"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4879062]Unless the POT is overjoyed with my $300 offer, then I mention that includes the room.

I have a stack of [URL]Hotels.com[/URL] gift cards I've accumulated from my business purchases at Sams Club (purchase buried in the usual $500 supply run).

So when we meet for coffee, they just go on the site, I give them the card, they book -- no personal info exchanged -- and no risk of dashing with the card since its of little value to your average SB. Room booked in her name so no papertrail back to me.[/QUOTE]You lost me at 20-lb beer gut!

Hey all!

Has anyone had the pleasure of meeting her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/be7df286-aba7-43cf-9fac-794c6cf442d2[/URL]

Would love whatever info you may have.

Also, sugarbabynaaj is a bit GPS. Quoted $450 ppm.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/23fe2c07-bddd-4c02-8c14-9476105ff76a[/URL]

Thanks and be safe!

Had a conversation with her today. Received this copy and past demands. LOL.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/95695223-5e4a-48d1-bcfc-504b1223e8fa[/URL]

Lorafayr about 22 minutes ago.

Hi I am a sugar baby looking for a sugar daddy that I can build a bond with, trust and have a fun time doing so. Building a trusting relationship is important for me in order for this to work. I'd like to be honest from the jump and not waste each others valuable time. I'm looking for a set allowance of 2,300 a month to take care of most of my expenses, we can meet whenever, meet weekly or twice a week depending on what our schedules are like. Felt like I needed to bring this up now so there isn't any confusion later on in order for us to have a mature, honest relationship. If you can fulfill my needs I'd be more than happy to devote my time and energy into you baby. If you're interested I'd love to meet somewhere.

I guess the world I'd full of dreamers!

So has anyone ran across a profile on SA and it was someone you know? Like one of your significant others friends, or one of your buddy's girls or a co-worker or something? LOL. I haven't yet, but it's one of the main reasons why my face is concealed in my profile pic. But I'm sure it's only a matter of time.

LOL no, but I use image scrubber to blur my face. I keep any face pictures private only to be shared If I know we don't know each other. I also use pictures that are not in the public domain.

I always worry when I see someone viewed me and immediately blocks me.

[QUOTE=Dimples572;4881437]So has anyone ran across a profile on SA and it was someone you know? Like one of your significant others friends, or one of your buddy's girls or a co-worker or something? LOL. I haven't yet, but it's one of the main reasons why my face is concealed in my profile pic. But I'm sure it's only a matter of time.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Dimples572;4881437]So has anyone ran across a profile on SA and it was someone you know? Like one of your significant others friends, or one of your buddy's girls or a co-worker or something? LOL. I haven't yet, but it's one of the main reasons why my face is concealed in my profile pic. But I'm sure it's only a matter of time.[/QUOTE]I've done this along time, first on SD4 me and now in SA. I have never posted a pic on either site. Your still going to get messages whether you have a pic posted or not. If a girl is truly interested you can move to text or Kik to send pics. You can also weed out the actual girls who do this for a living by not having a pic. They will want to meet and never ask for a pic, just want to know what the arrangement is. If you message a girl and she wants to know why no pics I just tell her it's not necessary unless she is interested in what I'm looking for and if she is then I can send pics by text or Kik, their choice.

[QUOTE=Dimples572;4881437]So has anyone ran across a profile on SA and it was someone you know? Like one of your significant others friends, or one of your buddy's girls or a co-worker or something? LOL. I haven't yet, but it's one of the main reasons why my face is concealed in my profile pic. But I'm sure it's only a matter of time.[/QUOTE]I once saw the profile of the daughter of a woman I dated 15 years ago. Her daughter was 4 years old the last time I saw her but through facebook I knew what she looked like as a teenager and was definitely freaked out when her 18-year old face popped up in my search a few months ago!

[QUOTE=EBob1111;4881813]I once saw the profile of the daughter of a woman I dated 15 years ago. Her daughter was 4 years old the last time I saw her but through facebook I knew what she looked like as a teenager and was definitely freaked out when her 18-year old face popped up in my search a few months ago![/QUOTE]Yeah I think I'd shit a VW Beetle if I saw something like that pop up in my search. Especially if she hit me up to chat, not good. LOL!

[QUOTE=Dimples572;4881437]So has anyone ran across a profile on SA and it was someone you know? Like one of your significant others friends, or one of your buddy's girls or a co-worker or something? LOL. I haven't yet, but it's one of the main reasons why my face is concealed in my profile pic. But I'm sure it's only a matter of time.[/QUOTE]Was out to brunch with the wife. Saw a married MILF from our gym bounce in an greet some older guy who wasnt wearing a wedding ring. Very much had the look and feel of a Sugar Date. Next time I log in to SA, I see someone that could be her, we chat, text and sure enough. Thought about pursuiing it, then she woudl figure out who I was.

Also chatted up a local hottie. Got to texting, were ready to meet. Googled her phone number to find out it was a woman who worked for my wife for like 3 weeks and got fired. She hated my wife -- doubt she would have remembered ever meeting me, but could not take the chance.

Used to see a tall, thin blonde at the local coffee shop and at the gym occasionally. Never approached her, but then saw her on SA. We met for lunch, but she declined -- the married thing bothered her.

I used to visit Chicago regularly and was working on a hot college student. did some video shows and she sent me hot pics...but I had to cancel my trip when we were supposed to meet. Next time I head out there, I look for her on SA, and nothing and no reply to my texts. I go on LinkedIn and find she took a job with one of my clients and I was supposed to do a staff meeting...for some reason she was not there...

[QUOTE=Dimples572;4881437]So has anyone ran across a profile on SA and it was someone you know? Like one of your significant others friends, or one of your buddy's girls or a co-worker or something? LOL. I haven't yet, but it's one of the main reasons why my face is concealed in my profile pic. But I'm sure it's only a matter of time.[/QUOTE]I messaged a 20 yo on SA and she responded that I knew her from when she was much younger. I think she may have been a previous babysitter for my kids but I didn't recognize her. Luckily I was divorced for almost 4 years by the time we had this conversation so it wasnt alarming. I did not pursue it any farther however.

I have from time to time seen profiles of girls that I know from their waitressing gigs and such and I generally block them just to keep things from being awkward when I'm out and about.

Richmond aint a big place.

Be safe!

I know most VA, VA listings are scams, but this one has all the hallmarks of a stripper. Says she lives in SW VA.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/61f025a3-2ce8-4bbd-82c2-01888eee2cc2[/URL]

"The current arrangement I have is 1 k a week and we have seen each other 3 times in 3 months and have not had sex. So you'd really need to make it worth it".

[QUOTE=FanRat;4882000]
Richmond aint a big place.

Be safe![/QUOTE]Anytime I chat with a waitress, I try to get them to tell me where they work -- don't want to run into the with the wife!

I have taken to using the photo of a friend from Grad School that I can pass for. Only one person has blocked me after I texted them the real me.

I just tell them "This is a small town. Can't afford to have one of my wife's horny divorced friends or struggling employees find me on this site".

Going to be in Richmond for a couple of days. Do you know of any girls (under 30) that you would recommend who are willing to meet without a M&G? Budget flexible but not outrageous. I looked through the last couple of pages and didn't find anything suitable.

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4882004]I know most VA, VA listings are scams, but this one has all the hallmarks of a stripper. Says she lives in SW VA.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/61f025a3-2ce8-4bbd-82c2-01888eee2cc2[/URL]

"The current arrangement I have is 1 k a week and we have seen each other 3 times in 3 months and have not had sex. So you'd really need to make it worth it".[/QUOTE]I would reply I'll give you $0 a week until you meet me in the FC and make it worth it.

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4882013]Anytime I chat with a waitress, I try to get them to tell me where they work -- don't want to run into the with the wife!

I have taken to using the photo of a friend from Grad School that I can pass for. Only one person has blocked me after I texted them the real me.

I just tell them "This is a small town. Can't afford to have one of my wife's horny divorced friends or struggling employees find me on this site".[/QUOTE]It definitely happens. I've ran into two different SB's when I was with my S. O. First one was at Kings Dominion. She worked as a character during Halloween and walked right by my SO and I and jump scared up. Luckily she didn't recognize me however I'm confident she wouldn't have made a scene as she was more mature and understanding of how the game works.

Second time was at Top Golf. We saw one another playing several lanes apart. We ended up texting back and forth during the evening which was kind of hot actually as she loved that I came to her for physical needs even though I had a S. O. Again there was no drama.