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[QUOTE=OfficeHo;5273526]His words. Not mine. Wants a hot Asian chick from an upscale parlor. No need to make it more complicated with long winded philosophical bullshit. Can hear John valby singing it ever time some monger rambles.[/QUOTE]I am dead serious, the girls he likes are hot because he likes them. I have never been in a massage parlor but based on a few videos I have seen of parlors that were shutdown, the girls in them are not usually that good looking. It's a very good chance that he call these girls hot because he thinks that they are hot but that doesn't mean that I would like them. Are there pics of the girls in the parlor?

[QUOTE=OfficeHo;5273526]His words. Not mine. Wants a hot Asian chick from an upscale parlor. No need to make it more complicated with long winded philosophical bullshit. Can hear John valby singing it ever time some monger rambles.[/QUOTE]Like I said so what if he wants a chick that he perceives to be hot. I was in the best shape of my life and it didn't stop big girls from trying to get my attention.

I need to edit this original post because a word was missing. I can swear that long ago in the past this website actually let you edit your postings.

[QUOTE=ManosphereMan;5273647]I am dead serious, the girls he likes are hot because he likes them. I have never been in a massage parlor but based on a few videos I have seen of parlors that were shutdown, the girls in them are not usually that good looking. It's a very good chance that he call these girls hot because he thinks that they are hot but that doesn't mean that I would like them. Are there pics of the girls in the parlor?[/QUOTE]Yup. Nailed my point. Got to love that valby song. LOL.

[QUOTE=ManosphereMan;5273686]I need to edit this original post because a word was missing. I can swear that long ago in the past this website actually let you edit your postings.[/QUOTE]There is a one hour limit for editing before the poster is locked out. Yeah, I wish it was more time.

[QUOTE=BobbyRickMas;5271485]This is very true.

Another thing I will add that may help you Ernstheiter, is that I've lived in a few different states and CT is by far the worst I've lived in for young bachelors. So your pain is definitely real. This is the state people come to die and / or raise kids. You've seen Lord of the Rings right? Connecticut is like the Shire. Not really on anybody radar. A great place to sit around and do nothing though. If sitting around and doing nothing is your thing. So unless you're going to Yale or Uconn don't be afraid to leave this place, Frodo.

One last bit, when it comes to women, even the best of us fail more than we succeed. Think Cooperstown, not Naismith. Meaning batting 1 for 3 over a lifetime will get you into the hall of fame. If you go into a bar, talk to 3 women, and only get rejected by 2 then guess what, you the man. Nobody I have ever known bats better than 1 for 3.

And never say you're 21. Its a rookie mistake. Everyone under 21 says they're 21.[/QUOTE]Hey man I hope you don't mind me asking you questions but I just need more clarity on what you said. Are you saying that you had trouble getting girls in Connecticut one point in time? Is that what you are saying as far as life getting better for you when you left the state?

[QUOTE=ManosphereMan;5274068]Hey man I hope you don't mind me asking you questions but I just need more clarity on what you said. Are you saying that you had trouble getting girls in Connecticut one point in time? Is that what you are saying as far as life getting better for you when you left the state?[/QUOTE]Part of what I wrote was redacted by admin so I'm not really sure how much of this will even get across but.

First, life being good and getting girls are not one and the same. How you define life getting better is really up to you. For me, economic opportunity is first and foremost. Anywhere I live I'm there for work. Everything else is secondary. So I wasn't really talking about quality of life, at least not for myself. I'm happy long as the moneys coming in.

But if gettin laid is the be all end all to your existence, what I was saying to dude is he should consider a change of location. I don't think its a stretch to say CT is not quite Miami. When it comes to hookin up its just a game of numbers man, that's really what I meant. The later bars stay open, the later liquor stores stay open, the better chances you have of gettin laid. Its less about the ability to get girls and more about the opportunity. Living in a big city my night could start at 12 and I'd still have a good time. Here if I'm out driving past 1 am I'm legit scared of being followed by the boys for just being out. Even some of these hoes act like I'm a creeper for textin them late. They put 24/7 in their ad but its never the case. Also theres more diversity in bigger cities so theres greater chance you'll meet more girls that are into whatever your thing is. While back a buddy of mine left to go to school in PA. He was getting zero play from women out here in CT. He's an Indian dude, was always in shape, always freshly groomed etc etc. Left the state and overnight he was pulling the baddest women I've ever seen in my life. Literally overnight. Make of that what you will but I've heard plenty of other stories like that. I hate to have to mention his ethnicity but he himself suspected that had something to do with it. In any case, girls are funny out here, I'll leave it at that.

For me personally the change is not so drastic but I definitely see an uptick in action when I leave. Who knows maybe its all in my head but even now most of the best girls I meet on apps are from NY, MA, or Rhode Island. I'm just too lazy to drive and I work late. One thing CT has no shortage of though is swinger couples. Plenty of opportunity for that, its just not really my thing anymore.

[QUOTE=OfficeHo;5273744]Yup. Nailed my point. Got to love that valby song. LOL.[/QUOTE]Alright I am going to pose this question to any man that comes across this message. Are the in massage parlors really so hot that they are out of the league of a guy that looks like the mass shooter? The young man who shot up the massage parlor is just an average looking guy? At the end of the day when I look at this man I see the average guy except for the whole unshaved beard, and I could be wrong but based on his shoulders up he looks like he might have a sloppy looking physical shape and the clothes he wears might not be the best but I can't see his outfit. This man might only be an incels because he let himself go or he might not be. I am unsuccessful with women and I keep myself physical shape up. I wear the clothes that men who get girls wear but my situation is messed up. Even when I was this young man's age and better looking with a full slim sim pack and pecks I got ignored and rejected. There is an incels problem in the US whether this man is one or not, he sure does look like an incels though.

[QUOTE=ManosphereMan;5276541]Alright I am going to pose this question to any man that comes across this message. Are the in massage parlors really so hot that they are out of the league of a guy that looks like the mass shooter? The young man who shot up the massage parlor is just an average looking guy? At the end of the day when I look at this man I see the average guy except for the whole unshaved beard, and I could be wrong but based on his shoulders up he looks like he might have a sloppy looking physical shape and the clothes he wears might not be the best but I can't see his outfit. This man might only be an incels because he let himself go or he might not be. I am unsuccessful with women and I keep myself physical shape up. I wear the clothes that men who get girls wear but my situation is messed up. Even when I was this young man's age and better looking with a full slim sim pack and pecks I got ignored and rejected. There is an incels problem in the US whether this man is one or not, he sure does look like an incels though.[/QUOTE]As my new "Hero" says "Come on man"! LOL. You found a word to comfort yourself with? Really, as a former stud let me tell you it's not your clothes, cars or even physic. An Alpha male has an aura about himself. He holds himself above he is confident not arrogant. I can go on and on but I shall not. I will however leave you with a bit of advice. Change, (scary word). It's way easier to change yourself than everyone else. Purchase a book go on YouTube. There are plenary of places to learn what you need to do!

Loose the entitlement mentality and take responsibility!

Poo.

[QUOTE=ManosphereMan;5276541]Alright I am going to pose this question to any man that comes across this message. Are the in massage parlors really so hot that they are out of the league of a guy that looks like the mass shooter? The young man who shot up the massage parlor is just an average looking guy? At the end of the day when I look at this man I see the average guy except for the whole unshaved beard, and I could be wrong but based on his shoulders up he looks like he might have a sloppy looking physical shape and the clothes he wears might not be the best but I can't see his outfit. This man might only be an incels because he let himself go or he might not be. I am unsuccessful with women and I keep myself physical shape up. I wear the clothes that men who get girls wear but my situation is messed up. Even when I was this young man's age and better looking with a full slim sim pack and pecks I got ignored and rejected. There is an incels problem in the US whether this man is one or not, he sure does look like an incels though.[/QUOTE]Like poo said. "Cmon man"! You seem to think you are attractive to women, but can't get one. Bottom line is, if you are attractive to women, you would get them. I have never thought of myself attractive to women, never wear more than a T-shirt and jeans or shorts, work boots or sneakers. Average build. And never had a problem getting women. Yes, even hot ones. But women seem to find me attractive. Used to think that I should enjoy it before I get old and it does not work for me anymore. But, now years later, slightly over weight, grey hair. And it's eveneasier! Have no idea why. But as poo said attitude makes the difference! But there is one advantage that guys seem to overlook and that is women love tall guys. Don't know why but they always say it. Just look at any dating site about what they prefer for added proof. If you are tall, you have one hell of an advantage. Not sure what your problem is? But as poo said. You definitely need to change your attitude. You sound like a whiny loser that may come across in your vanity of self worth. Enjoy O.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5277213]As my new "Hero" says "Come on man"! LOL. You found a word to comfort yourself with? Really, as a former stud let me tell you it's not your clothes, cars or even physic. An Alpha male has an aura about himself. He holds himself above he is confident not arrogant. I can go on and on but I shall not. I will however leave you with a bit of advice. Change, (scary word). It's way easier to change yourself than everyone else. Purchase a book go on YouTube. There are plenary of places to learn what you need to do!

Loose the entitlement mentality and take responsibility!

Poo.[/QUOTE]What word did I find a word to comfort myself with? What have I said to show you that I don't take any accountability for anything? What I said might rub you the wrong way but that doesn't mean that I am wrong and you are right about something females don't care about your physique or clothing like that and that's why there is a growing incels problem in the United States so you can either try to shut me down by saying cliche nothing's or try to understand why millennials an younger are the most sex deprived generation that United States has ever seen. Just because you know a few young guys that get pussy that doesn't change the fact that less men are getting laid in today's era. Eventually and you are telling me to watch YouTube as if I don't already. I know who the dating coaches Steve the Dean Williams and Alan Roger Currie are but I choose to see escorts instead and that is coming into conflict now that escorts are raising prices.

[QUOTE=OfficeHo;5277395]Like poo said. "Cmon man"! You seem to think you are attractive to women, but can't get one. Bottom line is, if you are attractive to women, you would get them. I have never thought of myself attractive to women, never wear more than a T-shirt and jeans or shorts, work boots or sneakers. Average build. And never had a problem getting women. Yes, even hot ones. But women seem to find me attractive. Used to think that I should enjoy it before I get old and it does not work for me anymore. But, now years later, slightly over weight, grey hair. And it's eveneasier! Have no idea why. But as poo said attitude makes the difference! But there is one advantage that guys seem to overlook and that is women love tall guys. Don't know why but they always say it. Just look at any dating site about what they prefer for added proof. If you are tall, you have one hell of an advantage. Not sure what your problem is? But as poo said. You definitely need to change your attitude. You sound like a whiny loser that may come across in your vanity of self worth. Enjoy O.[/QUOTE]Now you just proved my point. Girls love tall guys so what do you tell the vast majority of men who are under 6 foot tall? I can swear that one percent or less of men are 6 feet tall or over. I am not over 6 feet tall but I am close, no cigar though. What if the only the only reason you get girls is because you are tall? If you have no problem Getting women why are you on an escort website? Do you agree with the idea that if you are ugly in the face but have a nice body that it would be fair want females that are ugly in the face and have nice bodies?

[QUOTE=ManosphereMan;5277499]Now you just proved my point. Girls love tall guys so what do you tell the vast majority of men who are under 6 foot tall? I can swear that one percent or less of men are 6 feet tall or over. I am not over 6 feet tall but I am close, no cigar though. What if the only the only reason you get girls is because you are tall? If you have no problem Getting women why are you on an escort website? Do you agree with the idea that if you are ugly in the face but have a nice body that it would be fair want females that are ugly in the face and have nice bodies?[/QUOTE]Women seem to prefer a nice face on a guy. If you ever show them fotos on a dating site. Most want to see your fave above all. Many women are also into eyes. If they like your eyes, it's a double plus. And you are right about guys under 6 ft. 5' 11" doesn't seem to cut it in the tall category for what women prefer. Also, this is not just an escort site. It also includes titty bars. And, although not necessary to be on a sex site to pick up women. It's kind of like fishing in a stocked pond. And can be a lot of fun. You have heard the term YMMV? Some guys get good mileage on here. Not everyone has bad experiences. Enjoy O.

More often than not, a hot chic, paid for or free, does not equal good sex. 98% of the time, the best sex is just an average looking woman. So those of you that are looking for that elusive hot chic. You already are getting the best stuff with your average girl. Enjoy O.

[QUOTE=OfficeHo;5278757]More often than not, a hot chic, paid for or free, does not equal good sex. 98% of the time, the best sex is just an average looking woman. So those of you that are looking for that elusive hot chic. You already are getting the best stuff with your average girl. Enjoy O.[/QUOTE]You and I are two totally different people because I would rather have sex with attractive women that try to get me off even if they can't than a fat ugly chick that is a pro at getting me off.