Confused and don't know what to do
I have only 1 SB- who is 8 all over. 21 year old. My dilemma is, seen her 3 times! She talks for an hour and then straight to FC. No kiss, nothing else. I kept pushing but she is not ready and not willing to open up. I am feeling like 1 sided and plus she gets out quickly. I am trying to convince but not working. Plus she smokes. And into weeds which I am don't like much! May be this chapter is closing.
Add another Flake to the list
I hate being stood up and I cannot remember the last time it happened. But yesterday morning, got stood up by a young college cutie. We were supposed to meet for breakfast. We exchanged emails the night before. Since the drive was over an hour for me (thanks to rush hour traffic) , I had to get on my way early. At first the silence was no big deal, but as I got closer I realized, that I didn't have any response. I text and called. Funny thing is, because I'm Mr. Optimist and I was hungry, I went to the spot anyway and had a great breakfast. Found a POT working at the spot and enjoyed the rest of my day. Now I have a new chain restaurant that I can go for a good breakfast and I've not heard one peep from my POT. Last I checked, she'd not been on the site for a while also. So either she had an emergency, something happened to her phone, something happened to her phone service or she just got cold feet.
It's a good lesson for me, unlike most, this one and I had not talked on the phone yet. Lots of texts and emails. I really could have used that morning to be productive in life, but it's the cost of being a "Bowler" (new term alert!).
BT.
"DC / MD / VA Bowler"
The Bowl Is A Fluid Experience
So what a week. And as usual there are more than a few surprises. These babies never cease to throw you a loop or two. I am only reporting on active participants and POTs. And since I am not even an active member on SDforme I do not have a lot of active POTs. But there amazingly still is activity. But honestly I do not really have the time to add any more to my rotation. I have informed my older babies at this time that I have had some problems with the wife at home and have to lay low. So far all three of my older babies have graciously accepted this and wish me luck and are patiently waiting for my return. Not so sure when that will be or if it will happen at all. So for my first suprise of the week.
REVVO_POT2: This one came on strong a couple of weeks ago on a Saturday night and seemed really fun and free and cute. Even though she was a bit older than my profile she seemed really interesting and would be fun to give her a tumble. But as soon as she came on she disappeared. I wrote her off and did not worry about it since I was so busy with other babies. Then as sudden as she disappeared she reappeared on SD about a week later. Evidently she had ruined her phone. I texted her and she responded immediately and was back in the game. We chatted and were having a nice time chatting. Just so happens she is the one that lives in a nudist colony and is really fun and carefree. I liked her attitude. So the next day I was traveling to her city and she was up for meeting. What a coincidence. I thought if anything this would be a great opportunity to test my game and try to get her to the FC on the first M&G. We talked on the phone and I asked her to send me some pics. And boy did she very cute face. Body? Well it was the body of a 46 YO woman. Not fat or out of shape. But certainly of an older woman. We met for lunch with her stipulating that she will only meet for lunch. And nothing else. I said ok. Knowing that you do not look at what a woman says but what she does. We met for lunch and had a really good time. She was cool but a little silly. But also a lot of fun. I am giving her a 7/6/8/9. Great personality and a good set of skills. I started kissing her at lunch and then moved her to a local bar for a drink after lunch and we did some more making out and she was genuinely getting revved up. Then told her my hotel was just around the corner and she readily agreed to proceed. Like I said not the best on the looks. My usual minimum is a 7. But there are other advantages. She is a complete 0 dollar hookup. She is ready to go anytime meaning she is very available. She has a place to host. And she gives me a playmate when I travel to her city for business. Plus she was a really good fuck. She gave great head and rode me very well. Plus she is fixed so we can go bareback. She is not seeing any other men. She really really likes me and wants to see me again. So maybe I will but. I am not going out of my way. It was fun. Definitely a booty call baby. She is now designated REVVO_SB3. Oh and afterwards she emailed me her address and said I could come by anytime. Nice.
REVVO_POT3: Almost sure this one was ready. She really liked to talk and we connected very well. But she just could not pull the trigger. She did not totally flake on me she would call and want to reschedule. But after three times I gave up. Just did not need to put forth the effort. Since I was fucking more quality babies. I could have probably kept dicking around until I finally got her to meet. But just too busy to keep doing it. So I let her go. She apologized and I was very nice to her. But I just did not call her any more.
REVVO_SB2: Well my little Brazillian baby was there waiting for me when I called ready to hang out and ready to fuck. I bought her a cute little gift from Vicitorias Secret and she loved it. I do not give her any money. And she does not expect any money. But what she does expect is a lot of good hard pounding sex. And she wants it all ways. She comes hard and often. And very very loud. Which of course I love to hear the screams. And she gives it as good as she takes it. She is there waiting for me when I need her. She is fun and funny and always ready for adventure. It really is great. We met on Tuesday and are trying to plan something for this week. So far do not have a date.
REVVO_SB6: This one was a little interesting. I tried to set up an overnight with my little girl next door. And she kind of avoided it even though she wanted to see me. Very very busy schedule. And she is dealing with some personal problems. But we agreed on Thursday evening just for a few hours. She came to my town. Instead of her hosting. I got a really nice hotel for $52, it was a four star. I literally could not get a flea bag roach motel 6 or super 8 for less. Anyway we met in the lobby had a nice glass of wine. She is so fucking gorgeous. She is my best looking one. She was wearing these sexy heels and a black jumper. She got many looks. If you want to know who she resembles think Rachel Billson. I give her a 9/8/10/8. We went up to the room and had some great sex. We fucked hard and I folded her up like a pretzel she likes it that way. She is a former cheerleader and gymnast. Thats two cheerleaders I have in my rotation. That is pretty fucking awesome. I will say unfortunately only one nutt for me. We talk a lot. There is a lot of connection between us. Our time was great. And she expressed to me many times that she really liked being with me. And she then told me how much she wished she had brought stuff with her to stay overnight. So she had somehow changed her mind on this. But we will do it next time. Also I forgot to give her the sugar and when I called her later she had no problem with it. What an awesome woman. However I have seen her logged on to SDforme a couple of times the past week. Can't help but worry. But if she is straying (probably not) there is nothing I can do about it anyway.
REVVO_SB7: So my little Venezuelan baby was very busy and was not going to be able to see me. But she told me she was really missing me. And asked me to visit her on Friday morning. And of course I love love love this. And I was missing that tight little spinner pussy. I showed up bright and early and she was ready for me. I had called her and ordered her to be wearing something sexy. And she complied. She answered the door in the cutest tiniest little black and white polka dot thong panties. Damn brothers. She has the tightest little body with this sweet sweet ass. Needless to say I was balls deep in that little pussy after licking her up and down and getting a couple of really good orgasms out of her. Three nutts and I was drained. She instantly was asking for a visit on Tuesday. And I just happened to have an opening. Can't get enough of that quality pussy. Since I fuck all of these main babies at their homes. I keep my condoms with them. She has asked me to bring a large pack of the condoms. And my little girl next door baby was reminding me to bring more also. Planning ahead are we?
I have noticed with all of these babies. Including the new nudist baby. That There was a very very high quality experience with all of them. I have been experimenting with some new stuff where I try to connect with them visually through deep eye contact. And it has definitely improved the experience all around. I suggest you try this. This was a great week. But frankly fucking four in one week is just too much. A better number is between two and three. I really enjoyed this week and I am looking forward to next week.
Lets be careful out there.
REVVO
Bowling a few gutter balls
MsTallnFreaky and I ended up not meeting today. Here is how the exchange went yesterday
Me "Hey we'll need to move our meeting to the afternoon, does that still work for you?"
Her "Are we going furniture shopping?"
Me "No, don't you think it's a little early for that?"
Her "No, I'll pass"
Me "You expect me to spend $900-$1200 on furniture and we have not even been intimate once"
Me "I'm surprised at all of this, but I respect your decision"
Her "The only reason we didn't is because I was on my period"
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She did not realize that I already had her on a short leash because of the not doing oral thing. She got two good meals out of me and $. But in the end, I was not going to put up with any BS from her that was not in line with what we talked about. I never replied to her last text and she never sent another one.
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MsModel and I were supposed to talk on the phone on Saturday night. But she never answered and again I had a short leash with this one also. She never answered, emailed or text. I sent out a few smoke signals and no response. I've moved on from both.
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MsHipsnThighs is giving me any attention that I can handle. I had an hour free and stopped by and she bounced that big booty all around and sucked me dry at the end. The woman really wants to please. I did not give her any funds yesterday. But I stopped by and gave her $ today. As I've hit it now 3 times without any payment. Even today, she would not let me leave with out pushing me down on the bed and licking on TiggaStick for a few mins. She's not used to the attention, not used to having any man around and appreciates every minute. Again, she's cute, but much bigger than most would like. She's shapely, but it's definitely short and big.
Setup a date with MsThickness for Thursday night. We have a relationship very similar to the one that I had with MsOxyMoron. Very little communication between meetings. The difference with MsThickness is that she's almost always been available with a day or two notice. It would be nice to see her twice a week, but those hotel prices are a killer.
I'm looking at CL to rent a FC month to month. Anyone ever consider this? Any luck?
BigTigg
Best Thread in the History of the Internet.
Brothers of the Bone.
I bring my greetings and salutations. I came across this wonderful thread about a week ago and have been reading it in detail daily since. I'm just about half way through this epic online adventure and was going to read through the whole thread before diving into the SB / SD world, however I couldn't wait to get started and jumped in with both feet a couple of days ago.
I first put out a couple of ads on various cities nearby on CL and within hours I had 10-20 viable leads. Thursday night I ended up having a M&G with one potential. She was not the hottest girl on the planet but would be an enjoyable romp. I did make a huge rooking mistake today as I drove about 2 hours to meet with a HYCB. I'm pretty good at detecting BS and her story seemed to jive, her pictures were great, communication was solid over the weekend. Made the trek this morning and what do you know. A no show. All was not lost though, as I RTFT and realized I need to always have a backup plan. I did and had a M&G with a 19 year old that I contacted through the SA site. That ended up turning into a nice lunch and out for cocktail date. She texted me back and said she's up for going out again in a few days so we will see where this goes.
Just wanted to share my experiences so far. Nothing to brag about yet, but I wish I realized how much fun this world was years ago. I was always intimidated by the cost to play, but realize there's fun at every budget. Couple of questions for some of you guys who have been doing this longer.
1. How do you handle the financial conversation? Try and delay as long as possible. Don't tell them at all? Tell them?
2. What's your normal "game" like? Just witty chit chat? Try and seduce them? Get right down to business?
3. If your only looking to snag a girl once for a 1 night stand do you tell them that, or lead them onto believe that it will be a long term thing when you know for sure it won't be.
Looking forward to contributing more in the future!
A thought from outside the box
[QUOTE=BigTigger;1901616]Got her email address, did a search and she's also been selling the booty. Ad is a recent as August and she has a website. She was on the same site as the other one that I bounced. So now I'm thinking, in this bowl most of the women need money and am I being too judgmental that I do not want to deal with someone who has been selling the booty. She just got a job at a very reputable establishment and it's possible she's planning to leave that lifestyle. With her new job and my assistance, it may be the first steps to her new life. For some reason I'm still uneasy, in this case since she didn't post an ad "yesterday" like the previous one, I'll talk with her about it and see what she says.
I'd love to hear comments from the other bowlers.
BT.[/QUOTE]I am a lurker here. I am not in a place, geographicaly or in time to participate in the antics like the boul. But I am a big reader of the exploits and look forward to the day when I can join in.
My thought from outside the box is this: If you hook her and reel her in, in the near future she may provide sugar cheaply or even free to keep people in her new life from finding out about her past. Also in the game of getting information to insure "Mutual destruction" in event of blackmail, this is a really big card.
What is a SB? (The remix)
[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1674626]Amateur: A person who engages in an art, science, study, or athletic activity as a pastime rather than as a profession.
SB fits under this definition. Is being a SB her profession? If the answer is no she is a amateur.
Prostitution: The business or practice of providing sexual services to another person in return for payment.
SB fits under this definition also. Because she is in the practice of providing sexual services to another person in return for payment. See Hernado's definition: "seeks a relationship providing intimate services; blah, blah, blah"
A SB becomes a prostitute by definition the moment she accepts money for the "practice of providing sexual services to another person." If she is exclusive to you she becomes your "personal sexual service provider".
Is she an Amateur Prostitute? Yes she is. If she is a SB as a pastime rather than as a profession.
Gentlemen, let's not engage in self deception here. A strict interpretation of the definition leaves no room for whimsical rationalization of thought. We are all men here. Let's stick to logic and leave emotion to the our wives, girlfriends, SO's and SB's.
I am prepared to Stand and take my grade!
SubCmdr Out![/QUOTE]Reference is made to my original post #2626.
I hope this forum continues to respect the diversity of thought and ideas expressed here.
SubCmdr.
