Anyone know of any, (preferably bottom heavy) active in the area? Thanks.
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Anyone know of any, (preferably bottom heavy) active in the area? Thanks.
With how upside things are right now, I read some posts about mongers turning to SeekingArrangement. So far so good. 50+ women have reached out. Working at least 4 right now for meet-ups. 2 just want to go out for a nice night (dinner / comedy show) and then f*ck and the other 2 want to head straight over - all in their mid-20's. Loving the UTR SW's. It's not a quick as an agency or independent but fun to work daily and see what's out there. I'll share my connections once the deal is sealed. Going to be a fun weekend!
[QUOTE=HoneyButter;3818581]With how upside things are right now, I read some posts about mongers turning to SeekingArrangement. So far so good. 50+ women have reached out. Working at least 4 right now for meet-ups. 2 just want to go out for a nice night (dinner / comedy show) and then f*ck and the other 2 want to head straight over - all in their mid-20's. Loving the UTR SW's. It's not a quick as an agency or independent but fun to work daily and see what's out there. I'll share my connections once the deal is sealed. Going to be a fun weekend![/QUOTE]Great success! (Borat voice) on SA as well. The younger college chicks are out of town right now and SA in DC is suffering a bit.
Some chicks on here are not worth it- I want to start a thread where we can add some usernames. Seriously, the other day, this chick and I went out and she came back and half way through sucking my cock just stops. Then refused to get back to bobbin' her head. Crazy **** that was 20 lbs heavier than her pics / profile stated.
[QUOTE=HoneyButter;3818581]With how upside things are right now, I read some posts about mongers turning to SeekingArrangement. So far so good. 50+ women have reached out. Working at least 4 right now for meet-ups. 2 just want to go out for a nice night (dinner / comedy show) and then f*ck and the other 2 want to head straight over - all in their mid-20's. Loving the UTR SW's. It's not a quick as an agency or independent but fun to work daily and see what's out there. I'll share my connections once the deal is sealed. Going to be a fun weekend![/QUOTE]So any success or luck with the arrangements so far?
I've noticed a lot of chicks have 'wish lists' on their personal websites. Do any of you guys actually bring 'gifts' to a session and does it make the session any better than just showing up with the required donation? Just curious because I've never gone the extra mile in this area.
My thinking is that bringing them gifts changes the dynamic of the arrangement. I'm not naive enough to believe that no matter how nice the girl is to me, she is more than likely doing it in hopes of 1) my repeat business, 2) is selling me a fantasy, and 3) is just as 'nice' to every other guy she sees (unless she has a particular issue with a guy). It's similar to these guys that spend hours at a strip club going the extra mile by excessively tipping, buying drinks and conversating with a particular stripper and are under the illusion that there is something more there than just a client / provider relationship.
I personally like to keep things simple. Donation only.
The short answer is: It depends.
Most of the time yes, I do bring them some kind of small gift. But it depends on several factors. I'll try to generalize.
When meeting someone new I always bring her something small (eg chocolates, cookies, fresh fruit, etc.). I am talking about spending less than $20.
If I become a regular I learn what she Iikes and bring that. If they express an important need, I just tip them because that need is more important than a little box of chocolates. As they say, "Cash is King. ".
However, I don't believe any of the women I see will "fall for me" in a romantic way. It is all an act. Something I always look at from a 3rd person viewpoint. Sure they may want me as a regular. So they behave a certain way: friendly, flirty, sensual, GFE, PSE. So enjoy it, but don't be fooled by it.
One must always keep in mind that their "relationship" with a provider is completely transactional. Whatever happens during the time they spend together are private activities between consenting adults. However, the transaction is that one pays for her time.
So why bring them a gift? I do it to show them appreciation and a certain level of respect as another human being.
Do the gifts make a difference? It's impossible to truly know. And it depends on the woman. However, I have gotten what I believe to be genuine appreciation from many of them. While some could not care less. It ALWAYS depends on the woman!
If your style is to keep it simple and not bring gifts, then don't take anything. I know that works for a lot of guys, no doubt the vast majority.
My last comment (and question) about taking her a gift: It may help, but it certainly couldn't hurt. Right?
[QUOTE=FreshlySnipes;3828482]I've noticed a lot of chicks have 'wish lists' on their personal websites. Do any of you guys actually bring 'gifts' to a session and does it make the session any better than just showing up with the required donation? Just curious because I've never gone the extra mile in this area.
My thinking is that bringing them gifts changes the dynamic of the arrangement. I'm not naive enough to believe that no matter how nice the girl is to me, she is more than likely doing it in hopes of 1) my repeat business, 2) is selling me a fantasy, and 3) is just as 'nice' to every other guy she sees (unless she has a particular issue with a guy). It's similar to these guys that spend hours at a strip club going the extra mile by excessively tipping, buying drinks and conversating with a particular stripper and are under the illusion that there is something more there than just a client / provider relationship.
I personally like to keep things simple. Donation only.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RustyMuffler;3829198]The short answer is: It depends.
Most of the time yes, I do bring them some kind of small gift. But it depends on several factors. I'll try to generalize.
When meeting someone new I always bring her something small (eg chocolates, cookies, fresh fruit, etc.). I am talking about spending less than $20.
If I become a regular I learn what she Iikes and bring that. If they express an important need, I just tip them because that need is more important than a little box of chocolates. As they say, "Cash is King. ".
However, I don't believe any of the women I see will "fall for me" in a romantic way. It is all an act. Something I always look at from a 3rd person viewpoint. Sure they may want me as a regular. So they behave a certain way: friendly, flirty, sensual, GFE, PSE. So enjoy it, but don't be fooled by it.
One must always keep in mind that their "relationship" with a provider is completely transactional. Whatever happens during the time they spend together are private activities between consenting adults. However, the transaction is that one pays for her time.
So why bring them a gift? I do it to show them appreciation and a certain level of respect as another human being.
Do the gifts make a difference? It's impossible to truly know. And it depends on the woman. However, I have gotten what I believe to be genuine appreciation from many of them. While some could not care less. It ALWAYS depends on the woman!
If your style is to keep it simple and not bring gifts, then don't take anything. I know that works for a lot of guys, no doubt the vast majority.
My last comment (and question) about taking her a gift: It may help, but it certainly couldn't hurt. Right?[/QUOTE]Providers are women first and sex workers second. IME, every woman appreciates being made to feel special and every woman responds more positively to a man for whom she has respect. With those principles in mind, I have a little bit of a different take on gift-giving.
For the very first meeting, I don't bring any gifts and I don't give any extra tip (unless she clearly goes above and beyond). Why? Because I want to see how she behaves and what she brings to the table without any extra incentive. Even with advance intel and reviews, there's no way to know how the individual chemistry will be until you actually meet.
Then, if the provider's personality turns out to be a good match with mine, I'll make note of what I think would be an appropriate extra gesture and I'll implement that on my follow-up visit (s). If we're not a good match (for example, rushed, clock-watcher, too many rules) then it's no harm, no foul, and I'll just finish the session and move on. I've never encountered a poor provider who was magically transformed by a gift. She's either a good provider already, and thereby a worthy candidate for future gifts, or she's not.
With one Latina FBSM provider (now out of the biz) I brought some wine, wine glasses, and chocolates and we made a picnic right on the massage table. I had booked a 90 min session so we had plenty of time and afterwards she treated me to an amazing FS GFE session.
[QUOTE=FreshlySnipes;3828482]I've noticed a lot of chicks have 'wish lists' on their personal websites. Do any of you guys actually bring 'gifts' to a session and does it make the session any better than just showing up with the required donation? Just curious because I've never gone the extra mile in this area.
My thinking is that bringing them gifts changes the dynamic of the arrangement. I'm not naive enough to believe that no matter how nice the girl is to me, she is more than likely doing it in hopes of 1) my repeat business, 2) is selling me a fantasy, and 3) is just as 'nice' to every other guy she sees (unless she has a particular issue with a guy). It's similar to these guys that spend hours at a strip club going the extra mile by excessively tipping, buying drinks and conversating with a particular stripper and are under the illusion that there is something more there than just a client / provider relationship.
I personally like to keep things simple. Donation only.[/QUOTE]I don't bring a gift the first time but might bring a bottle of wine or liquor, depending upon the conversation leading up to the meeting. If I see someone on more than one occasion, it depends on the connection. I've seen one SB from SA several times and I bring her a little something every time I visit with her. Never anything that costs more than $20. The last time I saw her I brought her and her girlfriend Capitals Stanley Cup t-shirts when my regular agreed to share me with her girlfriend. They were both appreciative of the gesture and it made for a great start to our threesome session.
But to each his own. I just tend to offer a little gentlemanly respect to the woman, recognize this is transactional, but show a little bit of appreciation.
Hey guys I am Visiting the area for the 4th of July and my birthday! I'll be in Tyson's Corner this week so be sure to check me out!! Mention usasg for special!
[QUOTE=FreshlySnipes;3828482]I've noticed a lot of chicks have 'wish lists' on their personal websites. Do any of you guys actually bring 'gifts' to a session and does it make the session any better than just showing up with the required donation? Just curious because I've never gone the extra mile in this area.
My thinking is that bringing them gifts changes the dynamic of the arrangement. I'm not naive enough to believe that no matter how nice the girl is to me, she is more than likely doing it in hopes of 1) my repeat business, 2) is selling me a fantasy, and 3) is just as 'nice' to every other guy she sees (unless she has a particular issue with a guy). It's similar to these guys that spend hours at a strip club going the extra mile by excessively tipping, buying drinks and conversating with a particular stripper and are under the illusion that there is something more there than just a client / provider relationship.
I personally like to keep things simple. Donation only.[/QUOTE]I don't anymore. But when I was first starting I saw a provider named Lady Siah. Either she was medium skinned black or latina. I buy those Lindt chocolate candies when they're on sale and brought her one on my second visit. Turns out she had gone on a private tour in Switzerland (I think) where they make these candies. I guess it was a fond memory for her and gave me a great time. She really did have an awesome body and always made sure I was satisfied. It had such an effect on her that she would occasionally message me for a repeat visit.
I was curious if anyone ever had a provider repeatedly call or text them for repeat visits? I mean to the point of being annoying?
I remember having a provider who didn't work very long. Asian / white mix, from Texas, 30's, slightly thick. Before I first saw her, she had quoted me some crazy amount. I balked at it and we settled for a better rate. Then she wanted me to send a picture but I didn't have any. But when we met we hit it off pretty well and she responded well during the session. She would do CBJ reluctantly but she was amazing at it. But man, she would hit me up about 3 x a week for a return visit. She even texted me to tell me she changed her number. I did see her a second time but the constant texting started to worry me.
I was wondering if anyone else had similar experiences.
[QUOTE=Utwogood;3846306]I was curious if anyone ever had a provider repeatedly call or text them for repeat visits? I mean to the point of being annoying?
I remember having a provider who didn't work very long. Asian / white mix, from Texas, 30's, slightly thick. Before I first saw her, she had quoted me some crazy amount. I balked at it and we settled for a better rate. Then she wanted me to send a picture but I didn't have any. But when we met we hit it off pretty well and she responded well during the session. She would do CBJ reluctantly but she was amazing at it. But man, she would hit me up about 3 x a week for a return visit. She even texted me to tell me she changed her number. I did see her a second time but the constant texting started to worry me.
I was wondering if anyone else had similar experiences.[/QUOTE]Since the closing of BP I've had several blasts from the past text me and tell me they are still around. The Rockville asian crapshoot was texting several times a week last month and I blocked the number. They would text the same fake facebook page with the same pictures each time and claim they had a new girl. Those places are obviously struggling with there old business model in this environment.
[QUOTE=Utwogood;3846306]I was curious if anyone ever had a provider repeatedly call or text them for repeat visits? I mean to the point of being annoying?
I remember having a provider who didn't work very long. Asian / white mix, from Texas, 30's, slightly thick. Before I first saw her, she had quoted me some crazy amount. I balked at it and we settled for a better rate. Then she wanted me to send a picture but I didn't have any. But when we met we hit it off pretty well and she responded well during the session. She would do CBJ reluctantly but she was amazing at it. But man, she would hit me up about 3 x a week for a return visit. She even texted me to tell me she changed her number. I did see her a second time but the constant texting started to worry me.
I was wondering if anyone else had similar experiences.[/QUOTE]I received a one-time text from an Asian crapshoot place letting me know they were still in business and had new girls. However, I didn't recognize the phone number. I never followed up with an inquiry.
I am new to DC and was wondering if this five star companions website is legit. Anyone know?
Hey there guys. Was debating taking the plunge with a new provider and was looking to see if anyone has any intel. She said she changes her number frequently and has gone by different names so searching for old reports has been difficult. I would greatly appreciate any info. Her most recent ad is below.
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