"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=PregnantLover6;4773688]Would you give allowance without meeting? Like for one week, her schedule just couldn't meet you. Do you still give allowance if she request it?[/QUOTE]Like Kwagmire said, it depends on the circumstances. I would say usually "no", especially if you don't know them well. These girls are trying to extract money from you and they may be very clever to exploit weakness. It would also depend on what you expect to get in return.

Having said that, I must admit that a small number of former SBs have reached out and asked me for help, and being a softie (or some would call a chump) I have helped them with fairly small amounts (less than the cost of a typical date). I'm not sure what I'll get out of that. Probably nothing. But in the present crisis we should all be charitable -- my opinion. Mind you, these were girls I dated for a long time and they were very nice to me. Fortunately I'm anonymous, so I don't mind the chump accusation, LOL. To me it's like giving to Red Cross or a similar charity, without the administrative overhead.

[QUOTE=EBob1111;4774216]I had been seeing a regular SB for about a month before things started shutting down due to COVID-19. I paid her 800 a month and she would see me once a week and I think we got together twice in a week one time. When things started to shut down I asked if she would be open to PPM for the time being because I didn't know how regular I could be or what my economic situation would be. She got offended and said that felt transactional and I shouldn't come around anymore. A month & 1/2 went by and I saw her back on SA. I reached out to her apologizing for the way I approached it and let her know if she was still interested I could get back to the original arrangement. She was happy to hear from me and will do to that. Saw her Monday and she asked me to come back later this week. She's not putting me on a clock or a meets per week limitation and has earned my trust that I would give her something even if she had to miss a week.[/QUOTE]If she was offended by the idea of temporary PPM, would you mind sharing how things started off? I'm guessing either you trusted her enough to front her the monthly 800, and she held up her end of the deal, or it was the other way around and she trusted you with a month's worth of free pussy before the first payment?

If the latter, you struck gold. I personally would never agree to the former, but that's a YMMV thing. I always explain to them that trust for each other comes after we know each other. I've had situations where they said "no PPM required, just be there when I need you" and it started that way, and I've had some that flat out said on the first date they are really feeling the chemistry and would be interested in being more than just an arrangement to me. In some cases I've partaken. So, similar situations (pussy first pay later) have definitely happened, but it was never based on me suggesting pussy up front and pay at the end of the month.

Or keeping her to yourself.

[QUOTE=Ricrun;4777624]Just meet and greet with Andy. She a little bit of a airhead but she is loads of fun. I will be repeating.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=OliverNP;4777706]If she was offended by the idea of temporary PPM, would you mind sharing how things started off? I'm guessing either you trusted her enough to front her the monthly 800, and she held up her end of the deal, or it was the other way around and she trusted you with a month's worth of free pussy before the first payment?

If the latter, you struck gold. I personally would never agree to the former, but that's a YMMV thing. I always explain to them that trust for each other comes after we know each other. I've had situations where they said "no PPM required, just be there when I need you" and it started that way, and I've had some that flat out said on the first date they are really feeling the chemistry and would be interested in being more than just an arrangement to me. In some cases I've partaken. So, similar situations (pussy first pay later) have definitely happened, but it was never based on me suggesting pussy up front and pay at the end of the month.[/QUOTE]We had an initial meet & greet in public, no sex but enjoyed the conversation enough to follow up. Next meeting started out in public, ended up back at her place for sex which was great and she still hadn't brought up money or proposed an amount. It was definitely a leap of faith on my part but I proposed 800/ month and she didn't flinch or hesitate. She held up her end for a month by being available whenever I wanted. When we "broke up" over PPM she told me she had turned down more money because she liked me. Everything's been great since we started again, she turned off her profile and has earned my trust.

I have 2 babies that I have seen for a while on PPM basis. We have bee. Texting or talking regularly during the lock down. Knowing they were hurting, I did mailed them a little help to while they were waiting for their stimulus or unemployment checks to arrive. It wasn't a lot, but both were extremely appreciative. It just thing like the right thing to do.

[QUOTE=Snake27;4777689]Like Kwagmire said, it depends on the circumstances. I would say usually "no", especially if you don't know them well. These girls are trying to extract money from you and they may be very clever to exploit weakness. It would also depend on what you expect to get in return.

Having said that, I must admit that a small number of former SBs have reached out and asked me for help, and being a softie (or some would call a chump) I have helped them with fairly small amounts (less than the cost of a typical date). I'm not sure what I'll get out of that. Probably nothing. But in the present crisis we should all be charitable -- my opinion. Mind you, these were girls I dated for a long time and they were very nice to me. Fortunately I'm anonymous, so I don't mind the chump accusation, LOL. To me it's like giving to Red Cross or a similar charity, without the administrative overhead.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=EBob1111;4778398]. When we "broke up" over PPM she told me she had turned down more money because she liked me. Everything's been great since we started again, she turned off her profile and has earned my trust.[/QUOTE]Er, if a girl blocks you, doesn't that look like she turned off her profile and could still be fishing for a better deal all along?

[QUOTE=Shampoo55;4778851]Er, if a girl blocks you, doesn't that look like she turned off her profile and could still be fishing for a better deal all along?[/QUOTE]I have a dummy profile with another user name so I can get on the site and check for that kind of thing, she's off.

Richmond gents,

Any intel on this one?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/80fbb3ca-12fd-49f6-919c-602da8a4a52a[/URL]

She is also posting on sd4 me and answered one of my messages, but I got the feeling she was only selling pics, kik.

Skins.

[QUOTE=BStreet;4778121]Or keeping her to yourself.

.[/QUOTE]Here's the Andy I've gotten to know. Don't know if it's the same one, but the description fits.

Anyone meet this one or currently seeing her? Feel free to send me a private message if you don't feel like posting publicly. I need some questions answered about her. Haha!!

[QUOTE=LikItFun;4780147]Here's the Andy I've gotten to know. Don't know if it's the same one, but the description fits.[/QUOTE]There is nothing here here.

Texting sounds promising, so far. Will try to do M&G today or this weekend.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5e452df9-287c-4319-b739-c8bfcc556009[/URL]

[QUOTE=MarkUser;4781162]There is nothing here here.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3c8d762d-b4a6-4e08-ab0a-14431d22ea76[/URL]

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;4787091]Texting sounds promising, so far. Will try to do M&G today or this weekend.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5e452df9-287c-4319-b739-c8bfcc556009[/URL][/QUOTE]I went back and forth with her about a year ago. I never ended up meeting up with her but it was all on the table, straight to fc. I just chose other options when I had time.

Brothers,

What are the potential places for a M&G with a POT / SB during the lockdown?