[QUOTE=Jcinnc;4855081]Long time lurker and finally posting some.
So, this one posts in Raleigh. Gets me her cell real quick, then texts me that she wants to come see me (from outside ATL) which is over 6 hours. For 300 PPM. So I dig deeper and she's going to need money for gas and such, ha, so I said get in the car and start driving and I'll CashApp you 100 when I get home. I'm still sitting here at my desk.[/QUOTE]Jcinnc,
IMO, number one deal breaker for me is when they ask for money upfront. You are smarter than some hustler that engages for penny collection. My answer to them is always I come over and pick you up rather & drive you back (they were local with 50 miles) but I refused to send money before meeting. Another excuse I have heard was on Sunday afternoon claiming the starter on her car went out and again I offered to picked her up and drop her off but once I was on my way there she kept texting me that if I could pay her upon my arrival half so she could give the half to her roommate on Sunday evening to order a starter to her car for Monday morning for a friend who is mechanic to fix her car. My response was obvious: no auto part store other than advanced auto was going to be open at that time plus I googled and shared the location the nearest advanced auto to her location was 60 miles away. So she finally cleaned her act after she ran out excuses. Don't let any hustler hustle a SD as each one of us represents all SDs out there. So my one time mistake would represent "You" and all other SD to be looked at as a naive and Stupid (excuse my French). Even If she has to hitchhike or take the greyhound all the way from Atlanta don't fall for a pre-pay action. Lastly, I suggest to you always, always do a cam verification before Anything. You increase your authority once they kneel to your demand. In the past month, I have had just about everyone who dropped in my inbox challenged them straight to cam for further discussion and 9 out of 10 took the bait and agreed. All the other one that I reached out I had to find my way to get them to admit to do it. The Moral of my story is be Firm & stand high because the ratio of BS to SD by far is 25-30% higher. I actually have had my Sugar babes to log in and I have seen the men's page vs ladies' page and on the average the were more Sugars online. So don't fall for her tricks and I am so glad you are behind your desk with your money in bank. (More power to all).
