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[QUOTE=HelloYouAre;5241307]That makes sense. I was asking because my business was going slow for a bit over a week. Almost two weeks of no bites, but that changed today. A bunch just messaged back that are locals and few had let me know they are on birth control so I have 3 CIP dates lined up for the next few days. Good luck gentleman. I can share as soon as the deed is done. Stay tuned.[/QUOTE]How does the topic of birth control come up over messaging, unless they're pro / semi-pro?
[QUOTE=RyanE36;5241568]How does the topic of birth control come up over messaging, unless they're pro / semi-pro?[/QUOTE]I have a few ways of working that question in. PM and I can go into more details. I developed a solid system, slightly inspired by Based Zeus on YouTube. LOL.
[QUOTE=RyanE36;5241568]How does the topic of birth control come up over messaging, unless they're pro / semi-pro?[/QUOTE]Once I get their number and begin texting them, I just outright ask "Are you on birth control?" It let's them know right of the bat what my expectations are. I haven't had anyone act offended yet. They know what the site is for even if, at times, they pretend not to.
Saw this curvy goddess last night.
We smoked and had good convo before fucking.
She reminded me why I like curvy girls so much.
Damage: 200 and we got to do everything bare which is a fair trade if you ask me.
That being said this was my first date of seeking so I my pm's are open for any advice you gentlemen have for me and I am down to exchange information I've got from chatting with the ladies on SA because I chat on there A LOT.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8002cb09-b6cb-4f22-aa9c-4b5138102718[/URL]
[QUOTE=Chulit0;5242845]Saw this curvy goddess last night.
We smoked and had good convo before fucking.
She reminded me why I like curvy girls so much.
Damage: 200 and we got to do everything bare which is a fair trade if you ask me.
That being said this was my first date of seeking so I my pm's are open for any advice you gentlemen have for me and I am down to exchange information I've got from chatting with the ladies on SA because I chat on there A LOT.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8002cb09-b6cb-4f22-aa9c-4b5138102718[/URL][/QUOTE]My advice is to never talk money or anything referencing PPM on the site. You will get banned. I have been banned many times. You have to create a new email, use a different credit card and different pics and you loose any subscription you paid for at the time.
[QUOTE=PaytoPlay;5243782]My advice is to never talk money or anything referencing PPM on the site. You will get banned. I have been banned many times. You have to create a new email, use a different credit card and different pics and you loose any subscription you paid for at the time.[/QUOTE]I guess I already made the rookie mistake of being too straightforward PPM wise. I have not gotten deleted yet but do you think it just takes a few days? Also bro do you know how the whole banning process works cux I would hate to already lose my account that I barely created and paid for.
[QUOTE=Chulit0;5242845]Saw this curvy goddess last night.
We smoked and had good convo before fucking.
She reminded me why I like curvy girls so much.
Damage: 200 and we got to do everything bare which is a fair trade if you ask me.
That being said this was my first date of seeking so I my pm's are open for any advice you gentlemen have for me and I am down to exchange information I've got from chatting with the ladies on SA because I chat on there A LOT.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8002cb09-b6cb-4f22-aa9c-4b5138102718[/URL][/QUOTE]Good for you man! I'm glad you had your fun. I personally only enjoy SB that smoke 420. To me, if they don't smoke 420, they're too uptight for my taste.
[QUOTE=Chulit0;5244877]I guess I already made the rookie mistake of being too straightforward PPM wise. I have not gotten deleted yet but do you think it just takes a few days? Also bro do you know how the whole banning process works cux I would hate to already lose my account that I barely created and paid for.[/QUOTE]Sometimes can be result of a girl reporting you. I try not to report anyone because people in glass houses don't through stones. But if you say something over the line and reported you will be gone. I believe they randomly audit accounts and look for suspicious activity. Likely they have to show effort to ensure they stay off DOJ radar and not get shut down like BackPage asked many others. I have been banned at least 6 times. Longest account I had lasted a year.
Bottom line is best to stay off radar and take things private as quickly as possible. Also a way to check if she's legit. If they play some game that they don't text, then good possibility they are not looking for a real meetup and just want up keep things online, which I won't waste my time.
[QUOTE=PaytoPlay;5243782]My advice is to never talk money or anything referencing PPM on the site. You will get banned. I have been banned many times. You have to create a new email, use a different credit card and different pics and you loose any subscription you paid for at the time.[/QUOTE]SA are very trigger happy. I have been banned multiple times also. Usually they won't even hint as to why. The one time they did say explicitly, they said my very humorous profile for applicants for a "ladies finishing school" was "engaging in commercial activities"! That proved to me that they are completely, utterly brain dead, and are not to be trusted.
All the SA banning brings up the point that purchasing a long-term subscription is way too risky. You can pay hundreds of dollars, and loose it all within a few days or weeks, on the random whim of some idiot at SA.
[QUOTE=PussyPumper;5245963]SA are very trigger happy. I have been banned multiple times also. Usually they won't even hint as to why. The one time they did say explicitly, they said my very humorous profile for applicants for a "ladies finishing school" was "engaging in commercial activities"! That proved to me that they are completely, utterly brain dead, and are not to be trusted.
All the SA banning brings up the point that purchasing a long-term subscription is way too risky. You can pay hundreds of dollars, and loose it all within a few days or weeks, on the random whim of some idiot at SA.[/QUOTE]Oh wow. So either I have not gotten reported yet by a female or I am just having a short streak of beginner's luck. Thank you for informing me bro I really appreciate it. I do feel stupid as I did purchase a long term subscription right off the bat, guess I was too excited when I signed up for SA.
[QUOTE=PaytoPlay;5245790]Sometimes can be result of a girl reporting you. I try not to report anyone because people in glass houses don't through stones. But if you say something over the line and reported you will be gone. I believe they randomly audit accounts and look for suspicious activity. Likely they have to show effort to ensure they stay off DOJ radar and not get shut down like BackPage asked many others. I have been banned at least 6 times. Longest account I had lasted a year.
Bottom line is best to stay off radar and take things private as quickly as possible. Also a way to check if she's legit. If they play some game that they don't text, then good possibility they are not looking for a real meetup and just want up keep things online, which I won't waste my time.[/QUOTE]Alrighty man I already set up a whole separate TextMe # and snapchat for my potential sugar babies. I feel a lot better knowing what I know now, thanks for your reply.
[QUOTE=HelloYouAre;5244946]Good for you man! I'm glad you had your fun. I personally only enjoy SB that smoke 420. To me, if they don't smoke 420, they're too uptight for my taste.[/QUOTE]Thanks dude. This was first SB experience but I think I want to stick to stoner chicks too down the road.
So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.
Often you have to trust your gut. It's the little things that add up to warnings. This one for example:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ea901fc1-887e-4f26-b774-200b1d447720[/URL]
She sent the first message. That's unusual and can be sign of a scam or pro girl looking for a higher paying date.
Moves to texting quickly when we start talking money.
Then texting is followed by long delays in her response followed by "hey what's up, want to come over to my place". This is a bigger warning. Bottom line she sends a few photos and man, if one doesn't look familiar from a girl who use to post elsewhere. Can't quite place it but too many warning signs for me. And her pics she sent via text look like a screen shot capture from some other site. A few of her comments in text also sound like a good way to part with cash and not get anything for it.
If anyone has personal experience please share or if someone recognizes the pics. This is where it comes down to experience and your risk adversion in this hobby. No risk you don't ever find the unicorn. But at the same time, that inner voice might keep you out off trouble.
[QUOTE=Holocaust;5247120]So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.[/QUOTE]I don't think any "natural" relationship exists that is actually "free".
Rich guy with a young hot girlfriend? She wants him to take care of her by paying for everything and potentially making her his next wife.
Young hot guy with a young hot girlfriend? She knows that because he's young and hot (muscular and tall and ripped) he has a long working lifespan remaining, and wants good dna and parental support.
Older women unfortunately have little reproductive value and so they become cheap.
Anyways in my case I have seen sugar relationships reach where she snuggles with me and spends the night, is kind to my pets, lets me cum in her, and her rate drops over time and she stays longer. And we go on dates and watch movies together.
Is this more like a "natural" relationship? You tell me.