The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

Man, maybe you need to stop looking at this like an engineer and more like a player. 9 hours per day?! Are you serious. When I'm looking for some fun I can usually get something lined up in a few minutes. Find a chick online, send a one sentence message, cut to the chase. Move her to text and then arrange a meet up, usually at my place or hers. If you message 3 or 4 chicks that are online at that time you usually hear from one or two back quickly.

I have not gone on a meet&greet or interview in many years. In my experience meet & greets are a big waste of time and money.

[QUOTE=DfwPussyEater;4847442]Vincent,

When I finalize a meeting it means a "meeting on the couch". All 14 of them placed hoo hoo dilly into cha cha. (I need to add care less for the SA membership fee but I wonder on time invested and rate of the success matches? So if I do the math correctly; 260 SB per 30 days is averaged to 8.66 ~ 9 SB per day. I spend an average of 1 hour (15 min greetings + 45 minutes interview) means 9 hours of per day. Now, I have been on vacation for last 2 months but that is a lot hours. And thats why I say the ratio is low for that much of effort.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Banger12;4848294]Man, maybe you need to stop looking at this like an engineer and more like a player. 9 hours per day?! Are you serious. When I'm looking for some fun I can usually get something lined up in a few minutes. Find a chick online, send a one sentence message, cut to the chase. Move her to text and then arrange a meet up, usually at my place or hers. If you message 3 or 4 chicks that are online at that time you usually hear from one or two back quickly.

I have not gone on a meet&greet or interview in many years. In my experience meet & greets are a big waste of time and money.[/QUOTE]For different folks.

Some guys are hunting a very specific "experience" or look or personality or whatever. And are willing to wait it out to find the right one.

For instance, my "wishlist" is:

Any race / ethnicity.

Fit to curvy body.

Can host. Day times and within a 20-30 minute drive from my office.

Is only seeing me and and maybe one other SD (obviously you can't always know for sure without keeping tabs all day long but we can all tell a "pro" from a non-pro, right?

Will accept multiple forms of compensation. Mix of cash, shopping, gifts, gift cards, bill pay. I don't do Venmo or CashApp so that's a deal breaker for me.

Is cool meeting about once a week and for a maximum monthly spend of around 600-800 paid out on a per meet basis.

No "fetishes" required and they don't have to check in with me all the time. But any online attention is appreciated.

They have to be Ok never knowing my real identity and ok with me knowing theirs.

Ideally they are single / not in a guy relationship. Or at least extremely smart and experienced about their own discretion.

So, how much of a dating pool does that leave me? Damn small, right?

When I find one, I do everything I can to keep that one all the while always pipelining other candidates.

I might go weeks between dates because I choose not to waiver off my "must-haves". And, that's ok with me.

[QUOTE=Banger12;4848294]Man, maybe you need to stop looking at this like an engineer and more like a player. 9 hours per day?! Are you serious. When I'm looking for some fun I can usually get something lined up in a few minutes. Find a chick online, send a one sentence message, cut to the chase. Move her to text and then arrange a meet up, usually at my place or hers. If you message 3 or 4 chicks that are online at that time you usually hear from one or two back quickly.

I have not gone on a meet&greet or interview in many years. In my experience meet & greets are a big waste of time and money.[/QUOTE]Banger,

I think you either read through the post too quick or my long explaining made you take a wrong conclusion. I did a math and the result came to be 9 hours base on 260 SB that I got to screen and cherry pick 14 of those in one month. I too, have a quick template of introductions that I copy & paste while moving along for a responses. I was sharing pure a data that expressed rate of success. I, too, like you do it as a hobby and enjoy the SBs for their companionship. I do not know how better to explain than I am not complaining nor boasting, I was just thinking if everyone's approach or number of success to have a SB on the couch is same or am I going overboard with my selections. I agree to your point on M&G is a waste of time. Unlike you that you say any 3 or 4 chicks online, I pick selective qualities: 1: Age criterion 19 to 30,2: Only blonde blue eyes (no disrespect to all the other rainbow colors of SBs, just my preference),3: they got to be on BC or a some kind of contraceptives & willing to, 4: prefer to travel to me, 5: I go through what their comfort limitations are,6: I asked them to do a webcam verification (always before make any move. Don't want to get a BBW for a spinner) 6: I never, ever bargain their asking number, if it is out of my range I simply abort going further with screening). So all these scales will take time to go thru it. Again, Banger the '7' is only a fraction result of a data. I think I cannot convey my reasoning for the Statistical info in texts if you only read paraphrases. And Banger once we get used to a way of life style it's hard to think or enact different way even when it comes to simple SEX life. I am a gambler base on hobby so I tend to calculate all my possibilities for a good hand card and a Medical professional on the day time which both professions works with Risks & Benefits that one has to look out for success. I appreciate your pointer and your interest to share your view but I don't think you understood my reasoning here. Thank you Sir. (More power to all).

[QUOTE=VincentCor74;4848501]For different folks.

Some guys are hunting a very specific "experience" or look or personality or whatever. And are willing to wait it out to find the right one.

For instance, my "wishlist" is:

Any race / ethnicity.

Fit to curvy body.

Can host. Day times and within a 20-30 minute drive from my office.

Is only seeing me and and maybe one other SD (obviously you can't always know for sure without keeping tabs all day long but we can all tell a "pro" from a non-pro, right?

Will accept multiple forms of compensation. Mix of cash, shopping, gifts, gift cards, bill pay. I don't do Venmo or CashApp so that's a deal breaker for me.

Is cool meeting about once a week and for a maximum monthly spend of around 600-800 paid out on a per meet basis.

No "fetishes" required and they don't have to check in with me all the time. But any online attention is appreciated.[/QUOTE]Vincent,

You are my man. We have very much selected criteria that over laps the other. I agree to your pointers and I know it's a successful tactical plan. I tip my hat. (More power to all).

This one claims to have done SB / SD Relation since age of 18 on & off. She says she had an arrangement of 3 k per month with 3 different SD at the same time but her pictures on her profile shows staying at an Extended Stay. Claims, Moved from PA to Dunn NC. She is willing to 600 arrangement. I think she is on a high end imo.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e206fafb-f3b6-46d4-9b5f-ebe2da3ef261[/URL]

[QUOTE=Hiamey;4839092][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bdcef2d6-8b80-460f-a14d-219b31d64563[/URL]

She quoted me same 500 in April, and the same in May. She is going up not down.[/QUOTE]I am late to the party on this one but for anyone curious I know someone who knows her. She is a user and has a habit. Passed around quite a lot, certainly not "new" like she might say. I would just generally avoid. Newer, fresher, and cheaper out there.

[QUOTE=DfwPussyEater;4848590]This one claims to have done SB / SD Relation since age of 18 on & off. She says she had an arrangement of 3 k per month with 3 different SD at the same time but her pictures on her profile shows staying at an Extended Stay. Claims, Moved from PA to Dunn NC. She is willing to 600 arrangement. I think she is on a high end imo.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e206fafb-f3b6-46d4-9b5f-ebe2da3ef261[/URL][/QUOTE]She quoted me 300 to host in her new apartment near Ft Bragg, then mentioned her boy friend in the Army and said we needed to get a room, "But I want $300 still. " Story kept changing. No final arrangement just crickets.

Sigh.

[QUOTE=MarkUser;4849373]She quoted me 300 to host in her new apartment near Ft Bragg, then mentioned her boy friend in the Army and said we needed to get a room, "But I want $300 still. " Story kept changing. No final arrangement just crickets.

Sigh.[/QUOTE]Someone should at least tell this girl to come up with a plausible back-story.

By her account, she was once sugar dating to the equivalent of a pre-tax "job" of about 140 k per year. Lmao.

3 SDs x 3 k month? Really?

If you believe that, may I interest you in 200 new miles of southern border "wall"?

Don't get me wrong. She's cute AF and I'd be down to hit that but, come tf on.

[QUOTE=VincentCor74;4849767]Someone should at least tell this girl to come up with a plausible back-story.

By her account, she was once sugar dating to the equivalent of a pre-tax "job" of about 140 k per year. Lmao.

3 SDs x 3 k month? Really?

If you believe that, may I interest you in 200 new miles of southern border "wall"?

Don't get me wrong. She's cute AF and I'd be down to hit that but, come tf on.[/QUOTE]Not only I agree with you but I point "The extended Stay" out in the post. Nothing matches with what she claims. Lmaf at "Southern border wall".

SmileOften09.

Anybody seen this lady. Asking for 400. No meet and greet straight to the couch.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8caa1435-e1c9-4e77-bbc4-115378d9a6ad[/URL]

New username but not new to the forum. Trying to be more anonymous.

SmileOften09.

Anyone seen this girl. Asking for 400 straight to the couch.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8caa1435-e1c9-4e77-bbc4-115378d9a6ad[/URL]

New username but not new to the forum. Trying to be more anonymous.

[QUOTE=Gatttaca;4850091]SmileOften09.

Anyone seen this girl. Asking for 400 straight to the couch.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8caa1435-e1c9-4e77-bbc4-115378d9a6ad[/URL]

New username but not new to the forum. Trying to be more anonymous.[/QUOTE]Have you verified her on cam yet? IMO, There some contraindications in her profile with her two pictures. That second picture is not athletic body as she has indicated in her profile info. It looks more junk in her trunk to be athletic. Also the body dimensions and her upper profile look don't match with her picture with glasses. Her nose line and lip line don't match in the two pictures. And diffinately her hand (fingers) shapes don't match in the two pictures to me. I have left her a note to get her text me to find more about her to exchange her story. I believe she is a person but not the person in the profile picture unless You have verified her on cam.

I am considering taking a loan on my house to sponsor her first year in Law School. (Breath taking).

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9de0cce4-4522-4ca3-a5d6-67da585bc78e[/URL]

[QUOTE=DfwPussyEater;4850936]Have you verified her on cam yet? IMO, There some contraindications in her profile with her two pictures. That second picture is not athletic body as she has indicated in her profile info. It looks more junk in her trunk to be athletic. Also the body dimensions and her upper profile look don't match with her picture with glasses. Her nose line and lip line don't match in the two pictures. And diffinately her hand (fingers) shapes don't match in the two pictures to me. I have left her a note to get her text me to find more about her to exchange her story. I believe she is a person but not the person in the profile picture unless You have verified her on cam.[/QUOTE]Whoa! You see through many things that I missed. Appreciate the wisdom.

She sent me 2 pictures which were not looking like the pcs in the profile. I asked to sedn a selfie and she wouldn't come through. Phoney at best.

G.

[QUOTE=DfwPussyEater;4851543]I am considering taking a loan on my house to sponsor her first year in Law School. (Breath taking).

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9de0cce4-4522-4ca3-a5d6-67da585bc78e[/URL][/QUOTE]That picture looks so familiar I can almost taste SCAM. Proceed with caution.