"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

I've asked several with the platonic tag and a contradiction like monogamous or NSA or mutually beneficial in their profile to explain. Some will say the SD benefits because they get to have dinner with a beautiful woman, others have said they are open to platonic, but are open to other arrangements as well.

I explain to platonic girls that short of mental and physical health issues, no man would be satisfied with a platonic Sugar relationship. Several then ask what I'm looking for and off we go. LOL.

[QUOTE=EBob1111;4619623]I think a lot of them think it means that they will fuck you but they won't be in a romantic relationship with you, so don't be deterred by that word![/QUOTE]

Hey all! Does anyone have info on this lady? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2e2583ef-93fa-4653-a76b-a35345606401[/URL].

I am chatting with her and ready to set a meet and greet but am getting the feeling she is going to ask for a deposit sight unseen. To prove that I am serious. She hasnt yet but the conversation feels that way and I have had a few pull that BS at the last minute.

Any info is appreciated!

Thanks and be safe!

[QUOTE=EBob1111;4619623]I think a lot of them think it means that they will fuck you but they won't be in a romantic relationship with you, so don't be deterred by that word![/QUOTE]I have talked to girls who are hoping to find a guy that will pay them just to hang out or look good on a date. And unfortunately for the rest of us, there are some guys who will do that.

I have talked to a bi pair of girls in Harisonburg that say they are looking for platonic but as the conversation went I found that means BBBJ and CFS but no kissing because they are in a relationship with each other. Seriously thinking about making a road trip. They are both early 20's and 1 is Asian. IDK what their $ expectation is yet. They have since dropped the platonic thing from their profile. Anyone have any info? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e71f2dc1-4a86-46c1-ac54-e170e84e40c5[/URL].

And I met a 20 yo a couple years ago that stated platonic in her profile and when we first started chatting bc she had a bf but then after a few weeks of texting said she might be interested and then broke up with her bf and I banged the fuck out of her that night.

You really never know until you spend some time. That is the nature of the Bowl.

Be safe!

[QUOTE=FanRat;4622751]Hey all! Does anyone have info on this lady? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2e2583ef-93fa-4653-a76b-a35345606401[/URL].

I am chatting with her and ready to set a meet and greet but am getting the feeling she is going to ask for a deposit sight unseen. To prove that I am serious. She hasnt yet but the conversation feels that way and I have had a few pull that BS at the last minute.

Any info is appreciated!

Thanks and be safe![/QUOTE]Good Lord that ass.

[QUOTE=FanRat;4622768]I have talked to girls who are hoping to find a guy that will pay them just to hang out or look good on a date. And unfortunately for the rest of us, there are some guys who will do that.

[/QUOTE]Like a SB I saw recently. She tells me she's had only one SD before and that they only smoked weed and talked and stuff but never had sex during their couple of months of hanging out. A bit further in the conversation I asked how many times they had sex during their arrangement. 'About once a week' she answered.

Platonic my ass. She'll tell you what she thinks she can get away with. Keep pressing and let her know you're not a fool and the truth might come out.

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;4623090]Like a SB I saw recently. She tells me she's had only one SD before and that they only smoked weed and talked and stuff but never had sex during their couple of months of hanging out. A bit further in the conversation I asked how many times they had sex during their arrangement. 'About once a week' she answered.

Platonic my ass. She'll tell you what she thinks she can get away with. Keep pressing and let her know you're not a fool and the truth might come out.[/QUOTE]Truth is not usually the strong suit of these girls, especially when it comes to admitting to sexual activity. If you can make them feel rewarded for honesty, it can take time for them to open up, but its the default female behavior to say "oh I never had sex with him".

Also from their view, it's to their advantage to say they've had at least one SD before (even if they have had none or 50). They often believe if they frame their unrealistic expectations in a historic way (I. E. My former SD used to give me $600 a week), that it will hopefully create a target amount, even if it never happened.

Any info on this one? Says she's in the Richmond area. I feel like I've seen something posted on her before.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9a27e206-36a4-da5f-ecfe-4c7f7d5cd0f5[/URL]

[QUOTE=OliverNP;4623174]Truth is not usually the strong suit of these girls, especially when it comes to admitting to sexual activity. If you can make them feel rewarded for honesty, it can take time for them to open up, but its the default female behavior to say "oh I never had sex with him".

Also from their view, it's to their advantage to say they've had at least one SD before (even if they have had none or 50). They often believe if they frame their unrealistic expectations in a historic way (I. E. My former SD used to give me $600 a week), that it will hopefully create a target amount, even if it never happened.[/QUOTE]And we're paragons of truth? I have a whole fake life I present to these girls, to keep my real life safe. I don't have a big problem w / people doing what they need to do to keep themselves secure in this activity. That's why you should take a few steps to check out the truth. Use one of the people finder sites w / their phone #. Track down their social networks. You can't really use that info against them, but you can know what the truth is to keep yourself safe. She might have a regular BF / fiance. Wouldn't that be good to know?

[QUOTE=Dimples572;4622775]Good Lord that ass.[/QUOTE]No doubt!

Anyway, she still hasnt come out and asked for a deposit but said that she "needs me to prove I'm serious before we meet" so my guess is that is her deal.

[QUOTE=FanRat;4622751]Hey all! Does anyone have info on this lady? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2e2583ef-93fa-4653-a76b-a35345606401[/URL].

I am chatting with her and ready to set a meet and greet but am getting the feeling she is going to ask for a deposit sight unseen. To prove that I am serious. She hasnt yet but the conversation feels that way and I have had a few pull that BS at the last minute.

Any info is appreciated!

Thanks and be safe![/QUOTE]I did a tin eye search on her photos because two of her pics didn't match up with the upclose face pic. One pic came up with 37 listings. She may be real but I don't know if you should expect that same body in person.

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;4623972]I did a tin eye search on her photos because two of her pics didn't match up with the upclose face pic. One pic came up with 37 listings. She may be real but I don't know if you should expect that same body in person.[/QUOTE]I thought at least 1 of the pics looked like it didn't match the others. I had forgotten Tin Eye. Thanks for the reminder.

Last message I got from her was "I've been ripped off, yada-yada-yada, need you to show me your serious before we meet. I haven't responded.

Thanks for the recon!

Be safe!

In my experience it doesn't matter if a SB has a BF, fiance or husband. I've had them all with no issues. A couple of examples. Late 30's, married with teen aged kids, hubby went to work at 9 pm. She would sneak out after he went to work and the teens were asleep to come over and fuck raw. Current SB, early 20's, BF drives her to a public parking lot where she jumps in my car. We fuck raw for a couple of hours. I take her back to the parking lot where BF is waiting to pick her up. If the girl is chill, non drama persona, comes across as genuine and honest and just looking for a buck, I'll bang an attached girl without concerns.

On the flip side of the coin. Met a POT SB for a drink. She's telling me about hubby who is in prison, she needs money, lives with her possessive and protective brother. I did not pursue the opportunity.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4623699] Track down their social networks. You can't really use that info against them, but you can know what the truth is to keep yourself safe. She might have a regular BF / fiance. Wouldn't that be good to know?[/QUOTE]

Burner phone info?? Thanks CM.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4624472]Burner phone info?? Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]I like TracFone, I have posted details before. Use Google Voice or a texting app, though.

I started up with a 30-something year old SB about a month and a half ago. When we first started chatting she said she really wasn't looking for a monetary arrangement, just someone who she could spend quality time with and if I wanted to give her a gift from time to time she wouldn't be opposed to it. Over a month and a half we actually only ended up seeing each other four times. An initial meet, two trips to the FC, and one quick car date. At one point I paid for a trip to the hair salon, and I bought her some lingerie online and had it mailed to her house as a gift (big mistake). Last week she said she wanted a more traditional SB relationship so I asked what she had in mind. She said I should propose what I think she is worth once a week. I said that wasn't what she said she was looking for when we met and probably wasn't something I could afford, no hard feelings.

A week later this morning, she texts me that I used her and that she's going to mail the lingerie set along with texts and pics to the address on the shipping slip for my wife to see. Of course I texted back why would she want to try to ruins my children's lives over this, but no reply from her. She doesn't know my wife's name so I can certainly be on the lookout to head off any strange packages to my house but wondering if she's really serious or what else she has up her sleeve and what should I do or not to do try to prevent real damage.