Visiting for Thanksgiving.
Hey everyone.
I will be in town for Thanksgiving and I'm interested in seeing a K-Girl. I'm looking for a good rimming and HJ combo. Maybe a BBBJ nothing too crazy. I'd really appreciate if anyone could PM me good suggestions and also tell me how to get approved with the org. Thanks in advance for any help you provide.
Reminiscing the hobby memories
[QUOTE=PogeyBait;7431694]There is an argument to be made that Korean org types are the best value in this hobby. Idk the full extent of your knowledge or experience but independents on EROS or Tryst are usually exponentially more expensive when you factor in negotiating anything not mentioned in their standard menu.[/QUOTE]Kind of late to the party with the advice to the young guy, but I think there's a lot of truth to all the pros and cons brought up by the vets here. At the end of the day, it's all about moderation and having self control, which can be tough with this hobby, but it's totally possible. Sex drive is a good motivation to make more moeny for sure and I can speak from experience.
I started hobbying around my mid to late 20's after graduating college and getting a job to gain real income for myself. Till then, I've never had any problem with getting girls, but I guess I've always had high libido. I've had sex throughout my mid to late teens with GFs and hookups, and I've had a long-term GF through college to satisfy my sexual needs. I remember a period of time when I was having sex every day, everywhere. LOL Those were some good times. One of my fondest memories is having a small circle of friends (3 guys 3 girls) that openly swapped partners and had orgies at and after school. That all ended when one of the girls got prego without knowing who the baby daddy was. Which wasn't such a great memory.
After graduating school, things started to calm down socially, but I guess my sex drive never came down. So naturally, I got into hobbying to let out all the sexual tension, which was great for my mental health rather than masturbating all the time. Financially, it was definitely a struggle first though. I started out with craigslist and backpage, and sessions were pretty cheap with independent girls back then, but I definitely got addicted too much when I first started. I remember doing 3-4 incalls a week with each session costing a little more than $100 for the hour. I probably spent around $1 K 2 K per month, which isn't much in today's standards but it was enough to put a sizable dent in my entry-level job salary. It was just nice to have a convenietn NSA sex without having to worry about any personal relationships or dramas. This also helped me figure out my finances better as a young adult, and forced me to plan out my budgets responsibly. I'm lowkey glad that my entry point was appropriate to my financial capabilities at the time, despite the quality of the sessions being a fraction of what the kigrl experience is. Seeing kgirls from the start would've destroyed my bank account in a heartbeat. Seeing independents on CG and BP was also kind of fun because it was really a roll of the dice. Some real hits, but also a lot of misses. I distinctly remember having sex with a hot Italian girl in Santa Barbara, who was a random pickup during a roadtrip up north. Service was very much meh, but she was definitely a fun trophy fuck that I'll never forget.
Soon after, I started frequenting c-orgs around my late 20's, which provided a little more stability in terms of expectations. Same rates, same houses, similar routines. Cheap rates. $120 160 per hour in the SGV area. Very limited experience with CBJ, CFS, and mostly no kissing. Girls were definitely hit or miss, but less misses now. I enjoyed a good amount of attractive SEA girls, and of course an unfortunate minority of older unattractive women during this time. After a while though, the gamble factor was getting old and I was almost ready to move on from the hobby all together to settle down.
Then about 10 years ago, I experienced my first kgirl through ********. The first one was a huge hurdle for me because the price was double the cost of a c-org and I struggled to justify that at the time. $260 per hour back in the day, which is comically cheap compared to today's standard, but expensive relative to the time of the experience. I was over c-orgs at this point, so I took the plunge and finally got an appointment with my first ever kgirl. I still vividly remember seeing Amy in downtown. She was in a nice apartment off of Hill st. My memory might be slightly glorified at this point, but she was a gorgeous girl in her early 30's. Dirty blonde hair. Slightly dark but smooth skin. Slightly plastic face but pretty none the less. Super plump ass and a beautiful set of manmade Ds. She took me through the standard kgirl routine of BT, shower preview, bedside BBBJ in front of the mirror, LFK / DFK, 69, CFS in every position imaginable, and a nice little clean up BBBJ as a finishing touch. I still have dreams about her sucking me off and seeing her round ass in the mirror. That session had me hooked on kgirls. The sheer difference in the level of service compared to anything I've had before had me in awe. Fortunately, by this time, I was also in a much better place financially so I can afford to see a couple kgirls per month. The increase in cost was absolutely justified after this first experience and I've never looked back ever since. I ended up fucking Amy 6 or 7 times before she left LA to tour the states.
The world of kgirls opened me up to BBFS, which was another mental hurdle because of the health risk factor, but by my late 30's I felt less risk was on the line that I just started to go in raw with some precautionary measures with DoxyPreP and thorough clean up routines. (Fortunately no STD scares till this day!) Then I started getting into duos and trios, which was reminiscent of my orgy days and the experience itself was fun, but the price never made much sense to me in that area. I'd rather fuck the girls individually and get the extra hours / shots, which is way more cost effective.
The influx of j-girls and JAV porn stars was another pleasant wave over the past few years. The j-girl experience is not quite at the level of kgirls, but me being able to speak Japanese has given me some leverage with j-girls. Fucking a JAV girl while watching her own porn and making her act out the same scene was a bucket list item to cross out. Filming a session with a j-girl and watching it together has been one of the funniest and ego boosting thing I've done in the hobby.
In the past 5 years, I started travelling to Japan and Korea for business, so I started going to soaplands and trying different types of brothels there. Japanese soaplands make you feel like a king with the over the top service. Korean brothels make you drown in tits, asses, and pussies quite literally. The experience is definitely elevated in the homeland (s), but the basic LA kgirl experience has remained as the golden standard for me.
Since starting the hobby, I tripled my salary and have been meticulous with my finances as well as my health check ups. Big driver behind all that has been my desire to continue the hobby and I have no shame in that. I want to eat lots of good food, travel to a lot of places, and have a lot of sex with beautiful women until my time on earth is over. Being honest with my body's needs have made me very happy and I don't plan on stopping.
Long rant but hope this paints a picture as to how the hobby shapes a person's life. It was interesting to read how and when other's got into the hobby as well, so hopefully we can all share a bit of our own experience (in a relatively non-distinct way, of course).
