Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=Hawg219;6428632]Overall I enjoyed this one, but YMMV. I recommended her to a few and they had varying experiences.

My ppm ended up being 200 and I spent about 3 hours with her at a legit hotel room I got. Wide open menu, bbfscip, cim swallow, dfk, daty. She aims to please. Despite her weight, I did appreciate how attentive she was during rounds and took very good direction with adjustments. Her bbj is a lot of tongue and deep throating. She took all of my cim and looked liked she enjoyed it even though I know how bad it taste. She aims to be a people pleaser. Her daty wasn't the best, but I most certainly had worse; it's just the fat smothering it.

She's 40 lbs heavier now than the picture below, but she's a gentle blue-eye ginger who has a very troubled past. Demon usage is evident by covered up track marks on her arms, but she was alert and attentive the entire date. Completely open menu to include BBFS. Her ppm is negotiable, but you have to get a room or help her get one. There are some very shady motels in the area she recommends that are like $30 for 3 hours.

Just be mindful she's a little awkward in how she talks, it's slow and simple. But I don't think she's stupid. It's a turn off for a lot of people including some I recommended to, just be mindful. I enjoyed my time overall and will most likely repeat. She's one of the kindest people I ever dated from this hobby.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a5037606-48fb-489a-afff-db6a66a97eb7[/URL][/QUOTE]So I met this girl but I never banged out with her. She's genuinely a good kid and totally above board but I found her to be too needy and she came across to me as being not just slow but perhaps even developmentally delayed. We hung out like twice and I just could not summon the inner degenerate in me to take her down and I'm pretty fucking degenerate. I hope whoever hangs out with her is nice, to take advantage of her would be akin to kicking a puppy. She kept hitting me up out of the blue and I finally just had to say to her I was not sexually attracted to her and while I felt bad, like I may have hurt her feelings, she finally left me alone after that.

Mind you this was after I had connected with her on the app previously and had to block her because she kept sending me "hey pick me up" or "I'm so hungry but I have no money for food."

If she has demons then that is truly heartbreaking. But it reminds me of something that came up randomly when we were talking and that is she keeps a narcan kit in her backpack and I was like "huh, why do you have that?" and she was like "duh, like you don't? Everyone does." Kinda makes more sense to me now.

[QUOTE=Tommy13;6429028]So I met this girl but I never banged out with her. She's genuinely a good kid and totally above board but I found her to be too needy and she came across to me as being not just slow but perhaps even developmentally delayed. We hung out like twice and I just could not summon the inner degenerate in me to take her down and I'm pretty fucking degenerate. I hope whoever hangs out with her is nice, to take advantage of her would be akin to kicking a puppy. She kept hitting me up out of the blue and I finally just had to say to her I was not sexually attracted to her and while I felt bad, like I may have hurt her feelings, she finally left me alone after that.

Mind you this was after I had connected with her on the app previously and had to block her because she kept sending me "hey pick me up" or "I'm so hungry but I have no money for food."

If she has demons then that is truly heartbreaking. But it reminds me of something that came up randomly when we were talking and that is she keeps a narcan kit in her backpack and I was like "huh, why do you have that?" and she was like "duh, like you don't? Everyone does." Kinda makes more sense to me now.[/QUOTE]Tldr she's sweet and I just couldn't.

I too hit her up. Based or the recommend I got, I sent her money so that she could settle the room before arriving. It wasn't much, so I took the risk before meet. Place that was selected only took cash and apparently no atm. When I got there and looked around, there were a bunch of people roaming around that sketched me out. She walked out of the office so I waves her over and decided this won't be the place today.

We ended up driving around and talking. Just as another said, she speaks in a certain way that seemed a bit awkward. As time went on, we talked about a lot of stuff mostly about her and her experiences on seeking. It truly made me sad to hear the things that others had wanted her to do on potential meets. When you said kick the puppy it seemed way worse. Beyond that and hearing about her life, it seemed tragic some of which could actually be verified. She also talked a lot about the good things and real interests. Once comfortable, she really opened up and had a lot of interesting things to talk about and even shared similar interests.

So 2 hrs later after, a shake later, and a trip to the store, all we did was talk. Yes, everything under the sun was available and as much as she let me know over text beforehand and with out me inquiring. Yes, she is needy and is struggling. Yes she's already hit me up. I just don't think I can with this one.

As far as the narcan, we didn't specifically talk of that, but is likely for those she is unfortunately around and cannot yet move away from.

She's back under a new profile name.

Always been a bit too ghetto / hoodrat for me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c13637c9-6d79-485d-9bb2-a46ae4206028[/URL]

[QUOTE=TopGun9;6435007]She's back under a new profile name.

Always been a bit too ghetto / hoodrat for me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c13637c9-6d79-485d-9bb2-a46ae4206028[/URL][/QUOTE]Bareback Becca returns. She was a sassy little spinner when she was 18-19. She's a paunchy hood rat now.

[QUOTE=Hawg219;6428632]Overall I enjoyed this one, but YMMV. I recommended her to a few and they had varying experiences.

My ppm ended up being 200 and I spent about 3 hours with her at a legit hotel room I got. Wide open menu, bbfscip, cim swallow, dfk, daty. She aims to please. Despite her weight, I did appreciate how attentive she was during rounds and took very good direction with adjustments. Her bbj is a lot of tongue and deep throating. She took all of my cim and looked liked she enjoyed it even though I know how bad it taste. She aims to be a people pleaser. Her daty wasn't the best, but I most certainly had worse; it's just the fat smothering it.

She's 40 lbs heavier now than the picture below, but she's a gentle blue-eye ginger who has a very troubled past. Demon usage is evident by covered up track marks on her arms, but she was alert and attentive the entire date. Completely open menu to include BBFS. Her ppm is negotiable, but you have to get a room or help her get one. There are some very shady motels in the area she recommends that are like $30 for 3 hours.

Just be mindful she's a little awkward in how she talks, it's slow and simple. But I don't think she's stupid. It's a turn off for a lot of people including some I recommended to, just be mindful. I enjoyed my time overall and will most likely repeat. She's one of the kindest people I ever dated from this hobby.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a5037606-48fb-489a-afff-db6a66a97eb7[/URL][/QUOTE]I am sure she must be texting you every day with every single reason possible asking for money LOL.

She'll go to lengths to get those extra bucks from you every day making reasons like. She has no food. She don't have money to go to work, she's being beaten by her mom blah blah.

To get those extra bucks she might text you for hours.

[QUOTE=FireBalls420;6436060]I am sure she must be texting you every day with every single reason possible asking for money LOL.

She'll go to lengths to get those extra bucks from you every day making reasons like. She has no food. She don't have money to go to work, she's being beaten by her mom blah blah.

To get those extra bucks she might text you for hours.[/QUOTE]

tldr - only give money during meets. Talk these girls down to 150-200.


I've had the text but she's not the only one. These girls just see $$ Stay in control of your own. Let these girls know that you can only give allowance at the end of meets. I don't care if their story is true or not, youbonly propagate the issue if you send them money. I have in fact given in to girls in the past as an advance for credit later. In my experience, that credit is forgotten about by the girl or they simply delay seeing you bc they only see what their getting the day if the meet. Keep the money for the meet.

And for gods sake talk these girls down from their ask. I've talked girls down from 500 to 200. Some money is better than no money. The market sets the price, don't raise the prices by agreeing to pay obnoxious prices just bc they say that's their value. If they fish for money, then you know they don't have any or much and will take the lower rate. Even if you have to ghost them for a week or so, they'll take it more often than not.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6401075]She is good to go and quite attractive. European girl. 40's on Bport / Stratford line. She will record you with her phone on a tripod and aim it as not to get your fac.during the bbbj positioned right on her taking it all in and then from side or behind while doing the deed. No limit on time just an end time depending on when she has to pick up her kids. Used to see her between 3-5p during the week. CFS at start but BBFS can be negotiated. Took a couple meets and extra. She started as a flat out no. She doesnt talk much and its pretty quiet there. She isnt the most engaging TBH. If you like to be in full control then that shouldnt be an issue. She does have a man who likes to watch the vids and is not around when she is avail. If you are into cuckold, she's avail evenings and weekends sometimes when he's home. Never engaged in that. I havent seen her since last year.

Word to the wise. Don't ever mention reviews or where you heard about them.[/QUOTE]Is her place safe? Thinking of signing up to message her. She seems like a bit of fun.

[QUOTE=RallyTime94;6436192]Is her place safe? Thinking of signing up to message her. She seems like a bit of fun.[/QUOTE]She's on the Stratford / Bridgeport line. Could be community housing, but I used to go during the day and didn't see anyone around while there. Her apt is really clean. Another monger tried to set up a meet but apparently she raised her rates quite a bit. I haven't seen her in awhile.

[QUOTE=Hawg219;6428632]Overall I enjoyed this one, but YMMV. I recommended her to a few and they had varying experiences.

My ppm ended up being 200 and I spent about 3 hours with her at a legit hotel room I got. Wide open menu, bbfscip, cim swallow, dfk, daty. She aims to please. Despite her weight, I did appreciate how attentive she was during rounds and took very good direction with adjustments. Her bbj is a lot of tongue and deep throating. She took all of my cim and looked liked she enjoyed it even though I know how bad it taste. She aims to be a people pleaser. Her daty wasn't the best, but I most certainly had worse; it's just the fat smothering it.

She's 40 lbs heavier now than the picture below, but she's a gentle blue-eye ginger who has a very troubled past. Demon usage is evident by covered up track marks on her arms, but she was alert and attentive the entire date. Completely open menu to include BBFS. Her ppm is negotiable, but you have to get a room or help her get one. There are some very shady motels in the area she recommends that are like $30 for 3 hours.

Just be mindful she's a little awkward in how she talks, it's slow and simple. But I don't think she's stupid. It's a turn off for a lot of people including some I recommended to, just be mindful. I enjoyed my time overall and will most likely repeat. She's one of the kindest people I ever dated from this hobby.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a5037606-48fb-489a-afff-db6a66a97eb7[/URL][/QUOTE]Check DM please and thanks.

[QUOTE=BBFreak;6396041]I can't open the link either. She either disabled her profile or deleted her account. Unlikely she blocked both of us.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jarred;6396035]Gents, I am a Premium member of Seeking, but whenever I attempt to open a link to a girl, I get 'no profile'. Even links provided (here) on the same day as a post. What am I doing wrong, sirs?[/QUOTE]I see this happen when I'm not logged into seeking and it doesn't redirect me to the login page. Try logging in and then using the link. If it still doesn't work, try clearing out your internet cache (temporarily stored internet pages) then logging in and click the link.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6438276]I see this happen when I'm not logged into seeking and it doesn't redirect me to the login page. Try logging in and then using the link. If it still doesn't work, try clearing out your internet cache (temporarily stored internet pages) then logging in and click the link.[/QUOTE]Happened to me a few years ago, I hit refresh and the profiles opened, not sure if that will help.

This is the worst shape I have seen SA in. Bot profiles are getting scary because they are plentiful on the site and they will give you a number to text (iphone users be wary of green text bubbles). Almost every girl I've talked to has asked for money upfront even before our first meet. I don't know who is giving them this idea but I don't support it. The gems are there no doubt, just got to be patient and fast enough to scoop them when they are online.

[QUOTE=DaReal86;6438871]This is the worst shape I have seen SA in. Bot profiles are getting scary because they are plentiful on the site and they will give you a number to text (iphone users be wary of green text bubbles). Almost every girl I've talked to has asked for money upfront even before our first meet. I don't know who is giving them this idea but I don't support it. The gems are there no doubt, just got to be patient and fast enough to scoop them when they are online.[/QUOTE]That is unfortunate. I recommend doing as much research on these girls as possible. Good note for iphone users if the girl is using her real number that is also an iphone. Unfortunately, that doesn't help non iphone users, but a search of their number can help identify the person through google, social media, and payment apps to gain additional info to use to gain more background. It is interesting that many girls that don't readily give out their real name fail to use an alias in their cashapp profile.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6438949]That is unfortunate. I recommend doing as much research on these girls as possible. Good note for iphone users if the girl is using her real number that is also an iphone. Unfortunately, that doesn't help non iphone users, but a search of their number can help identify the person through google, social media, and payment apps to gain additional info to use to gain more background. It is interesting that many girls that don't readily give out their real name fail to use an alias in their cashapp profile.[/QUOTE]I will usually put the number into cashapp first to verify. If join date is recent or they don't pop up at all, its a red flag most of the time for me.

[QUOTE=DaReal86;6438871]....Almost every girl I've talked to has asked for money upfront even before our first meet. I don't know who is giving them this idea but I don't support it. .....[/QUOTE]Block them and move on. Easy!

If anyone have her digits, PM me please. Thanks.

A fellow monger fell into a situation that could have lost him some money in an alleged scam. It wasn't me but I saw the full text conversation.

Tldr don't ever advance a girl money. Kristina D aka CheerfulQueen has scammed.

The two worked out an arrangement. Kristina suggested that she get the room with a hookup she has but she has no money, with not meeting previously, the monger advanced her money. Going to the meet, he gets ghosted by the girl. The girl then makes up a story of allegedly being arrested on the way to the hotel for an unrelated traffic violation. CT judicial website has no record of pending or convictions related to this instance, not even a sealed case. The monger then asks for his money back or meet. The girl claims she spent all the ppm including on the room. Monger them disputed the charge and luckily got his money back.

In this whole process, this new "sugar baby" tried to explain her "expertise" on being a sugar baby and what a real sugar daddy is. Basically she's broke and is looking for a rich guy to magically pay all her bills just because. Explained that the website is not supposed to be a place for guys looking for single girls to date even though she reduced her ppm and discussed a more intimate fun time.

When contacting, she inadvertently gives out some personally identifiable info that makes it easier to research her and see her not so innocent or clean background.

So, if you're looking for an old "honda civic" that thinks she's a "Ferrari" and wants only your money, she might be the one for you. A bonus is she'll talk like a seasoned sailor about life's challenges. If not, feel free to contact her and mark her payment apps and seeking acct as scams.

I won't post the texts that I was shown, but she is either a scam or a complete waste of time.

I met Kristina in October 2022. Car date. Not a very good BJ. I, being an idiot paid way to much hoping to fuck her. She tried to connect again, but nope, I was not going to repeat.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6444305]A fellow monger fell into a situation that could have lost him some money in an alleged scam. It wasn't me but I saw the full text conversation.

Tldr don't ever advance a girl money. Kristina D aka CheerfulQueen has scammed.

The two worked out an arrangement. Kristina suggested that she get the room with a hookup she has but she has no money, with not meeting previously, the monger advanced her money. Going to the meet, he gets ghosted by the girl. The girl then makes up a story of allegedly being arrested on the way to the hotel for an unrelated traffic violation. CT judicial website has no record of pending or convictions related to this instance, not even a sealed case. The monger then asks for his money back or meet. The girl claims she spent all the ppm including on the room. Monger them disputed the charge and luckily got his money back.

In this whole process, this new "sugar baby" tried to explain her "expertise" on being a sugar baby and what a real sugar daddy is. Basically she's broke and is looking for a rich guy to magically pay all her bills just because. Explained that the website is not supposed to be a place for guys looking for single girls to date even though she reduced her ppm and discussed a more intimate fun time.

When contacting, she inadvertently gives out some personally identifiable info that makes it easier to research her and see her not so innocent or clean background.

So, if you're looking for an old "honda civic" that thinks she's a "Ferrari" and wants only your money, she might be the one for you. A bonus is she'll talk like a seasoned sailor about life's challenges. If not, feel free to contact her and mark her payment apps and seeking acct as scams.

I won't post the texts that I was shown, but she is either a scam or a complete waste of time.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SROnly;6444455]I met Kristina in October 2022. Car date. Not a very good BJ. I, being an idiot paid way to much hoping to fuck her. She tried to connect again, but nope, I was not going to repeat.[/QUOTE]Wow, at least you got something. Hope you've had better luck with others. This girl needs to go down the drain. Others are more attractive, giving better options, and for less ppm. Her insta looks like she's got a bit of weight on her.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6444305]A fellow monger fell into a situation that could have lost him some money in an alleged scam. It wasn't me but I saw the full text conversation.

Tldr don't ever advance a girl money. Kristina D aka CheerfulQueen has scammed.[/QUOTE]SD RULE #1: NEVER. NEVER. NEVER advance money to a girl you haven't been fucking regularly.

If you don't have this rule etched in your head, don't enter the game.

I usually get my regular babies to get the room and pay with their own cash and I'll reimburse them later. That's how it should be, not the other way around.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6444563]Wow, at least you got something. Hope you've had better luck with others. This girl needs to go down the drain. Others are more attractive, giving better options, and for less ppm. Her insta looks like she's got a bit of weight on her.[/QUOTE]I actually thought she was cute at that time, and went under the name "Alli." I do have her real world info, but I just don't care. Since she would not fuck me for under $200, buh-bye.

[QUOTE=SROnly;6445052]I actually thought she was cute at that time, and went under the name "Alli." I do have her real world info, but I just don't care. Since she would not fuck me for under $200, buh-bye.[/QUOTE]Seeking girls don't use the same level of protection as STG girls (on many levels) she used her real number that connected to a real name. That lead to seeing a recent eviction, past arrests, places of work, social media, etc. Always nice to research who you're getting involved with to help set expectations.

There are some diamonds out there but still a lot of coal. Thanks for the responses.

Guys. Has anyone run into "sexy latina 203" saw her on and off for years.

He was lucky to get his money back. If you don't do it right away, the apps basically say they can't do anything for you. Best to always deal in cash until you really have a long established arrangement.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6444305]A fellow monger fell into a situation that could have lost him some money in an alleged scam. It wasn't me but I saw the full text conversation.

Tldr don't ever advance a girl money. Kristina D aka CheerfulQueen has scammed.

The two worked out an arrangement. Kristina suggested that she get the room with a hookup she has but she has no money, with not meeting previously, the monger advanced her money. Going to the meet, he gets ghosted by the girl. The girl then makes up a story of allegedly being arrested on the way to the hotel for an unrelated traffic violation. CT judicial website has no record of pending or convictions related to this instance, not even a sealed case. The monger then asks for his money back or meet. The girl claims she spent all the ppm including on the room. Monger them disputed the charge and luckily got his money back.

In this whole process, this new "sugar baby" tried to explain her "expertise" on being a sugar baby and what a real sugar daddy is. Basically she's broke and is looking for a rich guy to magically pay all her bills just because. Explained that the website is not supposed to be a place for guys looking for single girls to date even though she reduced her ppm and discussed a more intimate fun time.

When contacting, she inadvertently gives out some personally identifiable info that makes it easier to research her and see her not so innocent or clean background..[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JDeller;6448187]He was lucky to get his money back. If you don't do it right away, the apps basically say they can't do anything for you. Best to always deal in cash until you really have a long established arrangement.[/QUOTE]I've dealt with cashapp before and they're like. Just work it out with who you sent it to. My buddy disputed with his cc company and they pulled it back right away. Funny bc the girl unblocked him to ***** him out for causing her to overdraft. Sucks to be her. Next time don't scam.

Who else in here making videos and taking photos of fucking your babies and hoes?

PM me if you're interested in sharing / exchanging details.

I have stopped posting stuffs on here because of the white knights and pillow whisperers.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bfda5517-33e2-4219-9a83-039c435b9cea[/URL]

Cute but nothing like the pics. Agreed to three fifty for an hour, which was alarm bell one. Then just wanted to meet there, alarm bell two. Seems a little cracked out, not sure. If I didn't have a discretion need would take the jump. Have fun!

So I went on Seeking to look at some profiles. I only paid for one month of subscription last year and haven't sent a msg to any girl since October. I did get the original warning and watched the video thingy to get back in, but I haven't met any nee girls since and watched what I said. How does one get banned without sending msg's for over 7 mo? Seems pretty random. I'm currently seeing one girl that I met from there but never had any issues with her and on good terms. A second girl I only got her number bc I didn't have her new number, but I haven't seen her since December and we still talk on the phone. Why would I get flagged many months later?

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6451821]So I went on Seeking to look at some profiles. I only paid for one month of subscription last year and haven't sent a msg to any girl since October. I did get the original warning and watched the video thingy to get back in, but I haven't met any nee girls since and watched what I said. How does one get banned without sending msg's for over 7 mo? Seems pretty random. I'm currently seeing one girl that I met from there but never had any issues with her and on good terms. A second girl I only got her number bc I didn't have her new number, but I haven't seen her since December and we still talk on the phone. Why would I get flagged many months later?[/QUOTE]E-mail their Support people. They at least owe you a reason. It could be an old grudge from the past or a mistake on their side.

BMD.

Cashapp is useless and they crack me up. They tell you to ask for the money back from the person who scammed you. Yeah right. The cc company makes sense and is a bit different. Best thing to do is never use cashapp unless with you are with a long time SB. I got scammed once to help a SB I saw a couple of times but discovered the elaborate and rather convincing scam too late after the money was sent. Could have tried other measures (legal, etc) to get the money back but the best thing to do is just move on and learn from it. Don't think bringing a SB scam to court is in your best interest, especially for a couple of hundred dollars.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6448466]I've dealt with cashapp before and they're like. Just work it out with who you sent it to. My buddy disputed with his cc company and they pulled it back right away. Funny bc the girl unblocked him to ***** him out for causing her to overdraft. Sucks to be her. Next time don't scam.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;6452043]E-mail their Support people. They at least owe you a reason. It could be an old grudge from the past or a mistake on their side.

BMD.[/QUOTE]I tried emailing them. They said I already had a warning and I violated after the warning based on their "evidence". They said that they cannot share the evidence with me and the case is closed. Any further inquiries will not receive a response. Oh well.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6453667]I tried emailing them. They said I already had a warning and I violated after the warning based on their "evidence". They said that they cannot share the evidence with me and the case is closed. Any further inquiries will not receive a response. Oh well.[/QUOTE]Ain't that quaint!

You're guilty of something but it's a secret. It's their new way of stealing member funds since they have no balls.

BMD.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6451821]So I went on Seeking to look at some profiles. I only paid for one month of subscription last year and haven't sent a msg to any girl since October. I did get the original warning and watched the video thingy to get back in, but I haven't met any nee girls since and watched what I said. How does one get banned without sending msg's for over 7 mo? Seems pretty random. I'm currently seeing one girl that I met from there but never had any issues with her and on good terms. A second girl I only got her number bc I didn't have her new number, but I haven't seen her since December and we still talk on the phone. Why would I get flagged many months later?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;6455369]Ain't that quaint!

You're guilty of something but it's a secret. It's their new way of stealing member funds since they have no balls.

BMD.[/QUOTE]In observing the posts of folks who get banned on SA over the years, my initial reaction was like yours, BMD. They are making a quick buck by taking your payment and then not allowing you to use their services. However, when you think about it from a simple business model, it makes no sense. Their bread and butter, outside of advertisers, are the paying Daddys. Why would they want to cut off that revenue stream? There must be something else that factors into their banning practices. Perhaps the risk of having even the faintest whiff of prostitution related content on their site or subscribers who are reported on by Sugars for risky exchanges, far outweighs the loss of monthly subscriber fees. I've never paid to use SA so I have no first hand experience with dealing with their policies. I have a simple login that only allows me to see who's on it.

Agree. They are very sensitive to any STG type of language. It might take some practice to learn how to succeed there. Bottom line, be a gentleman.

This girl is looking to move in with you if you have a spare bedroom.

I can imagine such a move will end up with way more headaches than it's worth the pussy.

This scammer goes by flores.

Another cash grab scammer. Wants half of the money transferred before the meet. Told her / them to go suck a horse's dick. Sadly bee seeing too many of these scammers on SA. Give me the god damn old CRAIGLIST back.

[QUOTE=Stickman55;6456756]In observing the posts of folks who get banned on SA over the years, my initial reaction was like yours, BMD. They are making a quick buck by taking your payment and then not allowing you to use their services. However, when you think about it from a simple business model, it makes no sense. Their bread and butter, outside of advertisers, are the paying Daddys. Why would they want to cut off that revenue stream? There must be something else that factors into their banning practices. Perhaps the risk of having even the faintest whiff of prostitution related content on their site or subscribers who are reported on by Sugars for risky exchanges, far outweighs the loss of monthly subscriber fees. I've never paid to use SA so I have no first hand experience with dealing with their policies. I have a simple login that only allows me to see who's on it.[/QUOTE]I think it's about any whiff of prostitution. They have to deal with payment processors that can pull the plug if they see illegal activity. People can report each other even for of site communication and upload evidence like screen shots of text messages. That's why reviews are helpful to avoid. I was with a girl that was banned. She said shortly after a bad meet, her account was banned. She said she never discussed money or activities through the site. I don't know how factual her story was.

[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6461616]I think it's about any whiff of prostitution. They have to deal with payment processors that can pull the plug if they see illegal activity. People can report each other even for of site communication and upload evidence like screen shots of text messages. That's why reviews are helpful to avoid. I was with a girl that was banned. She said shortly after a bad meet, her account was banned. She said she never discussed money or activities through the site. I don't know how factual her story was.[/QUOTE]I had a girl attempt to blackmail me, even though I barely gave any personal info. Long story, but there was a small chance that she knew my civilian identity through some mutual acquaintances and work stuff. Fortunately, she overplayed her hand, and I was able to determine that she didn't know as much as she claimed. It was a tense couple of minutes. I reported her to seeking, included screenshots, etc. They thanked me. Within a week, she was back on with a different name and location. She eventually disappeared, but then reappeared yet again with yet another name and location. Then Covid hit. Haven't seen her online since.

So I’m not sure how effective their bans are, at least in the case of this one particularly awful human being.

[QUOTE=Sutigel2;6463085]I had a girl attempt to blackmail me, even though I barely gave any personal info. Long story, but there was a small chance that she knew my civilian identity through some mutual acquaintances and work stuff. Fortunately, she overplayed her hand, and I was able to determine that she didn't know as much as she claimed. It was a tense couple of minutes. I reported her to seeking, included screenshots, etc. They thanked me. Within a week, she was back on with a different name and location. She eventually disappeared, but then reappeared yet again with yet another name and location. Then Covid hit. Haven't seen her online since.

So Im not sure how effective their bans are, at least in the case of this one particularly awful human being.[/QUOTE]Was it that chubby chick from New Haven, I was in a similar situation with her, she said she will report me at my job etc etc and tried to extort, kept on messaging from different numbers after I blocked her.

[QUOTE=Chudakkad;6465942]Was it that chubby chick from New Haven, I was in a similar situation with her, she said she will report me at my job etc etc and tried to extort, kept on messaging from different numbers after I blocked her.[/QUOTE]Skinny brunette from Springfield area. I was a bit scared, but also let her know that she was in the process of committing a felony. I wasn’t sure if my legal threats would work, but something got her to stop. In reality, she probably didn’t have as much info on me as she claimed. I am not sure she realized that we had some mutual acquaintances… or I could have had a legit problem.