Agreement on SDM as being worthwhile
I stopped using Seeking for the same reasons. I have found SDM to be good (improved over the last 2 yrs), The newest female members often work out.
Secret Benefits is ok- the newer members often respond. The most recent members are not for real or seldom respond.
Ashley Madison is a waste.
I truly do not miss Seeking and all their rules for men.
SB does not hassle is my experience
[QUOTE=Gatttaca;7197516]Mostly agree. Always one or the other hassle with Seeking.
I have had most luck with WYP.
I have had couple of nice short arrangements with SB and SDM.
Just wondering what can and cannot be discussed on SB without getting banned or reported. Can we talk numbers or is it better to take that offline. There is one I am in touch with but she won't give her number and wants 350 for a lunch / dinner date.
Sri Liv.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f196304d0c35e51b[/URL]
Tia.[/QUOTE]I have never been warned by SB or SDM but I avoid discussing gift $ on the sites.
Sri Liv wants to have lunch wih me on Thursday but I will pass.
WYP is part of seeking so I never rejoined it.
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Has anyone seen or met these Women?(PICS)
Has anyone here talked to, met and / or been in an arrangement with any of these women from Seeking or any other website? If so, any positive or negative experiences?
1. desseybaby.
Bio aside, looks very attractive.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c7aa8254-6caf-4e92-85b9-0bb41e341395[/URL]
2. Savannah.
Short & Positive Bio. Very cute.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7f90047d-a644-4208-9326-4812dafa3157[/URL]
3. Victoria.
Early 20's, attractive. Decent sized bio. Decent pics. Says she's never been in an arrangement (join in early Feb.), but has also dated wealthier men.
One of those "I prefer to build an online arrangement and then meet in person". Oh lawd. The red flags are there, but has anyone here entertained her, regardless?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d772f246-266f-4736-86cc-4fb118270f37[/URL]
4. Sunny.
Early 30's. Decent bio. Verified. Pics seem interesting.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5502798e-fc7f-4c2b-839c-6c23ea7cb369[/URL]
5. Rene.
Late 20's. Cute, decent body. Small bio, but says she's open minded.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4b7043f8-93a8-446b-ba42-cc8bd078582c[/URL]
6. Nicole.
20 years old, cute and has the exact profile you'd expect from someone in their early 20's. I messaged her around a few months ago, but no response.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0cd327ef-a4a5-4031-8a71-493ec8f8dae8[/URL]
7. Bella.
Early 20's. Attracted, says she's a free spirt and wants something mutually beneficial with NSA.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e454391d-01ec-4e0e-ab7e-638e1c52a04e[/URL]
8. Pepper.
Late 20's. Mentions that she has a husband who is completely fine with this. Has been on SA for years and looking for NSA.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f92906e2-18bf-4751-8147-9da458cacda8[/URL]
9. Sara.
Decent looking, Tatoo enthusiast. Joined a few days ago. Says her time is precious and she's looking for a long term arrangement. Bio definitely has more put into it more than most other women.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/31bdc8b2-8e51-4193-b47d-03092d876dc1[/URL]
10. Evelyn.
Tall! Early 20's and has a cute look about her. No negativity, etc.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fdf20dca-fa13-46f3-869c-2a548c4f0947[/URL]
Bella 33 on seeking in Raleigh probably a fake acct
New acct, contacted me first, claimed to send pics via text (that's why I have a burner number), no pics showed up so asked me for an email addr (another burner acct) sent 2 pics which google found from multiple sites on the internet in various places so fake. Bella 33 has a phone number of: 347-224-6098.
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Women on Seeking. Any experiences
My experiences so far. Anyone else talked to, had a conversation with, or met up or been in an arrangement with these women? Any + or - experiences?
1. Elizabeth.
Weirdo. Says she's looking for a long term BF, but then spams my DM's within minutes of a reply, and then blocks. First image is also extremely low quality. WTF. Her bio itself isn't that bad, but her going on and messaging me first and then blocking when I don't reply instantly is. Off. To say the least.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/21cd4105-4d00-43b6-a400-e6f26b2be1ad[/URL]
2. June.
Decent Bio. Attractive. Very communicative.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/663c9a3c-0bdf-4a82-a1f1-6fcf5aab0f9f[/URL]
3. Joy.
Decent pics and good profile. Good in terms of communication.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d6dab534-4719-4ae9-94ba-48b3c3868c9a[/URL]
4. Nicky.
Good luck. First convo started off okay and she ghosted. 2nd convo, she blocked when I decided to say something a bit different. I'd be surprised if anyone here can have a full on decent conversation with her without bashing their head against a wall.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f0f1d3a8-46e1-4589-a909-5dc030b04434[/URL]
5. Ellie.
Decent sized profile and didn't get scam vibes at first but. Asks for an online arrangement. Passed.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9faa42cc-fbb9-49da-9174-7bfe5006ee15[/URL]
6. Nicole.
Never had a conversation with her. Ever, but minutes after I messaged her, she blocked. Lmao.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/35a2bdab-dfaf-4654-92fe-d7bc5125f6de[/URL]
7. Sara.
Reached out, she didn't respond. Likely very selective.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/31bdc8b2-8e51-4193-b47d-03092d876dc1[/URL]
8. Nicole (V2). 32 years old. Has no pics except private. Says she's doing this for discretion. Has anyone met or talked to her? Was it worth it.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/afaf6ee9-b9c4-4dd0-be05-b264527d0bde[/URL]
9. Po.
Small about me section, but will reply to you. No red flags.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1a20e475-a7b3-4408-b2b9-7f16756a65bc[/URL]
10. Ella.
Attractive and the bio isn't bad. But didn't respond. Likely selective or has a certain type.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a428f703-950d-42d7-81fb-be6bf923a31d[/URL]
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Updates on Women From Sugar Sites
Figured I'd post some updates. Some minor. My Experience on SA in 2024 and 2025 has been pretty terrible compared to previous years. Ghosts, flakes, Non Responders, toe dippers, and more has significantly increased.
1. MaybellDarling.
Reconnected with this person for the hell of it, via text. She responded, but then ghosted. If she ever comes back on seeking, just know that she's wishy washy and ultimately unreliable. First experience dealt with her ghosting completely after decent sized convos.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cd5d67dc-5402-42fd-85c5-8f78a0dfce97[/URL]
2. Po.
Her ask is around the average amount. But she has terrible communication outside the platform. Not even worth it.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1a20e475-a7b3-4408-b2b9-7f16756a65bc[/URL]
3. Jenny.
This person is on their 100+ account. Exaggeration, but from memory of our first convo a year or two ago: She wanted to do the deed on the same day of meeting. Pro Vibes back then. And will have 0 problems standing you up if things don't go her way, so beware of that. Latest time I reached out, came across as sensitive. People have apparently said that she's known around the Virginia area, IIRC?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/31c7f466-46be-4ddc-ac0b-135a43c90645[/URL]
4. Aleia.
Horrible bio. It's descriptive, but also comes across as low key demanding. Also wants you to send you her number, and a picture, while she barely has a pic.
"I'm very tired of "what are you looking for"? Let's not mess around then. I'm tired of endless conversation and trying to explain what really, we're both here for. If you ask what I'm looking for, I will not respond. Send me your number and a picture.
You; take me to dinner, drinks, or whatever avenue of leisure you'd prefer, and take care of me. You will take me somewhere and I will take care of you. We go our separate ways until the next time I see you. You will be a gentlemen and be discreet, and I will be a doting lady and be discreet. The end. I'd prefer a long term, monogamous arrangement, but I won't ask questions if you ask me not to. I'd prefer the chemistry to be there and it not be forced. ".
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/865930e3-2af5-4fef-9b0e-714e7663b907[/URL]
5. desseybaby.
Decent Bio and pics, but didn't respond. Anyone had any luck with her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c7aa8254-6caf-4e92-85b9-0bb41e341395[/URL]
6. Liz.
Decent Pics and bio, but no response. Anyone had any luck with her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0941382c-46c5-4701-b1ed-8883caf90c93[/URL]
7. Chelsey.
Seems open minded and she's the type that messages first. But I'm pretty sure someone here left a negative experience with her, on here.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f424f896-8f24-4981-87c7-4530039eba28[/URL]
8. TemptingHeiress.
Reached out but no response. Anyone here had any luck?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/96a72031-aae9-4f38-96a1-dba90b428d5f[/URL]
9. HazelSparks.
Been on SA for almost a decade. Good luck with trying to be in an arrangement or meet up with her. She'll go silent out of the blue.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1bbf8a74-8c53-4e15-ae7d-c0f021137f21[/URL]
10. Nikki.
Looks like she's back on seeking. From memory, open to negotiation. If you're the type that wants something asap, then she shouldn't be too much trouble to meet up with.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fac6d81a-462c-455f-a231-fb763edcd00f[/URL]