[QUOTE=PaulRew;4279772]Really hot and seemed like fun. She reached out, SA messaging and then to text. My profile is pretty clear that I am not looking for a buddy to hold my hand. Move to texting, start to line up schedules and she asks what I am looking for. Tell her the same friendly line, Coffee dates, lunches etc and a couple hours of intimate alone time. She responds " Great we are looking for the same things" So things are looking up I think until the next text is " But I want to keep this platonic okay?
https://www.seeking.com/member/e9309e4c-f70a-423a-9a74-2556ffe86062[/QUOTE]I guess there must be some older rich guys who just want to hang out with young girls and get no action. I don't know any but to each his own.
Good that you uncovered that platonic stuff early in the process. The way I approach uncovering whether they're DTF is I talk about how much I miss my past SB. And they usually ask what do I miss about her. I say something like "Oh we had such a good connection. We would do XYZ which was great but the bedroom stuff was out of this world. " Funny enough a lot of them get curious about what was so good in the bedroom. I tell them if they want details I will describe it over text and we jump to dirty talk. Or they don't respond and I know they're not going to put out.