA is for but if I wanted a girl banging multiple guys in the same day I'd be on STG. I texted back that I'd pass and let her focus on her evening plans and she replied that the text was meant for her boyfriend, obvious BS since when we first started talking about what we wanted from the site she said something casual at first with the potential to go out and do things in public together if a connection was made. Plus who has to text that they can be free tonight to a boyfriend.

She was reviewed here a couple weeks ago by someone who said she gave great BJs but got weird and clingy after he didn't text for a couple days. If you're up for a wild but high volume girl give her a try.[/QUOTE]I think you're a little delusional (and I'm not trying to be mean-spirited about this) in 2 ways. One, to think that any SA girl isn't seeing others maybe even the same day, is kinda baseless. We know nothing about them (unless reviewed here). We don't know what they did one day, or 2 hours, before they meet us. Second, you've concluded that she's "high volume" because she was planning a date for the evening after she sees you. Does she see 2 men every day? You don't know.

I'd be put off too if I got that text. But it IS all in your (big not little) head. Truth is we don't know anything about them. And 1/2 or more of what they tell is isn't true anywayl.

Everyone is trying to make money. I looked at her private pictures she's hot as hell. Seems fishy to me, but if legit, I'd hang out with her in a heartbeat, just give me a spot in line!

[QUOTE=Bran001;4951094]I think you're a little delusional (and I'm not trying to be mean-spirited about this) in 2 ways. One, to think that any SA girl isn't seeing others maybe even the same day, is kinda baseless. We know nothing about them (unless reviewed here). We don't know what they did one day, or 2 hours, before they meet us. Second, you've concluded that she's "high volume" because she was planning a date for the evening after she sees you. Does she see 2 men every day? You don't know.

I'd be put off too if I got that text. But it IS all in your (big not little) head. Truth is we don't know anything about them. And 1/2 or more of what they tell is isn't true anywayl.[/QUOTE]

Hey F Scott.

Welcome back! You will find that many of the old names have gone and this thread no longer seems to be the defacto National Sugar Dating thread.

[QUOTE=FScott;4947875]Hey guys,

I've been in the SD / SB world for almost a decade, if not more, and back in the early days this was the single, premier thread, across the country, for sharing info, support and tactics. I pretty much dropped out from posting several years ago because I felt I had nothing more to say, but if you look WAY back in the thread you'll see my posts, for what that is worth.

All that said, I'd love to reconnect with some of my old pals from back in the day, so if any of you read this, PM me and let's chat. I'm still keeping busy, but on a more subdued level.

Looking forward to hearing from you. You know who you are!

Cheers,

Scott.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;4952265]Hey F Scott.

Welcome back! You will find that many of the old names have gone and this thread no longer seems to be the defacto National Sugar Dating thread.[/QUOTE]A National thread would be nice. I've sugared in RVA, but mostly in Boston. The Boston thread is pretty active but it's 99% about locals and our reviews / tips about them.

I tried the Reddit 'Sugarlifestyle' sub, but it's ridiculously moderated and run by a lot of GPS women.

[QUOTE=CrimsonMan;4950602][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/33d57ca5-da62-4447-8d82-ac44d6ad4d3d[/URL]

Had plans to meet this one for some car fun today for an hour during her lunch break. Initial texting got sexual quick and she's into being treated like a dirty girl with all holes open. While I was waiting for a text about what time her lunch break would start, she sends me a text saying "I can be free tonight and would love to see you" followed quickly by "oops wrong person LOL". I know what SA is for but if I wanted a girl banging multiple guys in the same day I'd be on STG. I texted back that I'd pass and let her focus on her evening plans and she replied that the text was meant for her boyfriend, obvious BS since when we first started talking about what we wanted from the site she said something casual at first with the potential to go out and do things in public together if a connection was made. Plus who has to text that they can be free tonight to a boyfriend.

She was reviewed here a couple weeks ago by someone who said she gave great BJs but got weird and clingy after he didn't text for a couple days. If you're up for a wild but high volume girl give her a try.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the heads up. I'd like to see her if the price is right. What was the agreed upon allowance?

I have no problem if she's scheduling more than one date again. I go to an amazing Korean AMP in Nova. Two gorgeous Korean's in a luxury gated apartment with two master bedrooms. GFE 45 minutes for $220. Talk about high volume. Open 10 am-11 pm. I only go if I get a 10:00 am - 10:30 am appointment. That way I know my flag is the first planted of the day. Same strategy I'd take with this Baby!

[QUOTE=Bran001;4952274]A National thread would be nice. I've sugared in RVA, but mostly in Boston. The Boston thread is pretty active but it's 99% about locals and our reviews / tips about them.

I tried the Reddit 'Sugarlifestyle' sub, but it's ridiculously moderated and run by a lot of GPS women.[/QUOTE]The archive of this thread is still a hidden gem. I am in southern California, and there are a few veteran posters in my territory. I definitely have little interest in posting 'reviews' of ex-SBs, especially if there was any sort of decent connection or ongoing interaction.

300 for BBFS / cip, but when I ask for a selfie with a thumbs up this is what I got. The person sent me the same pic twice I was rolling on the floor laughing.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5acd54cb-b7b8-49ba-acd7-2d4f0a3d2555[/URL]

[QUOTE=Lobsid;4953287]300 for BBFS / cip, but when I ask for a selfie with a thumbs up this is what I got. The person sent me the same pic twice I was rolling on the floor laughing.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5acd54cb-b7b8-49ba-acd7-2d4f0a3d2555[/URL][/QUOTE]By far, the funniest post I've seen ever on the board, right when I needed it.

I'm having a really shitty run on SA. Just this morning a gorgeous 20 why o SB that I did a M&G with in Raleigh on Monday, agreed to go to the FC tomorrow. Ghosted me for two & a half days then texted me she was disappointed I wanted to bring her to a hotel & get her drunk & take advantage of her? WTF.

Than a local one wanted $450 for an open menu. As I was negotiating she tells me she has rules: she supplies the covers & lube for Greek. Oh, the poor thing has been burned before so send $150 up front! Bye, blocked.

Then a stripper tells me I can buy her lunch for $500? Not even private dancing. GPS? No DPS. Next level shit, Diamond!

I guess I might need to go see a sure thing? Escort or Korean AMP up in Nova.

[QUOTE=Lobsid;4953287]300 for BBFS / cip, but when I ask for a selfie with a thumbs up this is what I got. The person sent me the same pic twice I was rolling on the floor laughing.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5acd54cb-b7b8-49ba-acd7-2d4f0a3d2555[/URL][/QUOTE]That's some mad photoshop skills! LOL.

[QUOTE=Bran001;4953642]That's some mad photoshop skills! LOL.[/QUOTE]Lmao I just talked to her today and she sent me the same pic from her profile with a hand holding up 3 fingers photoshopped in!!