Not a single penny upfront
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See also "Oh, I'm glad you're here, and I can't wait to get naked, but first I have to go pay for my hotel room," or "just give me the money up front, but I have to run by a house and pay my babysitter first," or "this fabulous bridge can be yours, and you can make money setting up a toll on it![/QUOTE]This reminds me of another reason I've gotten. About 5 years ago had sched around the fifth appt with girl who posts on another site. After confirming she says by the way I was stiffed recently with shredded paper in the envelop so now I require 50 deposit. That ripoff guy was actually on this site for awhile. I remember an old time dude said never ever give money upfront don't care if girl is the president of bank of america. I told girl sorry I don't do that she replied why don't you trust me?
Now if I was smooth talker I should have come back with well why don't you trust me? Instead I lamely talked about how horrible guys can be. I still stuck to my guns though. She got pissed and blabbed on and on about how its more dangerous for the girls than the guys on and on. I really felt bad about her being stiffed but I've read too many stories about girls here just raved about and worhsipped then next thing you know they cash and dashed or something. And like another said that's only the ones we've heard about.
Once somebody gets your money you have zero control. That's not good for this business.