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[QUOTE=NepKng;7251970]Has anyone had any experience with her?[/QUOTE]Do you have a link to her profile?
[QUOTE=LikesGirls;7252026]Do you have a link to her profile?[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e32d2f98-92c9-4b27-b9e3-59ef4c586d32[/URL]
Has anyone talked to, seen, met or had a full on arrangement with these women?
1. Samara.
Attractive. Not a bad profile. Decent amount of pics, some. Interesting. Conversation wise, was very bubbly and talkative. Talked plans and she gave me her snapchat and initially conversed, but then stopped responding when it came to specifics.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1f28bfff-12a1-4821-a320-279dc1689de2[/URL]
2. Joy.
Decent to talk to. Decent pics. But keeps trying to get me to go to dinner with her? Very adament on that for some reason. I haven't moved forward with her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d6dab534-4719-4ae9-94ba-48b3c3868c9a[/URL]
3. Strawberrysqt.
Decent looking. Standard profile. Seems to want straightforwardness, since she's "busy".
https://members.seeking.com/member/ea3588f3-41fd-4613-ae1a-f5a4b2518265
4. Sophia.
Not even sure if this person is real or not. Doesn't respond but viewed profile a few times. Bio claims she's "Evil" and looking for a slave.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aefdae30-21ad-49a6-aeaa-32cb0c62b482[/URL]
5. Ophelia.
Near her mid 30's. Looks okay. Standard / basic profile, nothing stands out except her eyes.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/290071ee-8ae7-4008-a7bb-f47b64d62ab6[/URL]
6. Anita.
Early 30's. Only two pics public. Says she's gotten out of a divorce and doesn't tolerate disrespect or what men think she wants. Other than that, basic.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b0cd4e31-d080-4209-9848-92fd580647a3[/URL]
7. Kay.
Supposedly been on seeking since 2024. Looks real, but something seems off. Can't explain it. Not a good bio but nothing negative either.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7249076e-7250-413c-ba3e-cc5ce2217c3c[/URL]
8. Love.
Well well. This one looks quite attractive. Says she's very good at communication and appreciates bluntness. Says she wants a partner who is open to what she does for work.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/62f96286-6b1d-4732-9361-f2460ce7d305[/URL]
9. Sweet101.
Has anyone even entertained this? Even just for laughs? This individual has been on the same for years and has the same terrible bio and only one pic. "Cute couple looking for fun".
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/123caa64-765b-48e4-b4d8-79d7a4048aa8[/URL]
10. Charrose xoxo.
Apparently been on seeking for years. I remember talking to her in the past, but she'd eventually ghost.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/01525161-0c9a-4c8f-b875-cebbe2f11f21[/URL]
[QUOTE=Swimback;7247222]Echoing other experiences with her. I was over it quick. Point of seeking is we are paying to not deal with regular dating headaches. As soon as it is as much as or more work than regular dating the value proposition dissolves. I'm paying for convenience, period.[/QUOTE]Yup! I swear it's like the same 3-6 "Experienced Sugar Babes" that I've seen on the site for years, who are just completely dry or uninteresting. While throwing breadcrumbs here and there, or being absolutely horrible in communication.
[QUOTE=SaintMan3500;7252401]Has anyone talked to, seen, met or had a full on arrangement with these women?
1. Samara.
Attractive. Not a bad profile. Decent amount of pics, some. Interesting. Conversation wise, was very bubbly and talkative. Talked plans and she gave me her snapchat and initially conversed, but then stopped responding when it came to specifics.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1f28bfff-12a1-4821-a320-279dc1689de2[/URL]
2. Joy.
Decent to talk to. Decent pics. But keeps trying to get me to go to dinner with her? Very adament on that for some reason. I haven't moved forward with her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d6dab534-4719-4ae9-94ba-48b3c3868c9a[/URL]
3. Strawberrysqt.
Decent looking. Standard profile. Seems to want straightforwardness, since she's "busy".
https://members.seeking.com/member/ea3588f3-41fd-4613-ae1a-f5a4b2518265
4. Sophia.
Not even sure if this person is real or not. Doesn't respond but viewed profile a few times. Bio claims she's "Evil" and looking for a slave.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aefdae30-21ad-49a6-aeaa-32cb0c62b482[/URL]
5. Ophelia.
Near her mid 30's. Looks okay. Standard / basic profile, nothing stands out except her eyes.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/290071ee-8ae7-4008-a7bb-f47b64d62ab6[/URL]
6. Anita.
Early 30's. Only two pics public. Says she's gotten out of a divorce and doesn't tolerate disrespect or what men think she wants. Other than that, basic.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b0cd4e31-d080-4209-9848-92fd580647a3[/URL]
7. Kay.
Supposedly been on seeking since 2024. Looks real, but something seems off. Can't explain it. Not a good bio but nothing negative either.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7249076e-7250-413c-ba3e-cc5ce2217c3c[/URL]
8. Love.
Well well. This one looks quite attractive. Says she's very good at communication and appreciates bluntness. Says she wants a partner who is open to what she does for work.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/62f96286-6b1d-4732-9361-f2460ce7d305[/URL]
9. Sweet101.
Has anyone even entertained this? Even just for laughs? This individual has been on the same for years and has the same terrible bio and only one pic. "Cute couple looking for fun".
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/123caa64-765b-48e4-b4d8-79d7a4048aa8[/URL]
10. Charrose xoxo.
Apparently been on seeking for years. I remember talking to her in the past, but she'd eventually ghost.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/01525161-0c9a-4c8f-b875-cebbe2f11f21[/URL]
Yup! I swear it's like the same 3-6 "Experienced Sugar Babes" that I've seen on the site for years, who are just completely dry or uninteresting. While throwing breadcrumbs here and there, or being absolutely horrible in communication.[/QUOTE]I met Ophelia a long while back under a different name. She was nice- had a fun time we just didn't really click so I never saw her a second time. The sign in the background makes me kinda nervous with everything that's been going on.
I messaged with Sophie some but was weird- like you I wonder if she's real.
[QUOTE=SaintMan3500;7252401]Has anyone talked to, seen, met or had a full on arrangement with these women?
1. Samara.
Attractive. Not a bad profile. Decent amount of pics, some. Interesting. Conversation wise, was very bubbly and talkative. Talked plans and she gave me her snapchat and initially conversed, but then stopped responding when it came to specifics.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1f28bfff-12a1-4821-a320-279dc1689de2[/URL]
2. Joy.
Decent to talk to. Decent pics. But keeps trying to get me to go to dinner with her? Very adament on that for some reason. I haven't moved forward with her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d6dab534-4719-4ae9-94ba-48b3c3868c9a[/URL]
3. Strawberrysqt.
Decent looking. Standard profile. Seems to want straightforwardness, since she's "busy".
https://members.seeking.com/member/ea3588f3-41fd-4613-ae1a-f5a4b2518265
4. Sophia.
Not even sure if this person is real or not. Doesn't respond but viewed profile a few times. Bio claims she's "Evil" and looking for a slave.[/QUOTE]I've only had conversations with Joy and Sophia. I would avoid both. Both are pretty forceful about wanting to drain your bank account and treat you like garbage. At least for Joy, she seems surprised that no one wants to let her drain their bank account without even giving them sex. And she's not even very cute. As for Sophia, she just seems like a straight up B. She wants to be more of a dom or something. She is cute though if the pics are real.
[QUOTE=SaintMan3500;7252401]Has anyone talked to, seen, met or had a full on arrangement with these women?
8. Love.
Well well. This one looks quite attractive. Says she's very good at communication and appreciates bluntness. Says she wants a partner who is open to what she does for work.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/62f96286-6b1d-4732-9361-f2460ce7d305[/URL]
Yup! I swear it's like the same 3-6 "Experienced Sugar Babes" that I've seen on the site for years, who are just completely dry or uninteresting. While throwing breadcrumbs here and there, or being absolutely horrible in communication.[/QUOTE]I talked with Love not too long ago and She wanted 1 k ppm. That pretty much ended the conversation on my end.
[QUOTE=YourCCPimp;7252417]I've only had conversations with Joy and Sophia. I would avoid both. Both are pretty forceful about wanting to drain your bank account and treat you like garbage. At least for Joy, she seems surprised that no one wants to let her drain their bank account without even giving them sex. And she's not even very cute. As for Sophia, she just seems like a straight up B. She wants to be more of a dom or something. She is cute though if the pics are real.[/QUOTE]My friend you just described 90% of all of these girls. I'm beginning to question why not just regular date. Men used to have a young mistress as a by production of a successful like! Social media has kill that I imagine. They all seem to think, and reinforced by weak simps IMO, that their v-jay give them the right to a luxe life while giving nothing in return. I did a duo once with SBs and it was OK. Is avoid unless you can get them to agree to P2P without changing rubbers (better yet test and raw) as it's a real drag to have to stop and change rubbers. Really. They dous are typically scams on SA SB.
Peace.
Has anyone seen this one? DM me with details and let's compare notes.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0ebd6e43-8f16-4119-9b4d-1d94724947d9[/URL]
[QUOTE=Swimback;7253749]Has anyone seen this one? DM me with details and let's compare notes.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0ebd6e43-8f16-4119-9b4d-1d94724947d9[/URL][/QUOTE]I don't know how real this bio is. On the first photo she's sitting in a private jet. I noticed she wears a Rolex watch.
If she's real, she's not going to be cheap. At all.
So I deleted my old profile sometime back and was trying to sign up again and it is now asking me to verify with a selfie? WTF is that? Did any of you guys do that? Like why would they make it so hard to sign up and chase their paying customers away, frekin makes no sense.
[QUOTE=Falconwings33;7255034]So I deleted my old profile sometime back and was trying to sign up again and it is now asking me to verify with a selfie? WTF is that? Did any of you guys do that? Like why would they make it so hard to sign up and chase their paying customers away, frekin makes no sense.[/QUOTE]It's their attempt at limiting the scammers. Is it required now? I have a fake profile as well as my real one and it keeps getting pop ups asking to verify but so far it's not required. We've all complained at the increase in scammers over the years, now they're trying to give everyone some confidence that the person they're talking to is real. Most if not all of the dating services are doing it now. I verified on my real profile because I'm divorced and no longer have any reason not to. It will be interesting to see how many paying customers they drive away and whether they change their minds. It does appear that many of the girls are doing it and the ones that don't have the verification are more likely to look like scammers to me. For what it's worth I've been told several times in the last month or so that girls specifically wrote back to me because I have verified in multiple ways but I'm sure there are girls on there that realize the married guys won't verify so I don't know how much difference it will make.
[QUOTE=Falconwings33;7255034]So I deleted my old profile sometime back and was trying to sign up again and it is now asking me to verify with a selfie? WTF is that? Did any of you guys do that? Like why would they make it so hard to sign up and chase their paying customers away, frekin makes no sense.[/QUOTE]I have 2 old accounts. Neither are verified. I just rejoined with one of the accounts and did not have do the selfie BS. Apparently for the time being old accounts don't follow the new rules. I'm sure sooner or later they will apply the rules to the old accounts too. When they do that I'll be done with SA.
[QUOTE=DrSugarD;7255516]I have 2 old accounts. Neither are verified. I just rejoined with one of the accounts and did not have do the selfie BS. Apparently for the time being old accounts don't follow the new rules. I'm sure sooner or later they will apply the rules to the old accounts too. When they do that I'll be done with SA.[/QUOTE]Same here. I was able to rejoin the past 3 months without a problem, no selfie.
Did you rejoin with a giftcard? I've been unable to get any to go through this time though. Any tricks?
[QUOTE=DriveHard;7257253]Same here. I was able to rejoin the past 3 months without a problem, no selfie.
Did you rejoin with a giftcard? I've been unable to get any to go through this time though. Any tricks?[/QUOTE]I had been using Blackhawk prepaid cards from Lowes but it didn't work last time. I read about this on the Northern VA sugar baby forum. Purchase an egift visa on [URL]vanillagift.com[/URL]. You will have to purchase it with your regular cc, and they will email you the card numbers, exp date, etc. You don't even have to register it. I then joined using my fake SA account. I used the same fake name and address as when I had joined previously. It worked without a hitch. (At least for now!
Chelsey.
- nice.
- upfront ppm / 500.
Kept asking for little donations that rubbed me the wrong way.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f424f896-8f24-4981-87c7-4530039eba28[/URL]
Elizabeth.
Married deal breaker.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/21cd4105-4d00-43b6-a400-e6f26b2be1ad[/URL]
Jazzy.
- upfront.
- awesome personality.
- marriage deal-breaker.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/016edfca-dc64-4c56-ad9d-a5415a311c0d[/URL]
[QUOTE=NeedToSearch2;7258446]
Jazzy.
- upfront.
- awesome personality.
- marriage deal-breaker.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/016edfca-dc64-4c56-ad9d-a5415a311c0d[/URL][/QUOTE]Did you get any indication from her of what she's looking for financially?
[QUOTE=GentleGiant78;7258559]Did you get any indication from her of what she's looking for financially?[/QUOTE]Standard 500 per meet.
Maybe meeting with her, will report if I do. Any intel?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5c5b50b6-8ea3-48e1-9223-7c2182d350eb[/URL]
[QUOTE=MrBlueSea;7260115]Not sure if I will have enough time on my next trip, to stop in Raleigh to see this lovely SB, but perhaps I can convince her to come to Charlotte and spend the night?
[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Princess/[/URL][/QUOTE]Stop the cap.
[QUOTE=IneptPlayer;7236948]This one has previously gone by "Chelsea," "sadistic beauty," and "vicious vixen. " For a warning, see post 4387.
Despite the warning, I contacted her a while back. After some promising conversation, we moved to texting. She then asked me to buy some of her content. I said I was only interested interested in meeting in person. She suggested a meet and greet for 200. I responded no thank you and let that one go.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the heads up, had a similar experience with quick to text and dtf right away, followed by trying to sell content. She mentioned doing porn in Miami, wonder if anyone uncovered any of that.
[QUOTE=BeltWayGuy;7261046]Thanks for the heads up, had a similar experience with quick to text and dtf right away, followed by trying to sell content. She mentioned doing porn in Miami, wonder if anyone uncovered any of that.[/QUOTE]She talked about her porn in her profile. She's an open book.
Anyone interacted with Joey on seeking? Just started talking, seems real sweet.
Thanks!
[QUOTE=NeedToSearch2;7262351]Anyone interacted with Joey on seeking? Just started talking, seems real sweet.
Thanks![/QUOTE]Tbh her profile says she's looking for something platonic so I completely ignored her. Are you getting a different vibe from her?
[QUOTE=GentleGiant78;7262977]Tbh her profile says she's looking for something platonic so I completely ignored her. Are you getting a different vibe from her?[/QUOTE]Yes. Said she wrote it long time ago. Almost skipped her myself. But sent a nude once started and is planning on meeting.
Problem is that she went quiet and kid is in the hospital. Wasn't asking for money but comms went quiet and kept updating me that she wasn't getting help from family. So proceed at your own caution. I already lost 100.
[QUOTE=BeltWayGuy;7261046]Thanks for the heads up, had a similar experience with quick to text and dtf right away, followed by trying to sell content. She mentioned doing porn in Miami, wonder if anyone uncovered any of that.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately, there are a few girls I've run into like that. They can't meet right away (busy with school / work), but would I be interested in some sexy pictures? I'm a bit embarrassed to say I've lost a few 100 on these kinds of scams over the years. At least some of them are up-front about selling content.
Here are a few more leads and one confirmed in the Raleigh area, if anyone is looking for some fun this weekend. When I'm deciding who to reach out to, I usually look for some wording that indicates the girl is actually looking to meet up or uses obvious phrases like "PPM". There's a lot that is really generic, plus starting to see some bios that are pretty long and flowery, not sure if they're using Chatgpt to write these now, but I skip over these too unless they have the magic words.
Amaseve, 21.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72331340&nsp=1[/URL]
"only interested in PPM" - she wants $400 and can host, see [URL=http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?20290-The-Raleigh-area-quot-Sugar-Bowl-quot-(SA-WYP-SD4-ME)&p=7242150&viewfull=1#post7242150]CooWhip's review[/URL] of her.
CelebratedPeople, 27.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73385514&nsp=1[/URL]
"got 2 kids also. Looking for someone to meet my needs. Respectful, kind, $$ (single mom who needs money. My Kroptonite).
Sensualsecret, 26.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73648470&nsp=1[/URL]
"Seeking ONE person to meet with occasionally during the month, a casual connection to start, who would like to have mutually beneficial fun".
Goddess, 25.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73448373&nsp=1[/URL]
"fun going SB looking for something consistent".
I've included the photos if anyone recognises them from Seeking (most girls have accounts on more than one site) or they're known scammers. Please share if you see any scammers or picture sellers.
[QUOTE=BerolLoz;7263987]Here are a few more leads and one confirmed in the Raleigh area, if anyone is looking for some fun this weekend. When I'm deciding who to reach out to, I usually look for some wording that indicates the girl is actually looking to meet up or uses obvious phrases like "PPM". There's a lot that is really generic, plus starting to see some bios that are pretty long and flowery, not sure if they're using Chatgpt to write these now, but I skip over these too unless they have the magic words.
Amaseve, 21.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72331340&nsp=1[/URL]
"only interested in PPM" - she wants $400 and can host, see [URL=http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?20290-The-Raleigh-area-quot-Sugar-Bowl-quot-(SA-WYP-SD4-ME)&p=7242150&viewfull=1#post7242150]CooWhip's review[/URL] of her.
CelebratedPeople, 27.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73385514&nsp=1[/URL]
"got 2 kids also. Looking for someone to meet my needs. Respectful, kind, $$ (single mom who needs money. My Kroptonite).
Sensualsecret, 26.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73648470&nsp=1[/URL]
"Seeking ONE person to meet with occasionally during the month, a casual connection to start, who would like to have mutually beneficial fun".
Goddess, 25.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73448373&nsp=1[/URL]
"fun going SB looking for something consistent".
I've included the photos if anyone recognises them from Seeking (most girls have accounts on more than one site) or they're known scammers. Please share if you see any scammers or picture sellers.[/QUOTE]Sensualsecret is chelsey from seeking. Bit of an odd job, but seems to be straight forward as an escorts. Can you share pic of Amaseve? And contact info. They need me to photo verify on SDM and it won't work for me. Thanks!
[QUOTE=Swimback;7259609]Maybe meeting with her, will report if I do. Any intel?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5c5b50b6-8ea3-48e1-9223-7c2182d350eb[/URL][/QUOTE]Did you ever meet her? Or has anyone else? I'm wondering if she's worth the effort. She looks like she probably has GPS.
[QUOTE=GentleGiant78;7269667]Did you ever meet her? Or has anyone else? I'm wondering if she's worth the effort. She looks like she probably has GPS.[/QUOTE]Follow up: she is DTF but gps expensive. Managed to find her socials and see she is a lot less attractive without make up. Broke contact. Finding myself continuing to see retired seeking girls I am grandfathered into. New crop continues to disappoint. Charlotte has more going on.
[QUOTE=BerolLoz;7263987]Here are a few more leads and one confirmed in the Raleigh area, if anyone is looking for some fun this weekend. When I'm deciding who to reach out to, I usually look for some wording that indicates the girl is actually looking to meet up or uses obvious phrases like "PPM". There's a lot that is really generic, plus starting to see some bios that are pretty long and flowery, not sure if they're using Chatgpt to write these now, but I skip over these too unless they have the magic words.
Amaseve, 21.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72331340&nsp=1[/URL]
"only interested in PPM" - she wants $400 and can host, see [URL=http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?20290-The-Raleigh-area-quot-Sugar-Bowl-quot-(SA-WYP-SD4-ME)&p=7242150&viewfull=1#post7242150]CooWhip's review[/URL] of her.
CelebratedPeople, 27.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73385514&nsp=1[/URL]
"got 2 kids also. Looking for someone to meet my needs. Respectful, kind, $$ (single mom who needs money. My Kroptonite).
Sensualsecret, 26.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73648470&nsp=1[/URL]
"Seeking ONE person to meet with occasionally during the month, a casual connection to start, who would like to have mutually beneficial fun".
Goddess, 25.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73448373&nsp=1[/URL]
"fun going SB looking for something consistent".
I've included the photos if anyone recognises them from Seeking (most girls have accounts on more than one site) or they're known scammers. Please share if you see any scammers or picture sellers.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=NeedToSearch2;7264105]Sensualsecret is chelsey from seeking. Bit of an odd job, but seems to be straight forward as an escorts. Can you share pic of Amaseve? And contact info. They need me to photo verify on SDM and it won't work for me. Thanks![/QUOTE]Thanks, good to know about Sensualsecret, at least she knows the game. Here's a picture of Amaseve, I don't have her contact info yet, haven't heard back from her, yet, sometime they take a week or never to get back. She also has some videos on the site.
Hey guys I got UTR looking for regulars she will be here in town tomorrow.
Really hot open menu really fun girl best in town like samara if you know you know.
Text me for number and more info.
Only senior members please don't ghost her treat her nice so she comes back.
Anyone had a arrangement with bubbles from sb. I have seen those pics somewhere. Hopefully anyone can share any intel. TIA. Adding the pic.
Likely took less than one hour to get flooded with messages LOL.
[QUOTE=NoelB;7270753]Hey guys I got UTR looking for regulars she will be here in town tomorrow.
Really hot open menu really fun girl best in town like samara if you know you know.
Text me for number and more info.
Only senior members please don't ghost her treat her nice so she comes back.[/QUOTE]
She's here tomorrow and Monday let's make her day so she come back.
Clear box treat her nice.
[QUOTE=NoelB;7271146]She's here tomorrow and Monday let's make her day so she come back.
Clear box treat her nice.[/QUOTE]I PM'd you but not sure you received it? Thanks!
[QUOTE=DriveHard;7257253]Same here. I was able to rejoin the past 3 months without a problem, no selfie.
Did you rejoin with a giftcard? I've been unable to get any to go through this time though. Any tricks?[/QUOTE]I haven't done this but wondered if it would work. A gift card to load up a play account on an android (burner), and then pay through the seeking app.
Has anybody seen this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/daee07bf-80d8-4f2e-935c-89eb5675626c[/URL]
Kaydee has a room at micro. She was on SA a couple years ago. Now trying to get back into things.
Pm for info.
Promote me to senior already, been dropping knowledge since my first message. She has a red flag I warned about a while back. We were going to text and she simply said " it's not iMessage".
When a girl says this she's aware you are using an app and doesn't like that because she wants to be able to dox you. She wanted me to text pics, over iMessage. Meaning my personal number. Pics with personal number can I'd a person. Do not ever use your personal number unless you have serious trust and history with an SB. Reasonable ones understand and don't have a problem with it.