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[QUOTE=FirstEver;6390367]Thank you everyone for responding. I'm also going through something similar, a bad break up with a girlfriend of 2 years who always talked about no sex till marriage and then goes and cheats on me. I'm kinda only in this to lose the virginity and go back to the GF route.[/QUOTE]Things might look bleak now, but won't always be this bad.

A couple of reasons why you forget this idea:

You'll likely blow your load within minutes. Unless you pay higher fees for MSOG, once you blow, times up - "next!

We all remember our first time. Even if, like me, you wouldn't do it again with the fast girl from work / school, you'll never forget it. Don't make that memory be with someone who won't remember you or your name 2 hours after you leave. To 99% of them, you're a walking ATM giving out money.

Sometimes, even if for a fleeting moment (days, weeks, months) guys fall in love (really its lust and infatuation) with their first girl. Developing feelings for a provider, no matter how nice, sweet, cute she was, it'll never be reciprocated. Again, you'll just be another guy willing to spend cash for pleasure.

Lastly, fantasies are so wonderful because nothing goes wrong; same with fantasizing losing V card with a business girl. But in reality, what if things don't go perfect? She doesn't look like her pictures, has a jealous boyfriend or handler, strung out on some habit, tries to rob you, the cops show up and everyone's arrested. The list goes on. What kind of memory will your first time be then?

Make the first time and good memory. Granted, the dating game is different than when I had 2 hobbies: hunting and f**king, and when I hunted, I was hunting for a woman to f**k. But be patient and you'll find a girl worth cashing in your V card. That will make for good memories.

[QUOTE=GripNSip;6390547]This is where innocence and love go to die.

I'm so glad I lost my virginity with a girl that I connected with. My first gf. Before I knew about anything on this side of the world. Being young, stupid, and in a way. Sweetly innocent. As others have reiterated; this is not the place you want to have your first sexual experience. This place is for the disillusioned, and despite good times to be had, any monger in your shoes; if given the choice to go back to 21 and start fresh; wouldn't be stepping foot into here that's for sure.


Once you fallen into this pit; theres no climbing back out.[/QUOTE]Yeah, once you figure out this lifestyle, it kind of distorts things a lot. It takes perseverance to keep relationships in some type of decent perspective.

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[QUOTE=HaroldMyers;6391303]Yeah, once you figure out this lifestyle, it kind of distorts things a lot. It takes perseverance to keep relationships in some type of decent perspective.

Easy access to p-sleeve, 24 hours a day. OMG![/QUOTE]Sorry, but "p-sleeve" is kind of cracking me up. Not everyone here will get it, but it sounds a lot like an armor piece you'd find in the Playstation-era Final Fantasy games and later. Or Hell, Super Mario 3 gave you P-wings, right? Are the P-wings what you get after having some p-sleeve?

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[QUOTE=FirstEver;6390367]Thank you everyone for responding. I'm also going through something similar, a bad break up with a girlfriend of 2 years who always talked about no sex till marriage and then goes and cheats on me. I'm kinda only in this to lose the virginity and go back to the GF route.[/QUOTE]I hope you don't mind some advice from an older monger. I'm well into my 60's and have been mongering for roughly 30 years, though I've taken breaks from the hobby at times.

I'm sorry for your recent breakup, but at your age you should dive back into the relationship market. For one thing, the odds should be in your favor with so many young women I'm acquainted with complaining about a lack of good guys their age. You were with someone for 2 years, so you've obviously got some good qualities. Something else to note: many providers who advertise on various sites state that they prefer older gents.

One winter when I was in my 30's, a gal I was romantically pursuing lied to me and gaslighted me. Another sent me mixed signals before using a mutual friend to tell me to get lost. There was a third gal in whom I was interested, but she didn't reciprocate. Not long afterward I drove into downtown DC one night, picked up a streetwalker, and lost my virginity to her in one of the sketchy motels along New York Avenue in northeast DC. I felt like a kid in a candy store at the time, but I now regret that decision. I wish I'd resumed dating.

I've met some wonderful gals in the hobby, particularly during a period in the mid and late 90's when I traveled a lot around the mid-Atlantic and patronized a bunch of American massage parlors. All of them are now long gone. But I also got into a couple of relationships with providers and got burned badly. I've also been mugged twice, robbed a few times, and had a couple of close brushes with Uncle LEO.

I've now reached the point where I'm having serious trouble with my sexual functioning. I consulted with a specialist and got some new meds, but they haven't worked well. At this point, I might go ahead and try pursuing another relationship instead of hobbying any further. We'll see.

As for you, if things don't work out in the dating world then you can consider giving the hobby a try. And to each his own.

[QUOTE=TomMcAn;6391845]I hope you don't mind some advice from an older monger. I'm well into my 60's and have been mongering for roughly 30 years, though I've taken breaks from the hobby at times.

I'm sorry for your recent breakup, but at your age you should dive back into the relationship market. For one thing, the odds should be in your favor with so many young women I'm acquainted with complaining about a lack of good guys their age. You were with someone for 2 years, so you've obviously got some good qualities. Something else to note: many providers who advertise on various sites state that they prefer older gents.

One winter when I was in my 30's, a gal I was romantically pursuing lied to me and gaslighted me. Another sent me mixed signals before using a mutual friend to tell me to get lost. There was a third gal in whom I was interested, but she didn't reciprocate. Not long afterward I drove into downtown DC one night, picked up a streetwalker, and lost my virginity to her in one of the sketchy motels along New York Avenue in northeast DC. I felt like a kid in a candy store at the time, but I now regret that decision. I wish I'd resumed dating.

I've met some wonderful gals in the hobby, particularly during a period in the mid and late 90's when I traveled a lot around the mid-Atlantic and patronized a bunch of American massage parlors. All of them are now long gone. But I also got into a couple of relationships with providers and got burned badly. I've also been mugged twice, robbed a few times, and had a couple of close brushes with Uncle LEO.

I've now reached the point where I'm having serious trouble with my sexual functioning. I consulted with a specialist and got some new meds, but they haven't worked well. At this point, I might go ahead and try pursuing another relationship instead of hobbying any further. We'll see.

As for you, if things don't work out in the dating world then you can consider giving the hobby a try. And to each his own.[/QUOTE]I just wanted to thank you for sharing your story. It is similar to mine that I posted a couple of days ago. It's refreshing to see the other side of this hobby and the damage it can do to us. It's good to know that those of us with regrets aren't alone since there's no Johns Anonymous group (that I am aware of at least).

[QUOTE=Sairento;6392039]I just wanted to thank you for sharing your story. It is similar to mine that I posted a couple of days ago. It's refreshing to see the other side of this hobby and the damage it can do to us. It's good to know that those of us with regrets aren't alone since there's no Johns Anonymous group (that I am aware of at least).[/QUOTE]There's no Johns Anonymous group that I'm aware of, but there are groups for sexual addiction which follow the 12-step principles of Alcoholics Anonymous and similar groups. I believe there's another part of the forum discussing such matters, so I won't belabor the point here.

I apologize that my previous post was so long. I've done a lot of thinking since my latest mongering misadventure last month with the bait and switch at the infamous Springfield ACS, when I wanted to see Tina but was sent to someone else who gave me a much lower level of service. Between bullshit like that and the functioning problems from which I now suffer, I'm wondering if the hobby is worth it anymore. Also, it seems that too many mongers ignore the advice I post about not disclosing personal identifying information (PII) and not paying providers high-end escort prices for streetwalker-level service.

Yes, there is a cost to the hobby. It's not just the financial cost; it's also the explanations to spouses or SO's, any potential legal problems, and the risk to one's reputation. Yet most of us want to get laid and this is basically the only other option besides marriage, relationships, and picking up women at bars and nightclubs for one-night stands. If you're a socially awkward introvert like me, the latter option is basically off the table.

My apologies to the admins if this discussion is off-topic.

[QUOTE=Itfcd;6391408]Sorry, but "p-sleeve" is kind of cracking me up. Not everyone here will get it, but it sounds a lot like an armor piece you'd find in the Playstation-era Final Fantasy games and later. Or Hell, Super Mario 3 gave you P-wings, right? Are the P-wings what you get after having some p-sleeve?[/QUOTE]You get p-wings when they short you on time or rush you out the door.

This is probably a more rants and raves comment. Don't you think that girls complaining about the lack of good guys is a red flag. As in they have no idea what they are talking about? Its so mind numbing to keep hearing this with no reason behind it.

Also odds are not in his favor. Dating apps grossly oversaturated with men. Plus any dating event in the area has a lack of women under 40. The 20's only events have 10 to 1 guy to girl ratio. But of course he could get lucky in college since its one of the few places where women out number men.

[QUOTE=TomMcAn;6391845]I hope you don't mind some advice from an older monger. I'm well into my 60's and have been mongering for roughly 30 years, though I've taken breaks from the hobby at times.

I'm sorry for your recent breakup, but at your age you should dive back into the relationship market. For one thing, the odds should be in your favor with so many young women I'm acquainted with complaining about a lack of good guys their age. You were with someone for 2 years, so you've obviously got some good qualities. Something else to note: many providers who advertise on various sites state that they prefer older gents.
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Don't underestimate the experience of catching a cougar when you're a young man with little or no experience.

[QUOTE=FairFight;6392356]This is probably a more rants and raves comment. Don't you think that girls complaining about the lack of good guys is a red flag. As in they have no idea what they are talking about? Its so mind numbing to keep hearing this with no reason behind it.

Also odds are not in his favor. Dating apps grossly oversaturated with men. Plus any dating event in the area has a lack of women under 40. The 20's only events have 10 to 1 guy to girl ratio. But of course he could get lucky in college since its one of the few places where women out number men.[/QUOTE]

How would that help in any way? Yea I'm going to be taking a cougar to my family events? Hanging out with friends? Just LOL. We go after younger women for certain qualities a cougar wouldn't have.

[QUOTE=Eddie223;6392368]Don't underestimate the experience of catching a cougar when you're a young man with little or no experience.[/QUOTE]

I think you missed my point, but all good.

[QUOTE=FairFight;6392374]How would that help in any way? Yea I'm going to be taking a cougar to my family events? Hanging out with friends? Just LOL. We go after younger women for certain qualities a cougar wouldn't have.[/QUOTE]

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[QUOTE=Eddie223;6392377]I think you missed my point, but all good.[/QUOTE]That went over his head so hard, I chuckled.

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