What are some subtle signs that a provider should be avoided?
As mentioned in my first post, I'm on a young (mid-20's) guy who's new to the field. Did a lot of research before entering the field, and have some experience under my belt. Now trying to learn some nuances to avoid future headaches. What are some subtle signs that a provider should be avoided?
My experience so far:
(1) Dark dodgers: I have noticed that whenever a provider asks about age / race, I'm in for bad service. This is of course selection bias because I've had bad experiences with those who've never asked. But within the group that do, it's been glaring. In most cases, the women themselves are minorities. Do they see anyone who's not Zaddie (sculpted by Yakub's own hands) as a convenient nuance / wallet?
(2) Navigators: Whenever a provider keeps texting / calling me for an eta while I'm on route (especially if I'm not late, based on our set time). The worst service I ever got was from a provider who would try Facetiming every 10 minute, knowing full well how far I was coming from and that I was traveling on the highway under heavy rain.
(3) Gate keepers: Whenever a provider waits until you're at the location to do verification or provide adverse information (e. G. , being on her cycle). Probably hopping that you choose to move forward with service (sunk cost) despite them misleading you in some way.
(4) Martians: Whenever a provider always takes 5+ minutes to reply to any text, once we've initiated conversation, especially if you quickly text-back. You're about to be taken on a time-wasting trip.
Some things I am curious about: I tend to avoid any providers that do bare. I pretty much assume that they have at least one incurable condition, if not, how can they do this without catching something? Some providers write long walls of texts about dos / DONTs whereas others seem more chill / direct, any big difference between these two types of providers? Are there any innocuous terms / phrases within a provider's post that signal that they should be avoided?