Seekingarrangement is my advice to you
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;1913288]SO WHERE ARE THEY?[/QUOTE]John,
I've just done a quick search on a 50 mile radius of your home town zip code on SA, and there are 208 babies who show up, some of whom are hot as could be. You may need to branch out, and add this site to your tackle box. Keep in mind, if you are finding the pickings a little slim, baby-wise, they are probably finding them far more spare, daddy-wise. All you need is one SB, (well, or three), to be happy.
Buck up, man! If it were easy, it wouldn't be fun.
Keep us up to date.
Scott.
A stark reminder: it's the thing you DON'T see coming that gets you
My SB and I have had a favorite haunt since the summer-nice place, cheap, and usually has a room on demand, even in the morning. And I stuff a little extra in the cleaning staff's envelope to partially offset the noise and mess we make. I've noticed that over time they've been slightly munging my last name in their database, and then the street number also changed from as-it-appears-on-my-license to something a little different. I can only assume that they've figured out what's going on and have been discreetly doing me a favor by introducing slight errors to my information. I certainly didn't ask them to do it, and once they got the info from my license I presume the only reason it would change would be because of a purposeful edit on their part. For what its worth, the clerk there recognizes me and no longer asks for my I'd.
Granted, my rather-unique last name could have appeared to be a typo of a much more common one, and someone just "fixed it". On the other hand the address change makes no sense, so again, this show all appearances of a nod-and-wink going on.
So far so good, and my healthy paranoia of leaving digital footprints behind was at least slightly allayed.
But then...
My SO needs to take recertifications every few years, and as luck would have it the testing is in the same city as my SB. To be well-rested for the exam, she usually gets a room the night before since it's a little under an hour away.
So over the weekend I find out that she's booked a room in our favorite hotel.
Can you say, Freak Out?
All sorts of nightmare scenarios run through my head. Overly chatty desk clerks, or her signing up for a frequent visitor card ("Oh look! Seems your husband stays here quite a bit! Or some other form of information leakage that would be VERY difficult to explain. At least, beyond the usual, "Gee, I have no idea why they would have me in there, must be some whacko database screwup". Lame, yeah.
I also had a good four days to maintain a calm exterior while listening to the ticking of the time bomb. Not fun.
In the end, good fortune smiled upon me. Either my info is permanently munged in their database, the clerk didn't notice the correlation between mine and her info, or it never really came up on their screen, or they were just minding their own business. Or a combination of the above. I had a nail-biting hour while I knew she's be driving there and checking in. Got a phone call once she settled in that pretty clearly laid to rest any worries that she might have seen something suspicious. I figured that come morning she's just leave the key and bolt to the exam. Talking with her afterward also showed no signs that anything was out of place.
So. Exhale.
Not that this needs saying, but always, always, always keep up your guard. Paranoia is good. Listening to gut instincts is good (saved me some hassle a few times already).
But even with all that, it's something you won't see coming that has the potential to push you over the cliff.
As wise Revvo says, be careful out there.
A stark reminder: it's the thing you DON'T see coming that gets you
Walrus says it all. You can be the top secret agent Daddy and out of the blue some weird coincidence will get you. Karma.
ATF and I are doing our weekly thing. She is a perfect SB with the looks, skills, and attitude. She is happy that I am married (and not available to bug her) ,loves our regular dates to look forward to, is sexually compatible with me, once / week is OK to keep her happy, and does not have pressing $$ needs. She's a 10 across the board.
Re: Multiple Babies. The more we are juggling the higher the discovery risk for us married guys. So now that I am under suspicion at home I am trying to vary my schedule so as not to create a pattern.
The dating game is fun and challenging but is not for me at the moment.
Roommates do work out sometimes
[QUOTE=Dsprdo;1917154]I have had several now that either had a roommate or a friend who was on SA and encouraged them to get into the bowl. I've thought it was only a matter of time before I contacted someone who was a friend of someone I know, because even in a city this size, the bowl is kind of a small town. After you had spoken with them both, I think it probably didn't matter who you preferred or the relative time you had spent with each. They compared notes and the dynamic between those two was the deciding factor on which (if either) of the two you were going to end up with. I say land the roomate, be happy with that, and maybe after it runs its course (if it ends well) you'll get another shot at the first one (or maybe even along the way![/QUOTE]I agree with Dsprdo that this could turn out OK. About a year ago, I had a young AA HYCB that I had met on SA and we had not yet set up a M&G due to busy schedules. When we finally did agree on a meeting time, she txt'd me to say that her schedule had changed and she needed to cancel. When I got her cancellation txt, I went immediately to plan be and arranged another M&G with an equally as hot young AA pot that had contacted me on the site. Right before I picked her up, I get a message from the first pot. They were roommates, had put 2 and 2 together, and had figured out they were talking with the same guy.
Roommate #2 turned out to be a GPS that just wanted a non-sexual relationship with benefits. It took me a M&G, a followup date, and a wasted hotel room to figure that out. After I told her I wasn't interested in that type of arrangement, I get a txt from Roommate #1 saying basically that she knew what I was looking for and would be happy to meet. It's over a year later, both have graduated, and I still see Roommate #1 occasionally. She isn't the greatest in the FC, but makes for a good booty call when I need some stress relief.
As you all have said before, the bowl is a strange place to live.
Alias.
Sorry for the twitter like updates
I've not had time to go into detail, I will hopefully within the next few days.
Met a hot beautiful spinner from SA yesterday (10 face, a cups, 5'1, less than 100 lbs).
We chatted online, she was cool with taking things slow and working up to an allowance.
She said my conversation made her horny she asked me to come and visit her and help with that problem.
I hesitated because it was a 2 hour drive and I had to cancel another date to do this one.
The other date was not guaranteed. This one had her own place, kid was out of town, etc.
Had a great dinner.
Fingered her in car while driving back (her request).
Gave her oral in backseat (her request).
Brother was staying with her, got a room (my request).
She was very very selfish in bed, I was not able to finish after stroking for only about 5 minutes.
She then said she was tired and needed a break.
I gave her oral about 3 times, 3 different positions.
Never got back to sex, never finished.
She just seemed to be happy getting oral and was not concerned with my needs at all.
I think her plan all along was to get dinner and get oral in the backseat (she asked about the backseat in the restaurant). That's BS for 4 hours of driving.
Only used 3 of the 6 hours we could have used the room for. After her 3 orgasms, she wanted to go home.
Right now, I may be spoiled, but I don't feel it was worth the money and time spent. [ Meal $120, Gifts $30, Cash $40, Hotel $90, Time:9 Hours]
(10/9/4/1).
BigTigg.
I think there are two issues here
[QUOTE=Revvo;1918090]
There was not a lot of passion and affection. A turnoff. Now my perfect baby was changing before my eyes. Then she tells me she wants the money up front. I told her that I do not want to treat her like an escort and that would be how an escort does it. She did not care. We agreed to disagree and I walked away. We were both very civil to each other. But that is where it ended.
I must ask the brotherhood. I have never had a 10 before. This would have been a 10 at 150 with her own place to host. I could do her as much as I wanted in the future. Am I fucking crazy? What would you have done? Did I fuck this up? I am really second guessing myself after this. Give it to me straight I can take it.
Revvo.[/QUOTE]Rev,
I think there are two parts to this situation. One is the "money up front" issue, which is not ideal, but I think we all have done it more than once if the situation demands. I know some of the brothers have been ripped off, but personally I never have, so trust your best instincts here, rather than make it a hard and fast rule.
As for the more important issue, at least to my mind: the lack of passion. To me this would be a turn off, and possibly a deal-breaker. I guess if I just wanted to poke a hole, I'd get one of those blowup dolls. For me, it's all about connection. Again, maybe the approach here is to trust your instincts, or in this case maybe your gut / heart. Only you know how you will feel about it.
All that said, for $150 I might just take a chance. I've had a couple of babies over the years tell me, after we are in the FC with POTF, that they don't like kissing, or oral, but I just proceeded anyway, and they found that their disinterest was because they had just never had yours truly administer to them. So you never know.
Probably not much help.
Scott.
