Feelings? Nothing more than feelings.
That's a good name for a song, oh wait there already is a song by that name. Anyway, I hear your brother. Many years ago there was a little Thai gal that for a time went by Tiger Lilly and worked through Pam. We had amazing chemistry and she was sweet and smart with good English. I year later I found her, under a different name, working for another agency out off W. River Rd and it was even better. We talked like old friends and she showed me my first reivew of her. She said that she really appreciated it but that it did make for a few unhappy guys because she wouldn't do everything with some of them that we did which they didn't like; but she told me it was because of the feeling she had about me. She even gave me her personal number; which unfortunately I lost. A week later another monger sent me a pm saying he was ready to marry her, and wanting my adivice. I don't know what happened from there but I personally would have considered her as marriage material as well and I hope she has a good life with someone now.
So my point is that while it probably should be avoided. There may be a few that could turn out to be long term. But be careful and stay safe, Daz.
[QUOTE=VRooomBada;3629261]I don't really have anyone to vent / rant to in real life, so I figured I'd just post here. Please bear with my rambling.
I hobby maybe once or twice a month at most these days. Sometimes less frequently. First time was over a decade ago. I jumped into the deep end. Trip to Thailand while in college. In the past two weeks, I went to the Grand and Western place more times than I'd like to admit because I had the most amazing chemistry with a girl there who has left now and to be honest, I'm pretty bummed out.
We all know the drill with these AA places. Typical MO is a bargain bang for your buck for a non-GFE that gets the job done, even if the girl isn't the most friendly. I had full GFEs after the first visit and it was honestly some of the best sex of my life, period. I would also hang out with her if she didn't have anyone lined up after. We'd play house for hours and talked about anything and everything, and the mutual attraction was so intense. That can't be fake right?
I have a normal sex life outside of hobbying and it's been a while since I've felt like this and FML it's with a visiting working girl. What a noob. I had a short fling with a LT girl a little while back too but we both knew that was just for fun.
I'm sure this has happened to others as well at one point or another. She did give me her personal number to hit her up when I'm in her city but seriously, what am I doing developing feelings for her? Fellow mongers, please talk some sense into me, share your own stories, or offer some words of advice or encouragement.[/QUOTE]
Don't knock a long distance relationship
[QUOTE=VRooomBada;3629261]I don't really have anyone to vent / rant to in real life, so I figured I'd just post here. Please bear with my rambling.
I hobby maybe once or twice a month at most these days. Sometimes less frequently. First time was over a decade ago. I jumped into the deep end. Trip to Thailand while in college. In the past two weeks, I went to the Grand and Western place more times than I'd like to admit because I had the most amazing chemistry with a girl there who has left now and to be honest, I'm pretty bummed out.
We all know the drill with these AA places. Typical MO is a bargain bang for your buck for a non-GFE that gets the job done, even if the girl isn't the most friendly. I had full GFEs after the first visit and it was honestly some of the best sex of my life, period. I would also hang out with her if she didn't have anyone lined up after. We'd play house for hours and talked about anything and everything, and the mutual attraction was so intense. That can't be fake right?
I have a normal sex life outside of hobbying and it's been a while since I've felt like this and FML it's with a visiting working girl. What a noob. I had a short fling with a LT girl a little while back too but we both knew that was just for fun.
I'm sure this has happened to others as well at one point or another. She did give me her personal number to hit her up when I'm in her city but seriously, what am I doing developing feelings for her? Fellow mongers, please talk some sense into me, share your own stories, or offer some words of advice or encouragement.[/QUOTE]About three years ago while in Shanghai I visited a hotel Spa. The MT was very cute and said she was attracted to me. Yes I know, they all say that. Anyway one thing led to another and I invited her to my room after she finished work. Surprisingly she came and we had a very good time. She no longer works at a Spa and I see her six to seven times a year. She stays with me whenever I am in Shanghai and even travels with me sometimes when I am overseas for work. What does this cost me you ask. Nothing. Turns out she was telling the truth the first night we met. Goes to show you that every once in a while there is a diamond out there.
I say call her to catch up and see if the chemistry is still there. If you are out in her neck of the woods ask her out and see what happens. Try to treat it like a date not a transaction. She may just surprise you. If she expects payment for services, then you know its just business.
Thanks all for the responses
[QUOTE=Wenger;3629772]For the most part we're just ATM's for these girls, and you're stupid for getting feelings for them. BUT sometimes there's a diamond in the rough where everything works out. Just check out Bob's posts regarding Mei for an example and if you decide to take the plunge go into things with eyes open and make sure to think with the big head. Good luck.
-w.[/QUOTE]Oh yeah, forgot about the whole bob saga.
[QUOTE=Desparado;3629987]For what its worth, I saw her within minutes of her first posted pic and saw her everyday after. I hung out with her, brought her food and drinks, she gave me her personal # and texted me several times. The sex was great, full GFE. The first time I saw her we both came at the same time. I was her first appt almost everyday. I agree she was a rare find and I don't blame you for not telling us about it until she left because I have done same. I wouldn't read too much into it though, she is just a sweet unjaded girl. But I can understand how exciting it can be if you are in a so-called "normal" sexual relationship. (I really don't know what "normal" means here because I had assumed it didn't involve hookers.) I will try to see her when I go to New York next month. I hope that provided the perspective you asked for and I hope you have fun hobbying.[/QUOTE]Haha, 50/50 chance to guess the girl but it wasn't tiffny. However, the point of your tall tale isn't lost on me.
[QUOTE=DaddyOne23;3630510]Funny thing is I could have written the original post about 2 years ago as well. I fell for a LT girl and I knew right after our first session she was going to be my ATF. We hung out outside of work and had a great time, but alas she moved out of state. I even visited her once on a layover. And even though the chemistry was great, I still was an ATM for her, but I didn't care since she never overdrew her balance. But alas it is over and has been and now I have been searching in vain for that next great one and never got close. Makes hobbying a little greyer and not as fun.[/QUOTE]I totally feel your last sentence. A bar's been set that will probably never be reached again. It's good for my wallet though!
[QUOTE=E6671;3630834]About three years ago while in Shanghai I visited a hotel Spa. The MT was very cute and said she was attracted to me. Yes I know, they all say that. Anyway one thing led to another and I invited her to my room after she finished work. Surprisingly she came and we had a very good time. She no longer works at a Spa and I see her six to seven times a year. She stays with me whenever I am in Shanghai and even travels with me sometimes when I am overseas for work. What does this cost me you ask. Nothing. Turns out she was telling the truth the first night we met. Goes to show you that every once in a while there is a diamond out there.
I say call her to catch up and see if the chemistry is still there. If you are out in her neck of the woods ask her out and see what happens. Try to treat it like a date not a transaction. She may just surprise you. If she expects payment for services, then you know its just business.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MackBolan;3631148]It's been a few days since I read your post and I've really debated whether or not to say anything. Becoming emotionally involved with someone in this line of work transcends the Big Head / Little Head argument. Now you're in the Big Head / Heart territory where your potential for heartache and complications are much higher.
A normal, civilian relationship can be very smooth or they can be extremely challenging. On the other hand, a long term relationship with an Asian escort is guaranteed to be challenging. Just to be clear, I'm not referring to a boyfriend / girlfriend hanging out thing, but a life partner thing. You really need to do some soul searching before embarking on this kind of journey. What do you really need or want from a partner? What does she need? Are you a loner? Or do you have a close knit circle of friends and family? Are they inquisitive? How would you integrate this woman into your family?[/QUOTE]Well, at the moment, I do just want to treat it like a normal interaction and considering how I've only known her for less than 3 weeks, I just want to get to know her more / hang out more. Definitely not jumping to ideas of marriage or something haha. But those are all things to keep in mind for sure. And worst case scenario, I would like the idea of a long distance friend with benefits.
Thanks again all.
Unplanned double at Pams emptied my wallet
Had a day off from work, so scheduled to see Cindy at Pams. When I got there, Cindy asked if I wanted to do a double for only 100 more. Not sure if they were slow or if they were running a special for the holidays. The 1 girl rate is 180 and the double rate is normally 320, so basically I was get a 40 dollar discount. I told her I did not plan on doing a double, so not sure if I had 100 on me. I pulled out all my cash. I had 4 20's and 2 5's and a bunch of singles. At this point, my little head was doing the thinking. I started counting out my singles and felt like a cheap ass having to pay for a session with my dollar bills! Just then, I remembered that I had stashed a 20 away for emergency purpose. Well, this definitely was an emergency!
I won't go into details of my double session, but let's just say it was just as good as my last one there. And this one, the girls were licking each others' tits. Hot time!
The moral of this post is either stick with your budget or bring extra $ in case you get an unplanned surprise.
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