The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[QUOTE=DriveHard;7147559]Not sure. They sent out a blast email saying they were implementing a "selfie livelness check" to combat all the scammers and fake accounts. It did say they were rolling it out in phases by region. So, maybe try a different state or country as your location then later switch?

If you find a state that works, report back.[/QUOTE]The site is overrun by fakes- they're losing lots of biz because of this. But this new pic required alternative will have most married men drop off. I'm single with pics up so it might mean more traffic and possibly lower allowance expectations as the crowd this out.

Can't change the location stock at the selfie page. I have to sign up again with different emails.

[QUOTE=DriveHard;7147559]Not sure. They sent out a blast email saying they were implementing a "selfie livelness check" to combat all the scammers and fake accounts. It did say they were rolling it out in phases by region. So, maybe try a different state or country as your location then later switch?

If you find a state that works, report back.[/QUOTE]

I apologize for not having a link to her profile (I allowed my membership to lapse) but I'm asking if anyone has any experience with her or info about her. I met her and she's more attractive in person with a great personality. All went great. Until she ghosted me before starting an arrangement. She was one that I never thought would do that. Normally I have a great feel for those things.

Reply to this thread or dm me. In return I'll give you some info on some of my girls of 2024. .

Thanks!

[QUOTE=RealOne789;7148159]I apologize for not having a link to her profile (I allowed my membership to lapse) but I'm asking if anyone has any experience with her or info about her. I met her and she's more attractive in person with a great personality. All went great. Until she ghosted me before starting an arrangement. She was one that I never thought would do that. Normally I have a great feel for those things.

Reply to this thread or dm me. In return I'll give you some info on some of my girls of 2024. .

Thanks![/QUOTE]You should be able to browse Seeking with no membership. Are you asking about her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ec5c09ac-b71c-4bcc-877e-454939181aba[/URL]

Nothing to report myself, though armed with that link, someone earlier in the thread asked (but got no reply). Search for "Scottlyn". Might shoot them a DM and see if they met up.

I know where you're coming from, though; jaded as I think I've gotten, I still get occasionally surprised by a betrayal. If it helps, I've found they often just chicken out, rather than anything malicious.

[QUOTE=EpicSD;7147588]The site is overrun by fakes- they're losing lots of biz because of this. But this new pic required alternative will have most married men drop off. I'm single with pics up so it might mean more traffic and possibly lower allowance expectations as the crowd this out.[/QUOTE]Ok are there seriously women agreeing to reply to and meet dudes with no pics?

[QUOTE=Fblah;7147228]She came with her roommate and asked for $ before we proceed. We were near the door and they just ran away after that.

Even if you are meeting, don't give her anything before hand.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ba20bf7-1057-493b-a2e2-a74258e6ab60[/URL] - This is her new profile now.[/QUOTE]Is this her roommate?

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=73380965[/URL]

[QUOTE=jobobtheclown;7148303]Is this her roommate?

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=73380965[/URL][/QUOTE]Yep, that's her.

[QUOTE=EpicSD;7147588]The site is overrun by fakes- they're losing lots of biz because of this. But this new pic required alternative will have most married men drop off. I'm single with pics up so it might mean more traffic and possibly lower allowance expectations as the crowd this out.[/QUOTE]That rule literally makes no sense. Why would you scare off your paying base? If anything, that rule should be implemented for the girls. At least that would get rid of the fake profiles, and you'd know the girls who'd verify themselves on there aren't playing games.

[QUOTE=RealOne789;7148159]I apologize for not having a link to her profile (I allowed my membership to lapse) but I'm asking if anyone has any experience with her or info about her. I met her and she's more attractive in person with a great personality. All went great. Until she ghosted me before starting an arrangement. She was one that I never thought would do that. Normally I have a great feel for those things.

Reply to this thread or dm me. In return I'll give you some info on some of my girls of 2024. .

Thanks![/QUOTE]Is this the Brooke you're referencing?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/beb2f9df-88e3-49f7-ab72-c106e546c35e[/URL]

She has not logged in for about a month.

[QUOTE=jobobtheclown;7148290]Ok are there seriously women agreeing to reply to and meet dudes with no pics?[/QUOTE]Most of the women I've chatted with, or hooked up with, seem put off by men that won't show pics. Lot's of non hooker SBs don't want to just meet a dude in a hotel room without a meet and greet. Again not all, but the ones that do are 99% pros.

Alright which of you lucked out and scored her for NYE?

I tried to schedule with her for yesrerday but she said she already "had plans" (and wasn't talking about socializing with friends and family).

Who has met this girl?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fac6d81a-462c-455f-a231-fb763edcd00f?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL]

[QUOTE=Rgfct4;7148687]Who has met this girl?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fac6d81a-462c-455f-a231-fb763edcd00f?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL][/QUOTE]I saw her once. It was a good experience. Pics are real. Very submissive. She's like maybe 6 mos pregnant or something. Her comms can be pretty sketchy. Wants 500.

[QUOTE=Fblah;7147228]She came with her roommate and asked for $ before we proceed. We were near the door and they just ran away after that.

Even if you are meeting, don't give her anything before hand.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ba20bf7-1057-493b-a2e2-a74258e6ab60[/URL] - This is her new profile now.[/QUOTE]Updating this saga with her SB account so a search will pick it up in the future:

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=73284229[/URL]

AVOID these two. They ghosted me after I noted I'd provide allowance at the end of the first date, instead of the beginning. Definitely planning to rob me like they have others.

It's weird because she's not hard to find on socials / linkedin. Seems unwise.

Tried to dip my toes in the sugar world, met her for coffee and made plans to meet later that day. She came to the hotel, hoped in the shower, and came out. I showed her the financial contribution, and told her I would keep it in my pocket while I took a shower too. Halfway through my shower I hear the door open, she says, "Sorry" and walks out. She was 100% expecting me to leave the money out and to dash while I was showering.

I ended up taking a long shower and a nap and headed back to work. It was a good reinforcement to keep control of any cash the until the fun has started.

She's young, and nervous. Honestly, she might find herself in a rough situation if she tries this stuff on someone more aggressive.

-Coffee.

[QUOTE=DCoffee;7150217]Tried to dip my toes in the sugar world, met her for coffee and made plans to meet later that day. She came to the hotel, hoped in the shower, and came out. I showed her the financial contribution, and told her I would keep it in my pocket while I took a shower too. Halfway through my shower I hear the door open, she says, "Sorry" and walks out. She was 100% expecting me to leave the money out and to dash while I was showering.

I ended up taking a long shower and a nap and headed back to work. It was a good reinforcement to keep control of any cash the until the fun has started.

She's young, and nervous. Honestly, she might find herself in a rough situation if she tries this stuff on someone more aggressive.

-Coffee.[/QUOTE]Yep, scroll down and I bet you see a picture of her on this very page. Glad you dodged a bullet. Surprised she didn't try to bring her friend. Wish we had a way to put a stop to these two (legally).

[QUOTE=DCoffee;7150217]Tried to dip my toes in the sugar world, met her for coffee and made plans to meet later that day. She came to the hotel, hoped in the shower, and came out. I showed her the financial contribution, and told her I would keep it in my pocket while I took a shower too. Halfway through my shower I hear the door open, she says, "Sorry" and walks out. She was 100% expecting me to leave the money out and to dash while I was showering.

I ended up taking a long shower and a nap and headed back to work. It was a good reinforcement to keep control of any cash the until the fun has started.

She's young, and nervous. Honestly, she might find herself in a rough situation if she tries this stuff on someone more aggressive.

-Coffee.[/QUOTE]Do you have a link to her bio?

[QUOTE=LikesGirls;7150392]Do you have a link to her bio?[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=73380965&nsp=1[/URL]

See earlier in this thread for info on her accomplice, as well as multiple accounts for them both on different sites.

[QUOTE=DCoffee;7150217]Tried to dip my toes in the sugar world, met her for coffee and made plans to meet later that day. She came to the hotel, hoped in the shower, and came out. I showed her the financial contribution, and told her I would keep it in my pocket while I took a shower too. Halfway through my shower I hear the door open, she says, "Sorry" and walks out. She was 100% expecting me to leave the money out and to dash while I was showering.

I ended up taking a long shower and a nap and headed back to work. It was a good reinforcement to keep control of any cash the until the fun has started.

She's young, and nervous. Honestly, she might find herself in a rough situation if she tries this stuff on someone more aggressive.

-Coffee.[/QUOTE]I'm shocked she didn't go through your pants pocket to get it.

[QUOTE=jobobtheclown;7150430][URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=73380965&nsp=1[/URL]

See earlier in this thread for info on her accomplice, as well as multiple accounts for them both on different sites.[/QUOTE]Ebonywish constantly tries to hit me up for meeting. Just to be clear, you are saying they meet you in person, get the money, and then run away when you're supposed to head back to their place?

[QUOTE=MmceStep;7150489]I'm shocked she didn't go through your pants pocket to get it.[/QUOTE]I took my stuff into the bathroom with me and placed everything close by. I guess my spidey sense must have been tingling. I definitely should have looked more in the thread. I'm glad my mistake didn't cost me more.

Funny thing, EbonyRed reached out to me a few hours after she walked out of the room. I guess they aren't done with me, hahaha.

- Coffee.

[QUOTE=DCoffee;7150616]I took my stuff into the bathroom with me and placed everything close by. I guess my spidey sense must have been tingling. I definitely should have looked more in the thread. I'm glad my mistake didn't cost me more.

Funny thing, EbonyRed reached out to me a few hours after she walked out of the room. I guess they aren't done with me, hahaha.

- Coffee.[/QUOTE]That was a good call. You should repeat the steps, let her shower first and then rob her and leave, LOL. No, on second thought, don't piss them off with the new law in place.

She's been talked on this website before and not too long ago, but I would 100% recommend that people NOT meet this individual, or talk to her for the matter. In my eyes, she's now blacklisted.

- She isn't 25 like her profile says. More like 28-29.

-Has had several profiles in the past. With this one being her most recent one. I remember she had a profile during 2019-2020, so she's been on SA for a long while under diff accounts.

-Will try to get you to pay her money to meet her, via M&G. And I'm not talking about something measly. This woman thinks she's worth more than 3XX-5 for a Simple Meet And Greet and will pester you if you don't agree.

- Will randomly ask to borrow money from you.

- Even if you both agree to meet in whatever terms you agree (whether it's a high paid meet and greet, small paid meet and greet, or no paid meet and greet) , she'll stand you up, screw up or get cold feet. Yes, even at the last minute. You could confirm multiple times and be in constant contact and act completely normal / fine, and this clown will still stand you up or not respond once you get to the destination / location you both agreed to. So either she takes pleasure in doing this, or she's very paranoid.

My first experience trying to meet her in public more than 5+months ago: She got arrested for being so stupid to be caught with substances(Not Hard Drugs). 2nd experience where she reached out to me, negotiations went well and we agreed to another public Meet. : She stopped responding once I got to the place we agreed to meet. I'm honestly impressed if anyone here has managed to meet her, because she's a flaky clown.

Thankfully in my entire convos with her, I have never sent her money. So the only thing I wasted with her was time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bd406591-30a2-4a2c-b95b-c62a7be72234[/URL]

[QUOTE=SaintMan3500;7151083]She's been talked on this website before and not too long ago, but I would 100% recommend that people NOT meet this individual, or talk to her for the matter. In my eyes, she's now blacklisted.

- She isn't 25 like her profile says. More like 28-29.

-Has had several profiles in the past. With this one being her most recent one. I remember she had a profile during 2019-2020, so she's been on SA for a long while under diff accounts.

-Will try to get you to pay her money to meet her, via M&G. And I'm not talking about something measly. This woman thinks she's worth more than 3XX-5 for a Simple Meet And Greet and will pester you if you don't agree.

- Will randomly ask to borrow money from you.

- Even if you both agree to meet in whatever terms you agree (whether it's a high paid meet and greet, small paid meet and greet, or no paid meet and greet) , she'll stand you up, screw up or get cold feet. Yes, even at the last minute. You could confirm multiple times and be in constant contact and act completely normal / fine, and this clown will still stand you up or not respond once you get to the destination / location you both agreed to. So either she takes pleasure in doing this, or she's very paranoid.

My first experience trying to meet her in public more than 5+months ago: She got arrested for being so stupid to be caught with substances(Not Hard Drugs). 2nd experience where she reached out to me, negotiations went well and we agreed to another public Meet. : She stopped responding once I got to the place we agreed to meet. I'm honestly impressed if anyone here has managed to meet her, because she's a flaky clown.

Thankfully in my entire convos with her, I have never sent her money. So the only thing I wasted with her was time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bd406591-30a2-4a2c-b95b-c62a7be72234[/URL][/QUOTE]Never met her but I've seen her Twitter and TikTok. It's quickly apparent she's got screws loose. Some of the rants are totally looney. Crazy chicks aren't worth it guys, avoid.

[QUOTE=SaintMan3500;7151083]She's been talked on this website before and not too long ago, but I would 100% recommend that people NOT meet this individual, or talk to her for the matter. In my eyes, she's now blacklisted.

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[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bd406591-30a2-4a2c-b95b-c62a7be72234[/URL][/QUOTE]I got to say, this one looks like the poster child for "crazy eyes. " It's like some sort of primordial guy warning system in my brain is triggering a fight or flight reflex.

I talked with the coustemer service today about the selfie. They said, this is will be the new security login, every time I login need a selfie this is going to be require for new and very soon the old users.

Good luck for the website, one day someone hacking the website and all the selfie going out.

[QUOTE=Ncsmm;7151993]I talked with the coustemer service today about the selfie. They said, this is will be the new security login, every time I login need a selfie this is going to be require for new and very soon the old users.

Good luck for the website, one day someone hacking the website and all the selfie going out.[/QUOTE]Seeking is trying to become a more dating focused website. Some newer girls I've spoken to balk at the idea of mutual benefit (sex). I have no interest in paying to date these girls. May have to try new approaches elsewhere. Perhaps seeking days are numbered.

The moment they request identity verification from me will be the moment I delete my account for good. Honestly it'll likely also be when I leave the sugaring scene for good, because frankly it's just becoming less and less worth it. At least in the Raleigh and eastern NC areas.

A few years ago I couldn't go more than 1-2 messages on Seeking without a twenty-something year-old college girl throwing herself at me. Felt like a buffet where the food was begging you to eat it LOL.

Now it's just scammers and blackmailers mixed with paid platonic texting buddies. Maybe the occasional desperate single mom who will "do anything" but also doesn't have an ounce of free time due to said parenthood; and even if you do manage to set something up, it's just sad. The few remaining real gems are obviously inundated with messages and hard to get in touch with.

Ugh. Anyone got a spare Delorean that can hit 88 miles-per-hour?

[QUOTE=jobobtheclown;7148290]Ok are there seriously women agreeing to reply to and meet dudes with no pics?[/QUOTE]Usually, you exchange pictures on Snap or some other off-site apps. You don't need to have your selfies sitting on some sugar site's servers.

I thought SnapChat had died years ago until I started getting requests for my Snap handle from girls on these sites in the last 2-3 years.

[QUOTE=jobobtheclown;7150430][URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=73380965&nsp=1[/URL]

See earlier in this thread for info on her accomplice, as well as multiple accounts for them both on different sites.[/QUOTE]Thanks for posting the screenshots. I'm sure they'll be back on with a username sooner or later. It might be a good idea to keep the phone cases in memory too. I never trusted girls with more than two cats anyways LOL.

[QUOTE=Swimback;7144398]No idea, but most of these girls on seeking have a financial plan (besides junkies). They are saving up for something or paying something off. When they reach the goal they either leave the game or move. All that is to say don't wait if you see one you like. I still see two or three who have been off seeking for a long time now, but I'm grandfathered in with them.[/QUOTE]That's probably for the best, though. They make their goal and move on. In any business where youth is an advantage (sports, sex, etc.), you want an exit before you run out of runway.

[QUOTE=Rgfct4;7148687]Who has met this girl?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fac6d81a-462c-455f-a231-fb763edcd00f?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL][/QUOTE]I've met her a few times before she was pregnant. She is in her early 20's. Def hot and submissive.

Just saw this 'About me' on SDM. I guess I'll give her a shot LOL.

"About me.

So my birthday is tomorrow. And I will be very old. And I am very depressed. And I'm probably going to kill myself very soon. Because I hate my life. I do not have any money. I am poor. I cannot do what God asked me to do, to provide for my family.

So I am a loser. I cannot do Anything but lose money. And I pick loser boyfriends.

And they steal it all.

I am a loser because I have poor taste in men. I don't understand why I keep getting this wrong. I thought I picked good guys. But no, I am wrong. They are all scammers. In one way or another. They fuck you over. So I'm not renewing my Subscription."

[QUOTE=YourCCPimp;7153180]So I'm not renewing my Subscription."[/QUOTE]They pay for a subscription?

[QUOTE=ElectricHug;7153571]They pay for a subscription?[/QUOTE]On SDM yes, if you want to be able to write to others. Same applies to guys and girls. On SA girls pay nothing. It's part of the reason for the higher level of scammers.

[QUOTE=jobobtheclown;7151828]I got to say, this one looks like the poster child for "crazy eyes. " It's like some sort of primordial guy warning system in my brain is triggering a fight or flight reflex.[/QUOTE]I met her about a year ago at Seasons 54 in Raleigh. We had agreed to 150 for the meet. I don't recall if it was lunch or dinner. Any ways as soon as we were seated, she wanted to donation or she was going to leave. Stupid me. I gave her the money. Now she started sneezing and coughing. Se said she needed to go to her car. It was the last time I saw her.

I would not have proceeded even after our meal; because her arms had some crazy things on her skin. Was not appealing.

[QUOTE=Rgfct4;7144314]Any information on this youngster?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eefcf608-812d-44e7-99c1-025ba667f6ef[/URL][/QUOTE]Am also very interested. I messaged her but have not heard back from her.

[QUOTE=Rgfct4;7144314]Any information on this youngster?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eefcf608-812d-44e7-99c1-025ba667f6ef[/URL][/QUOTE]She did send me her number. I texted her but did not receive a response back. So on the 24th Dec, I sent another message. "I was hoping we could meet this weekend". Her response " No I'm not interested bye ".

[QUOTE=HappyHiker23;7141974]Has anyone had experience with this woman? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0459e287-85b0-4ead-9207-e69cc2daa06f[/URL].[/QUOTE]She's been around for a while. I think her last profile she spelled her name "Sadie". She wants to meet at hotel and is very discreet. Could be cultural. From her last profile, we planned a meet at a restaurant. She was a no-show. Additionally, her menu is very restrictive. She wants 500 for the meet.

[QUOTE=Swimback;7122653]A little research shows she has an interesting criminal record. Those types never change in this biz. I'd expect her to play some games. Especially with her sexual wording in the bio, sounds like bait to get you hooked. Any time a girl has the sexual wording in a bio it's always a scam. She's cute but 80% sure it will be trouble in some form.[/QUOTE]She's not trouble.