OK. So what's up with all this new girl accounts asking for jst and online relationship with and allowance? Whose actually falling for this bs.
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OK. So what's up with all this new girl accounts asking for jst and online relationship with and allowance? Whose actually falling for this bs.
[QUOTE=ElRock999;4575456]OK. So what's up with all this new girl accounts asking for jst and online relationship with and allowance? Whose actually falling for this bs.[/QUOTE]Just joined here recently-first time posting. I've been on that site for over 5 years-before the other review site wasn't viable anymore. I've had an incredible long term arrangement through that site and several really good ones. It has changed significantly in the last 2 years-way more fakes / flakes / scammers / backpage girls / onlne only and platonic. I prefer more consistent, ongoing type arrangements over the one and done so its far more difficult to find that these days. It takes a lot of effort to find a gem-far more effort than in years past. The fact that the monthly cost is not insignificant adds to the frustration. I've learned to not bother with the 22 and under crowd. Dabbled there with some success but they are just too flakey and more inclined to be tire kickers / want online / platonic.
[QUOTE=Mrb3434;4575122]I don't know how this person found me I using a texting app not my real number. Long story short someone texted me with screen shots of my profile, my wife's Facebook, my Facebook and my LinkedIn demanding large amounts of money not to expose me. Not sure who it is. I've bought a little time before sending money and hoping to get ahold of the police tomorrow morning. Need to find a way out of this.[/QUOTE]Horrible hearing that! If you do find the person, please let us know what her profile is here and report her on SA. Best of luck to you!
[QUOTE=Mrb3434;4575122]I don't know how this person found me I using a texting app not my real number. Long story short someone texted me with screen shots of my profile, my wife's Facebook, my Facebook and my LinkedIn demanding large amounts of money not to expose me. Not sure who it is. I've bought a little time before sending money and hoping to get ahold of the police tomorrow morning. Need to find a way out of this.[/QUOTE]Do you have a profile link to the "sb"?
[QUOTE=ElRock999;4575456]OK. So what's up with all this new girl accounts asking for jst and online relationship with and allowance? Whose actually falling for this bs.[/QUOTE]If they say online only and no meeting in person or selling pictures / videos I will screenshot it and report them with the screenshot evidence. If it only says online I will message them and ask what their idea of online only is. When they reply with text, pictures or no meets in person I screenshot their reply and report them. It does permanently block them but it gets them suspended until they change their profile and agree not to do it again and that future offenses can lead to permanent bans. If they look young / underage I will ask them if they will show a picture of their I'd to verify age and if they refuse I will report that too. No need for anyone to get in trouble and if they can't / won't provide SA verification they get banned. That is about the only way to get them gone that I have found.
[QUOTE=FScott;4575842]Do you have a profile link to the "sb"?[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9e66a158-4a52-4a79-9884-347235069153[/URL]
Not saying this is your girl. But Red Flags and I wondered about her game. Googled pic to an Alexa Tomas photo. She is an antiques dealer living in Skokie and looking for a serious relationship. New account, etc.
Scrubbed my profile and realized a photo linked to my social media. Lesson learned.
[QUOTE=FScott;4575842]Do you have a profile link to the "sb"?[/QUOTE]Not sure who it would be I have been and no way to tell. If I do find out I will let everyone know. I have blocked the person from texting me. After some research if they expose me then they have no chance at getting money so I'm nervously waiting it out.
[QUOTE=Mrb3434;4575122]I don't know how this person found me I using a texting app not my real number. Long story short someone texted me with screen shots of my profile, my wife's Facebook, my Facebook and my LinkedIn demanding large amounts of money not to expose me. Not sure who it is. I've bought a little time before sending money and hoping to get ahold of the police tomorrow morning. Need to find a way out of this.[/QUOTE]That's awful, sorry to hear. It was most likely through your pics. Did you try reverse searching on all your pics from your profile? LinkedIn and Twitter profile pics are common hits as they are all public with profile pics. Sometimes even old pics you may have had on previous profiles can come up cached.
Hope you can squash this and make it go away. They just want your money. Try to breath easy , they don’t really want to expose you it does nothing for them, they just want your money.
I couldn't imagine doing this SA stuff being married. The tracks covering would drive me nuts.
This is one of the things I fear the most. But they would be looking at some criminal charges if they went through with it so hopefully it's just a bluff. They're probably trying to pull the same thing with tons of other dudes. If they get even a quarter to send money, it's a success in their eyes. Pulling for you man. Keep us posted!
[QUOTE=Mrb3434;4575122]I don't know how this person found me I using a texting app not my real number. Long story short someone texted me with screen shots of my profile, my wife's Facebook, my Facebook and my LinkedIn demanding large amounts of money not to expose me. Not sure who it is. I've bought a little time before sending money and hoping to get ahold of the police tomorrow morning. Need to find a way out of this.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Mrb3434;4576060]Not sure who it would be I have been and no way to tell. If I do find out I will let everyone know. I have blocked the person from texting me. After some research if they expose me then they have no chance at getting money so I'm nervously waiting it out.[/QUOTE]Best of luck and hopefully it blows over, and if you do figure out what the weak link in your identity was and are able to share, it would certainly be a good teaching moment for the rest of us.
[QUOTE=Mrb3434;4575122]I don't know how this person found me I using a texting app not my real number. Long story short someone texted me with screen shots of my profile, my wife's Facebook, my Facebook and my LinkedIn demanding large amounts of money not to expose me. Not sure who it is. I've bought a little time before sending money and hoping to get ahold of the police tomorrow morning. Need to find a way out of this.[/QUOTE]Happened to me several years ago. I had actually met her through Craigslist or Backpage. She made this long effort to extort money with threats of her trans frinds blanketing the neighborhood with flyers, calling wife, etc, etc.
I ignored her and eventially she went away, but returned exactly one year later with the same threats.
[QUOTE=Mrb3434;4575122]I don't know how this person found me I using a texting app not my real number. Long story short someone texted me with screen shots of my profile, my wife's Facebook, my Facebook and my LinkedIn demanding large amounts of money not to expose me. Not sure who it is. I've bought a little time before sending money and hoping to get ahold of the police tomorrow morning. Need to find a way out of this.[/QUOTE]Tell her you have a neighbor who works for the FBI and he clearly said that extortion is a federal crime that they will pursue aggressively.
[QUOTE=Mrb3434;4575122]I don't know how this person found me I using a texting app not my real number. Long story short someone texted me with screen shots of my profile, my wife's Facebook, my Facebook and my LinkedIn demanding large amounts of money not to expose me. Not sure who it is. I've bought a little time before sending money and hoping to get ahold of the police tomorrow morning. Need to find a way out of this.[/QUOTE]HI, so, I had someone a few years ago pull the ole "I'm actually underage" and followed up with a few days of harrassing "police calls" and "attorney calls" from a male voice. So these guys as a team, worked to try to get me to send them money.
I would double check and triple the number they sent you the information from. Instead of someone you actually know, it maybe someone who isn't even local or in the country, just that the scam of this extortion idea I went thru, is getting stronger and worse.
I met someone on CL this summer, and found her again recently on SA. Complete psycho but so hot. She told me off again (as crazies do for no reason) so I just moved on. She is the type that could ruin you, I won't even share the profile as I don't need her searching and figuring out anything.
Long story short tho, if they are real, I would guess they are north of 30, as even the the younger girls are hot, bitchy, and play tons of games, I have found the 30 plus year old are crazier and more vindictive. (because they know, most decent guys can get girls better then them for free, anytime, where as someone hot and 18 is a commodity of sorts) I have since sworn off the 30 plus year olds, or Latinas for that matter, in the Chicago area at least on that site. (except for everyone fav billionaire, who is anything but crazy thus far imo).
[QUOTE=LoveSmallPerky;4575889]If they say online only and no meeting in person or selling pictures / videos I will screenshot it and report them with the screenshot evidence. If it only says online I will message them and ask what their idea of online only is. When they reply with text, pictures or no meets in person I screenshot their reply and report them. It does permanently block them but it gets them suspended until they change their profile and agree not to do it again and that future offenses can lead to permanent bans. If they look young / underage I will ask them if they will show a picture of their I'd to verify age and if they refuse I will report that too. No need for anyone to get in trouble and if they can't / won't provide SA verification they get banned. That is about the only way to get them gone that I have found.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't do that. Some of those only online and only pics girls, especially in college, (not so much this completely beaten up and over saturated market of Chicago) can be easily converted when you stay in touch with them enough. Maybe in Chicago not so much tho, it seems there are some desperate clowns out there ponying up money for pics or even less, just because they have money to kill. In smaller cities (not around here) I've had good luck with converting some of these pics only girls to something real.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cb7e474c-a529-4a7e-8b64-06dab230f9c6[/URL]
Meet up for a $200 BBBJ, ended up switching to CFS at no up charge. She is down on her luck and used money to pay for hotel. She got kicked out of grandmothers house per her report. Pictures are her but doesn't look as good in person. Body is banging for sure. Tiny.
[QUOTE=Rounded25;4577421][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cb7e474c-a529-4a7e-8b64-06dab230f9c6[/URL]
Meet up for a $200 BBBJ, ended up switching to CFS at no up charge. She is down on her luck and used money to pay for hotel. She got kicked out of grandmothers house per her report. Pictures are her but doesn't look as good in person. Body is banging for sure. Tiny.[/QUOTE]If anyone wants to skip the seeking bullshit with this one, she's also a pro.
[URL]https://tosluts.com/forums/showthread.php/3251046-951-400-9849-Marvelous-Addictive-Lady[/URL]
[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/40331979[/URL]
[QUOTE=ChezBonobo;4575440]but she was at the bottom under the "people also viewed" section.[/QUOTE]Same thing happens with a lot of Instagram followers. YOu search a pic it comes up as a hit on 4 or 5 different Insta profiles, none of which are the girl in question, but if you have the patience to scroll through the followers you will find your target.
[QUOTE=DrTravel2015;4576549]Tell her you have a neighbor who works for the FBI and he clearly said that extortion is a federal crime that they will pursue aggressively.[/QUOTE]Based on what I found online I simply set all of my profiles and my wife's profiles to private so we don't show up in google searches anymore and blocked the number. Since I have stopped communication with them I'm assuming they have moved on. It's past the deadline they gave me to send money or be exposed. If they expose me they will have nothing on me anymore and no reason to ask for money. Hoping it just goes away now.
[QUOTE=Agoraphobe;4577797]If anyone wants to skip the seeking bullshit with this one, she's also a pro.
[URL]https://tosluts.com/forums/showthread.php/3251046-951-400-9849-Marvelous-Addictive-Lady[/URL]
[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/40331979[/URL][/QUOTE]Killer detective work! - very impressive.
[QUOTE=Agoraphobe;4577797]If anyone wants to skip the seeking bullshit with this one, she's also a pro.
[URL]https://tosluts.com/forums/showthread.php/3251046-951-400-9849-Marvelous-Addictive-Lady[/URL]
[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/40331979[/URL][/QUOTE]Nice. With the butt plug too. What's the lowest anyone has got her down to? She said 150 for 2 shots and she would come to me. That's not bad. Pretty firm on needing a rubber.
[QUOTE=Agoraphobe;4577797]If anyone wants to skip the seeking bullshit with this one, she's also a pro.
[URL]https://tosluts.com/forums/showthread.php/3251046-951-400-9849-Marvelous-Addictive-Lady[/URL]
[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/40331979[/URL][/QUOTE]With this we can cut right to the chase, without all the bullshit on seeking is right! More bother than it was worth IMHO.
[QUOTE=Mrb3434;4577854]Based on what I found online I simply set all of my profiles and my wife's profiles to private so we don't show up in google searches anymore and blocked the number. Since I have stopped communication with them I'm assuming they have moved on. It's past the deadline they gave me to send money or be exposed. If they expose me they will have nothing on me anymore and no reason to ask for money. Hoping it just goes away now.[/QUOTE]I hope it is over for you. Valuable lesson I see from this is don't use any photos of yourself that are online someplace. Lots of guys on here talk about finding girl's real identities that way, so it stands to reason anyone could do the same search on us. Good luck!
[QUOTE=BPHunter;4577962]Nice. With the butt plug too. What's the lowest anyone has got her down to? She said 150 for 2 shots and she would come to me. That's not bad. Pretty firm on needing a rubber.[/QUOTE]150 for 2 shots, and she comes to you, that is a bargain. Maybe you could get her to bring a pizza LOL.
[QUOTE=Dodge55;4578653]150 for 2 shots, and she comes to you, that is a bargain. Maybe you could get her to bring a pizza LOL.[/QUOTE]Yeah but with a rubber. You'd be shocked at the kind of tail you can convince to bring themselves to you to get fucked for free or even just gas money. They're not everywhere but worth the search for sure.
[QUOTE=BPHunter;4578660]Yeah but with a rubber. You'd be shocked at the kind of tail you can convince to bring themselves to you to get fucked for free or even just gas money. They're not everywhere but worth the search for sure.[/QUOTE]I'm impressed! I tried seeking for a while, got a bunch of numbers to follow up and did score with a MILF, but nothing free. I admire your skills!
[QUOTE=Dodge55;4578651]I hope it is over for you. Valuable lesson I see from this is don't use any photos of yourself that are online someplace. Lots of guys on here talk about finding girl's real identities that way, so it stands to reason anyone could do the same search on us. Good luck![/QUOTE]For what it is worth, I edited a photo flipping the image direction and that was enough to get past a google image search.
[QUOTE=Rounded25;4578691]For what it is worth, I edited a photo flipping the image direction and that was enough to get past a google image search.[/QUOTE]Flipping a pic is not enough. When I tin-eye or google image search, I search on the flip as well. Been doing it for years. Seen way too many flipped images in ad's not to.
TP.
[QUOTE=Mrb3434;4575122]I don't know how this person found me I using a texting app not my real number. Long story short someone texted me with screen shots of my profile, my wife's Facebook, my Facebook and my LinkedIn demanding large amounts of money not to expose me. Not sure who it is. I've bought a little time before sending money and hoping to get ahold of the police tomorrow morning. Need to find a way out of this.[/QUOTE]Hope this works out ok. Need to use caution fake name burner phone separate email fake profile pic use an actor you resemble and never let them get a plate number as I have parked blocks away to avoid that as well.
[QUOTE=Agoraphobe;4577797]If anyone wants to skip the seeking bullshit with this one, she's also a pro.
[URL]https://tosluts.com/forums/showthread.php/3251046-951-400-9849-Marvelous-Addictive-Lady[/URL]
[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/40331979[/URL][/QUOTE]Are her SA and posted number the same?
She might actually treat you differently depending on which avenue you reach out to her. Does she ask references? That sort of thing that "SB" wouldn't do.
[QUOTE=JHobby;4578826]Are her SA and posted number the same?
She might actually treat you differently depending on which avenue you reach out to her. Does she ask references? That sort of thing that "SB" wouldn't do.[/QUOTE]It is an easy path on SA. No references. I know she is a pro but I'd do it again.
[QUOTE=Rounded25;4578839]It is an easy path on SA. No references. I know she is a pro but I'd do it again.[/QUOTE]So you reached out to her after she provided you number in SA? I'm tempted to just text her but don't want to get treated differently because I didn't do it thru SA.
[QUOTE=JHobby;4578888]So you reached out to her after she provided you number in SA? I'm tempted to just text her but don't want to get treated differently because I didn't do it thru SA.[/QUOTE]Text her through a different burner number. I don't use my main burner to contact girls if I feel like the shit I'll say could go either way. When I'm rolling the dice I'll use my alternate burner to test the waters. I contacted the stripper from SA on a couple numbers. She didn't question who I was. She must give out her number a lot. But she said ok to BB to one of my numbers and no BB to another. LOL. Crazy girls.
[QUOTE=JHobby;4578888]So you reached out to her after she provided you number in SA? I'm tempted to just text her but don't want to get treated differently because I didn't do it thru SA.[/QUOTE]She is not one to care. Really laid back hippy girl.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3456e385-d9e0-485a-a21a-19905231534f[/URL]
DTF. Has a friend living with her and they are down for threesome.
Located near W. Peterson /41.
Main girl is on the left of the photo, friend on the right.
300 each, BBBJ, cfs.
[QUOTE=Mrb3434;4576060]Not sure who it would be I have been and no way to tell. If I do find out I will let everyone know. I have blocked the person from texting me. After some research if they expose me then they have no chance at getting money so I'm nervously waiting it out.[/QUOTE]Did you look up the number they texted you from? Some of these blackmailers are really dumb and use their own phones. PM it to me and I can try.
[QUOTE=Pyre69;4579670][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3456e385-d9e0-485a-a21a-19905231534f[/URL]
DTF. Has a friend living with her and they are down for threesome.
Located near W. Peterson /41.
Main girl is on the left of the photo, friend on the right.
300 each, BBBJ, cfs.[/QUOTE]Were you with them both? If so, how did it go?
Exchanged some messages with these.
Kendal777.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a89dd9ed-f403-47fa-ad0c-4587821f1751[/URL]
Asking 700 ppm. Did not pursue.
Looking4 thebesttimee.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2adbbb2a-84d3-447b-a022-22f8bc604a09[/URL]
Asking 500. Did not pull the plug.
Elusivegirl93.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/be15efa6-f21f-4eec-9298-c6406c12b57c[/URL]
Asking 250. Waiting to hear any good feedback.
[QUOTE=Eternalchaoz;4580232]Were you with them both? If so, how did it go?[/QUOTE]I thought it went fine. Went over to their place. Had a little dog that they put in the other room but kept yapping. But overall it was a pretty good time.
I would probably repeat if I didn't have 10-15 other potentials that I'm working through.
[QUOTE=HardOn78;4580262]Exchanged some messages with these.
Kendal777.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a89dd9ed-f403-47fa-ad0c-4587821f1751[/URL]
Asking 700 ppm. Did not pursue.
[/QUOTE]This agreed to 300 covered with me and I did not pursue. There are better prospects out there.
700 ppm though, what were you asking for?
[QUOTE=HardOn78;4580262]Exchanged some messages with these.
Kendal777.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a89dd9ed-f403-47fa-ad0c-4587821f1751[/URL]
Asking 700 ppm. Did not pursue.
Looking4 thebesttimee.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2adbbb2a-84d3-447b-a022-22f8bc604a09[/URL]
Asking 500. Did not pull the plug.
Elusivegirl93.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/be15efa6-f21f-4eec-9298-c6406c12b57c[/URL]
Asking 250. Waiting to hear any good feedback.[/QUOTE]That last one I know I have seen that picture on craigslist or somewhere this past summer. I highly doubt she is legit, but if works out for you great. If she is, most likely is a pro of some kind. Its a minor error as well, but some of these girls are not that bright, she did mention right in her profile don't waste "our" time. Could be referring to the both of you, or she is working with someone else and just misspoke since pros aren't always the brightest.