Also how do you signal for FS?
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Also how do you signal for FS?
[QUOTE=Matar090;5874436]Some etiquette questions if you guys can help out.
1) If you're new to a place / first time with the girl, do you bring up preferences when they're doing HJ for instance? Slower / faster or should you let them do their thing? I was finished off nicely the other day but it was so quick, LOL, felt like she was trying to rush it.
2) How do you negotiate for BBBJ? I read a lot of people get it but do you say, "BBBJ"? Or point to the mouth with "no cover"?
3) do they typically initiate small talk? Should I try to make small talk if they don't?[/QUOTE]Yes, definitely initiate small talk to develop rapport with the ladies and make them feel comfortable with you. This will make for a better session. If she's comfortable she'll take requests well. Yes, some girls will jackhammer you so you'll finish faster and get you out the door. Do your research and go to well established spas with quality providers and they'll want to please you so you'll return, and there should be no jackhammering- we hope.
Go to FS spas and you won't have to worry about negotiating or making gestures. Let her know you want FS. If just BBBJ then just let her know that. Bring at least $160 for tips and you should be good for the BBBJ and or FS. $140- $160 might be okay for some providers for a 30 minutes session. I would have at least $200 for FS on me for tips just in case (1 hr session). Usually $180 is okay depending on the providers. You don't want to be short.
[QUOTE=Skin87;5873236]What's up San Diego?! I'm an out of town monger on a budget and I have to ask. Is there anything going on worth doing at these $30 spas? Please and thank you.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5874363]Where is this place you're going for the rate? And what's the tip donation?
Damn I miss those days.[/QUOTE]Yes, I too would love to know where these $30 spas are. LOL.
Is this a 30 minutes chair/foot massage? The least I’ve seen for a body massage is $40/hhr.
[QUOTE=BlueSkyBlue;5873873]Start with Flanders on Mesa Ridge ct then maybe CHP on Lusk.
Or just drive down to Claremont in a few miles away and go visit 108 do you have a lot of choices up there.[/QUOTE]Decided to take the advice and check out Flanders this afternoon. Heard everyone talking about Lily for a while at Flanders but also say she's been at 7 spa recently. I called and asked if Lily was working and MMS said yes. I scheduled with her and showed up on time. Was greeted by a somewhat petite, 5'2 ish, late 20's, flat Bs, flat butt, cute face. I'll be honest she wasn't as petite as I'd like and despite the face being cute the body wasn't too impressive. I asked her name to make sure this was the legendary Lily and she said her name was Lala and Lily wasn't here today (despite me calling to ask this in advance). At this point, I should've trusted my instincts and walked but it was also my first time at Flanders and didn't want to ruin my rapport with a well established place. So I smiled and went back to the room. . 6 for the house then she left while I got undressed and I left 1. 8 on the table thinking it'd go a long way and wanting to be generous for my first time there. Well it completely didn't work I'll tell you that. Started off light massage, pretty decent nothing bad nothing special. Started grazing the boys and I clearly responded by lifting my hips. This went on far too long before she gave me a signal for the flip so I just ended up flipping myself. After I flipped she went for the mouthwash and began BBBJ with the mouthwash still in. She was standing beside the table and I was still laying on my back. No teeth and full depth was a plus, but gave zero action to the boys and the suction was very delicate. Not enough pressure for my taste and to be honest that mouth wash giving off the menthol feel wasn't very pleasurable. She eventually stopped without any indication from me that I wanted to move on. Maybe she could tell I wasn't into it. During the BBBJ I was just rubbing my hand up and down her disappointing lack of an ass. If I had liked what I had seen a bit more, I likely would've ushered her to get in 69 position, but I simply wasn't interested. So anyways, the BBBJ ends, she slips on the cover with her mouth and somewhat aggressively pulls my hand to sit me up and swiftly lays down on the table. It's clear she wants mish, my least favorite position. I comply with no resistance, smiling enthusiastically, and take advantage of my position to get a better look at her. I notice her left breast has bruising around the nipple which was a turn off to image someone else recently sucking on her pair. Even if I hadn't seen that though I wasn't impressed. Like I'd said in the beginning, her pair was very flat and wide. Large circumference but not much mass if you know what I mean. So anyways, I'm going at it in mish gently at first and then increasing in intensity. I get to the point where I feel I've put in a decent amount of work and I ask her to get on top. She immediately says "no keep fucking me. " I asked her to turn around and she shook her head no. At this point, I was so annoyed and turned off. Keep in mind I already paid the HF and laid 1. 6 out for her. I bite my tongue, grab her waist, let my mind wander, and pound her until I finished in the bag. She cleaned me up then left the room while I dressed to grab me a water. When she returned she smiled and gave me a kiss and hug. I got out of there as soon as possible and would honestly have rather thrown my 2. 4 at cheetahs to some girl trying to make tuition. Maybe it was a lack of chemistry and she could tell I wasn't impressed with her body. Maybe it was because I'm not eager to DATY with any old provider LOL. Either way, I don't plan on returning.
[QUOTE=Matar090;5874436]Some etiquette questions if you guys can help out.
1) If you're new to a place / first time with the girl, do you bring up preferences when they're doing HJ for instance? Slower / faster or should you let them do their thing? I was finished off nicely the other day but it was so quick, LOL, felt like she was trying to rush it.
2) How do you negotiate for BBBJ? I read a lot of people get it but do you say, "BBBJ"? Or point to the mouth with "no cover"?
3) do they typically initiate small talk? Should I try to make small talk if they don't?[/QUOTE]
1. I usually say a friend recommended me, and most often times I will get a reference from someone so need to go through the hassle of negotiations. I agree with RCDK, bring at least 2, I usually will offer 1.2 and work my way up, and hide some bills in my shoes or socks.
2. I will see providers from other recommendations, such as the defunct VIP or read reviews from other boards.
3. Yes, and sometimes it's the feeling they get from you. My last experience with Lina at Vitality sucked ass.
Went to 108 and got Huyuna. Pretty face and a nice body. Looks like she had work done on it. Massage was good and teased a lot. Negotiated on 1. 40 FS. Went into BBBJ and was great. Then mish and doggy and finished into bag. Ass and lips felt like work had been done to it. Was ok for me. Don't really like the artificial stuff. Other than that everything else good.
First of all you're absolutely correct that you should've walked when Lily was not the girl you made an appointment with. No rapport to be ruined since they mislead you in the first place. I don't know Lala but your description is intriguing enough for me to take her for a spin if the connection seemed right.
I haven't been to Flanders in awhile, but you definitely wouldn't have been disappointed with Lily and I believe the other girl working is Lisa. Lily and Lisa are both true spinners and know how to please.
It always makes my eyes roll when I hear somebody complain about a girl then say they're never going back. One should never assume that the girl and the spa are one. On the contrary, the girls come and go, each with their own unique personality, so you're only short changing yourself.
Aside from that, good report and better luck next time.
[QUOTE=HoneyWell666;5874563]Decided to take the advice and check out Flanders this afternoon. Heard everyone talking about Lily for a while at Flanders but also say she's been at 7 spa recently. I called and asked if Lily was working and MMS said yes. I scheduled with her and showed up on time. Was greeted by a somewhat petite, 5'2 ish, late 20's, flat Bs, flat butt, cute face. I'll be honest she wasn't as petite as I'd like and despite the face being cute the body wasn't too impressive. I asked her name to make sure this was the legendary Lily and she said her name was Lala and Lily wasn't here today (despite me calling to ask this in advance). At this point, I should've trusted my instincts and walked but it was also my first time at Flanders and didn't want to ruin my rapport with a well established place. . . Either way, I don't plan on returning.[/QUOTE]
Everyone has their take on your question and there are no hard set rules, but here are my general rules of thumb:
1. I try to build a comfortable rapport with my provider as soon as I meet them. Then I can politely make requests as to my preferences of better yet, encourage what they're doing that I like. That's feels great baby. . . Slower please. . . Or I gently take their hand and and show them.
2. I simply politely ask. Can we not use a condom? How much extra to not use a condom?
3. If they initiate the small talk, go with it. If you don't speak their language it is as unnerving for them to try to communicate as it is for you. Smiles and moans are universally understood.
Per your comment, if it felt like she was trying to rush it, she probably was. On to the next provider.
[QUOTE=Matar090;5874436]Some etiquette questions if you guys can help out.
1) If you're new to a place / first time with the girl, do you bring up preferences when they're doing HJ for instance? Slower / faster or should you let them do their thing? I was finished off nicely the other day but it was so quick, LOL, felt like she was trying to rush it.
2) How do you negotiate for BBBJ? I read a lot of people get it but do you say, "BBBJ"? Or point to the mouth with "no cover"?
3) do they typically initiate small talk? Should I try to make small talk if they don't?[/QUOTE]
Went into 108 today looking for Eva and she was busy. Hyuna said she would take care of me and walked me to 107. Nice BBBJ with lots of slurping. Love those kind of bjs! Went into cfs mission, dog, cg. Finished with BBBJ. No cim but it was still a nice finish. Offered me a water and a mini candy bar. After that I don't remember as it was all a dream.
[QUOTE=Matar090;5874491]Also how do you signal for FS?[/QUOTE]1. The ol double arm pump.
2. OK sign with one hand and with the other hand, repeatedly put the index finger through the hole.
3. Point at your pecker than point at their pussy.
4. If a Chinese provider, say "Didi xiang gei meimei anmo" (Translation: Little brother wants to massage little sister).
5. Say "Fucky fucky. " This seems to be universally understood at most AMPs.
6. Trump method: Grab 'them by the pussy.
7. Go to well known FS spas and you won't have to signal.
Flicking of the tongue while doing this is optional.
[QUOTE=WillyWoodBlock;5874369]I was near Leisure Spa today and decided to give it try. I had read on here that the massages are decent, and I personally value getting a good massage over guaranteed extras. To be honest I actually enjoy the excitement of not knowing what might await.
Anyway, I had a woman who called herself Nana and the massage was fantastic. She is a MILF. Exactly what I think of when I think of an Asian MILF. She was quiet but warm and made sure I was enjoying the massage. There was some light teasing throughout the massage and neither of us could ignore my massive erection on the flip. She used a heavenly technique with her hand and left me feeling great. She was rubbing my back on my way out and gave me a hug. I thoroughly enjoyed the experience and on top of that I felt like it was a bargain. I will be back soon.[/QUOTE]Would be nice to know what was the hour fee.
[QUOTE=SirJizAlot;5874074]It's definitely refreshing to have other flavors at an AMP. Kari kinda reminds me of the girls at Heavenly Hands except a better menu. For those that remember HH they had a nice variety of ethnicities but strictly HJ's for the most part. They expected a premium house and tip for just an HJ from a pretty girl, but they all spoke English and were charming.
Kari reminds me of the girls at HH except with more options and more reasonable rates. I think we've been spoiled by the Asian talent so many have been reporting on this forum. She's not at their level, that's for sure, but if you were a fan of HH and always wished you could get more, Kari is the ticket.[/QUOTE]My favorite is Emily from Serenity, I also like Emily from Erma, they both have amazing boobs.
I am a big fun of Summer. I called ahead made an appointment. I went on my lunch break and went down there to see her again. When I showed up Summer was at the front waiting for me. She smiled and gave me a big hug and kissed my cheek. Walked in the room, she did not mess around and we started face up and just gave me a face full of those lovely breasts and I gladly indulged in licking them. This was followed by a great BBBJ with great attention paid to the balls (some times we do CBJ, but always amazing) she put the cover on with her mouth and she went even deeper and more aggressive with a short CBJ since I was less sensitive. We swapped CFS with her on top and she was pretty damn tight, with some good fucking action and finished inside. Hot towel cleanup as usual. Then after she gave me a relaxing massage. When I got dressed, she gave me a bottle of water, she told me it was her last 5 days here and that the new girl is coming soon, oh no! I will miss her. I told her I will see her again before she leave.
[QUOTE=Ryan1979;5873238]I TOFTT when she arrived. Kari looks early to mid twenties, about 5'7", blonde hair with purple highlights, maybe 100 pounds, natural B's bordering on C's, fun friendly personality. Can't comment on her massage skills as she seemed eager to get right down to business. Mamasan already informed her that I'm a good customer so no discussion of tip.
We help each other undress though slipping off her dress took me about 3 seconds. I have some friends from Ukraine and know some guys helping them fight the Ruskies, but try to steer away from that topic. Maybe that's why we seemed to connect and she pretty much allowed me to have my way with her, though I did send subtle signals before going into deeper waters.
The attached selfie pics are what she sent me, though I think she's much prettier in person. In short, those looking for different flavors at an AMP will be pleasantly surprised with Kari, but she's definitely a YMMV personality. Also, still one of the nicest AMPs in San Diego.[/QUOTE]Do you know how much longer she will be in town for?
[QUOTE=Nevcantel;5872066]Anyone been to this place yet? Says new and Latinas available. Little far from me, so I'd like to know if its worth the trip. Any info would be appreciated. Pm me if you have been there. Tia.[/QUOTE]Been there almost a dozen times. Standard FS place, talent doesn't seem to stay too long, but usually is never too bad on the eyes. They have a returning customers card, 10 massages and you get a house fee free.