Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

I have been a member of seeking on and off for 5+ years. I just finished a one month membership. This is the first, maybe second time, that it looks like I prob won't be getting any action from the girls on the site. I have probably complained on the past, but it seems even worse now.

- I was hit up with scammers and fakes from around the world in the past, but never to the degree that I have been getting. Not even close.

- The number of attractive young females has dwindled greatly. I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and my standards are fairly high, but there are just LESS.

- The prices have gone way, way up. I was able to get former strippers / shot girls for $100 incall 4 years ago. I was getting beauties with large instagram followings for 200 (or free). Now above average co-eds are looking for $700.

I have communicated with a couple that I may still meet up with. One is in her thirties, is average at best, and we haven't talked money. Another is a good looking student, but I have some concerns about her pricing, a lack of connection, and the fact that her dad is an arch-criminal!

Some other stuff: I feel that girls who are searching for "60+" and "all ethnicities " may be easier to get in bed. They are basically saying that they don't care who you are or what you look like! I also feel that most of the ones with verified social media are real.

Finally: the young girl whom I mentioned about 8 days ago: has anyone arranged anything? I did exchange some messages with her. Still trying to determine if she's real or fake. I am leaning toward "real. " I gave up on her for several reasons, but one of them was that I didn't need to be involved with another teenager who can't psychologically handle the arrangement game. It's happened, and it wasn't worth it.

These are just some observations from my recent membership. I hadn’t been a member since fall 2020. So, I found a lot had changed in two and a half years. Thankfully, I was able to manage a long term sugar relationship last year, but it was with a girl that I had been in contact with since 2019 but didn’t really pursue until last year.

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;6369561]Any info on Antonella?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c0895fe3-ac37-460d-8b50-07f001e7cbc0[/URL]

My spider senses tells me this is a scammer.[/QUOTE]Anything written like that, and in Spanish is definitely a scam.

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;6369561]Any info on Antonella?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c0895fe3-ac37-460d-8b50-07f001e7cbc0[/URL]

My spider senses tells me this is a scammer.[/QUOTE]Fake!

I already blocked her / their ass.

[QUOTE=Sutigel2;6369669]I have been a member of seeking on and off for 5+ years. I just finished a one month membership. This is the first, maybe second time, that it looks like I prob won't be getting any action from the girls on the site. I have probably complained on the past, but it seems even worse now..[/QUOTE]I just got back on PREMIUM membership in about a week and I probably spend more time blocking these fake ass scammers, instead of having actual conversations with a POT.

It really is a HUGE waste of time and money, the ROI is minimal compare to what it was 5 or 6 years ago.

So I re-upped SA since I got offered a 20% discount to see if I can make any new links. Here are the ones I have engaged thus far that seem like real people.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/872c1ac8-fd6a-4fc3-aa0c-ab6d21c3f8e8[/URL]

Just started talking to this one, seems to be DTF but we have not discussed numbers.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6b04dd86-5bce-46c5-adeb-de7f6ae0a2b0[/URL]

I just started texting this one. I think others have commented about her before but she has not thrown up any red flags yet and seems to be realistic and reasonable in her expectations.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/044781b0-7c5c-4aba-802a-9f8a054a7c91[/URL]

This one has been reviewed, many seemed to feel she was only good for a one and done at 300 ppm. I have been getting to know her and she seems cool and I hope to set up a date before the week is over.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b3550eb3-9454-47de-ac20-b7faac4de0f3[/URL]

I have chatted with this one in the past but never really got anywhere with her. Looks like a stripper so I am always kind of cool on those since they are always hustling and seeking to extract as much money out of guys but if her photos are real she could be a fun little spinner.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/76b30862-7b56-4cbd-b08a-ccae0a2144c5[/URL]

This one hit me up without looking at my profile: red flag #1. She also wanted to meet that night after only a few minutes of chatting which is red flag #2. I've written her off but maybe I was too hasty?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ff06a391-d0ec-4a23-b70f-2c00eba396a3[/URL]

A Latina BBW. Which has its merits. But again another one wanting meet before I could get a sense of what her deal is.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6a267517-9702-416e-a24c-384b6b80cd78[/URL]

This one does not talk much, and I am almost certain she is an STG girl. But not sure. Trying to talk to her was not very engaging.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/53bc26cd-2742-4a05-9d29-616b665392c6[/URL]

This one is an STG poster. I don't have her STG link but I have seen it where she is using the same photo.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/70d6fa56-6f22-427a-8b66-8dcceb68df97[/URL]

Another STG girl. I have seen her posts recently as well on STG. She hit me up and told me she is looking for a "life partner" to which I replied was "kinda heavy."

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a8363488-20e3-48e5-b8f9-d3765e399ee7[/URL]

Another stripper. Reminds me of Pink Sugar. I am hoping she turns out to be real as I love emo girls and eGirls as they are DTF for anything.

Hopefully I'll have some more details to report back on next week but if anyone has experience with any of these women let me know.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;6371435]I just got back on PREMIUM membership in about a week and I probably spend more time blocking these fake ass scammers, instead of having actual conversations with a POT.

It really is a HUGE waste of time and money, the ROI is minimal compare to what it was 5 or 6 years ago.[/QUOTE]Even 3 years ago it was a lot better than this. All that free covid money that was distributed during the "lockdown" period really changed how these girls look at the value of a dollar. GPS is rampant thanks to 0 nlyfans and scammers are doing everything they can to make a quick buck. The girls are still out there but more often than not, you're going have to haggle like you're dealing with a used car salesman, only for their final offer to still be an inflated rate anyway.

Seeking is running a 25% off discount sale for St Patrick's Day.

Before you run out to join, know that you'll need to use your personal credit card. Pre-paid gift cards will No longer work since the company is now based in Cypress. You can get get the international versions of those gift cards but you'll need to supply your I'd info. No more anonymous transactions thanks to Uncle Sam.

See.

[URL]https://firstquarterfinance.com/where-to-buy-international-visa-gift-cards/[/URL]

BMD.

This ***** is looking for half the money up front, don't be scammed. Be smart fellows. Sounds like a pro at work.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/effe2242-9ba6-4b95-acf7-5aa7e1d5e0ce[/URL]

‪(772) 771-9857‬ - this number is suspicious for a ***** claiming to be in Waterbury.

That's the worst news I've heard all week. Don't use your personal CC unless you want Ashley Madison all over again.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;6372413]Seeking is running a 25% off discount sale for St Patrick's Day.

Before you run out to join, know that you'll need to use your personal credit card. Pre-paid gift cards will No longer work since the company is now based in Cypress. You can get get the international versions of those gift cards but you'll need to supply your I'd info. No more anonymous transactions thanks to Uncle Sam.

See.

[URL]https://firstquarterfinance.com/where-to-buy-international-visa-gift-cards/[/URL]

BMD.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6373207]That's the worst news I've heard all week. Don't use your personal CC unless you want Ashley Madison all over again.[/QUOTE]Bingo!

I tried to join but my old stand by of using a Visa prepaid, as in the past, failed. A message popped up, before and after, that it would likely fail, then a message that it did fail.

They're Not getting MY card. What good is the candy store if you give up your privacy and financial info?

Got to give them the big "Next"!

BMD.

[QUOTE=RegalFreeman;6371556]Even 3 years ago it was a lot better than this. All that free covid money that was distributed during the "lockdown" period really changed how these girls look at the value of a dollar. GPS is rampant thanks to 0 nlyfans and scammers are doing everything they can to make a quick buck. The girls are still out there but more often than not, you're going have to haggle like you're dealing with a used car salesman, only for their final offer to still be an inflated rate anyway.[/QUOTE]Yes, there are still some gems out there (very very few). But it requires a lot of work to hunt them down. They're not as abundant as they were 5-6 years ago.

[QUOTE=Tommy13;6371553]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/76b30862-7b56-4cbd-b08a-ccae0a2144c5[/URL]

This one hit me up without looking at my profile: red flag #1. She also wanted to meet that night after only a few minutes of chatting which is red flag #2. I've written her off but maybe I was too hasty?
[/QUOTE]Nice reporting Tommy. This one texted me. Got pics of her. She a looker. And of course with that forget it. She said 700-800 a meet she had before with someone her own age. Now how many 22 year olds have that kinda money. Dealer? LOL. And 40's guy 1 k a meet. Another delusional one chasing the whales.

‪This chic is a complete waste of time.

If you got time on your hands, go f* with her ‪(959) 225-0646‬.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b0504f44-35f1-42dc-9dcf-525eca4ba85d[/URL]

[QUOTE=TopGun9;6374449]‪This chic is a complete waste of time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b0504f44-35f1-42dc-9dcf-525eca4ba85d[/URL][/QUOTE]A little info would be great to know.

She is nothing but attitude.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;6374449]‪This chic is a complete waste of time.[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6374473]A little info would be great to know.[/QUOTE]I gave you all the info that is needed to know. Hit her up and find out for yourself.

This chic is DTF. Goes by Monica. Fucked her couple weeks ago. She's def a UTR or semi pro.

She'll drive to you, suck and fuck, then leave. She kept saying "you like this young pussy daddy" the whole time I was fucking her. *****, you almost 30 you ain't no young pussy. LMAO.

Damage was 200 for BBBJ and covered fuck.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cf094c6f-8391-4abc-b487-11b22936abb3[/URL]

DON'T PM me for digits, they will be ignored. You got her link, hit her up and do your leg work.

She goes by Gigi.

Fucked her a few times last year when she was still doing 300.

Nice, tight, and young. It's like fucking a sorority girl.

Now she wants 500, which is a HARD PASS for this monger.

DO NOT PM for digits, you have the link go to work.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/06e6f085-1633-480f-8d19-b338e936ef7c[/URL]

[QUOTE=Tommy13;6371553]So I re-upped SA since I got offered a 20% discount to see if I can make any new links. Here are the ones I have engaged thus far that seem like real people.[/QUOTE]I've chatted with her on and off for quite some time. She's real. There's some risk. She gets arrested often and will probably go away for a bit soon. She drinks and fights with her ex, I believe. She's pretty honest about it and even gave me her real name so I could see her court cases. She's always been nice to me, but never really had an opportunity to do the deed. She's pretty thick from having a kid. I saw pics of her from before the kid and holy shit what a body. Too bad it got ruined. Hope that helps.

There are ways to around having your personally identifiable information on the site.

Credit card companies only check very few things when you enter it.

You can use a fake name. Why? Because it's impossible to check. Too many misspellings would slow down the transaction.

You can use a fake address numeric. If you like at 123 Maple Street, you can put in 123 South Street.

You cannot use a fake Zip Code.

So if your info is.

Joe Schlosser.

1x3 Maple Street.

Hartford Ct 0xx01.

You can use.

Jeff Smith.

12x South Street.

Hartford, ct 0xx01.

After that all they will have is your CC number which is typically stored encrypted in servers. Like the Ashley Madison breach. People used real addresses, their work emails, for fuck sakes. Real names. Crazy.

Take home message is you can reduce your risk significantly by using a credit card with some fake info. Gives you plausible deniability anyway. Wife find the transaction? Wasn't me. Look at the name and address? All this info is searchable online. I encourage you to protect yourselves out there.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;6373610]Bingo!

I tried to join but my old stand by of using a Visa prepaid, as in the past, failed. A message popped up, before and after, that it would likely fail, then a message that it did fail.

They're Not getting MY card. What good is the candy store if you give up your privacy and financial info?

Got to give them the big "Next"!

BMD.[/QUOTE]

FYI, I just renewed today using my usual approach and it worked for me.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;6373610]Bingo!

I tried to join but my old stand by of using a Visa prepaid, as in the past, failed. A message popped up, before and after, that it would likely fail, then a message that it did fail.

They're Not getting MY card. What good is the candy store if you give up your privacy and financial info?

Got to give them the big "Next"!

BMD.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JoeSchlosser1;6375373]I've chatted with her on and off for quite some time. She's real. There's some risk. She gets arrested often and will probably go away for a bit soon. She drinks and fights with her ex, I believe. She's pretty honest about it and even gave me her real name so I could see her court cases. She's always been nice to me, but never really had an opportunity to do the deed. She's pretty thick from having a kid. I saw pics of her from before the kid and holy shit what a body. Too bad it got ruined. Hope that helps.[/QUOTE]Which one was this?

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6375452]FYI, I just renewed today using my usual approach and it worked for me.[/QUOTE]If you used a prepaid credit / debit card, which one?

There's no way I'm using my real credit card.

BMD.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6375452]FYI, I just renewed today using my usual approach and it worked for me.[/QUOTE]Which approach is it? I'm reading on other states gift cards are not working.

Saw this one:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a35fd729-d6d8-4f25-9321-3f7fbb369a62[/URL]

She is real and is DTF. But be warned, she is a BBW now, her pics are old. Her tits are glorious, 38 DD she says and I believe her. But her belly hangs out further than her tits when she stands or sits, and even on her back she is undeniably fat. But her pussy is smooth and she likes DATY and DFK as well as CFS. Legs are thick but muscular, thighs are solid but ass is oddly flat for such a heavy girl. Very smiley, relaxed, chill, makes good conversation without being a chatterbox. We grabbed lunch before the deed and vibed well. So all in all worth it if you like a good natured, fat Latina.

She has no car so I had to pick her up and pay for a room. She's not pricey but the expenses can add up if, like me, you are coming from some distance (central MA) and figure in driving time and lunch on the way. She says she is looking for a car and when she gets one she will be able to send her kids and sitter away from the house, and then host, which will obviously be a lot cheaper.

I was directed to her by a kind forum member. I have a Seeking account but not a paid one so I can't get phone #s. However I was given her # and I can share with senior members, esp if you have a Seeking girl or UTR to trade. I'm fond of Black and brown girls but will hit anything that's willing. Would love to hit Baddie in Enfield who was recently mentioned. This is not crucial for me to share Nai's info, it's just something that would be nice.

Thanks brothers and stay safe.

JS2.

There's a whole process I follow.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;6376123]If you used a prepaid credit / debit card, which one?

There's no way I'm using my real credit card.

BMD.[/QUOTE]

If you have her number, PM me. I got a few SA girls for you in exchange.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3ba498de-44c3-43fd-99eb-77f1eacacb81[/URL]

I am getting a shady STG vibe for this chic. Probably looks much older than her stated age and those pics are probably 5 years older or more.

I am sure some of you savvier mongers could locate her STG ads LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cd3f9fc7-8d68-4fa1-9aa7-ed7b923d64c2[/URL]

[QUOTE=TopGun9;6378667]I am getting a shady STG vibe for this chic. Probably looks much older than her stated age and those pics are probably 5 years older or more.

I am sure some of you savvier mongers could locate her STG ads LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cd3f9fc7-8d68-4fa1-9aa7-ed7b923d64c2[/URL][/QUOTE]I spent considerable time texting with her a few months ago and we both wanted to meet asap. She was also running ads on STG. After a week or so I got radio silence. Case closed. Next!

BMD.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6378252]There's a whole process I follow.[/QUOTE]That doesn't answer my question. Again, "If you used a prepaid credit / debit card, which one?

BMD.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;6378724]That doesn't answer my question. Again, "If you used a prepaid credit / debit card, which one?

BMD.[/QUOTE]Get the Walmart Prepaid debit, you can load with cash for 3 bucks and they charge 5 bucks a month. You can also use it to book hotels if you are needing to be discreet.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/58c26937-3a1a-4d21-b05a-3d66f5360184[/URL]

Was going really well until I get the "send me money for the sitter. " Photos matched up, she looked really hot, even sent me a lease to "prove " she is real, man these b*tches be crazy.

If you have time, blocked.

Anyone have info on this one? On the fence. Looks hard core. Trailer type. LOL. She offered her friend to join which usually mean pro.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0f569fb7-d1c8-47dd-9d87-f70a94d1d396[/URL]

Curious as well.

Hopefully she does not steal.

[QUOTE=Steve99;6379064]Anyone have info on this one? On the fence. Looks hard core. Trailer type. LOL. She offered her friend to join which usually mean pro.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0f569fb7-d1c8-47dd-9d87-f70a94d1d396[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;6379396]Curious as well.

Hopefully she does not steal.[/QUOTE]Yeah, chatted with her before. Seems a lot more trouble than worth it. Ended up blocking her on SA.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6a267517-9702-416e-a24c-384b6b80cd78[/URL]

Been texting this one. Wants 300 ppm. Seems totally DTF. CFS though. Setting up a date for her later this week and will follow up.

[QUOTE=Tommy13;6380408][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6a267517-9702-416e-a24c-384b6b80cd78[/URL]

Been texting this one. Wants 300 ppm. Seems totally DTF. CFS though. Setting up a date for her later this week and will follow up.[/QUOTE]Use caution on this one as her pics at SA are heavily glamorized with effects. Similar to girls on STG with their photo-trickniques, you might want to meet in public first, which would be normal, and be prepared to bailout with no upfront cash.

BMD.

[QUOTE=Tommy13;6380408][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6a267517-9702-416e-a24c-384b6b80cd78[/URL]

Been texting this one. Wants 300 ppm. Seems totally DTF. CFS though. Setting up a date for her later this week and will follow up.[/QUOTE]That's a well known an discussed STG girl!

[QUOTE=Steve99;6379064]Anyone have info on this one? On the fence. Looks hard core. Trailer type. LOL. She offered her friend to join which usually mean pro.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0f569fb7-d1c8-47dd-9d87-f70a94d1d396[/URL][/QUOTE]"Pacific Islander. ".

Which pacific island has redheads with green eyes?

[QUOTE=Gamisi;6380937]That's a well known an discussed STG girl![/QUOTE]Yeah check with DonnnyBravo.

He posted this a while ago [URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?34671-Seeking-Arrangement-and-similar-sites&p=6038087&viewfull=1#post6038087[/URL]