How to get good service at any price point
Joe, while your post is informative and merely your perception, You have a right to your opinion. Let's get to the nitty gritty of the game. Grab your pen and paper, sit down, listen up because we're going to school.
First and foremost this industry is flooded with a lot of girls who got hit on in the grocery store, retail store or wherever. After some time, the girl may fall on hard times and the wheels start to spin. Here is the birth of the "provider" These types may start with watching what others do, which is not the right way to partake this industry hence so many others making plenty of mistakes. You don't just become a provider and do it the right way. There are a plethora of steps to properly start this sort of business. Essentially these girls get wrapped up in the ease of money without actually providing a service (Service meaning, being the desired persona for the time). It's just get the guy off and move to the next. Unfortunately, these types make a lot of mistakes, errors and bad decisions along the way. This is where guys endure the problems with providers. They expect the girl to be amazing when in fact she doesn't have a clue on how to entertain, much less run her "business" The guy is then upset at the fact that he had a bad time when ultimately it was his fault for being such a dick to think he was actually going to have a good time with someone who had no prerequisites to be in any frame of mind to be in this line of work to begin with. So here we go, men and women collectively making mistakes with hopes of achieving a great end result. The mentioned providers above live this line of work. Day in and day out. They have no shut off, no balance, no set time frame. They jump at the chance to get the almighty dollar and men love being that power supply..it feeds the ego. It's a downward spiral.
In a more effective method, there are providers who are self professed, learned all of the proper channels to not only keep herself safe, but also avoid the negatives of this industry. These providers have avoided being jaded and have the ability to go home at the end of the day and leave this work behind. Just like most of us guys out here walk away from our jobs to partake in our own private lives. These types of providers have it together, they know how to entertain. They are the elite true professionals. Why see this type of provider? Well, it's simple, because she knows what she is doing and she puts in an honest days work to be the alter ego she has elected to be. I like these provider types because they understand the dynamics and P.S.ychology behind being a provider.
On the subject of men / clients. There are many of you out there who are just too weird, demanding or have underlying problems that cause a provider to be very uncomfortable with you. In this case, things may feel out of place for you because a provider is in a position to deal with you for the elected time and has a hard time finding that comfort zone with you. There is also select men who have poor hygiene, bad attitudes and an overbearing douchiness that just makes the whole experience bad for everyone. Lastly, there are the guys who just want to mercy fuck a provider because he "paid for it" These types have an emotional imbalance due to that underlying problem the relationship of money=sex presents. Let's face it, money changes the dynamic of everything and because you pay for it, you want what you want and will do whatever to get it.
Winding down, I personally have not had a bad time. I've had a few that I would not return on, but that's just the way it is. I reach above the low budget price point because I can. I appreciate a lady that is well adjusted in her own life and fully capable of actually providing a service. I don't care to walk into unknown territory. I'm not going to pull up to roach motel, bad neighborhood or anything of the likes. You have a CHOICE! If you choose to slum it, that's on you. I'm not the type do play with slummy girls. She better have her act together or I am out of there. Furthermore, because I am a known great gentlemen that has no problem tipping, I get superior treatment. The difference is, I can bring home the providers I see, because it's very clear that they would not be out of place in my domain, why? It's called SOCIAL CLASS!!
[QUOTE=JoeLooking;1961983]And with all due respect some people still equate the price of a service with the quality of the service. Some of the shittiest service I've ever received has been at more expensive restaurants (think $60 entrees and sides are not included). Pretty much a hostess seats you and tells you the specials and takes your drink order if you're ready. The server brings you your drinks and takes your order. There is a floater who refills water and will get the server if you want something else to drink. Your server shows back up after your meal has been cleared by someone who is not your server.
Contrast that to the best service I've ever received in a restaurant, it was owned by a Japanese couple who refused to accept tips. They had a very attentive waitstaff and the price of the food was no different than other area restaurants.
A couple of years ago I saw a documentary about high dollar escorts (3000+/ hour 15000 overnight). One of these chicks said very nasty things about a client who thought that one hour meant one hour of sex. Her expectation was that there would be very little sex because, and I'm paraphrasing here, the client is paying for the pleasure of her company. In my life I've only met 2 guys who have ever paid more than 1000/ hour for an escort. One said he'd have been better off buying a street walker because she tried to be so overly erotic that it seemed fake and the conversation was not that great. The other said that after he wasted 3 k on an hour with a provider a business associate recommended he decided that it was better to fly to Latin America once a month for a weekend. The woman recommended to him was advertised as Russian by her agency. When he got the room she had blonde hair, nice fake tits and a Russian accent. So he tried to say some things in Russian none of which she understood. She was just a midwestern girl whose agency could charge more if they said she was Russian.
Smithwick, from your posts it seems like you tend to go with providers who are 200+. Are you really going to tell me that even at that price point you've never had a bad experience at that price point? I have in this area.
Quality comes from how well someone does their job and how much pride they take in doing it. A lot of things determine price and if you think quality of service is one then ask our government how paying more has gotten them better service. Or go on Angies list and see how many people picked the guy with the highest bid and a shitty job was done.[/QUOTE]
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Tipping.Comments to previous posts
Better service after tipping:
I don't believe that's true. Put yourself in the providers position: They advertise on the internet and they don't know who the fuck is going to show up at that door. Many customers are "poor hygiene, bad attitudes, overbearing douchiness or mercy fuckers". They are a provider's worst nightmare.
Now if you treat them well, bring them gifts, smell and look good then pleasure them as much (often more) as they pleasure you, they will answer your call and accommodate your schedule because they desperately want to see you before they see an unknown.
$5,000 an hour providers.
It just aint so. Sure some advertise and claim they are get $5,000 and hour but in reality its rare if at all. I have been very fortunate to be in the position where I have been entertained by some of the top shelf providers in NYC. These providers charged $1,500 an hour; they were very young, very thin and very very beautiful. None were ever paid from my or my colleagues' pockets. They were all paid out of an "entertainment budget" on someone's expense account. You can get the same provider out of pocket for $400 but on the company tit is $1,500.
Every one of them sucked as a provider. They did not know how to entertain. They were inexperienced and thought that because they looked amazing and spread their legs they were worth every penny. I spent more time coaching them in what to do then actually fucking them. They were the absolute worst, All they wanted to do was get high, fuck and get it over with and then get high some more.
I assure you that there are some providers mentioned on this board that provide far better service at 15% of the cost and you don't have to tip them a dime..
Play safe,
PH.
Any providers really into Russian / Tittyfucks or Facials?
Many of the gals who say they are into "fetishes" say no to either of those requests.
Any good experiences with either of these activities?
You touched on another issue..
You made a point on another issue with the "entitlement" Group of providers. The ones who think they are worth 1500,5000, whatever. Yes, I stay clear of those always. Again, I stress, they are the ones who were "me too" providers. They just mimicked what other providers in their arena did and thought that was ALL they needed to do. As I previously mentioned, the good providers are self professed and know what they are doing. To stretch things out a little further. The ones that avoid the unknowns are ones who also appropriately screen their potential customers. These types do not care to see the jerkoffs or bad customers. This is where screening filters out these types and that provider has avoided being jaded (as I covered in previous post). Also steering clear of drug addicts will do you some justice. There are plenty of things to look for that are tell tell signs of a "user".
A good provider works hard at her business to entertain only good clients, screen properly and provider stellar service. These types keep themselves up. The usually are college educated, have a stable mentality or just simply enjoy this line of work for profound reasons. The business of escorting is not easy. Many out there just throw an ad up on BP and they think they are in business. They think they know what they are doing simply because they have a vagina and are cute. Not the ideal provider you want to see. This is another form of the "entitlement group" Their mentality is "I have the vagina, so pay me" Now, the elite group passionately want to be an entertainer, they want you to return visit with them so they go all the way to give you the feeling that you MUST see her again. The ones that really want to give you the experience and make you feel like your time was worth every penny. The job really entails being an actress, They go for Emmy Award winning performance. Even if they didn't achieve that, they still put in the effort to make your engagement with her one of the best. Why do they do this? Well because they are providing a service, instilling a feeling of having that "connection" and because they KNOW what it takes to be a REAL provider.
Let's face it guys, Some of you troll the pages and see a cute picture, grab your phone and dial her up and head off to the unknown because your ego gets the best of you. You think you are going to have a good time because you get ahead of yourself and think with your small head. When you arrive you are highly disappointed that sure, she might be cute but she was the most lackluster lady you have seen. She was a "me too" provider. The industry is flooded with these types of people. The system is flawed in so many ways.
Look at it like this. You could take your car over to Joe's garage to get it repaired because of the low price point. He may know a little about cars, but he knows nothing about yours. He attempts to try to repair it (because he thinks he knows about cars). Well, in the end, you have more problems with your car because he really doesn't know jack but wanted the money. A smart man would take his car over to Bobs Automotive, that knows exactly how to fix things up and get you back on the road feeling good about your car again. You might pay a little more, but you have peace of mind that you made the right choice in choosing a professional over a wannabe.
Good service goes a long way if you do this: [URL]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0_5jwOFet0[/URL].
[QUOTE=PurpleHelmet;1963130]Better service after tipping:
I don't believe that's true. Put yourself in the providers position: They advertise on the internet and they don't know who the fuck is going to show up at that door. Many customers are "poor hygiene, bad attitudes, overbearing douchiness or mercy fuckers". They are a provider's worst nightmare.
Now if you treat them well, bring them gifts, smell and look good then pleasure them as much (often more) as they pleasure you, they will answer your call and accommodate your schedule because they desperately want to see you before they see an unknown.
$5,000 an hour providers.
It just aint so. Sure some advertise and claim they are get $5,000 and hour but in reality its rare if at all. I have been very fortunate to be in the position where I have been entertained by some of the top shelf providers in NYC. These providers charged $1,500 an hour; they were very young, very thin and very very beautiful. None were ever paid from my or my colleagues' pockets. They were all paid out of an "entertainment budget" on someone's expense account. You can get the same provider out of pocket for $400 but on the company tit is $1,500.
Every one of them sucked as a provider. They did not know how to entertain. They were inexperienced and thought that because they looked amazing and spread their legs they were worth every penny. I spent more time coaching them in what to do then actually fucking them. They were the absolute worst, All they wanted to do was get high, fuck and get it over with and then get high some more.
I assure you that there are some providers mentioned on this board that provide far better service at 15% of the cost and you don't have to tip them a dime..
Play safe,
PH.[/QUOTE]
All I could find was another ad
[QUOTE=Popye;1966741]I am planning to see Brit.
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Does anyone have any input. Try to find the review on internet and could not find anything relevant. Please help me make my decision.[/QUOTE]Seems very recent. Only a couple of ads. You might try looking around in postings from Shelby / Charlotte / Mecklenburg county.
Any intel on Ashley in and Raleigh for massage
Could not find anything.
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