I had the girls name wrong. It's not Emily, her name is Julie actually.
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I had the girls name wrong. It's not Emily, her name is Julie actually.
[QUOTE=FlyByNature90;3754272]I had the girls name wrong. It's not Emily, her name is Julie actually.[/QUOTE]Just to let you know it called Yuan Yuan.
This may come across as bragging but I am curious to get the opinion of the board on this. My last few visits to my ATF, she has referred me to new girls at the spa and even though she hasn't steered me wrong yet so far since I've gotten the same service as I always get from her. I just wonder why she has not wanted my business and given me the new girls in the spa? I've been seeing her for over 2 years now so I hope she's not getting tired of me! Like I said, not trying to brag or anything like that but would love some opinions on this.
I have been told by therapist that it could be they are bored with you. Could be hygeine issue, Size and your weight. I heard couple say old guys can't get hard or cum and keep wanting the girl to stroke it.
[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;3754516]This may come across as bragging but I am curious to get the opinion of the board on this. My last few visits to my ATF, she has referred me to new girls at the spa and even though she hasn't steered me wrong yet so far since I've gotten the same service as I always get from her. I just wonder why she has not wanted my business and given me the new girls in the spa? I've been seeing her for over 2 years now so I hope she's not getting tired of me! Like I said, not trying to brag or anything like that but would love some opinions on this.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;3754516]This may come across as bragging but I am curious to get the opinion of the board on this. My last few visits to my ATF, she has referred me to new girls at the spa and even though she hasn't steered me wrong yet so far since I've gotten the same service as I always get from her. I just wonder why she has not wanted my business and given me the new girls in the spa? I've been seeing her for over 2 years now so I hope she's not getting tired of me! Like I said, not trying to brag or anything like that but would love some opinions on this.[/QUOTE]I had an ATF that declined my business after two years. She said I was emotionally draining her every time we met. I think she was scared of getting hurt.
[QUOTE=Riina;3754872]I had an ATF that declined my business after two years. She said I was emotionally draining her every time we met. I think she was scared of getting hurt.[/QUOTE]Hey man, I feel you too. My long time regular 1. 5 yrs told me that she only views me as a "good friend" even though she has a husband and has been doing FS with me regularly for this time!
It is interesting how they text you with hearts and hugs and tell you that they miss you and want to see you. Once, you go there for appointment, it is like ok lets get to it (FS) then shower then water then.
Confirm with you a follow up appointment in couple of weeks! Total lack of true affection!
[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;3754516]This may come across as bragging but I am curious to get the opinion of the board on this. My last few visits to my ATF, she has referred me to new girls at the spa and even though she hasn't steered me wrong yet so far since I've gotten the same service as I always get from her. I just wonder why she has not wanted my business and given me the new girls in the spa? I've been seeing her for over 2 years now so I hope she's not getting tired of me! Like I said, not trying to brag or anything like that but would love some opinions on this.[/QUOTE]I've never had that happen to me & I've done this for awhile. I also talked to a few gals. I was curious if others stayed in shape like me- I'm not perfect but I workout regularly. She said no, many are very overweight. I'm not judging- it's cool- just curious. That wouldn't stop them. Gals massage older guys, younger guys, overweight guys, thin guys, bald guys, etc. They don't care. So I'm guessing it might be a hygiene issue like the other poster said- that one could be a deal breaker- unless maybe she's going to be the manager & do less massages or something. Always make sure you shower, etc. before hand and clean any area that might be an issue. And that means ANY area. If you need to do some manscaping on your back, or elsewhere better do that too. One of the American places in Belvidere (ERS)- used to force guys to shower before hand- even if some of us already showered like me which was kind of a pain. Brush your teeth, use mouthwash, don't have garlic for lunch, etc. Don't wear cologne or after shave. That's all I can think of. If all else fails just ask her what's the deal?
[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;3754516]This may come across as bragging but I am curious to get the opinion of the board on this. My last few visits to my ATF, she has referred me to new girls at the spa and even though she hasn't steered me wrong yet so far since I've gotten the same service as I always get from her. I just wonder why she has not wanted my business and given me the new girls in the spa? I've been seeing her for over 2 years now so I hope she's not getting tired of me! Like I said, not trying to brag or anything like that but would love some opinions on this.[/QUOTE]How about asking her why your spa ATF is referring you to other girls.
Stopped by this place at 915 S. Western to check it out after a session at Yuan Yuan (mentioned below). I had been there over a year ago, but I'm always curious about changes in provider's, etc. Got pricing info from a gal named Zeno, who used to work at Lolium Spa at Western near North Ave. She acted like she didn't recognize me but I sure remembered her. Has anyone seen her at this place? Any extras available?
Thanks!
I don't consider this bragging. You should ask her why she is pawning you off.
[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;3754516]This may come across as bragging but I am curious to get the opinion of the board on this. My last few visits to my ATF, she has referred me to new girls at the spa and even though she hasn't steered me wrong yet so far since I've gotten the same service as I always get from her. I just wonder why she has not wanted my business and given me the new girls in the spa? I've been seeing her for over 2 years now so I hope she's not getting tired of me! Like I said, not trying to brag or anything like that but would love some opinions on this.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DMichaels69;3755456]I don't consider this bragging. You should ask her why she is pawning you off.[/QUOTE]When my ATF offered to "vouch" for me with others in the same spa a couple years ago I declined. And whether directly connected or not, I have to say I've been rewarded with a pretty amazing menu as time has gone on.
[QUOTE=Biliator;3755504]When my ATF offered to "vouch" for me with others in the same spa a couple years ago I declined. And whether directly connected or not, I have to say I've been rewarded with a pretty amazing menu as time has gone on.[/QUOTE]Thanks for all the opinions. Definitely some food for thought. To clarify though, I think the last five times I've been to the spa my ATF did see me once. The other girls she referred me were newer to the spa so perhaps she just wanted to mix things up for me to give me some variety. Anyway, not a terrible problem to have for sure!
[QUOTE=Biliator;3755504]When my ATF offered to "vouch" for me with others in the same spa a couple years ago I declined. And whether directly connected or not, I have to say I've been rewarded with a pretty amazing menu as time has gone on.[/QUOTE]Seems like she was testing your "loyalty" to her, to find out if you really meant all those great things you told her. Sounds like you made the right decision this time.
I can think of a couple possibilities. (1) It could be a test. If you decline to opportunity to see other girls perhaps you are demonstrating loyalty. (2) As others have said, You might be a difficult client (in her eyes) (3) She might be married and be worried that she is getting to close to you. Or perhaps her husband (if there is one) insisted that she cool it off with you. (4) The manager might be telling her she has to share you with the new girls. In our shop we just got a new girl, so we are needing to make sure she gets some business. Probably a lot more possible reasons.
Bob.
[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;3754516]This may come across as bragging but I am curious to get the opinion of the board on this. My last few visits to my ATF, she has referred me to new girls at the spa and even though she hasn't steered me wrong yet so far since I've gotten the same service as I always get from her. I just wonder why she has not wanted my business and given me the new girls in the spa? I've been seeing her for over 2 years now so I hope she's not getting tired of me! Like I said, not trying to brag or anything like that but would love some opinions on this.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Miamiat;3755294]Stopped by this place at 915 S. Western to check it out after a session at Yuan Yuan (mentioned below). I had been there over a year ago, but I'm always curious about changes in provider's, etc. Got pricing info from a gal named Zeno, who used to work at Lolium Spa at Western near North Ave. She acted like she didn't recognize me but I sure remembered her. Has anyone seen her at this place? Any extras available?
Thanks![/QUOTE]I stop in there at times when traffic is bad on 290. The experience is usually mediocre one time I went there and she didn't have any massage oil and she used lotion for an awful massage. The next time I went I bought some with me, but she had some there already the menu is standard like most AMPs. It's cool if you are stuck in traffic and want to get right back on the express way. I think most people usually just drive to Chicago ave and partake in the options over there though, since they have a better selection of MTs at places there.