Single Male Swinger. Club Escape
[QUOTE=Boonniee99;6803984]Thanks! What advice would you give to a single male going to a swingers club? How do I interact with the couples there and get the wives / girls to fuck? How do I prevent myself from being the guy standing there alone with a drink in his hand?[/QUOTE]First off, I'd point you to the extensive single male advice columns on the forums of swinglifestyle dot com.
Secondly, understand that establishing a reputation comes foremost. A swingers reputation can be gleaned via membership on swingers sites / meet platforms such as swinglifestyle, passion, altplayground and sundry. As a single male one needs testimonials or certifications from other swinging couples who've played with you. Don't go overboard as having too many certifications is decidedly a negative, I've found.
Even more essential is meeting with a couple where the husband loves taking photos of you banging his wife and provides them to you for you to share on your private photo galleries on your swingers profiles on any or all of the swingers sites remarked upon just above.
I've been at this since '92. My profiles still state 35 yrs of age. You need some masculine quality that differentiates you from other single guys. Some guys are very handsome. I'm as ugly as fuck but workout like a banshee, which helps as no husband is jealous of a ButHisFace. Frankly, handsome guys tend to be gay which delights the husbands since 60% of husbands are hiding their homosexuality behind a wife and 2. 3 kids.
So you must become practiced in the art of avoiding being alone with the husband if invited to their home to fuck. It is best to stay in the club environs. However, even in a forum such as the open door or open walls at a Club Escape or TJ's be aware that when hubby says he'll eat his wife as you fuck her. Yeah, well. Anyhow the vast majority of wives know damned well that hubby is gay and she is the honeypot lure. Sadly the most attractive wives are the very ones who won't play in public and demand you come to their home.
Third, one ought establish communication via these swingers websites. If a swingclub is having an event they generally list the profiles of all responding attendees. If you look (click on) at the attendees profiles, they are instantly aware that you have. Therefore if interested, they in response can look at yours. Thus you as a single male should never contact anyone unsolicited. They can contact you! They will often either message you, open their private galleries with nudes or the wife in xxx action or hotlist, friend, send a kiss or ask you to open your private galleries. This saves you from ever walking into the club without prospects who've via these means declared their interest in advance.
Problem here is that the hubby who normally is the one active on the profile may be fine with you being butt-ugly but the wife on seeing you shouts "Fuck No!" so loudly that it reverberates off the clubhouse walls. Thus an emotionlessness on the part of us single males is advisable. Same goes when the wife turns out to have gained 200 lbs since the pics displayed on the couples profile.
Hope this helps!
Addendum: Just to re-emphasize, the thing about Club Escape is that I believe it to be employee owned. Such that if there is no action going on in the rooms, an employee will step up and enter the glory hole room and service the male clientele who have stuck it out with no playtime so that they don't leave unhappy and never return.
And another thing previously mentioned, many of these sugardaddy seekers are also advertising on passion.com which does charge for membership but I think far less than the other sugar daddy sites. Curious as to whether anyone on the sugardaddy sites has ever faced prostitution charges therefrom.
That is Shay. Protein lover
[QUOTE=SlickMutha;6800991]Sorry, here's the link.
[URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/cleveland/female-escorts/caucasian_w/help-me-help-you-have-a-happy-/954396035031[/URL][/QUOTE]She often mentions protein in her add. Many reports, just search Shay.
My $0. 02 worth on this long discussion
[QUOTE=Pantagruel;6808421]First off, I'd point you to the extensive single male advice columns on the forums of swinglifestyle dot com.
Secondly, understand that establishing a reputation comes foremost. A swingers reputation can be gleaned via membership on swingers sites / meet platforms such as swinglifestyle, passion, altplayground and sundry. As a single male one needs testimonials or certifications from other swinging couples who've played with you. Don't go overboard as having too many certifications is decidedly a negative, I've found.
Even more essential is meeting with a couple where the husband loves taking photos of you banging his wife and provides them to you for you to share on your private photo galleries on your swingers profiles on any or all of the swingers sites remarked upon just above.
I've been at this since '92. My profiles still state 35 yrs of age. You need some masculine quality that differentiates you from other single guys. Some guys are very handsome. I'm as ugly as fuck but workout like a banshee, which helps as no husband is jealous of a ButHisFace. Frankly, handsome guys tend to be gay which delights the husbands since 60% of husbands are hiding their homosexuality behind a wife and 2. 3 kids.
So you must become practiced in the art of avoiding being alone with the husband if invited to their home to fuck. It is best to stay in the club environs. However, even in a forum such as the open door or open walls at a Club Escape or TJ's be aware that when hubby says he'll eat his wife as you fuck her. Yeah, well. Anyhow the vast majority of wives know damned well that hubby is gay and she is the honeypot lure. Sadly the most attractive wives are the very ones who won't play in public and demand you come to their home.
Third, one ought establish communication via these swingers websites. If a swingclub is having an event they generally list the profiles of all responding attendees. If you look (click on) at the attendees profiles, they are instantly aware that you have. Therefore if interested, they in response can look at yours. Thus you as a single male should never contact anyone unsolicited. They can contact you! They will often either message you, open their private galleries with nudes or the wife in xxx action or hotlist, friend, send a kiss or ask you to open your private galleries. This saves you from ever walking into the club without prospects who've via these means declared their interest in advance.
Problem here is that the hubby who normally is the one active on the profile may be fine with you being butt-ugly but the wife on seeing you shouts "Fuck No!" so loudly that it reverberates off the clubhouse walls. Thus an emotionlessness on the part of us single males is advisable. Same goes when the wife turns out to have gained 200 lbs since the pics displayed on the couples profile.
Hope this helps!
Addendum: Just to re-emphasize, the thing about Club Escape is that I believe it to be employee owned. Such that if there is no action going on in the rooms, an employee will step up and enter the glory hole room and service the male clientele who have stuck it out with no playtime so that they don't leave unhappy and never return.
And another thing previously mentioned, many of these sugardaddy seekers are also advertising on passion.com which does charge for membership but I think far less than the other sugar daddy sites. Curious as to whether anyone on the sugardaddy sites has ever faced prostitution charges therefrom.[/QUOTE]
As a long time attendee of both clubs, here is my $0.02 worth. The chances of being asked as a single male to join in are rare. Although I will say your chances are greater if you are black. I think I was asked to join only once in the year or so I was attending alone. I switched MO's and started looking for female partners. It's easier than you think. You just have to look in the right places. The chances of finding a swing partner at a singles bar slim and none and slim just left town. On the escort side look for providers that will entertain women or couples. They are almost always up for a swingers' club, some of whom have been before, and may be members. If they are members, you are there as their partner and it's a no-brainer. To make it work, you need to find someone you have chemistry with. Someone you want as longer term, so develop some rapport over several meetings. You have to like each other. You don't want to show up with a different partner each week. You need to know what each of you likes, and more importantly, what you don't like. You need to be a real couple or at least FWBs. If it's all just transactional, it doesn't work so swell. If you lie about it, it shows. You are going to be spending 3-4 hours with her, so you had better have a connection. On the sugar baby side it works the same way. You need to discuss it during the meet and greet. You need a partner that is at least a little forward. I say that because, and this is critical, IT'S THE WOMEN WHO MAKE THE CHOICES. I leaned that early on. The few times we guys made the choice didn't work any where near as well as when the women made the choice. I'm probably going to get into trouble over this because the clubs don't approve transactional relationships, but that's why you have to have enough rapport to be a real couple. Don't be fake about it, be real friends. Who cares how you met. I've had three of these relationships and each one lasted well over a year. One from the escort side, the other two from the sugar side. We have always presented ourselves honestly as FWB's. Many times we were unable to hook up with another couple, (it doesn't happen as often as you fantasize), but at least we were able to put on a show for everyone. So it's always a win-win.
Stay safe.
