Strip Club Reports

Made an impromptu trip to BBF this Thursday, and broke one of my main rules by wearing normal street clothes, including some new jeans that were much too tight for my liking. Planned to partake in a beverage and some dollar dances, getting off cheaply. Once I visited with Asia stageside, I decided to do one $10 dance in back, and I was very glad that I did. Asia never fails to impress. Will see if I can make it out to Zeus next Thursday for the gathering, as I'd like to actually meet some of you in person.

I understand this topic may not be suitable to put here. My apologies, but I do appreciate if someone could give me advice. Thanks.

I visit BBF on average once a month (I live 90min drive from Indy) , and every time I at least buy from her 30min VIP in addition to 3-5 lap dances, and for sure her drinks / food while she is with me.

Since I only ask dance from one girl, (I am happy to see that she's not on the hot list that is mentioned a lot) she and I both consider myself as a / her regular. I really really enjoy time with her, and I quite like her. I admit, on my part, emotional involvement starts growing.

But one issue bothers me recently. She seems to make a balance of her time spent on several regulars each night. However, as I observed, her other regulars at best bought no more than 5 lap dances from her most of the time.

Thus, her strategy of evenly dividing her time among her regulars including me seems unfair to me, since her time spent with me is mostly what I pay for, while other regulars get the same length of time by paying less, in other words, they get more free time.

I am not old (25 years old) , and also quite young in this career, thus I suspect other regulars, mostly elder than me, may have developed some skills / techniques for making their money worth more. But I also quite like her and try to be nicest to her, and would be reluctant to pay her less than what I used to. (Well, the good thing is that she thinks I may be the nicest person she has ever encountered, which I believe is partly due to my consistency, and also due to my personality. And BTW, she's 21.)

How could I dominate more of her time, at least make that proportional to what I spend on her? I know once a month probably makes me less significant than her other regulars, at least she can do this during my visit.

My brother from LA was in town, and he is a strip club aficionado. He normally pulls many women out of the clubs to party and for FREE. I found out how this weekend at the Hip Hugger, now I know what works and what doesn't. The girls want COKE! Period. $$$ Money is not nearly as important to them as party supplies are. He had brought some with him, and had on his person, and let me tell you the girls went crazy over us. We partied for like two hours straight with one of the sexiest ex features from the Illinois area. She blew me, then blew him, then I finger fucked her, while he was sucking her tits. Very hot time All for a few lines. Nothing is hotter then turning the most petite stripper out, and for FREE.

C.

[QUOTE=Jamesn; 1119245]I understand this topic may not be suitable to put here. My apologies, but I do appreciate if someone could give me advice. Thanks.

I visit BBF on average once a month (I live 90min drive from Indy) , and every time I at least buy from her 30min VIP in addition to 3-5 lap dances, and for sure her drinks / food while she is with me.

Since I only ask dance from one girl, (I am happy to see that she's not on the hot list that is mentioned a lot) she and I both consider myself as a / her regular. I really really enjoy time with her, and I quite like her. I admit, on my part, emotional involvement starts growing.

But one issue bothers me recently. She seems to make a balance of her time spent on several regulars each night. However, as I observed, her other regulars at best bought no more than 5 lap dances from her most of the time.

Thus, her strategy of evenly dividing her time among her regulars including me seems unfair to me, since her time spent with me is mostly what I pay for, while other regulars get the same length of time by paying less, in other words, they get more free time.

I am not old (25 years old) , and also quite young in this career, thus I suspect other regulars, mostly elder than me, may have developed some skills / techniques for making their money worth more. But I also quite like her and try to be nicest to her, and would be reluctant to pay her less than what I used to. (Well, the good thing is that she thinks I may be the nicest person she has ever encountered, which I believe is partly due to my consistency, and also due to my personality. And BTW, she's 21.)

How could I dominate more of her time, at least make that proportional to what I spend on her? I know once a month probably makes me less significant than her other regulars, at least she can do this during my visit. [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jamesn; 1119245]I understand this topic may not be suitable to put here. My apologies, but I do appreciate if someone could give me advice. Thanks.

I visit BBF on average once a month (I live 90min drive from Indy) , and every time I at least buy from her 30min VIP in addition to 3-5 lap dances, and for sure her drinks / food while she is with me.

Since I only ask dance from one girl, (I am happy to see that she's not on the hot list that is mentioned a lot) she and I both consider myself as a / her regular. I really really enjoy time with her, and I quite like her. I admit, on my part, emotional involvement starts growing.

But one issue bothers me recently. She seems to make a balance of her time spent on several regulars each night. However, as I observed, her other regulars at best bought no more than 5 lap dances from her most of the time.

Thus, her strategy of evenly dividing her time among her regulars including me seems unfair to me, since her time spent with me is mostly what I pay for, while other regulars get the same length of time by paying less, in other words, they get more free time.

I am not old (25 years old) , and also quite young in this career, thus I suspect other regulars, mostly elder than me, may have developed some skills / techniques for making their money worth more. But I also quite like her and try to be nicest to her, and would be reluctant to pay her less than what I used to. (Well, the good thing is that she thinks I may be the nicest person she has ever encountered, which I believe is partly due to my consistency, and also due to my personality. And BTW, she's 21.)

How could I dominate more of her time, at least make that proportional to what I spend on her? I know once a month probably makes me less significant than her other regulars, at least she can do this during my visit. [/QUOTE]Why would she want to sit with you, when your money is a sure thing? Look at it this way, it's simple math. She's getting yours plus theirs (even if it's less than what you've spent).

I hate to be harsh, but you need to wake up. Except for the movie Pretty Woman, thease relationships don't end up with everyone living happily ever after. You need to be honest with yourself, she's working and trying to make as much as she can.

Very simply don't let her drag you to the VIP room the minute she sees you.

I know that it can be difficult when you are young, but don't get to tied up on one girl. Regulars are fine, but don't expect more. These women are professionals above all. They are there to make money above all else. If you take the time to talk to other girls and spend your money on them this one will realize she needs to work put forth more effort to retain your attention. The end result is that you get more attention and she gets the money. Win.Win.

[QUOTE=Jamesn; 1119245]I understand this topic may not be suitable to put here. My apologies, but I do appreciate if someone could give me advice. Thanks.

I visit BBF on average once a month (I live 90min drive from Indy) , and every time I at least buy from her 30min VIP in addition to 3-5 lap dances, and for sure her drinks / food while she is with me.

Since I only ask dance from one girl, (I am happy to see that she's not on the hot list that is mentioned a lot) she and I both consider myself as a / her regular. I really really enjoy time with her, and I quite like her. I admit, on my part, emotional involvement starts growing.

But one issue bothers me recently. She seems to make a balance of her time spent on several regulars each night. However, as I observed, her other regulars at best bought no more than 5 lap dances from her most of the time.

Thus, her strategy of evenly dividing her time among her regulars including me seems unfair to me, since her time spent with me is mostly what I pay for, while other regulars get the same length of time by paying less, in other words, they get more free time.

I am not old (25 years old) , and also quite young in this career, thus I suspect other regulars, mostly elder than me, may have developed some skills / techniques for making their money worth more. But I also quite like her and try to be nicest to her, and would be reluctant to pay her less than what I used to. (Well, the good thing is that she thinks I may be the nicest person she has ever encountered, which I believe is partly due to my consistency, and also due to my personality. And BTW, she's 21.)

How could I dominate more of her time, at least make that proportional to what I spend on her? I know once a month probably makes me less significant than her other regulars, at least she can do this during my visit. [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Thefunceo; 1119328]My brother from LA was in town, and he is a strip club aficionado. He normally pulls many women out of the clubs to party and for FREE. I found out how this weekend at the Hip Hugger, now I know what works and what doesn't. The girls want COKE! Period. $$$ Money is not nearly as important to them as party supplies are. He had brought some with him, and had on his person, and let me tell you the girls went crazy over us. We partied for like two hours straight with one of the sexiest ex features from the Illinois area. She blew me, then blew him, then I finger fucked her, while he was sucking her tits. Very hot time All for a few lines. Nothing is hotter then turning the most petite stripper out, and for FREE.

C. [/QUOTE]If you aren't crazy about carrying, I have found you only need find one girl in the club who has it and is willing to part with some for a small premium and then all of her friends are now your best new friends. One might think that is a hard thing to do, but trust me it isn't, quicker and easier if you"re known somewhat, but hardly ever impossible at a bigger club.

I'm ready to meet you out for a debauchery of fun!

[QUOTE=Ilapp;1119616]If you aren't crazy about carrying, I have found you only need find one girl in the club who has it and is willing to part with some for a small premium and then all of her friends are now your best new friends. One might think that is a hard thing to do, but trust me it isn't, quicker and easier if you"re known somewhat, but hardly ever impossible at a bigger club.[/QUOTE]

I always want to be sincere, and respectful, and do not want to use tricks to deal with the girl. After reading your helpful responses to my previous post, I still feel reluctant to change. Maybe too young to be honest.

BTW, a pop-up question, I just wonder, what these young girls end up being.

Do most of them finally get married, regardless of their single mother status and career? (Well, a better assumption should be once they get married, they quit.)

I wish most of them have a good life after quitting the career. (Obviously, this could not be a lifetime career.)

Here's an estimate of the dancers I have known over the years. Only the ones I knew personally, and I know where they went after they "quit stripping."

5% on to a professional life (finish college, new career, never looked back)

15% just quit and get a different job.

20% married or LTR, usually to a customer, usually doesn't last long, most go back to dancing.

40% try another job and go back to dancing.

20% dead, from violence, drugs, or health issues.

My current record holder is a 54-year old grandmother in Louisville who started dancing in 1975. I've partied with her and she can outdrink me, and not many can. She was a traveling feature when we first met, and Deja Vu was her home club. Nowadays she pimps out her youngest daughter and the older daughters are just like her. For some, sadly, this is a lifetime career. I'm going on 20 years of clubbing and over half the dancers I've met are still out there, somewhere.

[QUOTE=Jamesn; 1119641]BTW, a pop-up question, I just wonder, what these young girls end up being.

Do most of them finally get married, regardless of their single mother status and career? (Well, a better assumption should be once they get married, they quit.)

I wish most of them have a good life after quitting the career. (Obviously, this could not be a lifetime career.) [/QUOTE]

I used to use this method quite successfully (not coke, but meth back when it was "new".) Unfortunately, had to give that up as the penalties are much more severe for dealing narcotics than they are for soliciting. It does work well though, I usually left the club with 2+ girls and more money than I came with.

One piece of advice: don't try this in every club. Club owners know the game, and some will require payment or even refuse to let you take their girls out with you. I had the cops called on me a few times, and I had to shove 15 grams up a girl's $&$&$ at Rio when excise walked in. Right after Roosters renovated to Dancers they had a system where you paid the DJ to take girls out of the club, otherwise you were in for an ass kickin. Stay away from the classier clubs, in general.

Man, I'm glad those days are behind me.

[QUOTE=Thefunceo; 1119328]My brother from LA was in town, and he is a strip club aficionado. He normally pulls many women out of the clubs to party and for FREE. I found out how this weekend at the Hip Hugger, now I know what works and what doesn't. The girls want COKE! Period. $$$ Money is not nearly as important to them as party supplies are. He had brought some with him, and had on his person, and let me tell you the girls went crazy over us. We partied for like two hours straight with one of the sexiest ex features from the Illinois area. She blew me, then blew him, then I finger fucked her, while he was sucking her tits. Very hot time All for a few lines. Nothing is hotter then turning the most petite stripper out, and for FREE.

C. [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Thefunceo;1119625]I'm ready to meet you out for a debauchery of fun![/QUOTE]He has more tricks in his bag than Houdini. Of course Houdini was a magician and everything Ilapp has in his bag starts with the word debauchery. Ah the magician of debauchery, kinda fits doesn't it.

FF.

PS I will be out looking for more freckles this week with 2N and some friends.

I used to spend 3-5 nights a week in the strip clubs there in Indy. But it has been over 10 yrs ago. The girls used to hangout with me cause I owned my own tow truck and I would get them home safe. They would drink and I took them home and towed the car for them if they drove. No dui for them. But what most of the girls told me at almost every club is if the manager seen them sitting with one person they would get in trouble. I would see guys drop $$$$$ like crazy and get real mad when the girls would go to another but they are just doing a job and trying to keep that job. All the girls I knew said they made a minimum of 500 a night on a slow night like at BBF and PT's. As most get older they do some form of this work, I notice they go to the smaller clubs when they start aging. Or they manage younger girls and pimp them like others has said. So don't over spend if she likes you she will spend as much time with you as possible with out killing your wallet. Just my experience from a old timer.

[QUOTE=Jamesn; 1119641]I always want to be sincere, and respectful, and do not want to use tricks to deal with the girl. After reading your helpful responses to my previous post, I still feel reluctant to change. Maybe too young to be honest.

BTW, a pop-up question, I just wonder, what these young girls end up being.

Do most of them finally get married, regardless of their single mother status and career? (Well, a better assumption should be once they get married, they quit.)

I wish most of them have a good life after quitting the career. (Obviously, this could not be a lifetime career.)[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Thefunceo;1119625]I'm ready to meet you out for a debauchery of fun![/QUOTE]Honestly it sounds like we both would have a better time going out with my friend WC, the man is funny and good.

Good to know such rules, which keeps me some hope. Maybe one day my girl would like to go out of the club with me. I'll wait and see.

Thanks for the response.

[QUOTE=WideGlide;1120039]I used to spend 3-5 nights a week in the strip clubs there in Indy. But it has been over 10 yrs ago. The girls used to hangout with me cause I owned my own tow truck and I would get them home safe. They would drink and I took them home and towed the car for them if they drove. No dui for them. But what most of the girls told me at almost every club is if the manager seen them sitting with one person they would get in trouble. I would see guys drop $$$$$ like crazy and get real mad when the girls would go to another but they are just doing a job and trying to keep that job. All the girls I knew said they made a minimum of 500 a night on a slow night like at BBF and PT's. As most get older they do some form of this work, I notice they go to the smaller clubs when they start aging. Or they manage younger girls and pimp them like others has said. So don't over spend if she likes you she will spend as much time with you as possible with out killing your wallet. Just my experience from a old timer.[/QUOTE]

Headin to zeus. Just checkin to see if any of you guys are there. Looks like I need to create a iphone app so we can have real-time updates. Ha