Is this any way to treat a woman?
I'm always amazed when I read a post in which a guy has written that he started rubbing the masseuse's pussy right away. In some cases, the girl jumps back and shrieks. In other cases, she goes with it.
My approach is more subtle and respectful, hopefully gaining me more trust and a better outcome. I usually let my hand brush against her leg, then I slowly make my way to exploring the leg, caressing it a bit, working my way up, but never up to the crotch without "permission" or some history with her. (e.g., After many times with Eva I know she's hot to trot right away.) I never go from A to Z immediately. Granted, this is not a date and the girls know what's going on, but who among them would want a finger in their bush before they've even warmed up.
I'd love to hear opinions.
Hello Spa El Cajon / Santee
Stopped in because I was actually a little stiff in my back and shoulders with the hope of more. It's right next to the in-and-out. $40 for the hour. No lock on the door, no peephole either. In comes mid 30's masseuse, jeans and a tshirt- not a good sign but you never know. Good rub with a few rubs on her calves to let her know I was interested. But no go. Decent rub but no hint of extras or teasing pre or post flip. Will not return. 5.
I always leave out some Details
[QUOTE=TennisNut;3288362]I'm always amazed when I read a post in which a guy has written that he started rubbing the masseuse's pussy right away. In some cases, the girl jumps back and shrieks. In other cases, she goes with it.
My approach is more subtle and respectful, hopefully gaining me more trust and a better outcome. I usually let my hand brush against her leg, then I slowly make my way to exploring the leg, caressing it a bit, working my way up, but never up to the crotch without "permission" or some history with her. (e.g., After many times with Eva I know she's hot to trot right away.) I never go from A to Z immediately. Granted, this is not a date and the girls know what's going on, but who among them would want a finger in their bush before they've even warmed up.
I'd love to hear opinions.[/QUOTE]I always feel my reviews are too long so I try to chop out a lot so maybe this time I took out a little bit too much detail.
When I started the massage I was facedown with my arms to the side and when she kept lingering with liight touch on my butt I started to play with her ass.
I had my hand on her ass for a while before I tried to rub her crotch through her sweatpants.
I go back to The philosophical approach of if you touch me I touch you which means if a girl wants to play with me sensually I start to play with her sensually.
The whole reason I got a massage is for the sensual experience.
I started lightly on her thighs and work my way up to my hand on her ass so when she really started to go deep and play with my balls is when I turned around and started touching her over a cloths never once tried to get under her clothes by the way that's when OTC means.
Sometimes you have to send out signals.
I thought maybe she was up for full-service I quickly realized it was just sensual and I was fine with that.
I have three different girls currently that I text or WeChat with, almost daily.
These girls are my friends better friends then I have anywhere else.
1 hour + FS, top tier MP?
My MO has always been to pay for an hour and to get an actual massage, which I like that as part of the experience. Some of the top tier girls are actually quite expert, in my experience.
I see however that prices have gone up, and am seeking input on what might be expected for FS+massage, one hour, at a top tier place like Pine. I realize it may depend on how busy they are, so I'm going to try to hit at a less popular time.
I haven't been on the forum in a while, but see some familiar names here.
Thanks!
Can you point a fellow monger from OC in the right direction?
Dear local experts.
I'll come down from OC this weekend, and was wondering if you could share your opinion or recommendations: I am looking for a sensual massage and HJ-only type place, the closer to Point Loma, the better. Any help, and possibly names of worthy technicians, are greatly appreciated!
Thanks,
Conn.
Holy massage in San Marcos
[QUOTE=BradLittleGuy;3293670]I have been to most spots in San Marcos, and most do offer HE but I am getting over seeing the same girls and the same places. Has anyone had success at places in Oceanside or Escondido? I doubt any of them offer FS. Let me know fellas![/QUOTE]I really liked holy massage in San Marcos inside that medical plaza on the third floor across the high school. If you haven't tried, I would suggest try it.