The difference from the hobby.
[QUOTE=Addiction69;3431976]I have dabbled in the hobby for a while paying to play and have begun to exploring the sugaring side of things after a very pretty looking girl made a comment at a bar I was at earlier this week to me about her nice outfit being provided by her "Sugar Daddy". I am interested to know more about this and how it is justified to spend such high dollars on these girls versus the BP variety. I swear some of the girls from that sugar baby site have at some point had ads on USA site and BP because I recognized their pictures.
So again, help me understand the logic with these girls that are asking crazy rates to sit down and talk without any guarantee of benefits.
I have sat thinking all day that all pussy costs money. Dating a girl?? Paying for it! Married to one?? Paying for it. So I get the fact that in most instances if you want pussy, you will be paying for it one way or the other. Sugaring or paying for time from USA Guide girls or BP girls at least with them when you are done part of that payment includes never having to hear from them again unless you want to.
One of you mongers that have some amount of experience in this, please help me understand this process and what benefit these girls bring versus the transactional mechanical escort.
Anything to watch out for getting started?
What to expect for average monthly expediture (not talking high end or bottom end, looking for what can be expected) Do you meet at private residence or always when hooking up go to a motel?
A69.[/QUOTE]From one who spent a LONG time in it (I stopped reviewing every lady I saw on the large canine board after I broke 50 odd reviews).
In the hobby your're either going for notches on the bedpost or are in it because you want something semi-guaranteed that doesn't take a whole lot of work other than an email or phone call along with either references or a P 411/ Date Check I'd. The costs are higher and risks are usually lower than working say Craigslist if you went through one of the escort sites like Eros, but on occasion things went to hell in a hand basket (Google Operation Flea Collar sometime).
Sugaring can be a bit like the hobby or Backpage if the baby is looking for just pay to play, but it gets a bit different when you're a regular daddy and the best way to think of it is an escort seeing a regular. Her risks are lower since you're a known quantity, she may agree to a monthly rate based on X number of visits per month and you may see her outside of a standard appt for a friendly get together or dinner. In days of old when the hobby community was tight, a lady could go UTR and even successfully tour without placing an ad because all of the regular players knew each other because we either met at socials or had mutual friends.
To understand the true Baby's point of view, she's getting some financial relief (straight cash, picking up her bills or getting her wardrobe / accessories covered) and she's not working Backpage where everyone can see her, odds are you're not LE (SA isn't a normal LE focus since CL and BP are easier pickings) and you're the equivalent of a regular that she can count on for support. Her level of "safety" and comfort are higher, mentally it's not too different from a normal date (a study a few months back found that the new crop of college kids have no problem hooking up before the first date ever occurs since its better to find out if you click in the sack before you waste time on a date) or an FWB, you're just older or someone she might normally pass on that has an attractive wallet. In her mind she's not a hooker or SW, she's just got a FWB that she hooks up with on a schedule that helps with her bills, at some point she'll either get hooked on the money and basically become a UTR or she'll set a hard limit on the number of FWBs because over X number means she's a ****.
The only question is if she makes the move toward working for an agency at some point when the SDs dry up and she no longer has a problem with heading to the FC on the first meet in exchange for some cash.